YOUR NARC PARENTS ARE MENTALLY ILL #npd #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

Hey y'all, Spiritual Whistleblower here. How you guys doing? How's your 2025 going so far? I mean, I'm great, but every day in the news, like the wildfires, like we're like 10 days into January and it's every day on the news. It's just been, they're getting ready to ban TikTok. I hope they don't ban TikTok. I've worked my ass off to get up to 600,000 followers. Now they're talking to, if they ban TikTok, there's going to be a lot of unhinged people that are going to freaking and lose their mind. I'm not going to lose my mind because I know how to go back to living life and I live my life under the radar. Excuse me, y'all. Y'all know I know how to get out here and enjoy my life by myself and be by myself. I do social media for y'all, but I'm not addicted to it. I can disappear and enjoy my life without social media. So I'm just thinking about all the addicted people that depend on you know and it also feeds families i'm not gonna lie you know tiktok feeds a lot of families it helps a lot of small businesses so it's gonna be fucked up it really is it's like the narcissist snatching the rug from under underneath your feet and blindsiding you that's that's what this feels like and you know all them ******* politicians up in congress they're all narcissists they don't give a **** they're capitalists they can't get a piece of TikTok they're going to shut it down so I'm praying for a loophole I'm praying for a miracle I worked my ass off I got thousands of videos on my TikTok I'm approaching 600,000 followers and now they want to ******* ban the ---- listen man can't win for losing but how y'all doing in this video I want to talk about how our parents weaponize mental health against us and I'm going to teach you how you can make it backfire on your parents and your family when they start talking about you know you need help you're you're a little touched you know that's all projection y'all it's all projection let me ask y'all a question about your mother and father whether it's your mother who's a narcissist or whether it's your father that's a narcissist let me ask you a question about both of them can you tell me a little bit about mom and dad's childhood upbringing did they have a smooth wonderful happy childhood or did they have a abusive tumultuous dysfunctional upbringing were your grandparents dysfunctional okay let's start there tell me tell me about your parents upbringing i've stated in many of my videos how fucked up both my parents uh you know my father's parents were physically violent and destructive and um they caused a lot of trauma my dad has two brothers my one of my uncles is passed away that he was the baby my father's the oldest now there's only two boys left um yeah they they witnessed a lot and they still they still uh suffer from ptsd i totally believe that um the things that they saw their parents you know do and and the way that my grandmother emasculated my father and her sons i know one of my uncles had you know problems wetting the bed when he was little when he was a little boy and that's all from anxiety and trauma they missed my grandma my nana and my my late grandfather they messed my my father and his brothers up so I know my father's childhood was fucked up and I said about my mother how both her parents they got together as a result of a fling my grandmother being fast in the ass ******* with a married man got pregnant with twins and because she was ashamed and embarrassed she treated my mother like a dirty little secret and passed her off to be raised by her grandmother and then my grandmother ran off and married a whole new man and had two more children it was like my mother wasn't even there my mother she treated my mother like a dirty secret and started a whole new family that's what narcissists do so both my mother and father they had horrible childhood upbringings but where they fucked up is you know um they did nothing to deal with their childhood traumas both of them severely need therapy both of them are ******* delusional and don't feel that they need any help i i can assure you if you mention the word therapy to mom or dad they're gonna say i don't need therapy you need therapy ain't nothing wrong with me something wrong with you you need to go to therapy you know we we go to church all we gotta do is pray yeah you see the The black church is fucked up. The black church is ******* toxic. The pastor's a ******* pedo. You got women up in there, the deaconess, that are ******* lesbians molesting little girls. Let's not get on the men in the church, the deacons, some of the men in the choir, preying on little boys, molesting boys. Church will ******* traumatize the ****. That's what's wrong. That's one of the reasons why the black community is fucked up, the black church. and that's why i'm proud today that my generation and the millennials and gen z we saying **** the black church we are dismantling that ---- because the black church has traumatized so many of us and it's because of our parents and grandparents the baby boomers and the silent generation they forced us to go to ******* church instead of going to ******* therapy and that's why they so fucked up so you know you mentioned therapy to mom and dad because they have unhealed unresolved childhood traumas they're going i don't need no therapy i got jesus i got jesus i pray that's all we need is a little prayer no bitch you need to be in a psychologist chair bitch you're fucked up and all you've done is has turned your childhood problems into you've created more problems for your children you had no business bringing children innocent children into this world because you're broken you're morally bankrupt financially broke you had no you you're fucked up all the way around and you brought innocent children into your ******* mess and when you're grown your children grow up and become adults and they call you out on the ---- you're in denial about it you don't want to be accountable about it you want to brush it off and be dismissive i don't i don't need no therapy we don't need to go to family counseling together you got a problem you need help yeah if your parents are narcissists that's that's what they're going to tell you i don't need no help i got jesus i'll pray no bitch you need to go to therapy and since you won't work on your unresolved childhood issues bitch well i forgave my parents that's what my mother said me and my mother no no bitch you can resolve things with your mama it will not make you or your mama's issues go away especially when you and your mother's ******* issues have negatively impacted your children it's called generational trauma generational trauma that you and your ******* mother have both caused and passed down to your ******* children you and your mama need to be in therapy bitch because you've caused your children pain and suffering but you know if your parents are true narcissists they will weaponize they will weaponize the whole mental health thing against you i have heard so many stories y'all there's so many adults that broke free got away they cut their parents off and you know what their toxic parents did in return they pranked called the police they called the police and they said you know what we want you to go check on our adult child my adult daughter my adult son we believe they're having a mental breakdown can you do a mental wellness check we were trying to get them admitted into the psych hospital they will lie on your ******* mental health because they can't control you because you don't want to be around them you want nothing to do with them you go ******* no contact because they refuse to ******* heal and go to ******* family counseling and they're mad that you want to stand on your own two feet and don't you want to be independent you don't want to be a part of the generational trauma you can't get them to see eye to eye you can't get them to be ******* accountable for their toxic behaviors you said enough mom and dad since you stupid motherfuckers don't want to get your ---- together i'm done with y'all oh you can expect revenge they're going to weaponize your mental health against you. Number one, they're going to run a vicious smear campaign and turn your family against you. And the whole narrative with your entire family will be that there's something wrong with you. You're mentally ill. Let's see, what else will they say? You're a little touched. We suspect you're on drugs. We're concerned. We're all going to band together to try to get you admitted into the psych hospital. So we're going to make a fake police report. will have the police do a wellness check on you that's the smear campaign that's what they're gonna tell the whole family they're gonna have the whole family against you y'all that's how fucked up your parents are and the whole time they're the ones that are in need of therapy they're the ones fucked up in the head oh yeah gonna tell the whole family you fucked up you're mentally ill, you're touched, we're concerned for you, the family is concerned, are you on drugs no bitch, I'm tired of all y'all ----, I want nothing to do with y'all, y'all are a disgrace y'all are dysfunctional, y'all protect pedophiles in the family y'all protect abusers, you won't go to therapy to heal the entire family, bitch, you won't deal with your own ******* issues, you won't even get an evaluation to see if you have bipolar disorder bitch but you want to point fingers at your adult children and tell everybody your adult children are fucked up, well if your adult children are fucked up, bitch, where do they get it from, who fucked up their adult children, where is the accountability, bitch, see my parents know not to play with me I will cuss them both the **** out don't you dare talk about my mental health, bitch, unless you want me to outline all the horrible things you've done as parents all the traumatizing things you both have done the despicable violence the sexual molestation that my mother allowed her pedophile her second husband dirty nasty you stinking ass pedophile Your parents have caused you CPTSD, which is an acronym for complex post-traumatic stress disorder. And unfortunately, as much as they want you to forget all the dirty ---- they've done to you, why can't you just get over it? Why can't you forgive? At the end of the day, that's still your mother. At the end of the day, that's still your father. The Bible says honor thy mother. They'll gaslight you and try to get you to forgive and forget when you have PTSD from child abuse and trauma, it doesn't go away overnight, no no no no no, don't work like that, but when you're dealing with abusers, abusers want to restart the abuse cycle, they want you to forget all the dirty horrible things they've done to you and they want a second chance and the third chance and the fourth and the fifth and the sixth, they want a million chances so they can keep coming back into your life to abuse you all over again they're pathological with their abuse. They don't ever stop. That's why they reject therapy. That's why your parents will deny that they have any mental issues or childhood trauma. They will not address it in therapy. They don't feel anything's wrong. They won't be accountable. They need to control you. And in order to control you, they got to get you to come back. No, don't cut family off. We want you to come back. Who are we going to bully if you cut us all off? We need you to come back. you're the scapegoat. But when you stand 10 toes down and say, nah, I set a boundary. I'm done with y'all. I can't live like y'all. I don't care if y'all gossip about me. I'm financially independent. I don't need your money. I don't need your validation. I don't need ---- from you. Don't invite me to ----. I don't want to come the family functions. I don't want to go to church with y'all. **** the weddings, the funerals. **** y'all. Y'all are toxic and you won't do ---- about it. So leave me the **** alone. If I ain't bothering you, don't ring my phone. Don't call me about ----. I don't want nothing from y'all. Leave me alone. Now they're going to spread a vicious smear campaign. Now you're mentally ill. Now you're touched. Now we're concerned for your well-being. Now we think you're on drugs. Something's wrong with you. Let's call the police to do a mental wellness check. That's the narrative, baby. I know my mother has spread this negative ---- about me and my mental health. But what that stupid bitch don't realize is I done beat her to the finish line baby I done went to the therapist and got my paperwork and diagnosis the therapist said cut your mama off your mama is a violent narcissist your grandparents narcissists your father narcissists they are a detriment to your mental health and in order for you to thrive and function in life you have to leave them behind because they refuse to get themselves together mentally and anyone that supports your parents have to be cut off period that's on paper i got my papers babe you could never weaponize and use my mental health against me then to learn that i have autism i should have found out about my autism diagnosis when i was in kindergarten but mom and dad failed at their motherfucking job growing up with autism a developmental disability getting beat on disrespected fat shamed body shamed abusing a disabled child you pieces of ******* ---- yeah y'all both need to be in ******* therapy bitch not me i didn't went to therapy matter of fact i'm so gangster on on on these social media streets you go to my tiktok page do you know how many licensed clinical therapists and psychologists follow my content They love me. They send their clients to watch my TikTok because I be preaching that real ----. I do a podcast once a month with Dr. Lorman. Dr. Lorman is a licensed clinical psychologist. She's worked in the maximum men's prison. She's worked with the murderers and rapists and pedophiles and killers. She invites me to come on her podcast once a month. because she respects me and my intelligence and my knowledge on narcissism so many mental health professionals **** with me so you think my mother and father could tell me ---- **** no I'm self aware I know who the **** I am I've been to therapy bitch I got my diagnosis on paper they failed as parents and they try to weaponize and use my mental health against me and it failed the spotlight is on them and their poor parenting the spotlight is on them and their failure to both go to therapy to address their childhood issues and that's why their relationship with me and my siblings is broken it's because they project their mental issues onto their adult children and try to focus on their children's mental health when they both will not take accountability for causing their children ptsd and trauma if your children are fucked up in the head you're the reason they're fucked up in the head bitch now what are you doing to check yourself when are you going to sit down in a psychologist chair bitch where's your motherfucking paperwork because i got mine where's your ******* diagnosis mom and dad when the **** are you getting evaluated let's talk about that bitch don't focus on my mental health focus on yours bitch yeah now we talking **** with me i'm ready for both my parents i will chew them up and spit them the **** out because they both ******* failed **** i'm a grown-ass woman going to therapy for the ---- they did because they lack accountability and self-awareness they both have ******* mental issues they're both ******* narcissists **** with me it's a new motherfucking day so what i'm going to do and i'm going to empower all my gen xers anyone out there that has suffered severe abuse at the hands of their mother and father i'm going to empower a nation we're not taking it no more parents our parents belong in ******* therapy ain't nothing wrong with you and don't you tolerate them making fun of your mental health if one thing that i have learned on social media if you go on tiktok everybody's fucked up everybody has mental issues don't let your parents weaponize and play with you like that they all got mental problems and they're ******* bullies if any of y'all grew up with adhd autism anything like that learning disability your parents did nothing about it we can start there how they fucked up as parents and bullied you while you had a disability there's so many things i can rip both my parents a new asshole they cannot talk to me until i see their paperwork because when i come the next if i ever see them again and hopefully I don't I honestly want them both to go away permanently but if I ever see them again I will have my paperwork in tow I'll be ready for the ******* smoke I dare either one of them to weaponize my mental health against me I will eat them both the **** alive so on that note y'all I want to assure you there's nothing wrong with you you're not crazy you grew up around crazy motherfuckers and now you're trying to get away and get your life together and it's dawn you're dawning you're sitting there like god damn i was really around a bunch of fucked up motherfuckers wait till you get in therapy and you start unpacking all the ---- you're going to get real disgusted with your parents and your grandparents and your siblings because they won't snap out of their ---- and they were steady trying to you know scapegoat you and point fingers at you and ain't none of them sat in the ******* therapist chair stay away from them y'all stay away and let God punish them let God deal with them I promise you you're going to get blessed your life is going to improve your mental health all your illnesses if you had any illnesses in the body I guarantee they will disappear once you get the **** away from your abusive parents and your family. Do not allow them to weaponize your mental health against you. And on that note, I'm out. Y'all have a blessed, beautiful day. It's been the Spiritual Whistleblower. I do one-on-one coaching. The link to my email address is down below. Feel free to hit me up. I love you guys. Take care.