YOUR MOTHER IS SPREADING RUMORS ABOUT YOU #narcissist #narcissisticmother #narcissisticabuse #npd

Good morning, good morning. Spiritual Whistleblower here. Hi guys, it's early. I'm out in the park feeding. I like to feed the birds and the squirrels and just listen. You know, it's peaceful and quiet. The park gets really crowded in New York City throughout the day, so come early in the morning. That's when it's best. I enjoy the peace and quiet. Anyway, real quickly, I will be in Toronto, Canada on Wednesday, May 14th. I'm having a workshop. It's a private event. I don't post the address so in order to get the address of the event you will have to purchase a ticket it will automatically email you once you make the purchase um and you'll get the location and details okay i look forward to meeting you guys we're going to cover everything take lots of photos i will have books if you want to purchase books merchandise or you can bring your own book and i'll sign your book a lot of people buy their books ahead of time or they bought my book in the to pass and then just bring it with them to the workshop okay that works too it's all good so Toronto Canada i cannot wait to party with you guys wednesday may 14th uh the link to the tickets is pinned down in my comment section guys okay uh now uh by request i want to talk about uh talk about um smear campaign when it comes from your mother i've been making these mother videos because not just because of my mother, but I think the mothers do more damage to both their sons and daughters. That mother wound is more damaging than the father wound. I think they're both abusive, but because the mother is expected to be nurturing, mothers are supposed to nurture and protect their children. And when you grow up with a mother who does not protect you or nurture you she's emotionally she might be physically present she might be there to pay the bills and provide food on a financial transactional basis as a mother figure however the emotional component is gone she is totally emotionally disconnected and what these parents don't realize is yes a child does require food clothing shelter and if you don't provide food clothing shelter legally you can be penalized you can go to jail your children your children can be taken away from you and put in uh foster care so you know your parents are angry that they have to be financially responsible if they could get away with not being financially responsible a lot of us would have been tossed to the side and abandoned trust me they would have they would have gave up those parental duties and tossed us to the side a lot of them do anyway i've talked to a lot of people who were abandoned by their parents or dumped off on their grandparents to be raised it's really fucked up but what I find the mother wound destroys both the sons and the daughters because she just cannot see that her children need the emotional connection they need to hear I love you they need to hear good job great job mommy's proud of you even though you know you didn't do good let's say you know you had a baseball game or something basketball game or you know and your team lost so you didn't play your best you need your mother to say great job doesn't matter mommy is so proud of you you you played your best that is emotional nurturing and connection you're not going to get that from a narcissistic mother you're just not or if you make bad grades in school, a mother who is nurturing and supportive is going to hold off on being angry and lashing out. She's going to talk to the teacher and say, I want to know what's going on with my child. Why do the grades look like this? Because when my child comes home, I'm helping my child with their homework. So there's an issue. So if the teacher says, well, we find that there's other issues that might be you know messing with your child's learning such as behavioral issues not focusing staring off into you know not paying to paying attention to the teacher but staring off into the to the atmosphere uh fidgeting um impulsive behavior so now we get into ADHD and autism we're getting into the dyslexia not being able to read no matter how many times you know you you're trying to teach the child the child is disengaged in learning so what a narcissistic parent would do like my mother a narcissistic mother ain't trying to hear nothing she's gonna beat you for having bad grades didn't I tell you to get in school and learn what what the **** is this why does your report card look like this she'll beat the **** out of you that's why a lot of us hid our report cards a lot of us did because we knew what was coming so a narcissistic mother is not going to try to hear if the teacher were to tell your narcissistic mother that you're having struggles you're having behavioral issues that narcissistic parent is going to say well you're not about to put a label on my child much i don't i'm not putting my child in special ed education classes uh you know no not my child They're too prideful to get their children therapy or help. You understand? A narcissistic mother is more concerned with her reputation, image, appearances. What will people think about me if they find out my child has a learning disability? Oh my God, it's going to **** up my perfect image as a mother. I don't want people thinking something's wrong with my child. So it's her ego. she's worried about her reputation and what others would think instead of doing the loving nurturing thing and getting her child help and saying **** what everybody thinks keep people out my business and get my baby some help i don't want my baby struggling at home or out in the world and i'm gonna help my baby every step of the way if i gotta go to therapy with my child i'm gonna work with the teachers to get my baby to help not you're not gonna get that from a narcissistic mother she's gonna say **** that ---- I'm not putting my child in therapy **** what the teachers say **** then the child ends up struggling and and going through life fucked up getting bullied by people struggling with everything socially functioning I don't even want to go into that because I went through it so I say the mother wound does more damage than the father wound because a mother will is where we learn empathy we learn compassion we learn self-love and we learn that mom's going to protect us and defend us not when we behave poorly but when we need to be supported when the rest of the world is against us narcissistic mothers don't give that to their children totally disconnected you better be glad that I'm I'm feeding you and you have clothes on your back and a place to sleep be thankful for that otherwise you're ungrateful she's gonna throw in your face that you're being ******* ungrateful so um I want to talk about what you you you know should do in the event that your mother just will not stop spreading lies and gossip and rumors about you oftentimes we find out that yeah family will gossip about you your friends will gossip about you your fake friends all types of people will tell lies and gossip about you but the person in your life that usually does the most damage is your mother the person you least expect the person that you expect to defend and protect you she's doing the most damage to your reputation honey yeah what do you do when your mother has ran a vicious smear campaign and i'm not just talking about as an adult honey your mama has been doing this since you were a child since you were a child when i was younger i actually sat and watched my mother on the telephone with one of her girlfriends talk about my body i can't stand that fat bitch lazy fat bitch all she do is lay around talk about me my body on the phone with one of her girlfriends talking about me like I'm a side chick who slept with her ******* man and come to find out out of me and my brother and sister I'm I'm the only child that worked and paid bills to help my mother my brother wouldn't help my mother and my sister was not required to my sister was spoiled she didn't have to work and help my mother pay bills so I I witnessed my mother on multiple occasions gossip and tearing me down we talked about since childhood honey um and I don't think I've ever shared this with you guys my mother's parents um they had a next door neighbor Smitty I think I don't know if his name was Smitty they had a next door neighbor and those neighbors were elderly like my grandparents and they had a son I think his name was Michael and I remember being a little girl seven eight years old and I would hate walking I go to my grandparents house I would hate to walk outside because this man would flirt with me this man would say oh look at hey you know inappropriate things as a ******* man to a young girl my family knew my mother knew they blew it they blew it over nobody protected you it's a lot of dirty filthy ---- that our family members the elders and our parents they let ---- slide that man used to flirt with me when i was a little girl and i felt so horrible so uncomfortable i would run back inside every time i see this ******* man i gotta do a separate video on how our parents set us up for failure they not only set you up for failure they set up their grandchildren for failure it's just a repetitive cycle they don't teach you how to vet men properly to make sure you're not getting pregnant or married to a narcissist they don't teach you ---- they teach you that you ain't nothing without a man you're not going to be successful if you're not married uh they teach you that um you got to look good you're not going to be accepted by family if you're obese overweight you're going to be constantly talked about and compared to other family members other cousins siblings family is trash yo and that thinking is passed down generation to generation and it's not right it's extremely toxic but you know your mother is going around gossiping about you and what you will want to do is get on the phone with other family members to clear your name or let's say there's a family group chat y'all are on Facebook and y'all have a group chat and y'all are all in this group chat you know talking family ---- and who said what it's always something or y'all are spying they spying on your page and they talking about what you're doing on your your page in this group chat you may want to feel like you need to clear your name up call up your auntie and tell your side of the story call your sister up and tell them your side of story because your mother's out here lying on you so you feel the need to want to clear your name you got receipts you have documentation to shut down your mother's lies let me tell you something don't do it you don't need to get on the phone with none of your family members you don't need to clear your name god's gonna clear your name honey oh he gonna clear your name all you gotta do is walk away time time has a way of revealing the truth better than you ever could there's a famous saying by Sun Tzu. And it says, if you wait by the river long enough, the bodies of your enemies will float on by. I'm going to say it again. If you wait by the river long enough, the bodies of your enemies will float on by. That teaches us that patience, when you have patience and you allow time to do its job time will reveal the truth in the end it always does it exposes the liars yeah better than you could sorry i dropped my glasses so you you let your mama continue to lie you you continue to allow your mama to play victim she did you dirty bullied you allowed motherfuckers to molest you didn't defend, protect you, body shamed you, fat shamed you if you're autistic you know she's a ******* ableist, talked about your mental health but she didn't, she leaves out the part that when she was a young mother she did nothing to help you with your autism like my piece of ---- mother when my teachers told her they started seeing things in me the bitch looked the other way, not my child, you ain't about to put a label on my child so i went through life suffering because i i was autistic i didn't know it i was slow my speech, i needed speech, i need speech therapy right now. I'm getting speech therapy because I have a speech impediment. The thoughts in my brain pop up faster than I can speak them There's a lot of things connected to my autism that I should have gotten help for when I was a child and I didn't So now I got to play catch up and work on this ---- now because my parents failed me Your mother will weaponize your mental illness against you. Your mother will weaponize your disability that she should have taken care of when you were a child. It was her responsibility, her obligation, but she was too prideful. And now that you're an adult and you're struggling with these issues that you had no idea that you had, she's making fun of you. She's starting rumors about your autism. But I guarantee you, your mother has never walked her ass into a psychologist's office and got herself evaluated. No, she's too busy making fun of your mental illness, your disability not realizing that you could have inherited that disability from her. She hasn't gotten herself checked out for autism. She's the reason you're autistic and she's passed it down to you But she's too prideful, she's too scared to learn the truth about herself. So she'll never go get evaluated It's just easier for her to talk ---- about her child. Piece of ---- mother, ignore i know you want to clear your name i know you want to get on the phone with your aunt and tell your side of the story i know you want to get on the phone with your grandmother and tell tell her your mother's been lying on you i got proof grandma here here's receipts here's documentation here's a letter you don't don't don't know we're not clearing up our name you don't have to clear up your name god does all that for you honey your mother will play dumb she'll play like she has amnesia she doesn't remember abusing you she doesn't remember you getting molested she doesn't remember ---- oh but I'm here to tell you yes she does she knows what she did to you and she knows what others have done to you and she knows she failed as a mother protecting and defending you she's a failure and she can't accept it she won't accept it so she'll play professional victim go around telling family her version lies vilifying you you're the villain it's all your fault terrible child terrible daughter oh my god look at my daughter no no no no no no no, leave it alone. He going to get her ass. He's going to get your mother. I done told y'all the story about my nana, my father's mother. She's going through it. She actually thought she was going to get through life with no consequences for the way she has destroyed her son's lives. She had everything planned out. She just knew her youngest baby, her baby boy, was going to take care of her and she's gonna leave him the house the car she had ---- planned out and he had to step in and show her no ma'am no you've got to answer for everything you've done to your children I'm waiting for the day my mother gets a reality check the good lord is going to dog walk her for everything she has done all the lies allowing a pedo to do what he did to me it's not her fault that he did what he did to me that's I don't blame her for that he's a grown-ass man and he should have kept his hands to himself when he married my mother he took vows before God to honor protect and that included the children but he violated those vows before God that's not my mother's fault it's my mother's fault when I brought it to her attention repeatedly she had a she she could have divorced him while he was locked up when he went away to prison she could have been making her escape plans you he did this to my child I could never go back to that man so while he's locked up in prison I'm gonna plan to take care of my kids and divorce this man so when he comes out of prison the divorce papers will be waiting for him no he got out of prison she was right there waiting on him with arms wide open welcoming her pedophile husband back into her home where her children reside that's where I blame her because she knew she knew and she welcomed that nasty dirty nigga back into her life around her children and I stood in his face in front of my mother and I said you know what you did to me I confronted him in front of my mother what do you expect a pedophile to say a pedophile is going to lie through their teeth I never touched you I never did that they all lie we saw how Sean Diddy Combs lied about beating Cassie he got on the camera and said Cassie was trying to destroy him it was all lies and fabrication and in the video they put the video out there of him beating her ass so then he had to get out there and apologize because he was embarrassed pedophiles never tell the truth pedophiles lie on children because they don't want to get exposed so you had a nigga lie I never touched you on it no I confronted him in front of my mother I said you did what you did to me my mother's still married to him that's why I had to get away from her you don't think God's gonna get her, he's already suffering, that man lost all his money and fortune ******* with my mother, he's never been able to bounce back, he's got all these terrible health issues high blood pressure diabetes bad heart stroke God's been kicking his ass and he's never going to recover because he's cursed for from touching a ******* child, now it's my mama's turn, I'm waiting, I'm waiting to, I'm waiting on that phone call God dog walked her ass, she was given a choice to protect her children and she went against it it's not her fault for what he did to me but it's her fault once she was given that information she chose to allow this pedophile back into her home around her children, she gonna pay for that ----, i'm not getting on the phone with no family members and clearing up my name, i'm not talking to none of the family and i'm gonna tell y'all something else, it's a blessing because you're gonna find out which one of your family members support your mother, any of my family members that support my mother support pedophiles because she loves ******* pedophiles and her husband is not the only pedophile she has fucked because the rumors have it that she slept with the pastor of the church he's deceased now I won't say his name but he's a pedophile because my mother was a teenager at the time, my mother has a thing for ******* pedos, I don't know, maybe her grandfather I don't know, maybe, maybe she was molested when she was a little girl by her granddaddy or another man in her family, there's other trauma there that was created by the men in her family that she has not revealed, but she has a thing for pedophiles because she married a ******* pedophile and she's still with that nigga to this day, the family members that support your mama and her bullshit they got to get cut off too it's a blessing when they're revealed you got to allow when your mama spreads the rumors about you you got to sit back and watch to see who's helping her spread the rumors and who's sitting up with her enjoying the gossip because they're your ******* enemy too they're the enemy too they all gotta go whoever supports your mama got to get cut off because that means they endorse enable and support pedophilia they endorse and support child abuse because your mama's a motherfucking child abuser let the smear campaign do its job let it reveal your enemies and your family back away and let him step in he's going to clean house and you will be vindicated and on that note I hope y'all have an amazing day because I'm gonna have an amazing day Toronto Canada I will see you on Wednesday May 14th ticket information is pinned in the comment section I love you guys spiritual whistleblower be blessed