RELATIONSHIPS WITH HUGE AGE GAPS ARE TOXIC #narcissist

Can we talk about relationships where there is a huge age gap? And yes, I mean, whether it's an older man dealing with a younger woman or it can be reversed, an older woman dealing with a much younger man. Let's talk about it. So, you know, we just found out that Deion Sanders and Karuchi Tran have been a couple. They've been dating on the low. I don't believe ---- about her being his goddaughter. You know, I think he likes some young and she's not the only young one. You know, I've seen another young woman that he was creeping behind Tracy Edmonds' back. And Tracy Edmonds is his ex-girlfriend, Babyface That's Babyface's ex-wife. Tracy Edmonds was was in a relationship with Deion Sanders for like 10 years. And she was more age appropriate there. You know, she's close in age with Deion. grown woman businesswoman drop dead gorgeous you know she is much more fitting to be you know his wife even you know she got her own money and everything she don't need his money everything anything but um the rabbit hole goes deep he has a pattern of being a serial cheater he's had two previous ex-wives but the side pieces he has a type he likes them high yellow and young Karrueche is not the only young woman 20s and 30s that Deion has been messing around with he gets around even with um the bladder cancer and the diabetes none of that is stopping him and yes i do believe he is destiny swapping with Karrueche i also think he's a predator and i think Karrueche is also a predator uh she's in it for the money uh she has daddy issues because her father i think her father was not in her life if my understanding if I get the story wrong y'all y'all can correct me in the comment section my understanding is she was raised by her mother and godmother or grandmother her father was not around so she has daddy issues so that's what I want to talk about in this video about these age gap age gap relationships and why people choose to get with someone much older and why a much older person gets with a younger person okay there's a very serious reason behind it and by the way yes Dion wants a young nurse by his side because his health is you know he's old he's probably really insecure and you know he just wants a young thing by his side to take care of him okay a young pretty light-skinned thing and Karuchi is in it for the money okay so it works for both of them but there is like a 20 year age gap there and she's young enough to be his daughter so I'm going to speak from my personal experience as well I once was married you know people attack me on here every day say spiritual whistleblower you don't you ain't got no man you ain't got no husband you don't know what you're talking about baby I done been married and divorced I know what it's like to be married I know you know my ex husband was much older than me like 15 years older and he was abusive and part of the reason he was abusive is because he was much older than me and you know at the time I didn't know myself worth and because my father was a piece of ---- father you know my daddy was not there for me he was lousy at paying child support you know he moved far away to another state thousands of miles away from me and my siblings he was not there okay so I too had daddy issues you know I had a void in me that my father left so when I got married to my much older husband not only was he a partner but I didn't realize at the time I saw a father figure in him he was not rich however He acted like an authoritative figure, authoritative father figure, aside from being a spouse. Once we got married, all hell broke loose. Very controlling, down to him even controlling what I eat, what I wear, threatening me with a weapon. Damn near breaking the bones in my fingers. Gave me a black eye. I had four restraining orders. He kept breaking his restraining orders and going to jail. Very violent, controlling man. And I said, I can't do this. I divorced him after a year. OK, we didn't stay married long because I said I didn't sign up for this. So a lot of women that end up marrying older men, we have daddy issues. okay we have daddy issues we're not narcissists we are codependent and we are raised and groomed by our family to be a pick me and when you're a pick me you know in the back of your mind is i i gotta get married because my family said you ain't ---- without a man you ain't ---- without a husband that's the programming we all have been taught this way okay it doesn't mean you're stupid or a bad person it just means you have to undo the programming that your toxic family has taught you You know, it took me a long time to learn my self-worth and to fix my daddy issues. I will never remarry. I don't want, I think marriage is just a tool for a man to be a bully and very controlling. Marriage is not for me. Now there's the other type of woman, a narcissistic woman will marry a much older man because she's in it for the money and she desperately wants the title of wife, not for the right reasons. She wants to be able to, you know, it's validating to her to talk down to women. That's why you ain't got no man. I got, you know, I'm married. I'm married. She will accept her husband's cheating. Her husband can sleep on her with men and women and she will never divorce him. Her husband can beat on her. She will never divorce him. Those are the long term marriages. A pick me woman, a narcissistic woman will marry a much older man. she too has daddy issues but she is equally toxic as the man okay she's not going to divorce him she's going to cling to the marriage for dear life because that's her identity her whole identity is behind her toxic cheat nest a toxic marriage and she feels because she's deeply insecure she feels she has one up on single women she will tolerate being miserable in her marriage just to say she got a man okay a much older man meanwhile he's stealing her youth and making her miserable you understand and she wants him for his money okay that's another factor he's either paying her bills or she's waiting on him to pass away to collect on his health his life insurance she's in it for the money she don't even like him don't want to sleep with him but she will not divorced him understand ladies now when the huge age gap when it comes to a man it's obvious ladies why a man wants a much younger woman 10 15 20 years younger because in a man's mind a narcissistic man wants to be able to groom manipulate and control a woman with no pushback he don't want you talking back he don't want you to have he don't want you to value yourself you know he wants be able to manipulate you with no issues so the younger the victim the more easier it is for that abusive narcissistic man to to train his victim that's why the older man preys on a much younger woman and if he's much older in his 60s and 70s he has a nurse he knows he's not attractive he knows he's in bad health he knows you know his kids don't want to be ******* bothered with him so he's he needs him a little nurse by his side that's also another reason why these men prey on much younger women and by the way we also can say the same for older women ******* with much younger men we saw this with Dr. Cheyenne Bryant she got called out by Paul Pierce because her lover is nine years younger than her and not only that when she was in her late 30s or whatever he was in his 20s and he will not make her his girlfriend I don't know what the situation is but it's toxic and you would expect more as much ---- as Dr. Cheyenne Bryant pops about you know being high value and this and that what's she doing that's honey you can't date an older man or older you know older mature man on your level no because she doesn't want an older man clocking her and seeing through her manipulation. Dr. Cheyenne Bryant is extremely toxic and manipulative. I too believe she's narcissistic, but I just want to do both sides of the coin. I don't want to make it seem like it's all men. Women do it too. I don't approve of relationships where there's a huge age gap. There's always a predator involved and it's toxic, whether they stay together or not.