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Welcome to the Chit Ly channel Dear viewers, loving your children is a natural part of being a parent When there is a child in the family, the life of the parents will completely change The whole world revolves around that little angel As time goes by, the children grow up The parents are getting older But they continue to be the ones trying to ensure that their children have everything they need But is it right to give up your life for your children when they are so old that they have no time to live their own life? Let's listen to the sharing of the Chit Ly of life Dear viewers, First, don't think that you have to work hard to have money for your children Seeing your children as everything, taking care of your children to the end is the most important part of being a parent even though you are getting old Many people, when they get old, have so many assets to give to their children that they have to live completely dependent on their children The story of Mrs. Tam in District 1, Ho Chi Minh City is a story like that After building a house for her children Mrs. Tam was able to live with her old age with a humble life But seeing her children still struggling she was not satisfied She sold the house she was living in She didn't keep anything for herself but gave it all to her children so that they could have more money to live She didn't have a house So for half a month, she came to this house and went to another house She went round and round like that Sometimes, when she was busy she would come to the house to eat and she would stay there But everything changed completely when 2 years ago, Mrs. Tam had a heart attack and was bedridden She stayed at her older brother's house Her 2 daughters came to visit her after work Over time, her health got worse and she became a burden to her children From daughter-in-law to daughter-in-law everyone was jealous and had a heavy attitude Mrs. Tam was very sad She was worried about sacrificing everything for her children but at the end of her life, she became a burden to them She just wanted to leave early so that her children could have a better life And her husband, Mr. An, in Binh Thanh District had a different kind of suffering Seeing the family of his only son after 3 years in the middle of Saigon and still living in a rented house his wife and husband kept thinking When her son told them his wife and son sold all their land in Vinh Long and bought a house in Binh Thanh Some of them wanted to help their children get out of the rented house and some of them wanted to live near their children in the middle of the afternoon However, because they couldn't adapt to the urban life they felt like they were isolated and their life was very boring and dull When they lived in the countryside the house was spacious and the land was full of fruit trees while the apartment in the city was only a few square meters and you could touch it Every day, her husband and her son as soon as they stepped out of the house they locked the door because they were afraid that the thieves would break in The streets were strange Every time they wanted to go somewhere they had to wait until the weekend before they could go This time, her husband wanted to go back to his hometown but he sold all his land and his house Ladies and gentlemen when you are 60 you don't have much time left and you can't bring back what you have It will be useless if you are still too busy to spend money for your children So you should spend the money you saved to travel Give away what you can and don't worry about getting it back If your children are the ungrateful people who are eagerly waiting for you to close your eyes then you don't have to worry about what will happen to them or how you will be judged Because once you come back from the dust you won't hear any compliments or criticism anymore The time you live happily in this life is not the time to look for the hard-earned money and end it Don't worry too much about your relationship with your children because they have their own destiny and they will definitely find their way in life Don't be a slave to your children Keep the relationship with them love them and help them when necessary but at the same time be kind to the money you saved for them Don't expect too much from your children Most of them love their parents but they are too busy with work and other things that they want to care more There are also the ungrateful children They can fight for a fight even when you are still alive and maybe they want you to die earlier to fight for yourself In general children think that they should be rewarded for everything you have while you have no right to their money Second Children also have their own life She is nearly 60 years old but Mrs. Nguyen Thi Thanh in Ward 10, Vung Tau City always has to do housework and take care of her two children She has financial conditions but Mrs. Le Thanh Thuy, her daughter-in-law doesn't hire anyone to help her She has to take care of her children and her parents to support her family Mrs. Thanh is on leave so she tries to take care of her children Mrs. Thanh's day starts at 5 a.m She wakes up to clean the house and cook breakfast for her family After breakfast, her son and daughter-in-law go to work Her eldest son goes to school Her eldest daughter-in-law goes to work Her youngest daughter-in-law goes to the gym Her youngest son takes a taxi to pick her up and comes home to prepare dinner Mrs. Thanh's life is all about taking care of her children She doesn't have time to rest She has to take care of her children She has to take care of her children She has to take care of her children She has to take care of her children She has to take care of her children She has to take care of her children She has to take care of her children She has to take care of her children Her children don't have time to grow up Why don't we give our children a chance to grow up? Why do we have to shoulder all the responsibilities? Not to mention the psychological burden on our children's teeth which makes them selfish and dependent on their parents. Thirdly, live for yourself. Don't be a slave to your children. We have two sons. But Mr. Vinh and Mrs. Nga make many people surprised when they don't want to live with anyone. Although they both live and work in Hanoi, at the age of marriage, all of them are kicked out by their parents. I used to work as a bride, so I understand the inconvenience of living together. Therefore, we now think that anyone who gets married should live separately. Moreover, at the age of marriage, we are free to do whatever we want. We can go anywhere we want. We don't have to worry about our children. Mrs. Nga said so. Even 3 years ago, when Mr. Vinh got married, he didn't have enough money to buy a house, so he asked his parents to let him live with his parents for a while. But they broke the promise. They let him stay for 3 months. He couldn't buy a house, so he went to find a house to rent. Mrs. Nga said, we don't have to worry about our children. We think of them as our own age. The lives of two generations are completely different. If we live together for a long time, at least there will be conflicts. My husband and I often participate in social activities, clubs, so we don't have time to worry about our children all day long. Now, his eldest son bought a house nearly 10 kilometers away from his parents to go to work, and his second son bought an apartment right next to his parents' house. Sometimes on weekends, the whole family gathers together to eat at his parents' house. When asked how many years his parents were weak, did they move in with their children? Mrs. Nga said, my husband and I plan to sell this 4-story house, use half of that money to buy an apartment so we don't have to climb the cliff, and the other half to raise our children, take care of their health, and go on trips. If we are too weak, we can hire a doctor or go to a nursing home. It will definitely not bother our children. Ladies and gentlemen, American writer Groucho Marx said, age is not a special topic, because anyone can get old. All you have to do is live your life in the years of that age. In fact, it's never too late for you to live for yourself and do what you like. At an old age, the age that many people feel they have time for themselves, should sit and think about the things you've missed out on in the past five months, then this is the right time to do it. Go on trips, join clubs for the elderly, play sports, or learn anything you want. The older you get, the more you have to love yourself, live for yourself more. So after the age of 50-60, you don't need to waste your energy. Don't work until you go to the grave just to get more money. Your money has no value in front of God. When can we stop making money? How much is enough? 100 million or 10 billion? From thousands of hectares of land, you can only eat a little vegetables and a few bowls of rice a day. From the three houses you've built, you only need a few square meters for yourself. A place to sleep, a place to rest, a place to bathe, and a place to cook. With the rest of your life, all you need is a place to live, some money to eat, some clothes, and some necessities. Then you'll be fine. All you need is a happy soul. At your age, don't care about who has more children or who is more materialistic. Go on more trips, even to places you haven't been to when you were young. Put on a scale to see who has more time, who is happier, who is healthier, and who lives longer. Don't worry about things you can't change. It doesn't help you, and it doesn't lead to mental illness. Create a balanced mind and decide what makes you happy. When you're healthy and happy, come up with a plan and stick to it. At your age, you should set small goals for yourself. Don't let the day pass you by. You'll lose all inspiration. A day without a happy moment is a lost day. A day with only a happy moment is a gainful day. An optimistic soul can cure illness quickly. But a happy soul can't cure illness, because it's not used to being sick. Keep a good mental state. Go out often, under the sun, eat a lot of food that contains vitamins and minerals. Overcome all obstacles to live another 30-40 years with strength and good health. Live for yourself more and don't be a slave to your children. Ladies and gentlemen, recently in China, a couple was forced to file a lawsuit asking a 36-year-old girl to move out of her house to be independent. There were two reactions to this special case. First, people accused the girl of being too old to take care of her parents. At this age, the girl not only has to be independent, but also has to support her parents when they get old. The second opinion is that many people blame the couple for being too old to take care of their children. Many parents say that loving their children is not enough. They sacrifice everything for their children. But what is the opposite? They turn themselves into slaves for their children. Slaves, not working, for the rest of their lives. The result is that the poorest people are still parents, then children, people who don't have a chance to grow up. In fact, children are very important, but not all of their parents' lives. Parents love their children, love their children in the right way. Give them wings so that they can fly high and far, and so that their parents' old age can be peaceful and happy. And in the end, the philosophy of life shares with you 7 ways to recover from sleep at an old age. 1. Avoid stimulants Avoid drinks containing caffeine such as coffee, many kinds of tea, chocolate, and some kinds of sweet drinks after 1 or 2 p.m. or not at all if you are particularly sensitive to caffeine. Caffeine prevents the use of adenosine, a neurotoxin, to stimulate sleep. Avoid drinking alcohol. Do not drink more than one glass a day. It is best not to drink at least 2 hours before going to bed. Alcohol can cause deep sleep and can interfere with breathing. Stop smoking and avoid smoking. Nicotine makes it difficult to fall asleep and hard to sleep peacefully. 2. Shortness of sleep If you can't wake up in the afternoon, the elderly should have a short sleep from 15 to 20 minutes. This time is long enough to improve awareness, but not too long to feel dizzy afterwards. 3. Exercise Start regular exercises such as walking, running or swimming can help you sleep faster, sleep deeper and wake up less often at night. However, absolutely avoid exercising within 1 hour before going to bed. 4. Establish a scientific sleep schedule A regular sleep schedule will help synchronize the cycle of sleep, wake up, determine how long it is good to sleep, go to bed every night and wake up in the morning at the same time every day. 5. Make the bedroom a private place Before going to bed, the elderly should sit in meditation and read books, keep the bedroom bright, dark and quiet, sleep comfortably. 6. Eat and drink in the evening You need to finish your dinner a few hours before going to bed. It's best to have dinner at 6 p.m. If you need a light dinner in the evening, you can eat something easy such as apple, yogurt, apricot, milk or baked bread and jackfruit. 7. Limit drinking water before going to bed Lack of urination at night disrupts sleep. Do not drink any type of water within 2 or 3 hours before going to bed. If sleep disorder continues, can not be treated by treatment methods to change the way of life above, especially in a sleepy state in the morning, the elderly need to meet experts to be consulted. After eliminating the causes of the disease, the doctor will give the best advice and the best method to solve your sleep disorder. Thank you for listening. Goodbye and see you in the next video.