Easiest Trait to Identify in The Borderline / Narcissist

hi everyone thanks for joining me for today's video I'm going to go over probably the easiest trait to see in a narcissist the easiest behaviors to identify in people's other people's narcissism something that also borderlines I believe share in a lot now not all not all Borderlands okay just some one of the most off-putting behaviors or let's say I'll say three of the most off-putting behaviors arrogance rudess and hotess hottie attitude bad attitude huh call it tude most of us can't tolerate it most of us did anyway red flags ignored that's a really good one isn't it all of this stuff I'm going to read to you tell you today they said the only way to know who a psychopath is is by the way they make you feel and the word they use is off-putting that's the word for today off-putting narcissism in people will surface when allowed won't it and all of us they give them enough rope and they'll hang themselves when people are maybe achieve success power when someone wins competitively right you'll see them just go off with this attitude their ego diagnostic trait number nine narcissistic personality disorder in the dsm5 is shows arrogant or hotty behaviors or attitude Miriam Webster says that hottie behaviors an attitude of blatant Pride disdain and superiority is characterized by being unfriendly and considering oneself better than others a hotti person may exhibit arrogance snobbishness and a supercilious demeanor just did a video about that not too long ago scorn for inferiors consciousness of superiority and maybe it's just because I was born I was born I was born in England you know not saying that English people but maybe someone here in America oh I'm wasn't born here I was born in England like it's better or something I was born in lot of money my parents were very rich my father does this and mother does that huh here's some synonyms for hottie contempt snarky cocky cocky's a good one man that better be offputting the weakest people will be attracted to it graceless abrasive bully best bully mean self-centered self-promoted omnipotent Godlike proud Cavalier insolent overbearing Superior vain conceited snobby stuck up pompous egotistical snoy scornful patronizing condescending and smug yeah right you will see this eventually in psychopath sociopath historyonics narcissists and borderlines all I said it the antisocial solves things with violence the hisonic will make false accusations narcissist and then the borderline with their inappropriate anger all of them higher in narcissism than the neurotypical than the rest of us even just the cluster B is the the hcpt high conflict personality type the less self-aware we are the higher our ego self-promotion got to be better than people well one way I can be better than everybody is place myself higher than everyone and the other way is Place everybody lower than me or a Target yeah talking down to people or talking bad about people huge R The Narcissist female is the virtue signaler yeah right she has the high morals and you have none how does a narcissist act when you bruise their ego a stress reaction chop you down blow you down can't do it bullying is about the best example right bullying Jesus I'm better than you well you obviously don't really think so and where you'll see that the best nowadays online is the smear campaign right that's what it is he is so bad well that just means I'm so good that's all they're doing yeah they have to because they know they're not unless they convince you just like a narcissist is only happy when you believe they are sitting high and mighty The Narcissist female morally pure you'll see this the best in so many people a lot of you when it comes to job work career oh God I'm the best one there I'm irreplaceable they they will they will fail without me they can't do it without me there business would be nothing without me there they'll fall right apart I'm everything so important stay clear of people like this you can't get a better red flag than that I mean it's it's just right there out in the open like I said you give him enough rope give them enough time you'll find out who someone is yeah and I know that this is a major red flag that we all ignored before we've all ignored this this kind of attitude can gain a narcissist a lot of friends at first and supporters then about a month two months three months later no one can stand him can be attractive at first and disgusting later we don't care that much about how we feel about someone be very aware of how someone makes us feel and I think off-putting is just the best word it's off-putting and it should be off-putting and if it's not there's something wrong I would love to hear your guys' examples please can you give one I know you have them I'd appreciate it guys watching the videos go down below in the comments section and read them uh would love your thumbs up and subscribe to the channel anybody that wants coaching you can find me at David dear.com and love yourself first thanks guys bye