상위 0.1%들과 일하고 깨달았다. 말을 줄여야 하는 이유 (한석준 아나운서 4부)

If you just want to be trusted with words, you can use good pronunciation and tone. People who meet for the first time can be trusted like that. But in the workplace, at school, and in a relationship where you have to meet for a long time, the essence of this person is revealed. There may be something wrong in life. But bad people just say no first. But those who have achieved something and succeeded are all XXXX. I haven't seen many people who haven't. First of all, successful people look at anything positively. And keep looking for gaps. For example, I'm doing something, and I can't do it right now. Then find a way to do it somehow. Really looking for it, looking for it, Oh, I can't do this today. You look for it until it's judged. But bad people just say no first. What's really bad is that I said no. But if the person next to me finds another way to do it, I'm embarrassed. So I can't do this either. So if someone shows me that attitude, I think I don't want to be close to him. The reason why I was embarrassed was because I answered someone else's phone call. I was on my way to a printing house where I was helping a lot in publishing business. The expert called me from somewhere. I got it. Why did the other person call? What's the problem? How should I solve it? He answered this right away. As soon as I got the call, Oh, yes, you're talking about that problem, right? I dealt with XXX. If you look at this now, you'll get an answer. I think the other person called to get angry. The other person stopped for a second. Oh, yes, I got it. So I thought this is how people who are good at work do it. Everything is in my head from start to finish. If you do this, you don't know what's going on with the other person. You might have a complaint. You're doing something. You're doing something like this. I think you're honest. When I have to get something, When I have to explain my situation, I don't lie about this. There may be something wrong in life. But I'm telling you the truth about what I did wrong. I don't try to make any excuse about it. I admit it. I was wrong about this. But I'm dealing with XXX to solve that problem and overcome it. I'm telling you the truth about this. I'm dealing with it. Humility. This is funny, too. The older you get, the more you bow your head. This is because the wall is ripe. Oh, I should be humble. I'm not bowing my head. When the wall is really ripe, The other ripe guys look great. The other unripe guys look great. That's why I'm bowing my head. So everyone who has achieved something and succeeded is humble. I haven't seen many people who haven't. How lucky would they be? They all worked really hard in their field. They must have succeeded because they worked hard. It doesn't matter how old you are. Because you did that, When you see someone else who is different from you, It's about the time and effort that I didn't see behind his success. I admit it. And because I know that time and effort, That's how I become humble. I can't dare to say that I'm better than him. Because I don't know how hard he tried. And even if there are people who didn't succeed, I don't know how hard he tried. He worked like crazy. Just because I didn't get a chance. Just because I'm not lucky. There are a lot of people who can't succeed because the situation is not good. And I've seen a lot of people like that around me. That's why successful people become more humble. This can't be solved just by words. If you're just going to trust me with words, Pronunciation, vocalization. Speak in a good tone. This will solve it. People who meet once in a while can trust you like that. But at work, at school, In a relationship where you have to meet for a long time, The essence of this person is revealed. So the essence should be able to trust. In order to do that, you have to keep your words. And you have to try to keep your words. You have to look like that. You can hear that he can trust you. I'm going to get an OAP this semester. Then it's not about getting an OAP. If you say, I'm going to get an OAP, You really need to be able to get an OAP. You have to be able to study at the level of a person. You need to have that kind of effort and that kind of process. Your friends will trust you and trust you. I'm going to quit smoking. If you said that, You have to make an effort to quit smoking. You have to look like that. Oh, he's trustworthy. You really tried. That's cool. That's how it works. I'm going to lose weight. I said that. If you're drinking coke the next day, Who can trust that person? That's what it means. So it's very difficult for you to talk carelessly. It's something you have to be careful about. After I think I'm going to do something, You have to keep your words when you spit them out. I think sincerity is perhaps the only talent. In the past, when I was in my 20s, I thought it was a shame to write sincerity. Because sincerity is I thought it was an excuse for people who don't have the ability to write something. But as I get older, I can do something steadily every day. I think that's number one. So, everyone, Three or four years ago, I decided to do it every day. I thought I'd do one every day. But I did at least 10. But I started with 10. I did it five or six times a day. But I didn't do it five or six times in a row. Like the so-called PT people, Five sets. This isn't it. I do it once in the morning. I do it once for lunch. I do it once in the afternoon. It's like this. I do it once in the evening. Then it's not really an exercise. I just did it. But I did it every day. I said I missed two days for six months. And then, When it was about six months, I did 60 at once. He does it five times a day. Then I do 300 at once. Of course, my body got a lot better. That's how it changed. I really did that. It was just that short six months. So just doing it every day. I'm the tallest. That's the hardest. It's easy to do 100 push-ups a day. But it's hard to do 100 push-ups every day for a month. I made a Naver cafe. So I'm doing a compliment club here. There were 30 people in August at this compliment club. There are 50 people applying in September. These people will be on the compliment club board tomorrow. I write a letter of praise for myself. And someone else. I write a comment on a letter of praise for myself. Oh, you did this? That's great. Compliment me. I leave a comment like this. I'm doing it, too. I was on Knowledge Inside last time. If you compliment me for 100 days, I said my self-esteem would go up. But in the comments, I'm going to start this for 100 days. There are a lot of comments. I did it for 100 days. There was no comment saying that. So I'm just going to do this. I thought I should help you. I made that compliment club. Actually, out of 30 people, I think about 17 or 18 people. I think you'll succeed all 30 times. I'm planning to give them an award. 50 people applied in September. Of the 50 people, I hope all 50 people succeed. I'm personally asking these people. I've done this compliment club. It's been a full moon now. How does it feel? I feel so good. I feel like I'm getting my self-esteem up. It's just a full moon. I just complimented myself every day. Doing this every day. First of all, sincerity among all abilities. Because a sincere person can do anything with that one thing. I can't speak English. I can do it from now on. Because I'm sincere. I don't know Excel. I can do it from now on. Because I'm sincere. If you're sincere, you can do anything. It's made. I'm sure. I'm not sincere. I've been doing this every day. I was the one who couldn't do it. But when I did the push-ups, I realized the effect of sincerity. This is how much it changes me. My self-esteem. My confidence. I thought I couldn't do it. I can do it. It gives me the power to make you feel at ease. I realized that. I've never done 300 push-ups. Since I was in the army in my 20s. I've never done it. But I did it in my mid-40s. I was so happy. I was so proud. Of course, I didn't do it for a long time. My elbows hurt, so I quit now. But I did it again. I was so proud and happy. Among the people I've seen recently, I think there are a lot of people who have read a lot of books. But I've read a lot of books. There are people who read 200 books a year. On the other hand, there are people who read one book 10 to 20 times. This book is really good. I'm going to eat everything in this book. I'm going to make it mine. There are people who read it 10 to 20 times. Those efforts have touched me a lot. And above all, work is sincerity. It's an extension of the sincerity I mentioned earlier. When you decide to do something, It's best to be consistent. How long can you push it for a long time? There's a lot of difference here. The meaning of the word success. Everyone has a variety of meanings. And there are a lot of factors that are needed to succeed. Which of these is more important? I can't say it's less important. But I'm in the middle of it. I think speaking skills are a must. You can choose what you call success. It could be different. I'm worth the success. I don't think we can leave out human relationships. It makes that human relationship richer and happier. I think the most important thing is my speech. But this is what you use for the rest of your life. I think I need it when I get a job. I need it one more time when I get promoted to team leader. I need it again when I get promoted to executive. If I get promoted more, I need to report it to the president. And then I need it when I talk to my family. After I retire everything, I need it again for my happy old age. To be happy, Regardless of work, It's very necessary for the human relationship around me. So I'll do it when I have time later. Rather than thinking, I just thought I needed it. Practice speech right now at this time. From now on, every day. I think it's a much better decision to live happily for the rest of your life. I hope your rest of your life will be happy with speech.