ABUSIVE MOTHERS CREATE 2 TYPES OF DAUGHTERS #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

Hey y'all, Spiritual Whistleblower here. How y'all doing? Real quickly, I will be in Toronto, Canada on Wednesday, May 14th. So all my Canadians, if you're going to be around and you want to come out and link up with me, I might go out afterwards for dinner and drink. So I invite you to my Narcissistic Abuse Relationship Workshop. This is a private event. I do not release the address to the public for safety reasons. You can purchase a ticket on Eventbrite And I will email you directly the address. Okay. That's for your protection and mine. I never publicize where my events are being held. Okay. Always keep in mind that this is, you know, a group of domestic violence survivors. Narcissistic abuse is domestic violence. So I'm always mindful of my supporters. Okay. So yes, Wednesday, May 14th, I will post a link to the tickets down below. I will be signing books, taking photographs with you guys. You have an opportunity to ask any questions. We could talk about any and everything pertaining to narcissistic abuse, your family, your lovers, siblings, you know, maybe coworkers, your boss, friendships. We're going to talk about everything. So Toronto, Canada, I will see you May 14th. That's from three to six private event. The info is in the link down below pinned in the comment section. See you soon, Toronto. I love Toronto. It's such an amazing city. I can't get enough of it. Now, I want to talk about the narcissistic mother, you know, because so I think so many men and women, I know I talk about, you know, narcissistic mothers and how they bully, especially in the African-American community, they bully their daughters. But I think with men, so many black men, you know, and other races may be able to relate but i i can only speak as a black woman and what i've witnessed i have a brother he's going through it you know he literally hates my mother i think it's turned him into a misogynist he has a mother a deep-rooted mother wound and i understand because she was horrible to both of us but i think um that the mother wound does more damage to both men and women than the father wound because you're our mothers are expected to be loving and nurturing and soft and and you know hugs and kisses and kiss my boo-boo mommy and and you know she's supposed to protect you and defend you from abusers and bullies but that never happens when your mama's a narcissist so you know with women we go around choosing men who behave like our mamas and these men abuse us and you know men when they suffer from a mother wound they bully every single woman they get into a relationship with they they really want to bully and punch and beat up their mother but because society pressures them to stay loyal to their mama despite her her abusive behavior and what she's done she might have molested him even in the back of his mind he feels guilty you know if he turns on his mama what will the family think of me what will my co-workers think of me you know society teaches me to stay loyal to my mama no matter what even though I want to slap the ******* ---- out of her so he represses that anger and when he gets into a relationship be it his baby mama his wife whoever he will bully every single woman he will hop from woman to woman victim to victim and his mother issues will be, that's where he gets the vent. Whoever he's dealing with at the moment, she's going to catch it because he has a deep rooted hatred towards his mama, his narcissistic mama. I've watched my brother deal with his mother issues for a long time. My mother cut both of us very deeply. So, um, in this video, I want to talk about how the narcissistic mother she creates two types of daughters now many of you that follow my content you have sisters that are toxic and I've done videos on this before I've done I know I spoke on the narcissistic father you know he has two types of daughters too but um the narcissistic mother she creates two types of daughters okay the first type of daughter is you you are the scapegoat you are you would you know if you ever seen the movie Cinderella Cinderella was the scapegoat she was worked to the to the bone she was a slave in the house cooked clean kept after her stepmother and her two horrible sisters they bullied and mistreated Cinderella Cinderella was a scapegoat now the other type of daughter that the narcissistic mother will create is the golden child and that golden child the other daughter is a copy a carbon duplicate copy of the mother she's toxic like your mother she's narcissistic like your mother your sister whether she's older or younger than you your mother will groom her and mold her to become a duplicate of herself I have a sister and when I tell you she's just like my mother they talk alike their mannerisms are the same they sit up and gossip about people the same they're both two-faced backstabbers mean-spirited mean girls horrible ******* broken ass character but fake fake church going fake fake you know praise the lord this and all that I'm a good girl no that's fake because I've seen the nasty dirty side so my sister is a narcissist because her mama trained her to be a narcissist I've said this repeatedly I've written a book called I can't stand my mother and on the front of the book cover I have you know the mother and daughter standing there together and you see it clearly narc mother narc sister that's because your mother created your sister to be a duplicate you're gonna be the scapegoat child and your mother's gonna teach your sister to gossip about you bully you mistreat you stalk you she'll your mama will even train your sister to pretend like she loves you just so your sister can get close to you to get in your personal business and once you share your personal business with your sister anything private secretive confidential your sister with her two-faced snake ass is going to run back to your mother and tell her everything your sister is a shitty human being because she was raised by a shitty human being and no matter how much you try to tell your sister to snap out of it can't you see what mom is doing can't you see that mom is a master manipulator can't you see that mom does not want us coming together and loving each other my mother will sit up and complain during the holiday time I wish my children would get along and come home for the holidays. But my mother will not be accountable for causing the division amongst her children. She's the reason her children don't like each other. That's why they don't come around during the holidays. But then your mama will sit back and play victim and act like she don't know why her children just won't come around. They don't get along. The bitch starts problems with her children. She knows exactly what the **** she's doing. And she don't want you and your sister getting close. She knows your sister is a weak minded bitch your sister is such a dunce an airhead your mama's gotta hold on her all your mama gotta do is toss her a couple of dollars and buy her some jewelry or some gifts or whatever pay a couple bills and your sister will fall in line your sister will sell her soul just to keep on being your mother's personal lapdog your sister is dumb as **** she has no integrity no moral compass she does not know how to stand up to your mama because she's scared of your mama you're not scared of your mama. So I'm going to play this clip really fast. This small clip, it's like 20 seconds long. I'm going to stick it in this video right now. This is Dr. Amanda Hanson. Now, if you don't know who Dr. Amanda Hanson is, she's a clinical psychologist. Excellent content. Dr. Hanson made an excellent video and she talks about how the abusive mother creates two types of daughters. I want you to watch it real quick and then I'm going to come back and speak on the video. Abusive mothers create two types of women, a copy of herself or a complete change maker. That daughter will flip the whole world upside down if she has to in order to heal. She heals her lineage, completely changes its direction. And we don't speak enough about those women. So now you see that Dr. Hanson basically confirmed everything I've been saying to y'all. I've made several videos on this. that's how I know true and true my mother is a motherfucking narcissist a ******* sociopath she created two types of daughters one that she could bully and one that would idolize her a carbon copy duplicate someone to idolize her and be just like her and she pits them against each other your mother is incredibly demonic any parent that does this to their children has a lot of psychological issues. She's fucked up in the head. You're supposed to promote love amongst your children. You're supposed to teach your children to love and support each other. You don't triangulate them against each other. You don't tell one that she's more prettier than the other or use one for their money and talk about them like a dog to the other. Your mother has been playing these ******* games for years since y'all were little children, but it's a new motherfucking day. That's why you got to be the one to put a stop to this. When you cut your mama and sister off, it forces your mama to turn on your sister. They'll turn on each other because they can't get to you. You're not having it anymore. You will not use me, abuse me and play me against my sister. I will not participate in this triangulation game. And I will call you out every time for being a piece of ---- mother and playing your children against each other like that and lying about the jealousy that's another thing your mama will say you know you're jealous of your sister you are way prettier lord knows you are way more educated than your sister you have a lot more awards accolades you honey your sister can't keep up with you so who's really jealous of who your mama's motherfucking jealous for sure but she's going to continue because your sister is weak-minded a ******* airhead and can't think for herself she lets her mama dictate everything to her she gonna go right along with the narrative that you're jealous of her and the whole time it's the other way around baby you shitting on your sister and you're drop dead gorgeous and your body looks better than your sister's they know what time it is you the real motherfucking baddie but let them keep deluding themselves cut them off and let them turn that toxic energy on each other you don't play that game anymore you bowed out gracefully and you got all you can concern with now is thriving and surviving staying successful and minding your ******* business they're going to stalk you because they don't have their cinderella around to bully anymore now check that