آقای دکتر مهدی اولیایی در گفتوگو با بهاره لاوی درباره اینکه چطور می توانیم چرخه خواب منظم و با کیفیت داشته باشیم توضیح میدهند.
خواب و سلامت روان یک رابطه دو سویه دارند. به این معنی که هر کدام بر دیگری تاثیر میگذارد. یکی از تاثیرات کیفیت خواب، کاهش دقت و تمرکز است. این روزها ما ایرانیان بخاطر زیست در بحران و افزایش اضطراب، ممکن است کیفیت خواب خوبی نداشته باشیم و همین امر روی زندگی روزانه ما تاثیر بگذارد.
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Today's guest on our program is Mr. Dr. Behdad Olyai, a psychologist and clinical psychologist. Welcome, Dr. Olyai.
Thank you so much for your presence and for the dear audience. I am truly delighted to serve you and the beloved viewers, and I appreciate your prayers. I hope you all have a blessed and prosperous life.
Mr. Doctor, many of our colleagues have recently become aware of a certain phenomenon that may have not yet reached you or perhaps never occurred to you before.
Many people also feel that they lack the same level of precision and focus in their daily lives, and perhaps this has been a trend over the past year. The question is whether this is a normal pattern or a serious and alarming issue, and whether it might continue indefinitely.
It's very important to me that we also discuss this topic—why this sustained attention and focus persists, and how you might establish a different kind of connection with it. Maybe just sitting with it without trying to fix it could turn out to be the best approach.
If we want to get into other people's problems, our own problems will become even more complicated. For example, issues like IDH or other problems— if we want to delve into this topic.
But I think that under current circumstances, given the experience I've had with people I've been involved with in situations like the one we're in now, one of the main issues—or key factors—that originally led to people losing focus or attention is the issue of sleep.
Sleep is one of the essential needs of humans, just as we need nutrition, safety, and oxygen—we also need sleep.
If disruptions occur in our sleep cycle, we will undoubtedly experience a range of problems in focus, attention, learning, and memory.
During sleep, the brain performs essential maintenance tasks. It organizes and processes the information gathered throughout the day, clearing out mental clutter and refining memories.
One is that these neural connections that have occurred—now, in essence, I wish you good health by regulating neural networks and such, and the third point, which is very important and directly related to the issue of focus, attention, and memory.
It's a detoxification process that occurs in the brain during sleep at night. When you're asleep at night, a series of toxins—various types of waste materials that have accumulated in the brain throughout the day—are cleared out during your nighttime sleep.
If this event does not occur, the brain enters a state that we can now call a slack, tired state, and an uncoordinated state, which causes our concentration and attention in our daily lives to deteriorate.
So, if we want to draw a very simple conclusion, we can say quite simply and clearly that if our sleep cycle is disrupted at night—because the brain is unable to carry out those necessary adjustments—then our sleep is affected.
Carry out Samzadai's task based on the information obtained; we will directly encounter difficulties in focus and attention in preparing the day.
When our spiritual routine is actually disrupted, we experience spiritual pressure and struggle to bear it, and we don't have a good night's sleep.
We fully understand that many of the points you've mentioned may be relevant to individuals who have physiological issues, genetic conditions, or specific disorders.
But the issue we face is that we are now in a situation where everyone is exposed, and the psychological pressure is extremely intense.
As we live in such a chaotic environment, the news coming in is exerting such a profound spiritual pressure on us.
I opened the envelope on Wednesday, but I can't remember what I wanted to take out from inside the envelope.
Either I'm talking with my colleague in the middle of a meeting, or I'm talking behind Elhan—I can't remember.
This issue, as far as I'm concerned, depends on the circumstances.
And now, this question is really important to me.
For the me who doesn't have any of those scientists and merely through a position
Now that the two of you have actually improved, what can we do for you?
Now I would like us to see what we can do.
When we start working on the project, we need to address three issues.
One is that, first of all, where is our sleep problem?
Does it go after our sleep?
Or is it possible for us to preserve our dreams?
Do we sleep little?
How long is our sleep duration?
Is it a nightmare?
We could possibly do it this way now.
But three issues that are very important are those we need to examine carefully.
What behaviors do we have?
How are your sleeping habits?
What time are we in bed?
How much of the time since we've been in bed have we actually been sleeping?
What behaviors do we exhibit if we don't dream?
If these tectonic movements were to continue as they are now
All that you said
We Iranians are all inside the country.
or outside the country
A series of geological events
that can
Very precise and straightforward
Problems from our dreams bring us here.
These are the tectonic movements in themselves
They don't change dreams
That's where the problem arises.
that
That means phase two
Where we are
Something happens every now and then.
And the first night
Let's go to sleep.
We don't have enough sleep.
We sleep badly.
Or we don't sleep
We see so many news stories.
Either we find the right path now, or we don't.
We sleep for two or three hours.
Or other events happen
This is happening.
In
Process
Next
I'm coming, what are we doing?
A series of behaviors
We show our true selves at the core.
that these behaviors
Starting commands
I am a dreamer.
That is to say
It's disrupting our sleep cycle.
one of the most important ones
Dreaming during the day
Dream of Gibran
Well, we didn't sleep all night.
We dream during the day.
We sleep every day.
When the day we sleep
Good night again
He doesn't go to sleep.
Well, his sleep won't come.
We sleep more after fasting.
And from the cycle, they are intertwined.
One of them
He was forced to go to bed.
That means you're a one-hour person
Just decide already
And you'd say, well, every night I
This accident that is happening
You go to your bed.
And there
It won't go into your dream.
When you can't fall asleep
Other agreements will also take place.
Negative thoughts
I'm going to sell you some rice that
Passing
Issues that occurred at the end of the day
especially under the current circumstances we are in
We have plenty of opportunities available.
So that the news could
Let's take a look
What is going to happen?
The agreement that takes place is that
You'll feel sleepy.
The dose was restored after two more hours of sleep.
You're doing algebra.
And you start
To a series of behaviors
And other thoughts that they have already
This wheel is turning too slowly.
And focus
Your attention and memory
It wakes up more disturbances.
What kind of behavior is that?
That's the kind of behavior you no longer see in today's society.
You're already exhausted, so sleep won't come anymore.
This cycle is falling apart.
And the last behavior which
It makes the work very hard for him/her.
He doesn't come out of the bedroom.
You stay in bed and
You start looking at the clock
Time lost
You who are doing it
For sleeping as well
Not set
Those kinds of people he has
Not equalized in the balance
And you focus and attention and
Learning and everything about you all together
Gone
My solution is heading toward these things already.
So, we first need to understand what these issues are all about?
What's our solution? Our solution is that
The first thing we do is this:
As far as possible
The river's dream
Let's not have it
That means even
Even if
We slept for one hour that night.
Let's not have a daytime nap.
Now, if we are in cultures
Like our culture, like
Like the Greeks, like the Spaniards
That they have bad dreams with force
We shouldn't stay for more than half an hour.
It means the limit is half an hour.
The other second solution is
I must
When we think
My room and bedroom
And after a quarter of an hour
Our sleep takes us, let's go to the bedroom.
Time to go to sleep
You are more than
Twenty-five minutes and twenty minutes
It shouldn't be, if it exists
I have to take the bedroom window out.
Outwardly, of course
Gentle movements
Let's keep it calm, television
We won't see each other, and we won't use mobile phones.
What news shall we make? Only these, all of them
When you sit without waking up
especially under these circumstances
We are who we are; our dreams don't take us away.
Let's go outside
If we were to go out from the bedroom
Let's see the news, what should we do about Mobile?
We'll check the news again; the nervous system won't be reactivated.
And your sleep doesn't come.
I assure you that as far as possible
It's possible.
Activities
Let's have a body
On the way home
especially individuals who
They have jobs that
No physical activity
Physical activity is extremely important.
For adjusting focus
Attention setting
I will serve you with diligence.
the problem of sleep
The other issue is nutrition.
It has four main problems.
One of them
The coil
Very much
Zararozian is doing it.
Not just for the body, but also for your service
I will be careful.
The gist and these things
For adjusting the settings
Sleep settings
These attention focuses
Zararozian is having it himself.
Eating more than necessary
Aid of the lion
Because of this
One of the issues concerning attention and focus
What about this one?
ADHD differences are the same and
You know it too, we know it
We know that
Noustan in
Blood and bone
It can be very much
In disputes
Pay attention and focus.
Mr. Doctor, I know that
Your primary assignment is in
It's a neurosciences department.
And the topic of the dream
Very good
You have examined it from various aspects for us.
But I know it's a good skill.
They are here
Psychotherapy
Psychology
You have native waves.
And I think that
A little bit about
In fact, that part
How much do respiratory system supplements increase?
How much can they do?
Calm letters
And carried out
For someone who
In reality, the problem of hand-foot-and-mouth disease does not go away.
that is the root of this
Insomnia
It's a strabismus-related insomnia.
A little bit more to
It's acceptable, and this one as well
How can we get the strab ammon?
Let's reduce the days of hardship together.
Let's talk about it.
Yes, definitely
There is a very big difference.
Between breathing
And
Breathe
The announcement that we
Currently as
Techniques
Various
Facing the ground
We use them with caution.
especially
Panic attacks
That's really a nice day.
He is caught in it.
It's very understandable.
One of
Techniques, breathing technique
Abdominal breathing
It means you should sleep on your side.
Put a heavy book on your complaint.
Drawn out in breath
If this book went completely up and down
You know how to do abdominal breathing, right?
His breath
You know, don't you?
If not, breathing is done only here.
This breathing
Working hours that are more important than many others
Now you mentioned psychotherapy.
Accidentally, attention problem
To the counter that this
What?
Maybe sometimes
Let's keep faith in power.
that if one focuses on a subject
Don't think for 24 hours
We didn't attach importance to that matter.
Oya
If regarding that subject
Madam
We will not delve into that aspect.
We are not good people.
A complete and sufficient human
I must
Madam, let us be concerned.
If I were to do it now
In my country, those things happen.
If here
Madam, don't worry.
So, in a way
I feel embarrassed to do it.
Some people
Because it wants to keep you alive
The main issue with it is its complexity.
His main problem isn't happiness.
No, not happiness, not other things
The main issue isn't that it keeps you alive.
Then he wants to make a prediction.
When it wants to make a prediction
It drains all your energy.
You're joking
Think back, return to the past
Proceed.
That's why you've made your eyes so sharp, to catch them properly.
This is one
What she does
The other thing is all the scenarios that will happen in the future
He wants you to review it.
And have an answer for them.
They also to you
A series of
They give us problems, and now we tell them
Overthinking
And the scenario will be set.
All of these
The reason makes you worried
Increase it.
What can be done?
It's very simple, but it requires practice.
That's you
Your attention
With regard to issues
Divide it evenly.
You have a daily life.
You have a job, you have a life.
You have academic qualifications.
I don't know how to prepare the food.
And it must be
Friends, bring your children along.
For example, bring them from school and let them see.
You have a daily life.
Install this dual-program for yourself
Come on, let's say
Yes
Attention must be paid to these issues.
But the one that I am
To my daily chores
Drawing or thinking that
I can't do my daily chores.
For the sake of the heart
These events are happening.
This is a belief
Like individuals who think
I can't go back until they're feeling better.
Piyaderfi
You first have to go to the pier.
You'll be fine from now on.
What can be done
such as when
Between 5 to 6 weeks after that
One hour two hours
As you wish
Be specific with your time
Specify every time
Good morning, you're waking up from sleep.
You are at the bottom of the university today.
You are at work.
These thoughts come to you
These ones
Do it when that time comes
Specified
It's very hard.
Just like you can't do it in half an hour
Become a violinist in the violin class
You have a habit, a mental habit.
A thought-provoking mental image
You must have lived for a good many years.
You can't change me with just a conversation.
You need these exercises.
Our problem is not with our own thoughts.
Human Day
66-7 visited
Almost 700 thoughts were swirling in his head.
That's where our problem lies.
What do we do with these thoughts?
that we have mental and intellectual drivers
Are we going to get involved with all of them?
Yes
Madam, we think of them all.
Are we always taking them all along?
Yes
When a thought comes to our mind, we think about it.
Every thought is real.
Or do we think that every thought is to
It's real.
How are your feelings?
I feel bad.
I feel like, for example
Adam
In the situation we are in, Idehanah
Adam very much
It won't help at all.
Since everyone here is beneath my umbrella, let's not bother with useless people.
Is it real feeling?
No
Most human thoughts do not go toward reality.
It is indeed real.
Feelings are also like this, you know
A series of signals exist.
There are some physical discomforts.
that are given to us
The problem is that
Let us learn
that
Let's plan it.
For
My thoughts
Where do we address these?
We do it like this.
If I call you by phone
You have several options.
Or could you please answer?
You can't even give an answer
Or you could
Answer, tell me that I can at three o'clock.
Call me.
That's how my thoughts are.
Next time they come for you
especially in these days when negative thoughts are abundant
What can we do about this?
Or we could address them.
Madam, well, our lives would be disrupted
We get tired.
We were leaving work.
I'm very busy with school, work, and life.
Some say no, but I'm just doing my job.
I am worried too.
I'm eating too, for example.
I'm also taking a name.
I see my thoughts too.
But now, make me do this 6-hour bad job
When I get home and look at the thoughts
Anxious between 5 and 6
I've been worrying for two whole hours.
A bunch of them as well
Don't answer the phone
What do you do with thoughts?
Do you want to circulate it?
This is the worst drink
We know that our nervous system
Whatever he wants, he'll circulate it.
He wants to get acquainted with her, he wants to know her thoughts.
But if we accept
After we had been through
After these events, it's heading toward something.
It's really hard, too.
You know it
I do not use the language of Bouira.
I'm facing a disaster, I'm making use of it.
These days
Since we've already passed beyond Bouira as well
An ordinary life
Anyway, whatever happens now
After we go south
It's not like that.
If we had a life
Here are the daily chores, the same as always.
Let's control those thoughts ourselves.
Even thoughts, please forgive them.
I'll fix this interface here.
Because I was very tired
Now I myself unfortunately made use of it
I used the control panel.
That is not correct.
Because in the realm of thoughts and emotions
I must do more than just manage the interface
Let's make use of it
Because when we say control
Maybe we should go to the quick suppression and society
When we say management
That is, something that enables us to
Let's accept a few quick issues.
And one of the issues
that we must accept now
And it's very hard as well.
It is incompatible with human nature.
From the justice of the bottle
And ambiguity regarding issues
that might possibly happen in the future
Thank you, Dr. Aaliya.
Dear, many points
You said it's important and urgent.
Thank you for your time
And if you had the energy and were in the program
You're welcome.
I thank you too.
I hope that
Materials for the audience
This program has been useful.
And the longing
I am in good health and at peace.
For each and every friend