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Hello everyone! Please subscribe to my channel! Silence is also a kind of wisdom. In this life, finding a suitable way of life for yourself is the best way to live. What you need to do is to perfect yourself. Don't leave anything to regret. Here are 6 invaluable lessons about silence. 1. When others are upset and sad. Knowing how to be happy with the happy, sad with the sad, that is the behavior of a person who has education, knowledge, knowledge of things, knowledge of rules, and understanding. Nothing is more unfortunate than when others cry and you laugh, or vice versa. That confusion makes us confused, arrogant, and arrogant. 2. When others are thinking, working, and thinking. Silence is the kingdom of thinking. Thanks to it, there are characteristics, superiority, understanding, maturity, and compassion. Seeing others thinking, don't ruin their private space. Silence is really necessary and meaningful at that time. 3. When others don't understand you. When you don't understand, you need to open up to others so that they can understand you better. Even if you can't understand everything, if you feel that they really can't understand or don't want to understand, silence is the best. If not, what you say can cause reaction or hatred. 4. When others talk about things you don't understand. If you know, just say it. If you don't know, just listen. A wise person only says what he knows and is completely silent about what he doesn't know or is confused about. Don't imagine that you are a dictionary. The Norse scholar Edison said, What we know is just a drop of water. What we don't know is the ocean. The gentleman Chisokates admitted, I don't know anything. That's the clearest thing I know. As a normal person, we need to be humble and know how to be silent. 5. When others boast, the louder they shout, the less people know, the deeper and deeper they feel. Of the four calculations, subtraction is the easiest, but it's meaningful. A stupid person should only guess, be bold or stubborn. Showing off and being polite are the characteristics of a calm, kind-hearted person. A stupid person should always speak to try to cover up his shortcomings. 6. When others don't need you to give an opinion. Never get involved in other people's business or be curious about their business. And again, if you talk a lot, you make a lot of mistakes. If you talk too much, you lose the point. There is a saying, talking makes people understand. But silence is the school of wisdom. Silence is also love, forgiveness, and life. 7. Give others a chance Giving others a chance is also giving yourself a chance. In life, when you are misunderstood by others, if you can laugh it off, it is a nourishing quality. When you suffer, if you can laugh naturally, it is generosity. When you suffer, you can still laugh and have fun, it is generosity. When you are powerless, you can still laugh optimistically, it is a barrier. When you are in trouble, you can still laugh naturally, it is generosity. When you are despised, you can still laugh calmly, it is self-confidence. When you are in love, you can still smile, it is liberation, peace of mind. 8. Sometimes not fighting, not admitting, but in your heart, you don't feel miserable. Sometimes not being depressed, not because you give up, but because you recognize yourself, you understand the other person's situation. Sometimes being silent, not because you don't want to talk, but because silence is worth more than a thousand words. As for those who live in this world, give others more chances to be explained, and more patience to be willing to explain to others. In this way, you will get rid of a lot of regrets. But not asking, not talking, not explaining is not uniqueness or personality, but irresponsibility and unfairness to yourself and others. Because giving others one more chance is also giving yourself a chance. But there are some better things that you don't have to ponder forever, because the result has already been accepted. I know, sometimes it's even more uncomfortable. Some people have seen it clearly and have taken it lightly. There is no need to cover up the mask, but it will disappear. As long as you understand it in your heart. A lot of things I don't ask and you don't say because there is a distance between us. I ask and you don't say because there is a distance between us. I ask and you answer because it is respect. You want to say and I want to ask because of the sixth sense. I don't ask and you say because of the belief. I may pretend to be stupid, but don't think I'm really stupid. I may be very generous, very generous. After all, this is also a boundary. Don't be afraid of the southern sky or the northern land. Just worry about people waiting for the whole sky. As for those who live in this world, don't expect others to treat you well. If you wear the wrong shoes, your feet will hurt. If you put your feelings in the wrong place, your heart will hurt. There are people who admire you and there are people who destroy you. There are people who understand you There are people who love you but there are also people who are bored with you. There are people who don't see you as anything but there are also people who see you as the end of their world. If you are conscientious, words and gestures will be natural like a stream of flowing water. If you are distant, words and gestures will be cold as snow in the middle of winter. Be obedient, quiet, listen, remember, act, and be wise. These are the five elements of wisdom. Words help people understand each other and get closer. But sometimes a word can ruin all good relationships. Words can make others happy but a word that is unintentional or intentional can also hurt people. Sometimes you make a friend sad just because a word is thoughtless. When a word is spoken, it cannot be withdrawn. There are times when words are like the wind, but their meaning remains in the listener's heart and can never be forgotten. It's good to be able to speak, but it's better to be silent. We should learn to listen to understand, to stop, to love. But it's hard. This lesson is only for those who know how to let go and know that life is endless. I just talked to a friend. He said very few people learn to listen and be silent because they don't want to lose, don't want to be humble to listen to what others say. They even talk as if they are using all the time to meet each other. They are afraid of losing when they go home and the other person has not finished the story yet. So life is colorful. In the past, we were very talkative and in class, we were very talkative. We wanted to speak, we wanted to hide. Sometimes we were too loud, we cried. Thinking back, in the past, we were selfish, we just wanted to speak to be comfortable. We even argued every time there was a problem with our point of view. The wrong person, I was right, I was wrong,