Stop Being Loyal to Abusive Parents #npd #narcissist #narcabuse

Hey everybody, Spiritual Whistleblower here, all tanned and bronzed up. How are you guys doing? Guess what? Right now, I'm currently in Los Angeles. I am on the West Coast. Yes, I made it. Tomorrow is my seminar in Los Angeles with my very special guest, Aaliyah Taylor. Everyone that has gotten a ticket, you should have the location by now. If you don't have the location email me and i will send you the exact address and location okay guys and yes there are tickets left anyone that wants to buy a ticket last minute you have until tomorrow up until 5 p.m to get a ticket okay um i'm just tired guys catching up i've been in hawaii i've been on vacation all week long since last week um i went to kona hawaii i spent the week with my friends and then we flew to Honolulu and we spent the day in Honolulu and I have so many videos and pictures I haven't even uploaded. I'm still trying to catch a breath. I flew from Honolulu to Los Angeles. So I'm just getting set up and prepared. I got in this morning, Saturday morning because my event is tomorrow, Sunday. So I'm making sure everything is set up and, you know, ready to roll tomorrow everything's gonna run smoothly okay guys so all my people in LA I'm in the motherfucking west coast I'm here when I say I'm gonna be somewhere I'm here damn it LA what's up holla tickets are still available now the following week after Labor Day Labor Day weekend is coming up September 3rd and 4th I will be in Chicago and Detroit all my people in Chicago, Chi town and D town, Detroit. Y'all better get y'all ******* tickets. I'm doing a brunch in Chicago and then I'm gonna do a late night meet and greet, not late night, but it'll be late in the afternoon. Uh, meet and greet in Detroit. Y'all better holler. The tickets are on sale right now. Chanel Jasmine at gmail.com. I'll pin it down below real quickly. Quick message. Cause I have a lot to do today and I can't stay on here and talk long toxic loyalty. Um, I did a Tik Tok video a few days ago and um i just could not believe the responses it did go viral it's almost at half a million views um i was talking about how you know if your parents abused you your entire childhood you do not have to ******* take care of them when they get old you don't you're not entitled to take care of them and anybody that tries to guilt you by saying you know the bible scripture honor thy mother and thy father they're gaslighting you and they're still emotionally manipulating you but they're just using the bible to do it it's low down and it's disgusting it's deplorable and it's abuse you know the bible does say honor thy mother and honor thy father but it continues to say do not provoke your children to anger do not provoke your children to wrath And that's exactly what the **** our toxic, abusive, narcissistic mommy and daddy. That's exactly what the **** they do. They don't give birth to us because they love us. You listen, if you have a narcissistic mother and father, you already know you was not born out of love. If your mama or your father, they're narcissists, they don't love nobody. They don't know what love is. They wasn't taught love. They was taught that abuse was love. so they basically get people pregnant to trap and control not because they want to love the baby coming the baby coming into the pit they don't love they don't they're jealous of children are jealous of babies come on now so you know y'all know my story I've been very transparent with y'all about my upbringing and all of that and how I've dealt with it you know what what it is is a lot of people feel guilty they know their parents are abusive they'll continue some of y'all are 30 40 50 years old and you're still getting abused by your parents because you're just too scared to cut them off you're too scared to set a boundary let me ask you something and you know if you if you don't like the question you can unsubscribe unfollow me that doesn't bother me i'm here to do the lord's work i don't count my followers or subscribers i'm not you know my job is to get the job done not keep tabs of how many followers i can hold on to i don't give a **** about that let me ask y'all an honest question do you honestly think your parents change when they get old imagine your mother or father whoever abused you imagine them in hospice and you know what hospice is hospice is like the final resting place where you are going to you you know you're terminally ill let me say this let me say this really delicately and inappropriately because i don't want to ruffle anyone's feathers or seem like I'm insensitive to those who have lost loved ones but you know someone going into hospice it's just a really bad sign that they are going to pass and what hospice does hospice provides a resting place where the person can be pain-free on medication and they can pass away peacefully you know with family around that's what hospice is for do you honestly think with your parents and i've given this thought see i like to talk about things that nobody else will talk about I've given this thought about both my parents do you think if either of your parents was laying up in hospice do you think they would change their ways think about it and before you answer in the comment section think long and hard or would your parents be so petty and spiteful to um make sure that either your siblings who are spoiled self-entitled and narcissistic your parents will make sure that your siblings will continue abusing them once they pass away or if you don't have siblings there's other family members if you have aunts and uncles they could tell your aunts and uncles to keep bullying you and keep disrespecting you and abusing you once they pass away so your parents have this obsession with you if you're the scapegoat you're really truly the scapegoat of the family your parents are going to be fixated on making sure you stay ******* broken even after they die when i tell y'all they're ******* sick do you know how deep the rabbit hole goes with the the rabbit hole goes very low because we're dealing with people who who have a warped sense of thinking and their belief system is you you're the scapegoat you deserve to be abused you deserve to be disrespected you deserve to be controlled and whatever else I want to do to you that's how they think even from their deathbed this is why a lot of them most of them write wills they'll write their last will to ensure that their children are still fighting and arguing over money and property after they pass away it's the sickest ---- that's why i'm like i don't want nothing don't put my name in no ******* will i don't want your nasty demon money i don't leave me no ******* property matter of fact i'm not coming to the funeral and don't even put my don't include my name in the obituary how about that i'm taking all my power back i don't want your money i don't want recognition i don't want people to know i i I was raised in such a horrible family yeah because they don't stop the abuse even if they're they're on their last breath you should hear the horror stories I hear about this ---- people will take care of their parents and their parents will still ******* abuse them on their last breath and then when your parents pass away your siblings and other family members they'll continue to do what your parents was doing they're gonna keep abusing you because that's the that's the tone your parents have set that's the bar the parent your parents have made sure that the rest of the family will never ******* respect you no matter how good you do no matter how loyal you are no matter how much money you pay you might pay for the funeral and pay for the hospital bills they still gonna ******* disrespect you y'all need to wake up toxic loyalty we are not let me say this and y'all y'all can take this video however you want it share it on facebook share it wherever you want you are not obligated to take care of your motherfucking parents when they get old and gray i will say it again you are not obligated somebody please point out a bible scripture that says we are obligated to take care of our parents when they get old and gray i'll wait because people did this is this is you know this is what pissed me off about my tiktok video and all the negative response i got excellent responses because a lot of people were abused and they're like yep i agree I'm not ******* with my parents. But then I got a lot of toxic people that exposed their own ******* narcissism in the comment section. Oh my parents took good care of me, so I'm going to take care of them. Duh. When you're a baby, who else is going to take care of you? When you're a child, you're helpless. You don't know nothing. You're vulnerable in the world. Your parents are obligated legally they're to take care of you, provide for you, make sure you eat or else they can go to jail and you can be they that you know the the the city state whatever they will snatch you out of the house and put you into a foster home that's law your parents are ******* obligated but if they're narcissists they're going to hate you because they have to take care of you because the only reason they gave birth to you is to control the other parents they use children as pawn pieces to control and manipulate their victims y'all know that especially those of y'all that co-parent y'all know what i'm saying is true they don't have babies out of love they have they bring children into this ******* world and use children as pawn pieces they either molest and abuse children or they'll use that ******* child to control and manipulate the victim they really want so think of your mommy and daddy you stressing well they took they were supposed to take care of you they were supposed to provide they were supposed to make sure you had food clothes shelter that is their they are obligated by law they're going to go to jail you're going to go to foster care they're going to get child protective services called on them that is their obligation so why do you feel guilty and in debt to them for something they're supposed to ******* do and where in the bible does it say you're obligated to take care of their asses when they get old gray and sick there is nowhere in the bible but i'll tell you what the bible does say that when your mother and father forsake you the lord will take you up which means the lord father god he don't even want our mother and father abusing us he does not stand for abuse what makes me so sick is people that make excuses for staying connected to their abusive parents there is no excuse other than you like the drama you like you like the toxicity you don't don't come to me and talk ---- about your mother or father being toxic or abusive but you will not cut them off you're just as toxic as they are there's only so much you know talking in circles you could do with me i'm gonna figure you out if you have a problem permanently cutting your parents off you are a toxic codependent i don't give a **** how bad you talk down on your mother and father you're addicted to that ---- and you need to have your ass in therapy i said it but um they're obligated to take care of us absolutely when we're babies and children where we can't take care of ourselves but we're not obligated to take care of them we don't belong to them we belong to God y'all come on now somebody back me up in the comment section I'm tired of explaining this ---- we do not belong to our parents we don't owe them anything honor and respect them and cut them off you can honor them by setting a boundary and not allowing them to disrespect you do you know that's also honoring them by not allowing them to disrespect you and get away with abusing you that's self-respect that's self-love that's protecting your mental health but no some of y'all oh i don't know if i can let go i don't know it's just not in me i can't do them the way they did me maybe god's not gonna punish you for cutting them off all you gotta do is pray and say father god i forgive them and love them but respectfully i choose not to deal with them in jesus name amen and god will not bother you or punish you about it y'all need to get yourselves together set them boundaries so you can heal your issues all together Los Angeles I'm here I'll see y'all tickets are still available I love you spiritual whistleblower