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Welcome to the channel of Life Counseling Dear friends, Buddha said that life is suffering No one lives in this life without suffering After all, all the suffering in this life is created by ourselves However, there are some sufferings that we should avoid Especially at the age of 50 If anyone has four more sufferings, it is no different from living in hell The first suffering is to eat every meal According to a standard, at the age of 50 What we need to do is to plan for a long life At this age, there is still a lot of space There is no job to ensure a full life If you have to live a hard life, your rest of your life will be difficult What will you do to live? Where will you be when it rains? And when the disease comes back What do you take to run for medicine? What do you take to make a living? To get out of hunger, out of cold At the age of 50, but still begging for food No house, no door Then you need to plan your life Try to learn a working skill, a suitable job To be able to live in peace at an old age The second suffering is that there is no place to be stable At the age of 50, the children have grown up We are starting to get old We have sacrificed a lot for our children At this time, in addition to providing our children with some necessary living conditions We should also keep ourselves a place to hide to go home If we still live in unstable days Then when we get old, we will become an old man No place to live, no future So you must create a stable place for yourself Even if it is an old house in the countryside, rice fields But at least there is a place to live The third suffering is that you are trapped in a prison At the age of 50, it is time for people to prepare for old age At this age, no matter how tired you are You have to keep your limits Don't ever do what you shouldn't do Related to issues contrary to the law No matter how great the benefits, don't take risks Once you don't keep your limits and fall into the trap Doing things that violate the law What awaits us is a prison full of grief Waiting for the time to be released Also lost all the spirit of struggle at first At that time, no matter how much effort you use Can't recover from the previous state Therefore, when you reach the age of 50, you must abide by the law Don't do things contrary to the law and disobey the rules The fourth suffering is that your wife and children are separated At the age of 50, your best friend has accompanied you for decades Your children have grown up and are preparing for their own lives After going through so many ups and downs in life The two of you understand each other Therefore, at the age of 50, don't cause trouble Don't lose your family happiness because of love Husband and wife are not right or wrong Only happiness or not If there is a conflict, please give in to each other Don't step on the other side of life But still have to bear the separation of the family That is the biggest shame in human life Ladies and gentlemen, in addition to the four sufferings mentioned above Our life will have to pay a very high price If you don't know the next 10 things First, don't force yourself We often fail, have to live the wind of life We are afraid and don't dare to overcome Keep looking for peace, lack of courage, fear of injury When self-limiting one's ability We will not reach the level that we can reach Because just think that you have done all you can We will never know that we can do unusual things Second, don't pull a bad relationship If that relationship is broken like a glass bottle Which is about to fall out of your hand and fall to the ground Can you put together each piece of broken glass To restore the shape of the bottle as before? No, absolutely not Because even if you try to find each piece of broken glass And then carefully put them together In the middle of the pieces of broken glass There will be cracks The glass bottle will be scattered That relationship will be just a relationship Both of them are holding the bottle in their hands To be afraid to the end When you can't help but see it slip out A broken relationship Sooner or later, it will be broken So what's the point of pulling? Third, don't judge In life, there are many people who stand on their own level They think they are right but blame others They think that in this world, only they are right In fact, how other people live How to go If you don't experience it yourself You can't really understand When you think about yourself There are many pains and sufferings that others don't know Then you will know that in their lives There are also such things Also experiencing many storms on the way of life When you think about yourself How did you get through the hard times Then you will know that others Also experienced such hardships and sufferings Actually understand it like that To know how to treat others Accept things for others Then we can have a calm, peaceful mind In this world Fourth, don't lose the children inside you Being a person to always keep the youthful soul It's not easy That youthful soul It's not that there is no selfishness It's not that it's stupid But it has experienced enough suffering in life Better than losing Even if it's enough, it can still keep the spirit of love For everything is still noble, pure Maintain a pure mind like a child This is a kind of life Is the state of treating yourself in a happy, pure, loving way People like that They treat the outside world To the animals and life With a loving, passionate attitude People like that are very close to happiness Fifth, don't make decisions just to please others Right and wrong sometimes bring subjective Because of that, people will have different opinions About how to approach a problem Don't try to explain to people who don't understand you Because no matter how you explain They will only think that you are making excuses People who truly love you There is no need to explain anything They still believe in you like the first days Sixth, don't beat yourself It's strange that in each person there are two good and two bad sides There is a Buddha nature, and there is a ghost nature If you want to focus on your nature You need to restrain your ghost nature And expand your Buddha nature Like honesty, kindness, and tolerance But to control bad nature is not easy It's easy for people to be self-absorbed When they have to endure suffering When they are stimulated to the core They often find it difficult to control themselves And don't know how to care for others They don't want to tolerate and forgive For those who have hurt themselves It's scary that you are sick but you don't know Self-evaluate yourself too high and become arrogant Or use others too much and become selfish The biggest enemy of human life is still yourself A person who can beat himself will win Seventh, don't be selfish with others Selfishness is something that is often seen in people Light is to run away when you see the happiness and success of others But self-pity and blame yourself Heavy can be because of the wrong self-pity That harm others, cause pain for others And destroy yourself Self-pity is a kind of illness People who have self-pity all their lives are not happy Today they are worried that others will surpass them Tomorrow they are worried that others will be ahead of them All day they live in a very pitiful state of illness Selfishness and suffering On the contrary, those who really have achievements Sincere, glorious in history It's a shame Eighth, don't waste your health to make money When do we stop making money? How much money is enough? 1 million, 10 million or 1 billion? From thousands of hectares of land You can only eat a little vegetables And a little rice every day From the three houses you built In fact, you only need a few square meters to live A place to sleep, a place to bathe and a place to cook Why do you have to pursue greed Chase all this and that in life Just need to live happily, right? Money, no matter how much it is, does not buy health Exchange health to make more money In the end, just to buy a bunch of medicines Know enough, have fun, cherish your health Ninth, smile before failure Smile to the face because of that balance You can stand strong in front of the storm Smile, thank you for letting you fall Then you know how to overcome yourself And cherish the success you have achieved When there is no money in the bag Let's think about millions of people in the world Still hungry When there is no work Let's believe there are millions of people Running around looking for a job like me How many people on this earth Find meaning in life by going to remote places Help people in need So why do we lose all meaning in life When we start with two white hands Just believe By smiling when you fail Then you see life will smile again When we have nothing, nothing Life will give us something new, happier Tenth, enjoy life You can let go of your mind, relax Put aside money and busy work This is freedom, enjoyment that everyone wants The best things in life are free And enjoying the simple things in life Will make you feel really worth living Things like looking at nature Spending time with loved ones and having fun Will help you realize that Other needs are just illusions Enjoy those precious moments of today Because tomorrow everything can change in a flash So enjoy the present And the little things in this life Four things do not exist forever You should know at the age of 50 to lessen annoyance First, everything is unusual Buddha taught Human life is unusual, short Like a candle hanging in the wind It can be turned off at any time So is the human body Not everyone waits until they are old, sick and die But life ends at any time For thousands of reasons Understand the unusual reasons of the universe For each of us to try to learn and collect Bring love to each other with understanding Let's not be too obsessed with this body And make it hard for each other Remember that after death, it is not the end or the loss Death is just a form of change Then according to the good and bad karma of each person Created in the present And give results in the future There is nothing bad in this world Even if it's dust and sand They just change their shape Understand the unusual reasons So that we can live more meaningfully Do many good things Always live for yourself And the people in the present and the future Who can live like that? Until the god of death appears We are not afraid of panic But peacefully go with a good shape And the things of the world like money, gold, house, door We all leave it Can't bring any food At that time, there is only good karma Created by us when we are alive Will follow us forever Knowing that When we are together We will be at ease Do not regret anything in the world Even life The second is rich, not long forever No one stands forever on the top Today you may be the richest person in the world But tomorrow is not sure Today you may be the fastest person in the world But tomorrow there will be someone faster A simple fact is No one stands on your playground forever There was a saying No one is too rich for three lifetimes Unless they do good deeds for a lifetime Then they can keep the precious flowers for their children But ordinary people all have greed Have and want to have more Have a lot and want to have forever So if you don't want to give away The rich can't exist forever Remember a principle Rich and poor is a change If a person accumulates more, needs more Then naturally there will be a rich and enjoyed And if a person only cares about enjoying more Then naturally there will be the same The ancients also taught Blessing without enjoyment So there is happiness Don't be in a hurry to live forever When the happiness is gone The joy will come What we need to do is to try with our own hands Not depending on what is available The third In summary, there will be separation Separation Father, mother, wife, husband, brother Together in one place Or close friends have met He will have to part one day So there is a saying No family has no separation Even if parents and children live together Then one day Will have to face separation You are just a passer-by In someone else's life You can only go together On a certain path That is the limited time That you can give to someone else So how can you expect Someone else to give you unlimited Even 10 years, 20 years Even 100 years of a person's life It's just a short period In an endless journey of life We only have fate To go together on a certain path Don't imagine stubbornness To ask for separation When there is still fate When there is still each other We should respect each other Rather than asking others To follow their own rules That way Will not make each other suffer Knowing how to respect and help others Will lead to a positive, happy life And will not make you suffer If there is fate Then cherish it If you have to be apart Just smile and turn around Life is so long You have to force yourself so hard Life is not easy After losing everything Everything becomes illusory Miraculously Life has 3 keys Accept, change and leave Break up and break up So you should cherish every day In your current life Fourth Even if you are strong In the end, you will come back with dust Some people say that if life is a straight line Then the bad times And when you get old Are the two points of that straight line And I think Life is like a circle People start at one point Go around in the years Full of wind In the end, they come back to where they were born No matter how strong your health is There will be times when you have to leave No matter how long you live In the end, you will come back with dust People since birth Have been sentenced to death Uncertainty Death is always waiting for us So there is a saying Life is self-destructive Ask this world Is there anyone who is not facing death? There is a very good saying in the poem Dust Written by composer Trịnh Công Sơn Which dust particles make up my body Let me come back to dust tomorrow Being a human It is impossible to avoid that cycle Born to grow up And then lost forever Just like when you were not born Memories of birth And loss are much more vague Compared to the bad things you left when you were alive Therefore How to live when we are born People laugh, we cry How to live so that when we die People cry, we laugh Ladies and gentlemen Life is a precious cycle of life No one always gets And no one always loses So let's know how to live to give away However, give away But also have to keep the bad things behind So that half of the rest of the life We can be self-reliant The first is health Human life is extremely fragile Many people when they reach middle age Just discovered their health Not as good as before People who are sick and tired I often think back and regret that I did not work and rest reasonably But when the disease has changed well People often forget this principle When a person is young and healthy Do not stop calculating benefits Let go of wine and books Do not let your mind be desperate But make food not delicious, sleep not peaceful To middle age Or when the body is sick Fall and regret This is the cycle that people often have to face Understand that suffering When stable and healthy Do not let your mind be calm Reduce greed and self-indulgence Only when a person is seriously ill To understand that No disease is the happiest So do not be greedy, indolent But destroy the body The second is family Family is the warmest side of each person People in their middle age Must understand the meaning and importance of family To middle age Not love But the family has the power to help us Overcome all difficulties Middle age Each of us has been The pillar of a large family Absolutely have to treat the family well Learn the last lesson Whether you are a parent Or a child Also need to treat the people around you well Life is getting happier and better Parents are getting older You may not be able to give them a life Of a royal uncle But at least Let them enjoy their old age Without worry Or worry And friends People around us all the time If there is no support behind their back And their help How can you focus on your career? Not to mention being a mother Of our children Regardless of starting from love Or because of children Your duty is also to take care And protect each other Contradiction with family Even if you have a dispute to win What does it mean? Can you help your parents be healthy? Can you make your wife, husband, children Happy and comfortable? So At the age of middle age You have to learn how to bow your head In front of your family You are not allowed to be angry anymore Wife, husband, children Should not be a barrier For you to do whatever you want No matter what happens Calm down, talk to each other Exchange and resolve Let life find its happiness In the most peaceful and gentle way possible The third is friendship There are many good friends Like myself In the middle of a cold winter Personality and character of a person Decide how many good friends That person has Around When you reach the age of middle age A person needs to appreciate that People all their lives Can't live without you You don't have to be perfect You just need to sympathize Help each other when in trouble Be sincere Then you are a real friend If you can be humble Together Then it is Really a close friend The fourth is Respect Respect is something that not only People at the age of middle age need to keep But people at the age of middle age Have experienced a lot The ups and downs of life need to understand Respect is The precious thing of each person Not only keep Good things for yourself But also need to protect your children In the family So the family is more and more happy Old age is complete You can lose everything But don't lose your conscience Don't think that being bad What you do is smart And God doesn't know There is a saying If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life If you don't want others to know The best thing is not to do You can escape the trials of life