Your Narcissistic Mama Loves Men More Than She Loves Her Children #npd #narcissist #narcissistic

Your mama don't know ---- about loving on her own child, but she damn sure know how to love on a ******* man. You know, I get so sick and tired. You know, my parents are baby boomers that whole generation, you know, making excuses for their lack of emotional connection to their children, their lack of empathy. They're highly narcissistic. You know, they make all these ******* excuses. Well, your mama did the best she could. Your daddy did the best he could. You know, they didn't know how to love because their parents didn't really teach them how to love. So, you know, you know, take it easy on them, you know, learn to forgive them. They only could love you as much as they knew how to love you. All that ******* bullshit is nothing but gaslighting and excuses. By the way, there's a famous saying for that type of behavior. And that saying goes like this. Excuses are for the weak and incompetent. You understand me? I'm tired of all the excuses that people make for lazy ass, unloving parents, other than they were providers. They provided food, clothing, shelter. They did the best they could. That's a ******* cop out. It does not require a damn thing to love a child. And what more incentive? Let me, let me tell you something. a lot of us were abused and because we were abused as children we turned around and we had our own children and we loved on our children twice as hard for the lack of love that we didn't receive so i don't want to hear that ---- but we're supposed to give our abusive parents a pass because they don't know what love is they wasn't taught how to love love is inside of you baby god is love you either have it inside of you or you ******* don't and our parents are narcissists narcissists do not have it they have no empathy they're empty inside real talk so you know when it comes to our mothers not loving on their daughters or their sons i call bullshit if it's one thing a narcissistic mother will know how to do is love on a ******* man before she loves on her ******* children she's a pick-me-ass bitch she's male-centered and everything centers around having a man her whole identity is connected to holding on to her relationship a man even if that said man is a disgusting predator even though he's a serial cheater even though he's touching on her daughter and she's looking the other way knowing he's touching on her daughter but in order for him to stick around she knows he has to continue touching on her daughter so she'll treat her daughter like ---- and kick her daughter out on the streets just to keep the nigga around yeah your mama don't know how to love on her children but she damn sure knows how to love on a man i'm tired of the black community excusing these types of trifling mothers black women that do their children like that black women who put men before their daughters black women who allow men to molest their daughters over and over again but treat their daughters like ---- black women that are toxic towards their own children and will put a man before their children are narcissists period point blank and we need to start calling them as such yeah i'm talking about your grandmama your great grandmama your motherfucking aunts your mama all them bitches are narcissistic pick me's they're covert narcissists they worship ******* men and they'll put a man over their children any ******* day and they'll justify it cut the bitch off and let God deal with her ass and trust that nigga that she's clinging on to she don't really like him or want him but she needs him because in her sick twisted mind you know she got daddy issues her daddy must have abandoned her or something so she has not dealt with her daddy issues or her childhood her trauma properly so she she you know lives through her relation her relationship since daddy wasn't there i need to cling on to a man even though he's he's a piece of ---- man i'ma hold on tight to him because my daddy didn't hold on tight to me i got daddy issues i'ma look the other way while this nigga molest my daughter because i just gotta have a ******* man i'm desperate i'm needy i'm insecure but i gotta let the world know that i'm somebody because i was able to hold on and keep a man even though he ain't ---- yep your mama don't know how to love on her children but she know how to love on a toxic nigga cut that bitch off she ain't ----