The Borderline Narcissist Moral Preening Attack!

Hi everybody, thanks for watching this video with me. Today I'm going to talk about narcissistic people, specifically narcissists and borderlines, people like this, that virtue signal, that act morally pure, and it's their mask. So virtues are the cornerstone of ethics and morality, impacting how we navigate our relationships with ourself and others, but narcissistic people like narcissists and borderlines are facades, they're fake, they miss the plot. Everyone wears a mask in society, some do it at home, but everyone wears a mask in society. They will show you their mask first, that's what they want you to see. They'll tell you the job or the career they have, maybe their role, a mother, whatever it is, it's important that you see that first, but the narcissistic person will show you or tell you they are morally pure. They know that's what we value, especially females. Females do this a lot more than men. The narcissistic female, the difference between the narcissist female and the sociopath female, is the narcissist female, virtue signals, and the sociopath female doesn't care. I think the best example is, since we're talking about society, is the smear campaign. Someone very narcissistic and typically female, you see, I'm not trying to single out females at all, it's men, look at men and women that have forms of violins, I can't say the word, but men will be violins with their action, while women will use their words, so the smear campaigns typically are mostly female. Their narrative is the victim and the hero, they're morally pure, but what do they really show you? It's called moral preening, pride and self-appreciation, virtue signaling. Today, virtue signaling is disgusting. Wow, it's almost all you see on the internet. I came across an article, it's pretty interesting, Phony Virtue is Ruining Western Society by William S Smith. The link will be down below in the description if you want to read the entire article. Here's just a quote, Western moral outlook is now animated by the widespread belief that virtue is measured by one's professed sympathy for causes such as combating homelessness, extending civil rights, protecting marginalized groups, but it's done by politicians, Hollywood stars, the fake media, calling others racist and sexist, anti-trans, bigots. An entire campaign was run on this this year with zero substance at all. You think these people that we see are morally pure? Politicians, the highest concentration of psychopaths in the world, Hollywood movie stars, oh yeah. Back to smear campaigns. What is virtuous about attacking people? Attacking their rights to live, their peace, make a living, privacy, posting material so others attack the target. So morally pure, but some of us can get confused. Some of us can be influenced by this if we don't know who we are very well, because narcissistic people don't elevate themselves with success, they simply knock others down, but they miss the plot. We don't attack people for humanity, they do it for self-elevation, attention, adoration, hero, just like people that post good deeds they've done. Oh no one saw, I better tell the world, aren't I great? You must not feel great about yourself if we don't have to validate that for you. You missed the plot, that's not the plot. We do these things for humanity, not for ourselves. Contradiction, distorted perception is what we have about narcissists and borderlines that we date, that we have friends with, a family. We think something different, we believe their virtue signaling, we believe what they tell us and we don't look at what they show us, do we? Here's a list of morals, virtues. As I read these, I hope this will increase your self-awareness to have you be aware if you value these things to start showing it, not saying it. As I read these, this is just some, ask yourself about these toxic narcissists, this borderline, this toxic abusive person in your life that exploits you and controls you and makes you feel so bad. As they say that they value all these things, ask yourself, do they really? What do they show you? Honesty, integrity, respect for others, self-respect, loyalty, kindness, compassion, empathy, remorse, humility, admitting fault, manners, patience, acceptance, commitment, gratitude, serving your community, staying calm, responsibility, accountability, fairness, generosity, courage, tolerance, justice, self-discipline, modesty, wisdom, mercy, self-control, trustworthy, optimism, reliability, freedom, peacefulness, consistent. Is this what you see when people are smearing others and attacking others? Is that what you see in them? Is that what they're showing you? Not at all. We are all so different. We need to understand this, that people are all like you. Your values are your stability. Plant them in the ground. Make them principle all the time in your life. Never pick them up and move them out of the way for anything, anybody, anytime. You'll feel stable. Pick them up and move them out of the way and contradict yourself and you'll be extremely unstable and you will keep doing it. Who does that remind you of? The toxic narcissist borderline does not value what you value. They tell you what they value. Sex, attention, money. You compromised yourself allowing this person in your life. You pick them up and move them out of the way for them because they don't value these things. They just told you. The more that they fake this, the more they fake who they are, the more they tell you they are morally pure and they aren't, the more unstable they become, the more lost, confused, empty and shameful. The mask slips. We see it and what do we tell ourselves when we see what's right in front of our eyes? Do we lie? Do we stick to what we thought two years ago about them when we met them? Or do we accept who someone is showing us they are right now? Yeah, anybody that talks bad about people, attacks people, dramatic, negative, violent. Keep it out of your life. Take the time to get to know somebody and watch for their mask to slip to see who they really truly are. Okay, let me know what you guys think. I would appreciate any examples you guys have of people contradicting themselves, right? Sitting there accusing you of being dishonest and you've caught them lying over and over again. Stuff like this. What do you think? Let me know. Ask questions. Share your experiences. Would be very appreciated. Thank you. Love yourself first, guys. Appreciate a thumbs up. Subscribe to the channel. You can find me at daviddemarz.com if you want coaching. Thanks. Bye-bye.