SIGNS THAT YOUR ABUSIVE MOTHER HAS AUTISM #narcissist #autism #autismawareness #narcissisticabuse

Hey, good afternoon. Spiritual Whistleblower here. Hi guys with another video. Quick announcement. Y'all know I'm coming to Toronto, Canada Wednesday, May 14th, but I've added two more cities. I will be in Boston, Massachusetts Thursday, June 5th. Then I'll be in Stamford, Connecticut Sunday, June 8th. I've added two new cities, Boston and Connecticut, Stamford, Connecticut. So the information, the tickets are down below. in the comment section I would love to meet with you guys come on out let's get up and talk narcissistic abuse recovery I love you guys and I hope to see you soon Boston what's up Connecticut what's up holla at your girl all right so in this video this video is by request there's been a lot of talk about the differences and similarities and differences between narcissistic personality disorder and autistic disorder okay spectrum disorder ASD as you all know I am recently clinically diagnosed I didn't self-diagnose I went to a psychologist a licensed psychologist and I got evaluated and I have been diagnosed with Asperger's ASD1 so I am autistic so what you know people have been talking about as a recent you know because I'm now in these communities where adult adults with autism are having all types of conversations about their symptoms and the things that they witnessed and experienced in childhood that went under the radar because their parents did not get them the treatment or help or therapy that they they required so one of the conversations was you know how can you tell a narcissist from a person with autism? And furthermore, what if our mom and dad, what if our parents gave us autism? So in this video, I want to explain to you how you can tell the difference. How do you not know that, you know, we talk about our mothers and fathers being narcissists, but then a lot of people say, well, how do we not know that your parents are not narcissists, but they're actually autistic? And I said there is for me there is one clear distincting factor that I definitely could tell so before I get into it I just want to say that narcissists can also have in addition to their narcissistic personality disorder they can have autism in addition to their narcissism they overlap okay the disorders can overlap I know for a fact my mother I personally believe my mother is a narcissist she's a sociopath she has she has MPD she has ASPD which is antisocial personality disorder which would make her a sociopath I also feel that she is a borderline borderline personality disorder which explains um her fluctuating when she rages and she cusses and she throws tantrums that's either borderline personality disorder or it's bipolar disorder I'm unsure about that I would lean more towards bipolar disorder because I watched my mother do cocaine. My mother sniffs coke and she drank Remy Martin for several years. She might still be, I don't know if she does it now because I don't communicate with the bitch, but I know what I witnessed growing up. And when I see adults like that abuse cocaine, drugs, alcohol like that, that usually means they're self-medicating. She's self-medicating instead of being on the medication to treat her diagnoses. which makes me suspect that she's bipolar she's battling them demons inside of her instead of going to the ******* psychologist and getting evaluated and dealing with her pain and trauma from her childhood she'd rather just snort it up her nose and drink it away self-medicate so um I believe my mother has multiple disorders that overlap and I've had these discussions with a psychologist I'm doing a podcast next week actually with Dr. Lorman I've done several podcast she's a licensed clinical psychologist based in california she has spent 13 years in california's maximum men's prison so she's been around the psychopaths the murderers the pedophiles the rapists she has studied and worked closely with these individuals and she can spot them immediately so she invites me on her podcast and we talk about these cluster b disorders in detail so um she you know me and her have had this discussion before that you know a narcissist isn't just a narcissist when they are fully evaluated they go through a psychiatric evaluation there's usually multiple diagnoses a narcissist will usually end up like my daughter's father for instance he went to prison and that's the only way he received the psychiatric evaluation because he will never go on his own that narcissism is is is the arrogance godlike complex There's nothing wrong with me. I'm not going to no doctor. I'm not going to no psychologist. You got a problem. I don't have a problem. The narcissism will never allow for them to go to a therapist on their own because they're in denial and they won't hold themselves accountable for being abusive. So in a sense, they have to be forced by a judge. They have to be coerced into therapy. And even when they get into therapy, they lie to the therapist so bad. They lie and they try to manipulate the therapist. A lot of therapists will absolutely not deal with them. once a therapist realizes that you're a narcissist they they will they will say i can't work with you a lot of therapists will not work with narcissists how can we get anywhere in therapy if you're sitting here trying to manipulate me and i'm the professional with the license uh degree you can't ******* that's what narcissists do they get into therapy and they try to gaslight and manipulate the therapist and it's it's pointless because they're not going to receive the information and process it from the therapist they're just going to sit there and try to play this tit for tat manipulation game so um but me and dr lorman have had these conversations a not when someone is diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder that's not their only issue like i said my daughter's father he got diagnosed in prison his diagnosis because he's a super criminal lord knows he's criminal minded uh he's definitely a narcissist a sociopath might even be a psychopath and how do I know because his diagnosis came out we went to family court and I was sued for child support he had to produce all his paperwork because he went on disability I found out narcissist sociopath bipolar disorder and schizophrenic definitely he self-medicates with marijuana and lord knows whatever else when I see a person abuse drugs and alcohol they are self-medicating bipolar schizophrenia so he he's not only a narcissist but he has these overlapping mental illnesses on top of his narcissism I 100% believe my mother is the same way narcissist sociopath over I think my mother is autistic that's where I get it from my mother definitely a narcissist can also be autistic absolutely 100% she's narcissist sociopathic uh autistic and she's either borderline or bipolar which explains her her uses of drugs and alcohol over the years to self-medicate so a narcissist can definitely have overlapping comorbidities other issues on top of their narcissism that will come out if they if they go to get evaluated by a psychiatrist a full-blown psychiatric evaluation all of that will come out in the evaluation but the narcissist has to want to get evaluated and most of them do not we have so many narcissists walking around undiagnosed it's scary okay i don't know what the percentage is like three percent of the u.s population are reportedly with the narcissistic personality disorder but that number is below that number is way high because there's too many of them walking around undiagnosed walking around thinking they don't have an issue no accountability **** the therapist so the numbers are way higher so how can you tell if your mother or father is autistic or a narcissist. For me, it boils down to one simple thing. Autistic people, like myself, when someone is fully autistic, autistic people do not try to manipulate and hurt people. Autistic people are not out here strategizing on how to rob, steal, scam, get over on. We don't try to hurt people. We don't try to compete with people. We don't sadistically try to torture people compare that to a narcissist Narcissists, they can't get through life unless they are out here manipulating, they manipulate their family, they manipulate their children they manipulate their lovers, they live a life of manipulation, everything is calculated, everything is, they scheme and they scam and they manipulate, very calculated evil individuals, and they can't you know, there is no cure for this behavior. The only time they turn the behavior off is when they get around a group of people and they're performing. They're great actors and actresses. When they get around people, they want to look amazing. They want to look like good doers. That's why a lot of them run to be community activists or they in the church, is full of them. Lord, the church is full of narcissists, baby. When I tell you they are hiding in the church because they want to look like saints and that's where they go to prey on the innocent. that's why I stay out of the church, you're not gonna ******* prey on me in the pulpit the pastor is a big motherfucking scammer the deacons, the church is the worst place that's where all the narcissists go to hide their horrible predatory behavior, praise the Lord praise Jesus, hallelujah, I'm a woman of God, I'm a man of God, no you're not, you're a demon, you're a witch, you're hiding in the pulpit, bitch, you can fool many but you can't fool all of us, we see through the ----, bitch, the church is the biggest place that harvests these ******* narcissists um, a lot of, a lot of um, jobs, professions that require people to look like good people, doctors nurses, school teachers, social workers, any profession that requires a individual to have empathy for human beings community activists social activists that's where narcissists hide That's why I said it doesn't matter if they have college degrees. They're going to hide behind their degrees and their professions. And they're going to do all their dirt behind closed doors where nobody could see. Big time manipulators and scammers. A lot of them run charities. A lot of them, you know, the Black Lives Matter. I know y'all heard the story behind the person running the Black Lives Matter. They're all scammers. Scamming and grifting, honey. Now I want you to look at your mother and your father. from the time you was a child up until now that you're adult if your parents were truly autistic they probably would have checked out they wouldn't have been you know deliberately trying to hurt you and abuse you and bully you as a child they might have been you know don't touch me they might have been unaffectionate autistic people don't want to be touched a lot autistic people are not affectionate a lot of times we have sensory issues socially we want to be left alone we don't we don't want to be around people so if your parents were like that yeah they might have been autistic however if your parents if you witness them be abusive not only towards you i mean horrible ---- not just a one-time incident i'm talking about time after time after time they've bullied and abused you and done horrible things to you others you've sat back and watched your mother and father do dirty ---- to other people i've literally saw my mother who was it one of my aunts she took one of my aunt's credit cards and max it out way over $10,000, $10,000, $15,000. I won't say my aunt's name out of respect for her because I love my aunt. My mother did her dirty. My aunt allowed her to borrow the credit card. My mother abused the ******* ----. I mean, ran it up. I have witnessed my mother scam and hurt and abuse others, not just me. That's narcissism, honey. That's that sociopathic ----. That's not autism. Autistic people don't go around hurting people and preying on innocent people and scamming people. We're not like that. The narcissist is. So it boils down to character. Autistic people are not people with piss poor character. The narcissist is. Now, like I said, the narcissist can also have autism, but their narcissism is so toxic it overshadows the autistic traits you feel me so now I want you to take this information in this video and I want you to really in the comment section let's have these discussions because when we talk in the comment section we are helping each other as a community make a conscious decision is your mother and father do you believe they're full-blown narcissists or do you believe they're autistic me my father my father has autistic traits my father is definitely a narcissist but i think he has ocd uh he possibly could be borderline i absolutely believe that um but my father is emotionally abused he's very emotionally immature and he is definitely abusive i don't think he's a sociopath because because sociopaths are more criminal minded my mother has been a criminal my mother has been to jail my mother has been a scammer my mother has done a lot of dirty things to me and others which would make her a socio sociopaths are criminal minded understand and the man that she married is a ******* sociopath because he's a criminal he's been locked up he's a pedophile that that touched on her daughter so understand our president in office Donald Trump he's a sociopath sociopaths are impulsive and they are very criminal minded they don't care who they affect or who they hurt they just do what they want to do no matter who it hurts or affects even if it hurts their children so not only is my mother a sociopath the man that she married is also a sociopath but just know that narcissists sociopaths can also have autism in addition my mother is autistic and I believe she's passed it on to her children I know my baby brother I know he's autistic and I hope he gets evaluated now my sister I don't know I feel that my sister definitely is ADHD autistic I don't I don't know she definitely is is is hyper you know attention deficit she 100% has ADHD but my brother my baby brother is autistic just like I am me and him have too many similarities and we were beat and bullied for it let's talk about it y'all are your parents narcissists or are they autistic or do you believe they could be both y'all have a blessed day I will see y'all in Toronto Wednesday May 14th Boston June 5th Stanford Connecticut June 8th tickets down below love you guys