DO NOT LET YOUR NARCISSISTIC FAMILY SILENCE YOU!!! #npd #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

Hey y'all, Spiritual Whistleblower here. I thought I'd add another video for the holidays. Thanksgiving is this week and then Christmas, whatever you celebrate, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, etc. I'm gonna throw a bonus video in there, you know, because I miss y'all too. And before y'all ask, my TikTok page is just fine. TikTok gives you the option of deactivating your page just like Instagram and Facebook does okay so i'm just taking a little break from TikTok nobody has deleted me i have not been banned my TikTok page is fine i am taking a break i deactivated it okay because i don't don't get in the comment section and start asking me over and over again i'm just going to put it out there i will be back right now i am putting together i told y'all on my other video i'm finishing up a couple books and i need to build um my social media content on other platforms i can't stand ******* Facebook i'm rarely on Facebook but i do have a Facebook page um i hate Instagram and i'm not even going to do Twitter i ******* i don't support Elon Musk so don't even look for me on Twitter uh anyway um this video is for those of you guys that are scared of speaking out against your family. What I'm noticing on TikTok and I'm super proud. I'm so proud. So many people are coming forward and exposing their abusive parents. All these adults and a lot of y'all are just like me. A lot of y'all are finding out that you have undiagnosed ADHD. You have undiagnosed autism because your parents are **** ups and they were too prideful to get you evaluated when you were a child you know so many adults are coming forward and exposing their parents for the pieces of garbage that they are and the crazy thing is like it's not the fact that you know parents our parents are human okay I will always extend grace my mother and father are human but the problem the issue that I have with both of them is the lack of accountability the pointing the fingers my father blames my mother my mother always blames my father um it's everybody else's fault but their own and you know like i told you guys this past summer in july my mother like tried to contact me on instagram in my private messages and i ******* ignored her as you know she she calls herself oh i have so many apologies for you you know there's not a handbook on motherhood. And, and, you know, I just want to see you one last time. Can we meet up privately? Here's my number. Bullshit. And she didn't, you know, she didn't bother to tell me that she loved me. Didn't ask about my daughter in the message. I just saw the message as opportunity for her to manipulate her way back into my life, to do some sort of damage control because I've put her ass on blast all over social media. I wrote a whole book about her abuse and she's probably embarrassed at this point because i know both sides of my family know now that she married a ******* pedophile uh she knew that he ******* molested me i told her when i was a teenager and she still stayed with him she's still married to him now she's got to be all types of humiliated and embarrassed and i don't give a **** **** her you know the damage that narcissistic parents do um i will extend grace for being human and not being the best parent but what i will not extend grace for is the lack of accountability you know they don't want to treat you like an adult i'm almost 50 years old i can assure you they they will always see me as this pushover little girl if you were raised by a narcissistic parent i promise you they do not respect you as adults you will always be in this child position and they will be the authoritative figure talking down to you being condescending trying to tell you how to raise your ******* children trying to actually take your children from you raise your children and then get out in the streets and tell everybody you're a terrible mother call cps on you take you to court and try to get custody of your children i've heard all types of stories listen my mother called cps on me and it backfired on her when my daughter was a baby every and anything that could possibly happen uh my mother has done to me what but i'm proud there's so many women and men coming forward on TikTok and social media and they are exposing their parents left and right especially my gender i'm gen x i'm generation x gen x shout out to all my gen xers our parents were the baby boomers if your parents were from the baby boom boomer generation then they were straight garbage baby boomers are ---- trash ass ******* parents they didn't give birth to us out of love it was basically them they gave birth to us for a couple of reasons number one it was peer pressure from their parents oh you need to get married and have kids and this and that that's the that's the ideal of happiness to have you know get married and have a family and buy a house the whole picket fence american dream which is a bunch of bullshit our parents did all that fucked around and found out it's pure misery it costs money to take care of children it takes a lot of commitment neither of my parents didn't focus on loving us they were too busy fist fighting you know it was all about always about money well you let my my stupid ass grandmother pressure y'all into getting married it was about you know my grandmother wanting you know grandchildren and no no no and what happens is when our miserable baby boomer parents got married they were so ******* miserable in the marriage they bullied their children they took their anger and frustration out on the children we suffered we had to turn into latchkey kids and survive we had to take care of our siblings and cook dinner for our siblings we had to step in and play parent while our parents were in the streets either fighting running the streets or working Gen X my generation had it tough because we had piece of ---- trash parents that got married for the wrong reasons and they had babies to basically trap and control each other they didn't have a baby out of love the baby was to control the baby was about image oh i got a happy family look how happy we look it's about image it was never about an emotional connection with the child never about nurturing loving raising the child up in love it was all about falsehood facade presentation you know what society deems as a happy family you're nothing if you're not married without kids and them motherfuckers all got married and had kids and they were ******* miserable and guess who guess who paid the price for their misery their children Gen X stand up holla where are my Gen Xers so our the baby boomer generation there is such a smugness lack of accountability you talk to them they're ******* dismissive i don't remember that you said i abused you when did that happen i don't i don't ever remember doing that they play ******* dumb they have selective ******* amnesia that didn't happen to you when did that happen when did you get when did you start talking back i didn't raise you to talk back to me like this bitch i'm a grown-ass woman it ain't talking back it's stating facts and holding you accountable for being a pissy ass let me tell y'all something i got an i got a daughter my daughter is 25 years old and i'm gonna tell you the difference between my relationship with my mother and the relationship i have with my daughter and my daughter calls me out for something mom you're wrong mom this that dirt I listen and I say you know what baby I'm gonna hold myself accountable I don't I don't do that with my daughter our communication is totally different from what me and my mother was I if my daughter is bothered by something I did if my daughter feels disrespected anything I've done I am quick to correct myself and hold myself accountable and validate her feelings but our parents the the baby boomers trash ******* trash appalling oh we didn't have a handbook on parenthood bitch yes you did dr spock was the book dr spock there was parental uh handbooks on parenting there was a ******* library there were classes back in the day don't ******* play dumb bitch and it really doesn't take much to be a loving individual you don't need a handbook on how to love somebody jesus christ didn't need a handbook on how to be empathetic and loving towards us so where are all these excuses about why you were not loving and empathetic to your own ******* kids you don't need a ******* handbook to love a child bitch maybe to to learn how to earn money or a skill set so that you can provide for your child but love to actually love a child there is no ******* handbook it should come natural and you know what i find disgusting about our parents is okay let's just say my grandmother May she rest in peace, Vera Mae Gibson. She was a piece of ---- mother towards my mother that's the only grace i will extend to my mother that her mother treated her with such emotional neglect but my mother should have learned from that experience she knows what it feels like to be abandoned, neglected and unloved by her parents, so why would you turn around and abuse your own children after everything you've ******* been through, you know what it feels like. Oh, you think you could just buy some toys? You marry, you married a drug dealer, said, okay, now we have money. I'm just going to buy my kids some toys and make up for all the ---- they've been through. That's not how love works. Our parents do not know how to love. And what's worse when they're confronted on it and you tell them about it, they don't want to hear it. They don't want to be corrected. They don't want to be accountable. So they put you in this position where you have no choice, but to cut them the **** off. Otherwise you're going to continue to be on a merry-go-round, a hamster wheel going nowhere because they're not going to change. They're not going to ******* change. They get worse with age. When I talk to people that cut off their parents, they don't usually cut their parents off overnight. If they cut their parents off after years and years and years of trying, I've tried over and over again, mom, to get you to see things, to get you to be accountable. Can we go to a therapy session? You don't like therapy. You don't even want to be in front of a psychologist. You know, the psychologist is going to hold you ******* accountable. Years and years of trying. And you've put me in this position where you leave me no choice other than to cut you off. Then when I cut you off, you run a vicious smear campaign and you turn the whole family against me, bitch. You turn the family against me. Now you leave me no choice. I got to cut off all my family members, bitch. and then what happens? You and the family start cyber stalking me and then y'all start seeing that I'm much happier now, I'm really happy y'all thought I was gonna be miserable and crawling back and begging for forgiveness and begging y'all to accept me and validate me I got comfortable bitch I got comfortable being peaceful being at peace, I got comfortable, you know, uh because I don't have a dysfunctional family always in my ******* ear on my phone starting drama pulling my name and gossip. I started learning how to be isolated and at peace with myself now that my family was cut off. Thank you for turning the ******* family against me. That's what I needed. I got to go to therapy. I got to heal. My body got to heal. I got a lot of sleep. I got a lot of rest. Now that y'all toxic motherfuckers is out my life. Now y'all are stalking me and y'all don't know how to get back in my life. Y'all want me to come back and no, it don't work like that. You don't push pull and play play games you don't play in my face like that, you turned the family against me now the family has to deal with the consequences for following behind the ringleader, the ringleader and the entire family must be held accountable so i just want to let y'all know there will be multiple attempts to get you to stop from speaking out against your family but i'm here to encourage you to keep speaking out if you have a platform use it use your social media tell your story if you were molested if you were beaten assaulted neglected abandoned by mom or dad tell your story write a book about it put your story in a book and i'm gonna tell you they're gonna try to use all types of bully tactics to silence you you gotta stand strong i've had every i've been threatened with a lawsuit bitch a lawsuit will not get me to shut up that's how you know you're dealing with a narcissist because like like we're seeing diddy y'all y'all know this sean puff daddy diddy a ---- he's in jail right now and he's trying to intimidate and threaten witnesses he's sending out cease and desist letters and threats and all that because he wants to control the narrative of the abuse he abused all these people now he wants to silence them and shut them down with a cease and desist i'm gonna take you to court i'm gonna sue you if you don't shut up no no that cease and desist don't work it holds no weight i've been threatened with with court and every last person that threatened to sue me they disappeared because they knew it was a threat that it did not hold no weight you tried to intimidate me and silence me from ******* exposing you and I still didn't shut up my mother tried to take me to court and failed that's why I will continue to talk about her ass as long as I ******* want she deserves every bit of exposure pleasure piece of ---- piece of ---- bitch comparing your daughters your children you got your children all separated bitch because you the ringleader and you you got them fighting with each other you started this bitch anytime I see you know when I talk to people when I'm coaching people and they say I have a bad relationship with my siblings none of us get along I said blame your parents it's always the parents fault when the children don't get along that's a lack of leadership that's because mom or dad has caused division amongst their children dad is over here gossiping with one child and telling secrets about one child to the other child mom is over here being messy and playing favoritism with her daughter while shitting on her other daughter that's called triangulation both my ******* parents did it don't sit up and complain at holiday time mom and dad when your children don't want to ******* come around you divided them up so guess what you will be held accountable for separating your ******* children yeah i said it it's called triangulation we are in a new era now where what's done in the dark is coming to the light do not let them threaten you with a lawsuit it's just a threat they're gonna say things like oh you're so obsessed that's another thing my mother did my mother when we were in court she told the judge i'm so obsessed with my sister i'm obsessed with you know causing physical harm to the women in the family I'm this and that yes I am obsessed I'm obsessed with exposing the truth I'm if I'm obsessed with exposing the Jezebel spirit and my mother and my sister I'm obsessed with being a truth teller and there's nothing those bitches can do to shut my mouth so if calling me obsessed if you think it's enough to get me to shut my mouth bitch I don't care call me all the insults the names call me obsessed call me a hater call me this and that I am going to tell the truth I hope I get underneath your motherfucking skin I will not be silenced so call me obsessed I will not be silenced oh they'll say all types of things you need help my mama said that too I need help I guess what mom bitch I went and got that help I got a therapist mom and my therapist told me to stay the **** away from you and the rest of the family. And she was right. Since I've cut you off, mom and the whole family, look how much weight I've lost. Look how ******* successful I've become. I have a whole worldwide fan base now, bitch, since I've cut your ass off. How is it possible that I've leveled up since I've cut you and my ******* family off? So my therapist was right. Thanks, mom, for telling family that I need help. I went and got that help. Now it's backfire i don't want ---- to do with you bitch so i'm gonna tell y'all um there will be multiple multiple attempts to silence you from telling the truth talk that is your truth and you are allowed to tell your truth no don't let nobody silence you your family's gonna make several attempts baby stand on business get the police involved don't be afraid of no ******* lawsuit especially if you got receipts i got receipts bitch that's how i got my mother if she if she ever fix her lips to say that's a lie i never abused her well according to Columbia South Carolina Richland County Department of Child Protective Services you and your husband are on record for child abuse and sexual molestation because i ratted on y'all when i was in high school i was a minor i was a child a minor and you cut my face open with a foreign object a curling iron you split my face open so my teachers and my guidance counselor reported your ass to child protective services and then i had an opportunity to tell them about the sexual molestation that your dirty perverted pedophile husband did to me as a young girl that's on record in south carolina that's why you got to keep receipts with these motherfuckers you document everything because they lie they backpedal they dismiss your abuse and trauma they cause all this pain and then they act like they don't know what the **** they did make them stand on business don't do not be intimidated god got you god says touch not my anointed you have an anointing you better act like it you better act like it there will be several attempts to silence you stand on motherfucking business keep your ******* foot on their necks do not be silenced it's a new ******* day. All these abusers and pedos are being exposed. Praise God. It's nothing they can do about it. God is fed up. Y'all have a blessed holiday. I might give y'all one more video. I'm in a great mood. Love you.