Make Your Narcissistic Family RESPECT You! #narcissim #narcissisticabuse #narcissist

Surprise, surprise. Spiritual whistleblower here. Good morning. Hi, everybody. Happy holidays. How's everybody doing? Wow. I know y'all have been like, where the hell has spiritual whistleblower been? Oh, baby, I've been living life. Staying healthy, taking good care of my skin, my hair, my nails, flexing, leveling up in school, keeping those boundaries intact to keep toxic family and toxic exes out of my life taking good care of my daughter she's doing well you know um I felt the need to make this video because number one we are fast approaching the end of 2024 and this is holiday time you know holiday season is the time where narcissists really pop up and they stalk their victims and when I say narcissist it could be your narcissistic mother that you cut off your narcissistic father your narcissistic siblings you cut off any family family especially when they're toxic they will try to utilize the holiday season to guilt trip their way back into your heart into your life they know the holiday time is a sentimental time people sit up they're depressed they're lonely they're thinking of loved ones and ---- like that abusers will utilize holiday time to manipulate their way back into your life so i felt the need to really you know put out a video to reinforce you help you to reinforce your boundaries around this time of year y'all know I don't ******* play with boundary setting um and I have my book my family can kiss my ass I have three new books coming out I'm making a part two my family can kiss my ass part two um my book about fathers toxic fathers that's going to be I'm glad I delayed putting that book out because so much ---- has happened you know regarding the patriarch system we have a toxic new president-elect he's a sociopath i'm putting him in in in my book i'm glad that i delayed the release of that because there's so much new more new information the 4B movement all that's going to be in my book regarding you know toxic fathers it's going to be all the game the the the you know the things that our daddy should have taught us this book is going to have everything in it it's i'm gonna have so many men pissed off at me for helping you know to educate their daughters on how to spot narcissistic men i'm gonna have a fleet of men so angry at me and i don't care i'm ready for the smoke um so i have a few books i'm gonna publish guys i've been busy working and yes i'm still in school pursuing my psychology degree um but more importantly i'm i'm doing extremely well if those of you are there if some of y'all follow my instagram um you know i post you know what i do i go out to eat i do self-care videos i go out with my girlfriends i travel a lot i'll catch a flight anywhere um i have some vacations coming up actually so uh lifestyle wise my life is litty and i look good this is the most physically fit i am now a hundred and i'm bouncing between 170 pounds 165 i'm 5 foot 11 i'm tall so i'm slim your girl is slim and looking trim so my my body you know i'm doing well i hired a fitness trainer earlier this year and he's amazing he's been helping me tone up and everything so i i just want to um you know pop in and give y'all a video on how to reinforce boundaries i'm going to give you an update because i've been hoovered by family members um the last video i put out i told you how my mother this past summer i think it was july she tried to send me a message on instagram you know leaving me her phone number trying to you know feel sorry she wanted me to feel sorry and you know um it was a pathetic message that i felt was disingenuous i did not believe any of it i thought it was bs it was her trying to manipulate her way back into my life because she's fighting a losing battle um she thought i would be the child that would be at one point i was i was the doormat i was the gullible shy girl the fat girl that everyone could bully talk about laugh at clown disrespect and I bossed up on my mother I turned out to be the child that stood up to her I turned out to be the child I have two other siblings I turned out to be the child to set strict boundaries with her and I made I made sure I stood on those boundaries to teach her a lesson I was the only child that um you know I regardless of her putting out a nasty vicious smear campaign telling my entire family that I'm jealous of my sister knowing that's a ******* lie my sister has nothing that I ******* want y'all don't know how sick and tired I am of that ******* rumor my mother has put that out there repeatedly I'm jealous of my sister my sister has do y'all hear me she has nothing absolutely nothing that I want nothing in her life screams jealousy she's not rich she doesn't have a beautiful home a house she doesn't have a marriage a man that I ever thought that I ever wanted or be jealous of she has nothing her her resume her resume alone I have my resume is several pages long you know how successful I am how how much success how much how many things I've accomplished I got my degrees I'm still in school I'm doing podcasts with licensed clinical psych all year long the psychologist invited me on her podcast that's how lit I am on social media i got all types of therapists and mental health professionals following my content i got the professionals on my ass so you think i'm gonna let my mother or sister or family members try to tell me who the **** i am they gotta play catch up to me i've raised my daughter my daughter will be 25 years old she's in school everything that they set out to to say to destroy me or ruin my reputation i defeated everything they look foolish now so i'm gonna tell y'all i have had four family members they've been all men all men have tried to reach out to me to hover me y'all remember from mother's day um not last year the year before last i put out a book called i can't stand my mother and the other toxic messy bitches in my family that was a book that i put out directly to let my mother know bitch stop stop you married a ******* pedophile you're still married to the man that ******* molested me you're a troublemaker your children are not together and loving on each other because you ******* divided them up you pitted your children against each other you said this one's jealous of this one this one don't like this one you're a messy ass bitch that's why you're sitting up sad now because your children don't want to **** with you it was a whole book calling out my narcissistic mother on all the damage she's caused all the trauma the drama uh um calling her out so that the whole world can know what a piece of ---- mother she is my family can finally hear my side of the story she married a ******* pedophile i I told her at the age of 14, I told her in high school what he did, and she didn't believe me. She's still married to the nigga. I even told my school, called Child Protective Services on her. We were in Columbia, South Carolina, and my mother sliced my face open with a curling iron and sent me to school with this nasty, deep gash. She cut me next to my eye. My teachers and my guidance counselor saw the cut on my face, and they contacted Child Protective Services, and that's when I told them yeah her second husband also molested me I've been growing up in an abusive household and nobody will help me so they they kept an investigation open for over a year on my mother that's documented right now I can go to Columbia South Carolina and go pick up a copy of the report so she can never ******* lie on me the chickens are coming home to roost my mother can no longer run the game it's time to ******* stop I don't ever want to see her again she's a walking demon I put that on everything I don't even want her ******* apology that's how much trash she is a trash mother she's despicable for dividing her children up pitting her children against each other so I've done a beautiful job of protecting my daughter I will not allow my daughter to go near them and now my daughter can sit back and say mommy they never sent anything they got our mailing address they never sent me nothing for birthday Christmas prom graduation nothing came in the mail not even a card acknowledging my daughter none of none of the special occasions that's how I know they're full of ---- but as of recently I had four different male relatives y'all because the book that I put out I can't say my mother I called out my mother and the toxic females in my family I have a family full of female narcissists not all my female relatives are narcissists but there's there's several of them my female cousins quite a few of them are my sister 100 percent because my mother being a narcissist trained and groomed my little sister to be extremely narcissistic they are almost one in the same they behave and they they walk alike talk alike they are both walking demons that's why my sister struggles with cutting off my mama they could argue fuss and fight one minute and they back cool the next my sister will never permanently cut my mother off and level up and what's going to happen is my sister's going to realize over time she should have cut my mama off a long time ago she would have been much further in life but she's got to learn the hard way that's how i leveled up i said uh-uh this bitch gotta go she she'll ruin my life she'll ruin everything she'll destroy and sabotage everything in my life i don't cut her off so the whole book i can't stand my mother it basically addressed my mother being the ringleader of the you know she's a troublemaker nasty you know spreading nasty rumors about me vicious smear campaigns like i'm jealous of my sister bitch no i'm not y'all act like i'm not drop dead gorgeous i'm i know i'm skinny now my body looks way better than hers i'm way more accomplished like jealous of what what the **** does she have that i want not a goddamn thing i'm sick my mother has spread that rumor for years if anything them bitches is jealous of me keeping up there they could never catch up to my level and i got more ---- coming out they think i'm successful now i'm gonna keep dropping on them i'm gonna just move in silence i'm gonna keep dropping on them they ain't seen nothing yet i know how to be ******* successful when my enemies are praying for my motherfucking downfall i got much more in store so the book addressed my mother being a ringleader and every toxic female in my family so now i got all the females they're all scared to say anything to me they better not say nothing to me don't send me no dms on ******* social media bitch don't don't send me no messages through facebook instagram uh tiktok you're going to get blocked you want to listen to my mother you want to follow her gossip you want to believe her lies bitch you're gonna go down with her every last female relative that sat up and believed all my mother's ******* lies is gonna bitch i'm gonna punish you right with my mother because you're dumb and gullible for not having a mind of your own since you can't think for yourself bitch and you want to believe everything that my ******* abusive mother my mother married a ******* pedo bitch and you listen and believe her lies so you're gonna suffer right with her i'm gonna punish you with her get over there on the other side of the fence with my mother and you stay over there I don't want a relationship with you cousin sister auntie since you believe the lies and bullshit about me so now what's happening y'all my male relatives have reached out to me one by one I just got word that my uncle George passed away my uncle George was one of those men out of the four he emailed me I'm like I haven't seen this ************ in 30 years how did he get my email address sure enough he sent me an email hey hey niece i totally understand about your mother here's my number call me sometime i never returned his call because he ain't ---- he was abusive towards women his character is fucked up why would i trust him or confide in him so i never followed up and returned his his his call i don't even know how he got my contact info or how he even ******* knew that i had a youtube niggas old as **** and i haven't seen him in like 20 30 years but he reached out to me hoover we know what a hoover is when a narcissist hoovers you they're trying to suck you back in so that was the one he he just passed away this year I got word so he's gone I received three more messages I will not reveal their names from three male cousins and these cousins are from both my mother's side and my father's side how do they know about me on social media is bugged out I had one male cousin he texts my phone directly hey cousin I just want to say I'm so proud of you you doing the damn thing girl yeah and I hit him back thanks cuz I hope all is well with your family and I left it at that I didn't open up nothing else you know me and him have always been cool he's not messy he's not a snake two-faced he just wanted to wish me well so I sent him some love back now had he sent me a message talking about your mom said this and that i would have blocked his ass don't pass no ******* messages about my mother or any other toxic bitch in my family uh the other cousin uh is following me on facebook liking my stuff in support of all my business endeavors i see you cousin another male and recently like about two weeks ago i get another male cousin follow my tiktok he's in my private dms yo what's up cuzzo so i see a pattern i said that's for male relatives the men in my family are probably like yo my cousin got it going on she looked good she educated her book is selling she got this huge fan base you know i don't know what's going on with her and the females in the family but that ain't got ---- to do with me i'm gonna hit her up and shout her out yeah that's what happens when you stay silent and you stand on motherfucking boundaries with your family all the abusers expose themselves over time time has a way of exposing the ******* liars and snakes in your ******* family that hated on you my mother is the top dog the top snake now she looks like a ******* fool all the lies talking about i'm jealous of my sister i'm bitterness in that bitch bye and i've held a job longer than both my mother and sister combined they forget that too I started working for the state government over 20 years ago. I still got my job, my pension. Everything is intact. That's how my daughter is able to have wonderful benefits and excellent health care. Okay? Neither my mother or sister can say that. I want to see where they have their career established. Because my mother jumped from job to job. She never held a stable job. She'll work a job running a catering business. It's always temporary. She doesn't keep it running for a long time. she up and moves from state city and state never sits still in one place okay i've taught my daughter what stability was my daughter could look at me and say my mama has held her job for over 20 years my mama's gonna leave me something when she leaves this earth my mama has a pension life insurance and all of that i can't say that about my mother and father my sister i highly doubt that she has a career established lord knows whatever she's doing i don't know my mother has taught her how to be a gold digger and how to pimp out men for money how to marry for money and unfortunately that that advice might have worked back in the 80s you can't pull that ---- on these men today these men today will put you six feet under ******* playing with their money so I hope all is well with sis but keep running behind mommy's mind games and manipulation keep following behind mommy and we're gonna see where that gets you but anyway I hope y'all are standing on y'all boundaries this holiday season you want to know how i'm so strong and successful it's because i don't play with my boundaries i don't let a bitch from my past back into my life i don't give a **** who it is i don't give my this is my skin is glowing pretty this is the healthiest i've been i didn't have all i had my colonoscopy done last week that came out clean because i you know colon cancer is on the rise in young people 30 40 years old i know people dying left and right in their 30s the 40s over colon cancer i went last week the doc said you all clear you don't have to come back for another colonoscopy for another 10 years breast examination make sure your body is good y'all after you cut these motherfuckers off go to a doctor and and get screened for everything as i promise you everything stress related connected to a narcissist will develop into physical pain and suffering and trauma and disease in the body trauma stores itself in the body if If you don't get the **** away from your narcissistic family, you will get sick, physically sick. OK, now I will put the link to my book. My family can kiss my ass down in a bio. It's holiday time, baby. They're going to start coming out. They're going to stalk y'all. And I need y'all to be strong. I need you to be strong. Y'all, I ain't never told y'all wrong. I've coached hundreds of y'all. I have never told y'all wrong. Stand on your motherfucking boundaries. and I pray that some of y'all are planning to move and relocate to another city and state to really get the **** away from your family and your exes and start a new life okay and keep your ass in EMDR therapy oh I have another announcement I'm going to do a separate video um I'm going to share with y'all my autism results I am autistic I am autistic which explains a lot of my weird behaviors growing up as a child why I was bullied so much for being different and weird and quiet and standoffish my mother bullied me a lot of people bullied me all that was was I was autistic and I think it's a ******* shame that I've walked around all this long walking around undiagnosed when my mother and father had the power to to get me evaluated and they refused it my mother does not believe in therapy I know that for a fact she has too much pride she didn't want people thinking something was wrong with her children but her children suffered due to her poor choices but I'm glad that I know now that I'm autistic I will do a whole separate video on autism in adults and it's nothing to be ashamed of and um you know I want to wish y'all a happy Thanksgiving happy holidays and I pray that you're doing well I'm doing fabulous honey life is great over here all right love you guys live from New York City spiritual whistleblower mama love you