Learning to “Re-Parent” Yourself After Narcissistic Abuse #narcissist #narcabuse #narcissist #npd

Bonjour from Paris. This is Spiritual Whistleblower. Hi guys. I'm tuning in live from Disneyland Paris. Yes and it is absolutely hot. It had to be in the 90s today. It is hot so I'm sitting in shade. I wanted to do this video real quickly for y'all. This is my second time in Disneyland Paris and I did a video last year and put it on my Patreon but I feel like I need to do one for you guys. A general video. The importance of reparenting yourself once you cut your abusive parents off so many y'all are scared to cut your parents off and I know it's not an easy decision but you keep bringing your children around your parents because you're like living vicariously through your children hoping to have that loving relationship you know you feel like if your kids can get close to your parents then that'll make up for the things they did to you that's not true your parents your parents are gonna abuse your children all your parents is doing is spoiling your kids and turning them into narcissists to turn them against you when your kids get older you are stupid for exposing your children to the very same people that abused you growing up and if you get mad you can unsubscribe i don't give a **** somebody needs to be honest with y'all somebody needs to be you know look why would you expose your children because at the end of the day it's ******* child abuse it's ******* child abuse to expose your children to the same adults your mother father grandparents whoever it was in your family that treated you like straight ---- why do you have your kids around these people what you think they're gonna do oh you think because they spoiling them that's love no they're spoiling them to mold them groom them shape them to turn them against you so that when they become teenagers they're gonna talk back and disrespect you they're gonna become narcissistic and you're going to sit there no you exposed your ******* children to the same people that ******* abused you in your childhood wake the **** up you get your feelings hurt get off my channel i don't care i'm sick of it it's child abuse for you to expose your children to your their abusive grandparents anyway um i want to do this video because um you know when you cut your parents off when you're ready to take that leap there's a lot of work you got to do you got to go to therapy to deal with those childhood trauma wounds um you have to build boundaries to keep your family out of your personal business they really don't need to know your phone number they don't need to know where you live um you need to make them respect you even if it requires you getting a restraining order and calling the police some of y'all are too scared to do that though and i ain't trying to be funny but you know it's like you're no better than them if you're not going to change the way things are going you're you're you're a hamster on a hamster wheel with the rest of them ain't ---- gonna change until you get off the hamster wheel and you change the dynamics of the relationship between you and your family members and if you got kids you know I can't talk about the children because I get really pissed off about that it's child abuse but um you you know once you cut your parents off if you decide to then there's a lot of work you got to do in terms of reparenting yourself and you have an inner child that has been longing for the validation the love and support of your narcissistic parents and as you know you're never going to get that some of y'all keep bumping your head against the wall you keep running begging pleading hoping your parents will change and they kick you off the pedestal every time like you got to get burnt 100 times until the ---- sinks in. So I say all this to say, your parents are never going to validate that inner child inside of you. You have to learn how to reparent yourself, unlearn everything your parents taught you and reprogram, restructure your brain. And one of the ways that I do that, I don't know how you plan to do it, but therapy is a start. Therapy is good. I like to spoil my inner child because my narcissistic parents completely destroyed my childhood they forced me to grow up you know I was a latchkey kid I was responsible to make sure my siblings had dinner they were bathed like I grew up too fast I never had a childhood my senior year in high school I was working two jobs and my mother was taking all my paychecks I never really enjoyed my childhood whatsoever so i make it a duty um if not once twice a year to do something fun like come to Disneyland and just spoil the inner child inside of me to make up for all the lost time and the ---- that my parents put me through i i take that control and power away from my parents they no longer have the power you know over me i call the shots and i get to embrace the little girl inside of me hold her love her and spoil her and take her to Disneyland and let her be free and happy and and she doesn't have to answer to anybody but god so that's what i want y'all to get out of this video um i come with tough love you get offended you get offended but it's all tough love at the end of the day you're gonna keep running on that hamster wheel you you're gonna get the **** off that's the bottom line some of y'all kill me some of y'all be like oh my mother abused me but my daddy wasn't abusive and you know what i said i said did your daddy protect you from your mother no he never said anything she you know then your daddy's just as guilty because he sat up there and he did not do a damn thing to stop your mother from ******* abusing you which makes him a sadistic asshole sitting there enabling a mama to to abuse you but yet you think your daddy's normal and he's a nice guy oh some of y'all gotta wake up some y'all really gotta wake up I pray I pray that y'all see the light I pray that you get the courage to take that step to draw them boundaries you're not going to be able to do limited contact with your parents you're going to end up cutting them off keep on playing till they drive you to an early grave some of y'all are suffering health problems because you won't cut your ******* family off you letting your parents drive you insane drag you through the mud gossip tear your name down take control of your children like what is it going to take I don't play that ---- I am determined to keep my family the **** away or else they're going to suffer consequences for violating my boundaries and if it comes to violence should they approach me I have to put the should they approach me so a weak bitch stalking me can't twist my words around in self-defense if a bitch approaches me I'm whooping ******* ass I said it so my family knows not to ******* play with me or my child and their strict boundaries to respect i live a healthy happy life i mind my business i don't ask nobody for money or ---- um i'm happy i'm doing well in life i'm successful i got great job i run a successful business and my daughter don't want for nothing so **** them and i don't need ---- from them and they got to respect that they can stalk me on social media all they want but they need to stay on their side of the ******* fence don't invite me i don't even want to come to no funeral bitch don't put my name in the will don't put my name in the obituary i don't want to be connected i don't want to be known to anyone by my family that's how sick of sick of them that i am so i said what i said now um take what you can for this video i pray that you embrace and spoil that inner child inside of you that was neglected and abused by your narcissistic uh parents it's never too late uh to go back in history and rewrite it the narcissist rewrites history all the time but they do it for the for you know to hurt people what if empaths went into their history and rewrote it for the good to embrace that child that was always neglected rewrite your history for the good yeah it happens you learned from it it made you who you are but you you get a second chance of spoiling that that child inside of you i think it's okay all right god bless you guys um i'm gonna go catch me um there's a movie or a play or something going on in the disney theater and um then i'm gonna head back to my hotel but i love you guys it's been a spiritual whistleblower stay narcissistic free