Dealing with the Toxic Women in a Man’s Family #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

And no, I don't want to meet your motherfucking mama. I don't want to meet your motherfucking sisters, your aunties, your female cousins, your grand- don't want to meet none of the bitches in your family straight up. If it's one thing that relationships have taught me is if a nigga is toxic, there is a high probability that he has a toxic ******* family, especially the goddamn women in his family, because he didn't just turn toxic overnight. he was raised around it and he was coddled okay mama sisters aunties they coddled that nigga and made him feel okay with his behavior they might check him from time to time but most of the time he can get away with it he can get away with cheating on his girlfriend and his mama look the other way or he could bring his side chick to a family function and his family will cover up for him and hide it from his real girlfriend the family will help him do dirt they will help him cover up his dirt that's why he ain't an ain't ---- nigga because he comes from an ain't ---- ass family understand this so if a dude you're dealing with says hey i want to i want you to meet my family don't get excited because it's not the flex that you think it is me personally i don't want to meet no niggas family been there done that and i'm gonna tell you how it usually goes down don't be drop dead gorgeous yes i know i'm i'm pretty i know i'm beautiful number one okay physical attractiveness if he bring a bad bitch to the house and his mama on down to his aunties his sister they got low self-esteem if they in miserable relationships if mama's in a long-term miserable marriage with her husband he didn't cheat and did everything to her but she won't leave his ass the women in his family have low self-esteem you walking up in there just your appearance alone is going to rock them to their core they're gonna play dumb they're gonna put a smile on their face and pretend to be cordial oh she's so pretty welcome come have a seat them bitches are gonna be fake when you first meet them but let you be a bad bitch walk up in there drop dead gorgeous and them bitches got low self-esteem and they're insecure number one they gonna think you want they ******* men it ain't that you want they men they know their men ain't ---- their men are cheaters daddy on down granddaddy uncles all them all the niggas in the family gonna be eyeing you up and down you a bad bitch that's strike one against you already I done been there and did that strike number two don't be confident see you ain't got no low self-esteem bitch you confident I walk into a room with my head held high I don't have to say two words I command attention everybody turns and looks my way when I walk into a room it's it's the air of confidence it's spiritual it's my aura it's my light they're gonna feel it and they will be intimidated by it if they are insecure weak-ass women if they are especially male-centered they're automatically gonna think you want their man and their man definitely wants you you become competition you're part of a secret competition that you don't even know you're in when you meet these toxic bitches in his family number three don't be educated honey see they're looking they're looking for a flaw they're looking for a flaw when they first meet you they're going oh she's pretty but they're gonna be trying to see oh we got to dig in her background we gotta figure this when they dig and dig and find nothing find that you got your ---- together find out that you're a hustler you're business minded you're a business owner you got all your motherfucking degrees you ain't no bum bitch you're not no bird like his baby mama you're not no bird like his ex from high school and by the way them the bitches they keep close by the family never gets rid of his ex they always stay in touch with his toxic exes because the toxic exes will join they'll jump on the bandwagon when it's time to come against you and he will cheat with his exes and the family will know about it and it's all a hidden agenda to push you out of the family when you're trying to help him level up and break free from his toxic family peep game i done been there did that that's why you know if you get with a nigga and he come he know his family's toxic and he don't set a boundary and check them motherfuckers over you you gotta be with a dude that don't play with he don't play about you he don't play about his woman and he will check his motherfucking family he know how the motherfuckers are he don't he barely want to deal with them himself but if he allows his mama sister aunties female cousins to violate or disrespect you or your position at all get rid of him get rid of him they are fake bitches and he's not willing to check them or cut them off to protect y'all relationship I've been there and another thing that the women in his family will do they love to overstep boundaries including his exes I don't Listen, my last relationship, it was, you know, I was laying in the bed with my man at the time and he had a particular female cousin and that bitch is a pick me. She's such a male center. This is in the South. I just have this thing with women in the South are pick me. They worship ******* men, even if they're abusive and predatory. His female cousin calls him like eleven thirty at night while we're laying in the bed. And, you know, he gets off the phone with her I said, what she want? He said, oh, nothing. she just called to laugh and tell me something okay bitch why are you calling your male cousin late at night to gossip about nothing to check up on him unless it's a motherfucking family emergency unless your house is on fire why are you calling and disrespecting the boundaries of our relationship why are you calling your male cousin like you want to **** him like you a side chick in the middle of the night craving some dick yeah the female cousins be out of pocket but it's his job to check that ---- why are they why are they even comfortable feeling like they can reach out to him and do some ---- like that it's his fault it's because the women in the family don't like you i don't care how fake they are they might smile and pretend you know be cool with you they may even want to hang with you i've been invited to family functions let me tell you something uh mama mama who this was a church going woman she was in the church seven days of the week and the way that i feel about elderly women in the church them bitches are the most toxic demonic pieces of ---- they're the jezebels okay so i don't care if bitch you go to church all week long you you you're a minister you're supposed to be christian they are the worst types i'm telling you they are the worst types of mother-in-laws and they are very they act like they want to **** their sons and they stay in their son's business and if you are more successful you're more prettier you got it going on and you are you know you have the ability to pull her son away from the toxic family and help him to level up and y'all get picked y'all listen they know you're a bad bitch and they know you can change the son for the better you can help him elevate it's crabs in a barrel the family will work together to pull him away from you that's why they stay in touch with the toxic exes and they'll set it up where he can **** the exes ex the ex baby mama ex-girlfriend will be an actual side chick and it's a hidden agenda to break y'all up to push you out the ******* picture so he can stay broken and in the ******* gutter with the rest of his toxic ass family I've been invited to family functions I was invited to a family um what was a family reunion and I was introduced at the family reunion as fiance fiance his mama got on the microphone and said y'all look at my beautiful daughter-in-law come up here let them see how pretty you are got on the microphone in front of everybody introduced me as daughter-in-law this is his fiance whole time mama was on the phone with his toxic baby mama knowing they was hooking up behind my back and the baby mama got a husband bitch was cheating on her husband with my nigga so I feel a type of way about women you know meeting a man's mother and the women in the family I'm not impressed you got to figure out these bitches got low self-esteem if they're insecure if they're miserable in their relationships if mama is miserable in her marriage but she won't leave the toxic daddy they've been married for 40 ******* years nigga and cheating and got a whole another family on the other side of town you got to find all that ---- out otherwise don't be in a rush to meet his family and he got to be 100% down for you locked in and ready to protect you from his family if he allows them to disrespect y'all relationship or disrespect you he's not the nigga for you get rid of him but don't be oppressed when he asks you do you want to meet my family no nigga I don't let's let's pump the brakes I need some time no