My Girlfriend Stole $40,000 From Me! (She Still Lives With Me)

[Music] brought to you by the every dooll app start budgeting for free today so I'm receiving it an inheritance from a family member that had passed away right and I currently have am living with my girl my girlfriend Kelly and around at first when I had first started getting the inheritance she was like directed as like a Peay as like a watchover guide type of thing for me with my money and I just recently found out that about around 30 to $40,000 is just gone from that that I should have that I should have saved in in a bank account and it's just missing don't know where it's at how can I like legally try to go about getting my money back in returned to me you you're you're saying you put your girlfriend on your account and she stole your money yes and there's no like receipts there's no no nothing and why is she not the exir girlfriend uh I'm trying to figure that one out myself as well yeah me too cuz I I got about a three and a half second rule on this one buddy I have a low threshold for dating criminals and people who committed fraud against me yeah I've like I've asked her about it and she's like she's verbally admitted to it but there's nothing I don't know I think what did she do with the money pray Tale I don't know I did you ask her you stole my $40,000 where the hell is my money this is how this sounds a natural line of questioning she literally tells me I don't know that's literally it yeah I literally don't know where you're going to be living by Nightfall cuz I'm setting all your crap out in the street right and then I've had a good friend of mine my buddy that's my one of my neighbors he's helped me with it and tried to do add up and do some Financial like checking with it and a couple of times i' that's how we found out about this and a couple of times I've actually had to um I've gotten like back pay with my inheritance a couple of different times for two years and D David is she still on the account today honey no she is not I have my she still living in your house yes why but she has no she has nothing to do with my bank account why is she still in your house I'm renting I don't know you need the rent money we're both on the same lease together for our are you is your phone cutting out or is somebody in the background I'm I'm with my friend he's with me as well he's telling you what to say he's helping me like with okay uh David how old are you I'm 29 years old sir what do you do for a living sir I currently do not have a job at the moment I'm looking for a new job why I lost my job okay why uh if I'm going to be honest about it from my past substance abuse okay okay that's fair how long has it been since you've worked uh honestly about four or five months about almost five months okay all right um so uh I think you need more and better counsel in your life than just your friend who's trying to help you and I'm glad he's trying to help you but you need some other folks in your life to help guide you through putting your life together in a way that this kind of thing doesn't happen to you okay yes and so um you are in the Minneapolis area all right and so what I'm going to do is Christian's going to pick up when I put you on hold and we're going to connect you with a good local church there and get some of the Pastoral team to come around you and help guide you back into a career and guide you uh to make sure that these kinds of things aren't happening to you help help you stay sober help you with your sobriety and and help you put help you put together a life that uh that doesn't leave you vulnerable to this kind of thing and that's going to include my suggestion is is that this this lady needs to leave your home today okay yes and she does not your girlfriend anymore because people that love people don't do this to other people give me one sorry and tell her to take her dog with her too um yeah I don't think legally I mean she's a pay on the account so well I don't know what I I I don't think he's going to get his money back cuz she spent it it's gone it's not like she moved it into her name and has done a beautiful investment that he's going to get back there's no one in this whole story that's very smart and so um no you've got to separate yourself from um people that bring you harm you have to put physical distance between yourself emotional different distance spiritual distance and legal distance David you're not going to get your money back your money's gone the only thing you can do is prevent this from happening again by putting your life together in such a way that you have a sustainable life where you don't need this inheritance and it becomes a blessing that you can grow and build yourself a prosperous life long term but you're not going to do that with this uh character under your roof okay and uh and there when someone steals your money there is no magic hack to help you get your money back most of the time when someone steals your money it's gone is you know very rarely um and you know you could threaten to prosecute her criminally if she doesn't return the money and see if she coughs some of it up but um I don't know that she can um because I think she probably spent it think it's probably uh probably spit on drugs I don't know have no idea what you spend on one another reminder never combine your finances or life with someone you're not married to ever period ever ever never do that good point George create your free every doll budget today the simplest way to budget for your life