How to Keep an Open Heart in a Difficult World with Michael Gayner

It’s easy to close ourselves off when the world—or the people around us—feel difficult, painful, or overwhelming. Guest teacher Michael Gayner explores the Four Immeasurables—equanimity, loving-kindness, compassion, and sympathetic joy—and how they can help us meet ourselves and others with greater wisdom and care. He looks at what it means to keep an open heart in difficult situations, including how to care for people we don’t necessarily like without becoming overwhelmed.

• 00:00 — How compassion, wisdom, and skillful means work together
• 03:20 — The Four Karmas: pacifying, enriching, magnetizing, and destroying
• 07:56 — Equanimity as the foundation for meeting experience with openness
• 10:25 — Loving-kindness: genuinely wishing happiness and well-being for others
• 16:13 — Compassion: opening your heart to suffering without turning away
• 18:17 — Sympathetic joy—and what envy and jealousy can teach us
• 24:04 — Healthy boundaries vs. boundaries that close us off from the world
• 27:35 — Extending compassion toward people who are difficult to love
• 38:26 — Why you can love and care for someone even when you don’t like them
• 42:14 — When meditation isn’t what you need—and why that’s okay

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