Don't like yourself? Create a new you

Hey, what's going on? Are you doing construction? Yes, I am under construction. What? I'm renovating myself. I don't understand. You know, I realized I don't really like me. So now I'm investing the time, money, and energy to reupholster my personality. How? Come on, let me show you. Okay, so obviously the first thing I did was ask myself, what is my vision? Because if I'm going to create the best me from scratch, then I have to know what that is. Oh my god, beautiful. This is my interior decorator, Bella. And Bella, I told her, one of my biggest issues is I'm operating out of my father wound. Daddy issues up the yin yang. I told her this was manifesting in my reality as me chasing unavailable people, relentlessly trying to prove myself and my worth. And it was showing up in just dating and friends. Does that include me? You included. So what beautiful Bella did is she ripped up the floorboards of low self-worth and she reinstalled some amazing mahogany self-love, self-respect, and self-esteem. So now I find someone's inconsistent behavior and lack of interest as a turn off instead of a challenge that I can rise to the occasion of. Wow, that's amazing. How did you do that? Well, this is an analogy. So obviously I didn't just move furniture around in my house. But there are various methods that you can utilize to rewrite your subconscious programming and eradicate limiting beliefs. I have a workshop, Abbey, link in bio. But anyway, back to the sketch. Come, let me show you the rest. Ooh, this is beautiful. So I used to suffer from doubt, insecurity, fear, and a paralyzing inability to make a decision that was good for me. So what Maria did, hi Maria, is she put in a self-awareness filtration system. So anytime an intrusive thought came up that debated or entertained catastrophe, the system would take it and counter-affirm for the positive. So now we've completely eradicated those negative thoughts and my default state is one of love and joy. Wow, that sounds amazing. It is. This way. Can I get their number? Do they do like referrals? You're gonna love this. This entire room is my audacity. Audacity? You know, some people install movie theaters into their houses. I figured, why not have a whole part of my personhood devoted to audaciousness? Audaciousness. Yeah, the audacity to go after what I want. The audacity to dream big. The audacity to claim my greatness. Yeah. Yeah, the audacity to think it's never too late to do anything. I mean, Vlad the Impaler didn't start impaling until his late 30s. Yeah, I mean, I feel that. The straight white male audacity to impale. Right? Oh my god, I love this. I'm gonna renovate myself too. Just a word of caution, it always takes longer than they say it's going to, but it is absolutely worth it. I mean, you're gonna be in here forever, right? Until you're dead. You're gonna wake up every morning and go to sleep every night in this space. Why not make it reflect exactly what you want it to be? You're right. Like, I don't need to be trapped by my past. I don't need to be held back by the early childhood experiences I've had. I don't want to hold on to beliefs that don't serve me, or thoughts that harm me, or mindsets that prevent me from love, success, and abundance. Yes. Okay. Yeah. I'm gonna do it. You're gonna do it. Yeah, I'm gonna do it. I'm okay. Definitely get insurance. I'm Anna Akana. Thank you to the patrons for supporting today's video, and thank you to this episode's sponsor, Love Bonito. So all the outfits that you saw featured in this video, including the one I'm wearing right now, is Love Bonito. They specialize in modern, minimalist, chic wardrobe that you can wear at home, the office, or on a night out. I absolutely die for these high-waisted flare jeans because they fit me perfectly, and I have received so many compliments on them, which I think is truly the currency of clothes. Just compliments. It also pairs perfectly with a sweater and heels, and I can dress up or dress down and wear this outfit in any setting. As like a 5-foot tiny human, I normally have a hard time finding clothes that just fit, that I don't have to tailor, but Love Bonito actually has origins in Singapore and was originally created with petite Asian women with olive complexions in mind. So all of their clothes fit me and look so good with my skin. Of course, they've expanded to include everyone now, but because of this natural origin that they had, everything fits me perfectly. So new customers who join the LB community will receive a $15 off welcome gift card with a minimum spend of $40, valid from September 19th until the end of the year. You can upgrade your closet with clothes made to fit you today with Love Bonito. You can go to the link in my description and use my promo code LBXANNA for 10% off your first order of 130 or more. Again, you can use the link in my description and my promo code LBXANNA for 10% off your first order of 130 or more. Bye.