I Got $3,100,000 From My Divorce

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start budgeting for free today I just
went through a divorce or finalized it
recently it took a while um and I've
been a stay-at-home mom during my entire
marriage for um the past 14 years anyway
um I got what I consider a pretty good
amount of money and I'm just curious I
don't really know what to do with it I
let my ex-husband handle every single
bit of finances I never knew how much
money we had
anything um so how much are you
getting um well there's a couple
components to it I got a check for 1.1
million okay um I got a 401k for 715,000
okay and then um
$115,000 per month for the next uh seven
years okay how old are you I'm
40 okay so you've got a guaranteed
income for for the next seven years
that's nice okay um okay great so tell
me your
question okay so my question is I'm
completely debt free I also don't own a
home because I just got divorced okay um
so you need a place to live right I'm
renting right now which is $3600 a month
which I feel like is really expensive it
is um it's also all bills paid so so my
question I guess is um I've got like
$95,000 in a high yield savings account
I started a a
Ross Ira I'm like totally I know nothing
about Finance so I've just been trying
to learn just in the last month or so um
anyway my question basically is a can I
live like with can I live off of part of
this money like off of the monthly
income or do I need to get a significant
job
well the good news is the good news is
is you do have a monthly income for the
next seven years so you've got some time
to reinvent yourself and figure out what
you want to do with life and if I were
you obviously you don't need $155,000
per month figure out what do I need
what's a what's a fair budget for me um
maybe it's $7,000 a month and then you
take the rest and you're you invest it
every single month right so okay that's
thing one you've been bought time to
figure out a career path for you and I'm
going to toss it can in a moment for
that but let's talk about the rest of
the income that that you have so let's
say just for in just to keep it simple
let's say you invest half of what you're
getting every single month for the next
seven years so around 7 and half th000
or 7 and half thousand and then you've
got 1.1 million that's a check right yes
yes and I didn't know what to do with
that so I just put it in a money market
account because I didn't even know how
to deposit that great I I think that's a
good place to start what I want my
homework for you is I want you to start
learning about investing I want you to
start understanding okay I know husband
ex-husband used to do it but it's now
time for you to start learning because
the time is going to come where you're
going to need to invest this and you're
going to want to understand it you don't
want to just hand a check for for $1.1
million over to anybody and say here you
handle this you're going to want to say
okay I get it and a great place to start
is here you know here at Ramsey we do
teach that in investing is a better
place for you to build long-term wealth
than a money market account or a high
yield savings account simply because of
rate of return right if you invest that
money you'll get a higher uh compound
interest rate of return on that so it'll
grow faster and so I would tell you to
get hooked up with a smart Vestor Pro um
they're going to have the heart of a
teacher and they're going to be able to
teach you about this and that's the key
thing tell them I don't want to invest
anything yet I just want to learn right
and they're going to ultimately have you
invested in a way that's
um uh four different types we're
spreading it out it's not going to be
high risk it's not going to be just in a
set of stocks but I want you to
understand that so when the time comes
we are investing that check but in the
meantime we're getting with a smart
Fester Pro to teach us and then as far
as the $715,000 401K yeah leave it let
it grow you're probably probably going
to have to do a direct transfer rollover
into an IRA and so the smart festor Pro
is going to help you do that and then
for you now it's all about career and
what you're going to do with your life
because you're super young I got a
couple quick questions on the money
first so the 715,000 how old are you I'm
40 oh my gosh it's going to be so much
money so the 715 that that is in the
401K and that then that's your that is
going to be a lot of money uh what is
that going to be in 30 years okay did
you tell me you're 40 now yeah she's 40
okay so let's just say you retire I
don't know let's say 65 does that sound
good okay okay let's say you add nothing
to it that right there is going to be $8
million holy cow just not touching it
the reason I went to that Susan is
because on this work thing I th this may
or may not be a thing now how old are
the
kids um they're 14 and 11 my other thing
is can I buy a house I was going to say
that I was working which money do I use
I would take the the 1.1 the one one
check is is what you need to do plus you
already have 95,000 in another savings
account so I was going to ask you what
is a modest house in a nice area what is
a house price you know your area for you
and the kiddos what does that look like
what's the what's the money on that I
mean right now there's like nothing to
buy I've been looking um I mean there's
a a nice home for 500,000 that okay I
it's we need let's just use as an
example okay so if I'm you and and then
I'm going to pay cash for the house
because right now you're paying $3600 a
month in rent yeah so you take just
little bit less than half of the 1.1 and
you've got it paid for a house now that
monthly budget which I'm using is the
15,000 you're getting in the
settlement now that 3600 was coming out
of the 15K it's not anymore right and
your utilities and things like are going
to be nothing you still got the two k in
school so so I would come up with the
every dollar budget and and and budget
off of the 15 and I would do the the
some type of an investment strategy
based on what a smart investor Pro tells
you because Jade already proved to you
you don't have to put another Penny and
I'm not saying not to but I'm guessing
I'm guessing their investment strategy
is going to be you're going to diversify
some stuff because right now uh you are
more than fine Susan like you're going
to be very very wealthy and uh based on
just the 401K and what it does over time
so for me if I were you I I would take
my time you just came out of this
divorce you've just settled I'm fine
with you renting for a little bit longer
you're saying the market right now is
not a lot on the market let's see what
happens after this presidential election
the point is grieve stay cool the 3600
while it's a little expensive it's not
even phasing you I would take my time
I'd buy a nice house cash MH and you
still have over half a million dollars
to invest and when you invest it you're
probably going to look for something
that's non-retirement something that you
can get to sooner that's in some sort of
a bridge account so that you can access
it you know before I agree with that and
that that should be the advice that
you yeah but for seven years my goodness
but here's the deal um you're going to
have some margin in that monthly as well
that's $180,000 a year for the next
seven years yeah you're good so from a
standpoint of work uh hang on the line
we'll give the the the book find the
work you're wired to do in the gate
clear assessment but that is a relaxed
like what would I do if I didn't have to
work which by the way you don't have to
you don't have to I was just talking
purpose yeah so sorry we're running out
of time Susan hang on the line we'll get
that to you but thank you for the call
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