“My New Husband Lied About His Net Worth”

[Music] brought to you by the every dollar app start budgeting for free today today's question comes from Veronica in Texas my husband and I were married a few months ago before the wedding he told me he was a successful businessman and had a net worth of just under a million he had stories about properties he owned Farm leases and businesses he has invested in we lived together before marriage and he rarely help with household bills using the excuse that my income can handle the regular expenses and he would cover the stuff when it came up naturally uhoh now that we're legally married he admitted his stories were lies he doesn't have any assets and has over $150,000 in debt that he is behind on I am freaking out I made plans for my business based on his promises to contribute more into our shared expenses I have some debt from our wedding and the slow months in my business I'm not sure how I can keep supporting the whole household why while he pays his debt off where do I go from here I would go straight to counseling I don't know anywhere else to go when the your relationship was built on a throne of Lies I would go straight to the judge and I would get the marriage and olded I think this is It's a farce this is a fraud she has been defrauded this is not a marriage problem where we want to work out some differences this is straight up fraud I hope you know I really don't care what the audience thinks if they think I'm wrong there I really don't as I think this is such a fraudulent deal this is she's been completely duped to the point him conning her yes it sounds like that's Bas on what I'm reading the thread and pattern of lies I'm going the nuclear option the uh studio audience seems to be half with me on this one I I think I think this is not a counseling thing this is a fraud and uh this is nope we're done and I go to the judge and I tell the judge and and we get this thing annulled and then she moves on with her life now give him the chance to get remarried if he fixes his life but this is this was entered into un such de ception I just don't know how you go well we should go see a therapist I'm not knocking your answer no I I think that was me being kind here to say do you think I'm being outrageous I I don't know that there's hope for this marriage I'll say that I don't think it's a marriage I don't think you can rebuild from that level of yeah you know dishonesty and false pretenses so Veronica if I mean James doesn't make these up these are real emails that we get people thinking that we make these up for great content this is just the state of America America guys I don't know what to tell you dark stuff yeah I I wouldn't yeah this is done done immediately and the fact that she had no idea is also worrisome there was no signs that this guy was like what is he doing all day well I you know what I don't want to pile on she's been lied to but I think there were some signs I I knew where this was going I didn't know where the email was going but as soon as the old uh he said he was worth this but he didn't help out when we were living together cuz he was like well it's enough to live off yours I'll handle the big stuff I mean the the the detector was gone the farm leasing is a very specific lie I don't know that I could even that was not on my bingo card right that he had a farm lease this is a fraud this is a complete charl this guy might need to go to jail maybe but he's definitely going to uh the courthouse 100% yikes create your free every doll budget today the simplest way to budget for your life