STOP GIVING 2ND CHANCES TO ABUSIVE FAMILY MEMBERS #npd #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

Hey y'all, Spiritual Whistleblower here, and Lord, it is cold in New York City today, y'all. Pardon me. Can't even start my damn video off without a siren. Gotta love New York City. Yes, I'm in the heart, um, I'm in the Bronx today. I like to bounce around, mostly in Brooklyn a lot, but I'm in the Bronx handling business today. But how y'all doing? I am in a fabulous mood, despite this cold weather. it is it is mostly the wind chill the wind chill is pretty brutal it's it slices you up you know i'm gonna hurry up and get home and get indoors today but i'll tell you it's cold child anyway um god put it on my heart to talk to y'all this morning about this specific topic and please keep keep the suggestions rolling i hear y'all i'm in the comments communicating i hear y'all y'all want me to talk about certain topics and it's a lot okay i got a long list of stuff that y'all have requested and just be patient with me. But when God puts something on my heart to speak on, I have to speak on it right away. So I just want to let you know the importance of not giving second chances to abusers. The problem is, you know, and I got this figured out, you know, why we give our family members so many chances, a second and third, a fourth and fifth chance when we were never supposed to give them a second chance. You know, we were never supposed to give our abusive parents a second chance abusers never deserve second chances but you know when you are a child and this is what i truly believe when you're a child being raised by an abusive mother or father they **** with our brain they **** with our nervous system they literally the violence and the child abuse is so traumatic that it dysregulates the nervous system in the body and it also dysregulates our brain it causes brain damage child abuse child neglect all of that it physically causes chronic illness in a child's body and it also causes um cognitive dissonance so for most of us that were beaten bullied and abused most of our childhood if not all and you're still being abused as an adult by your your family up your your um ability they have fucked up your discernment there we go that's what i was trying to say they have fucked up your ability to discern and we need discernment in order to survive we need discernment to avoid toxic situations abusive situations you need a high level discernment to determine if your boss your supervisor is a racist and is secretly bullying you and alienating you from other co-workers. You need discernment to survive in life. You need discernment to avoid getting into romantic relationships that are toxic. This is why a lot of y'all can't understand why you keep getting in one abusive relationship after the next. You keep attracting narcissists. Every time you try to get it right, every time you get in a new relationship and you try to start over and do things differently, it's the same results. That's because mom and dad have destroyed your ability to use discernment. Mom and dad have dysregulated your nervous system since you were a child. Mom and dad have programmed you to attract and stay connected and trauma-bonded to abusers in romantic relationships. mom and dad have programmed your brain to attract toxic friendships mean girls bullies so if you're trying to sit there and figure out why do you keep attracting toxic friendships why you've been with a certain female friend for 20 years and you're just now realizing the bitch was hating on you the whole time she was a covert narcissist or why you know your baby daddy's toxic and then once you left your baby daddy alone you turn around and you got married and you ended up marrying another narcissist you're trying to figure out why do you keep jumping from one abuser to the next why do you keep attracting abusive friendships it is the toxic wiring and toxic programming of mom and dad mom and dad have destroyed your ability to use proper discernment mom and dad have destroyed your ability to read a room when you step into a room full of people you should be able to read the room and observe people's personalities and behaviors and you should make a you should make a determination on who to avoid just by observing the room but most of y'all can't do that because your parents your family your very abusive narcissistic family have destroyed your ability to use proper discernment and your family does not want you to have discernment because abusers need you to be stuck on stupid abusers need you to be vulnerable at all times they need you to be childlike at all times that's why your narcissistic parents will never see you as an adult no matter how old you can get uh 40 50 60 years old your parents will always be condescending and talk down to you, they will infantize you. You will always be objectified and viewed as a child in the eyes of a narcissistic parent, no matter how old you get. They need you to be in that vulnerable childlike position to continue to control you and abuse you. Because if you level up and you get a backbone and you decide to become an adult and stop allowing people to violate your boundaries, including your parents, if you become financially independent and you don't need your parents money or help you don't need ---- from them how they're going to have a problem with that they need to be able to overstep boundaries and step into your personal space and be in your personal business and be in your personal financial business who you ******* all of that to control you mom and dad wants to permanently control you so if you break free and get away from them get into therapy and work on your childhood trauma issues get a diagnosis whether you're autistic adhd dyslexic bipolar you get your life together and watch how bad your family starts treating you start having a brain start having the ability to think independently for yourself and watch how ******* mad your mother and father get at you because they can't control you anymore The plan from day one, the moment you were born, was to destroy your discernment, destroy your intuition, destroy your relationship with God. This is how I know our parents are ******* demonic. Because if you build a strong relationship with God, God does not want you to be abused. God above everybody, he wants you to have strong discernment. If you have strong discernment, you will not tolerate abuse off of anybody. that's how God wants you to be God wants you to walk with discernment spiritual discernment he wants you to be able to see demons and people he wants you to be able to read people and their demonic energy before it approaches you he loves you he he don't want you getting abused but your parents and grandparents they don't want you having no discernment because if you have discernment you'll cut them off because you'll realize just how demonic and wicked they are you'll realize like damn mom and dad are always comparing me to my brother and sister mom and dad are always trying to make me feel small and destroy my my uh you know make me feel insecure destroy my confidence while praising my sister and brother and throwing them in my face what type of parent pits their children against each other that is a demonic tactic called triangulation your your parents your parents are mimicking satan go through the bible and you'll understand that satan is the only entity that uses triangulation to destroy and separate and divide people. So why is your mother and father using the same tactic as Satan to divide and conquer their children? So why are we giving our abusers second chances? Because our parents and family members have programmed us to be trauma bonded. They're parasitic and they need to suck off your energy. They need you to be a slave. They need you to be a pawn they need somebody to trauma dump they need to use and abuse you and if you smarten up and wise up and get away from them you **** up their plans you destroy everything so they guilt trip you and what ends up happening you end up giving your abusive family members a million chances and if you look over the last 10-15 years you'll notice it's been an up and down cycle it's been nothing but an emotional roller coaster because you have repeatedly given your toxic family members too many chances yeah they're nice at first they come they know how to be nice oh I miss you so much I'm sorry when can we be a family again when can we put our differences aside at the end of the day you only get one mother at the end of the day you only get one father blood is thicker than water don't be like that you need to get over it you still haven't you still holding a grudge they're gonna throw all this in your face they're nice at first and because you have such a good heart and you don't want to see the bad in them you really truly want to believe they're good and they're just misguided and they need a little help and maybe if you could show them and teach them how to be better people they would they're never going to change honey they're only being nice temporarily to pull you back in the moment you go back running to family and giving them two and three and for a million chances that nice ---- goes away they're going to start being mean they're going to start bullying you all over again how many more chances are you going to give your toxic abusive parents and your family before you realize they're never going to change and let me just drive it on home let me drive it on home let me let me let me i'm gonna **** with y'all heads real quick because i got it i got it and i'm never giving my mother or father they're never getting another chance i don't want nothing to do with them god bless them I wish them all the success. If they die tomorrow, I'm moving on. I will not even acknowledge them after they're dead and gone. Let me tell you something. God, I'm gonna ask y'all a question. When God kicked Satan, Lucifer, when he kicked him out of heaven, did he allow him to come back for a second and third time? I'm gonna leave that right there with you real quick. Let's let the siren go by while you think about it. Thank you, Father God, for freeing me. Thank you, Father God, for releasing me from the chains of my abusive family. Thank you for releasing me. I have a newfound happiness. I found joy. I found peace. Thank you, Father God. I praise you, and I thank you for freeing me. I'm never going back. Lot's wife. We know the story about Lot's wife. What happened when Lot's wife turned around? God told her, don't go back, and she did anyway. She turned into a pillar of salt. You're never supposed to go back. You're never supposed to go back to the place that destroyed you. You can't heal in the same environment that broke you. Mommy and daddy are going to go hard and try to pull you back in. No, no, no, no. Your mother and father are demons. They're not men and women of God. No, God, God does not condone abuse. So let's get back to the question. I asked you a question. When God kicked Lucifer out of heaven, how many chances did he give him? Did he allow Lucifer to come back for a second time? And I'll ask you another question. Why? Why did God deny Lucifer a second chance? We can talk about this in the comment section because I like to get deep, bitch. This is why I will never **** with my mother or father ever again. My mother is so obsessed with trying to get my attention. My mother is so says she knows what she has done and she can't stand the fact that I look beautiful my skin is glowing I'm popular I'm a ******* celebrity out in these streets I got a worldwide fan base I got a top-selling book on Amazon I'm college educated I'm a single mother that successfully raised her child without the help of my mother or toxic family I beat all the odds while she's sitting there ******* miserable married to a ******* pedophile broke out of shape ******* me this was never the plan for me to level up and rise above everything that was meant to destroy me she's sitting there and she's insufferable hating on my ******* success i turned out to be a better mother than her she hates it i figured her out i figured the whole game out i'm never going back and there may be a time that she snaps and she she actually tries to confront me in the streets and i already made it known what what will happen if she confronts me but she's such a sociopath and a stalker she's so obsessed she's she's liable to do anything that's why i make these public videos about her to document everything that she's done to me to expose her to family members and to my audience to have something in the future to show police and the court system i have documentation of the child abuse. I have school records. My guidance counselor, they wrote reports on her abusing me. All this is documented. She can't lie her way out of this. It's nothing she could do. I will never give her a second chance. She's been given a hundred chances to do right by me and to change her toxic behavior. She will not change. And I understand now that it is the demon inside of her. It is the Jezebel spirit inside of her and many of my other family members that caused them to repeatedly be abusive. You are to never go back. That's Bible. Lot's wife was told not to go back and she did. And when she went back, she turned into a pillar of salt. The same reason that God kicked Lucifer out of heaven, he did not give him a second chance. You're never supposed to give an abuser a second chance. But when you get your discernment together, when your discernment is high, you're going to start realizing people's intentions. That's all it is. When your discernment is high you'll be able to determine if someone's trying to abuse you and do it in a sneaky way and once you realize that this person's trying to covertly and very insidiously abuse you and play with you you'll get away from them immediately having discernment is a powerful tool and trust me your mother and father and toxic family they don't want you to have discernment they need to be able to come in and out of your life to control you and abuse you that's why they throw the mental illness around they tell everybody you're mentally ill you can tell everybody i'm mentally ill But bitch I'm also woke I'm also self aware I'm also spiritually intuitive I have a high level of discernment What we not gonna do You'll never have the opportunity to control me And abuse me ever again bitch It's over If God did not give Lucifer a second chance Why the **** is you giving your family members And your parents Second and third and fourth and fifth chances Why are you giving your siblings Knowing your siblings hate your ass And they're jealous of you and they won't cut your toxic mother and father off. Why do you keep giving your siblings the opportunities to **** you over? God did not give Satan a second chance. Let's talk about it in the comments section. We all make mistakes, but when it comes to an abusive individual, they're intentional when they make mistakes. They're intentional when they're trying to hurt you. They're intentional when they're sadistically enjoying your pain and suffering. Never give an abuser a second chance. I don't give a **** who it is. And on that note, y'all have a blessed day. It's been Spiritual Whistleblower. Stay warm, y'all. It's cold out here.