Tuổi già nuốt nước mắt vì 2 chữ này - Triết Lý Cuộc Sống

The older you get, the more you expect, the more you feel ashamed. Ladies and gentlemen, the day is coming to an end. Life is short and boring. None of us dare to say that we understand all the rules of life. But only those who understand the principles of life can live a peaceful and comfortable life. Happiness is created by us. And sometimes the feeling of disappointment and frustration is not caused by others but because you expect too much. There was a saying in the past, the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment. When you expect one person or something more, if the result is not what you expect, your disappointment level will be higher. So at an early age, don't expect too much of anything. Be calm and accept everything. Because the older you get, the more you expect, the more you feel ashamed. Let's discuss the principles of life together. First, hope for children. I'm sure all parents have a certain expectation for their children. In this case, it may be that you want your children to continue to fulfill their childhood dreams. Maybe it's a dream for you to be successful, have a stable economy, have a peaceful life. Many other parents don't expect anything but their children to be healthy and happy. But sometimes, expecting too much from your children will make you lose all the care and care for your children and forget about your future life. Even when your children grow up, they continue to worry about you, ready to sacrifice everything for you. When your children go to school, no matter how hard they work, no matter how hungry they are, parents still try to raise their children to eat and study. When they grow up, they still have tears in their eyes. Parents continue to worry about their children. In the past, when the economy was still difficult, parents tried to raise their children, but there was nothing left for them. But today, with the economic conditions getting better, many people continue to live this way, putting too much hope in their children, worrying about everything for their children with hope. In the future, successful children will never forget their parents. It is said that young people care about their parents, old people care about their children, which is a principle of Vietnam. Our life culture is different from that of the West and it is also a pride of Vietnamese people. However, today's modern life has made some moral values change and the concept of living, old people care about their children, which also makes many parents have to hold their children's hands and be ashamed when they get old. Because there are many risks to the child's filial piety when they get old, but in fact, the cases of parents being disloyal to their children, pushed out of the way, have also been reported by the press. Those are just the big events reported by the press. In fact, there are a lot of events that parents have to bear the brunt of because their children deceive them or simply because they are irresistible. There is a bitter truth that parents may have been suffering all their lives taking care of their children who were not fortunate enough to be disabled, sick or disabled, which is normal, but the children who are dedicated to taking care of their parents who are sick for many days are extremely rare. In life, parents always tolerate, forgive and protect their children even when they commit a sin. But many children are always ready to face the world as long as they think they are at fault. So, there is a saying, parents raise their children as if they were sky and earth, children raise their parents, children tell stories every day. Children also have their own lives. Those who have no wife, no husband, no children, have internal and external relationships, are also full of pressure and worry. The thoughts and needs of the elderly are always different from that of the young. So, putting too much hope in your child, putting your age in your child, or building your life when you take your child as the center is very risky and complicated. If you put too much hope in your child and sacrifice everything for them, when you get old, you are really a burden, a obstacle in your children's lives. On the contrary, without putting hope in your child, that energy will soon build your life when you get old. Your happiness and comfort when you get old is a very big self-esteem for your child, and it is also loving and helping your child in the smartest way. Secondly, put too much hope in everything. As you get older, you have tasted enough bitterness and sweetness, you have understood that everything is lost in life, so don't put too much hope in anything. Be calm and accept everything. Good is also your happiness. Loss is your destiny. Good is not necessarily happiness, and loss is not necessarily disaster. Don't put too much hope in something, and don't put too much hope in someone. Because if you put too much hope in something, it will be more difficult to achieve. Be kind to your family, friends and people around you, because deep down in your heart, you always want to receive the right answer. But sometimes people around you can't show you what you've been waiting for. This makes you uncomfortable and frustrated. Basically, you can't avoid disappointment if you keep waiting for others to change themselves to meet your needs and desires. But in fact, no one is perfect. We all need to try to improve ourselves every day. So instead of hoping that you can change others, or take your age and experience as a measure, you should change your attitude towards them. In fact, people only change when and only when they want to. If you want to change others, you need to start with yourself. You don't have the right to change anyone but yourself. And once you realize this, your life will be much happier. At this age, you understand what is really important in your life, like health, a happy family, mature children, close friends. On the other hand, you should also limit your expectations to things that are not really important and out of your control. Because high expectations will always make you judge the problem from a harsh point of view and then easily be broken when they are not as expected. Third, expect your relationship with anyone. Where there are people, there will be a society. Where there is a society, there will be rational stories about behavior. When you understand more about behavior, you will discover that there are some relationships that you don't need to maintain. There are some stories that you don't need to care too much about. Don't put too much hope in others to increase your relationship with anyone. Think about it carefully. How many true friends are there in your life that you should cherish? How many unforgettable feelings are there? Those are the most precious images. At middle age, you should know how to reduce your expectations and your expectations of others. You shouldn't overestimate your relationship with them. Because the higher the expectation, the deeper the hurt. The bigger the hope, the bigger the disappointment. Just keep a calm and peaceful heart. So you will lessen the loss and resistance when you are disappointed. When you know how to reduce your expectations of others, you won't have to cry anymore or ask for anything that will make you more rational, more bright, and more transparent. Everyone has the right to hope in life. But don't expect too much to depend on others to reduce the hurt and disappointment. Remind yourself that there are always things out of your control in life. The important thing is that we still think optimistically and know how to balance our expectations. So at your age, don't expect anything or anyone too much. Be independent and independent based on yourself. Decide your own life. You will have a peaceful and happy life at your age. To do that, you must remember 5 things. First, take care of your health. A healthy body determines the quality of life at your age. If you are healthy, have a fast metabolism, you can enjoy your life without hiring a caretaker or depending on your child's help. So to be healthy, you need to exercise every day. In addition, you need to be optimistic, laugh more, avoid negative energy, know how to let go, so that you can be healthy and live long. Second, manage your own money. If you want to live comfortably and independently, you have to manage your money and have a savings account to save for your age. Money doesn't have to be a lot, but it has to be enough to use. Money must be in your hand, in your name, then it is certain. When you get old, you don't need to save too much. But what is worth losing, lose it. What is not worth losing, don't lose it. If you want to invest money, you need to be careful, don't take risks, keep your hands clean when you get old. Third, manage your emotions. When people get old, they often have feelings for their family, such as love for wife, husband, children, grandchildren. However, the truth is that you shouldn't interfere too much in your children's family, unless they need your help, then in your ability, anything can help. Instead, you should treat your wife and husband better, because apart from parents, they will always be by your side when you are successful or difficult. Hold hands with you, go all your life. Spare time, you can also go on a date, meet friends, chat with your family. Besides family, friends are also the joy of life of old age. Fourth, manage your mood. If you want to live a happy old age, the most important thing is to manage your mood. Because health and economy are the basis, but your thoughts are more important. Be happy and optimistic, you will overcome old age. Take a look at the benefits, let your mind rest, enjoy the sunshine, enjoy the present life. Don't always sigh, smile happily, life will be happier. Fifth, manage your reputation. The older you are, the more you have to value your reputation. The older you are, the more you have to love yourself, life will be more dignified. Don't be greedy for fame, don't be greedy for fame. As long as you have self-respect, love yourself, love life, old age will always be happy. Know how to avoid bad things, avoid endless arguments, and don't do anything that makes yourself not respected. Dear friends, there is a saying, if you rely on the mountain, the mountain will fall, if you rely on people, people will run. You must always remember that you are the most stable base. Being too dependent on someone or something else will not bring you permanent happiness, because the higher the expectation, the more disappointment. At the end of the day, if you can manage the above five things well, you will definitely have a peaceful life and be happy when you get old. Because after all, old age happiness is not far away, but from within yourself. At the end of today's video, I invite you to listen to the story of a boy selling lottery tickets. It was on a rainy day. I came home after a long day of tired work, my salary was cut, my work was not smooth, and I was even scolded. I feel today is a really bad day and I don't know how to deal with people in this society. Every time it rains heavily, the coffee shops become crowded. I cover my ears and walk on the sidewalk, hoping to get to the bus stop on time to catch the bus home. At the intersection, across the street is the bus stop, I suddenly see a small light running away. After that, it was the sound of robberies, robberies. That light ran to me and then ran into a small alley near me. On the other side of the street, it seemed to be afraid of the rain, so I didn't chase after it anymore. I think maybe what they just lost doesn't matter so they have to run in the rain to find it. A curious feeling suddenly appeared. I went to that alley, I saw a little boy, wearing a black shirt, crouching in a corner. I moved closer, looking at the little boy, soaked in the rain, but still far away. The boy looked up, when he saw me being covered, his eyes looked up, afraid, but also a little strong. Just then, there was the sound of a puppy growling somewhere. I looked up, and saw a puppy being chained to the door in the rain. The boy was silent, breaking each loaf of bread for the puppy to eat, as if he didn't see my presence at that moment. I don't know why, I just stood there, covering the boy in the rain for him to eat. Just then, I didn't intend to eat the bread, but this puppy was starving, and I was afraid it would die, so I did that. I said, the boy opened a small bag, and put it in front of me, in which there was a lottery ticket, tightly wrapped in a transparent nylon bag. Here, I will give the owner of the bakery two lottery tickets. I smiled, and looked at the boy's face. He had a very naive thought. Are you hungry? I asked, when I saw the boy trembling. Yes, he answered. So, why don't you mix the bread to eat, but give it to that puppy? If it can't eat, it will die, and if you have nothing to eat, you can still live. Besides, I have a way to find food, but there is no way, it is very pitiful. The boy's answer made me speechless. Since when does a small puppy like this know the life and death of an unruly puppy with his life and death on the same scale? I thought to myself, is it only rich people with a narrow mind that make it difficult, but just let it go? I bought the boy some lottery tickets, told him to bring this money and give it to the old man selling bread. Then I found a way to return the freedom to the puppy. The boy cried, thanked me to the point of tears, then ran away in the rain, sometimes looking back at me laughing. Since that day, I have been taking care of this puppy. As for the puppy, I haven't seen him again. I haven't seen him again, but I really appreciate his generosity to bring me a profound lesson about life. Rich people with a heart are precious people. Since then, I have been taking care of my job, enduring and accepting, studying to be able to advance without being bored about life As far as I know, when I think I am the most unfortunate person in the world, there are still many others who are more unfortunate than me. Like the boy who sold lottery tickets in the past, he was really unfortunate about the situation, but the richness in his soul shone beautifully. Thank you for listening. 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