HOW TO PUNISH YOUR NARCISSISTIC SIBLINGS FOR ABUSING YOU #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #npd

Good morning, y'all. Spiritual Whistleblower here. This is a follow-up part two video to the video I posted last night where I talk about the death of your narcissistic parents, how they try to threaten to take you out of the will if you don't cooperate with allowing them to control you as an adult. You know, when you threaten to cut them off or you don't cooperate in some type of way if you don't do what they tell you to do you know it's still like that authoritative parent child relationship they don't recognize you as an adult and they don't respect you as an adult so it's like this condescending behavior where it's it's you know do as I say or if you don't do as I say I'm going to take away all the gifts I gave you I'm going to threaten to take the money that I promised you away. I'm not going to help you pay on your car note anymore. I'm not going to help with you, with your bills. You know, y'all might have a joint bank account with y'all parents. A lot of adults, and I'm so against this. A lot of adults share joint bank accounts with their parents. And I'm like, why? That's a form of control. Your parents are able to keep track of your finances and keep tabs on how you spend your money. That's a control tactic. That's 100% financial abuse. Close that ******* account and go open up your account. Keep your parents out your ******* business financially. Why is anything in their name? Why do you, why are you getting help financially from them just so they could throw it back in your face? You need to be a hundred percent financially independent I know times are hard I know rent is high I know groceries are expensive we're all struggling you understand we all got bills to pay but damn it some of y'all rely too much on your abusive family to help you take care you're up there tolerating disrespect and abuse just because you need help with your bills and I'm the type of person I'll be homeless in the street i'll live i'll sleep in a ******* cardboard box before i ever ask my mother or family for any ******* help because for me to return back to them and beg them for help means i have to subject myself to all types of disrespect bullying uh um emotional abuse and i'm sorry the money is just not ******* worth it so if you did not check out that video i posted it last night i talk about how your narcissistic parents will threaten to take you out of their will when they die they claim they'll give all the money to your brother and sister other relatives but they won't give you ---- they make threats when you don't allow them to control you and what I said in my video was I don't care about the money take me out the will shut the **** up once and for let me just end this conversation mom or dad don't keep throwing that ---- in my face because I'm not ******* impressed I don't want your money matter of fact you take the house the car the trust fund a life insurance policy whatever you decided to put in the will and leave behind I want you to give it to my motherfucking siblings I don't want ---- bitch I want my freedom I want my peace of mind and I want you mom and dad to leave me the **** alone burn in hell burn in ******* hell I'm going to celebrate when your ass is gone. I'm counting down the days because you've done nothing but been ******* abusive the entire time I've existed on this earth. Now I forgive you. I still love you and I will forgive you even though I don't have to ******* forgive you. But forgiveness does not mean that I have to open up the door and reestablish a new relationship with you. I want nothing to do with you that's all and that's it so don't think you can dangle money or possessions in my face just to get me to bow down so that I you can control me as an adult I'm I don't care about the money or material possessions give it away to somebody else my brother and sister can ******* have it so I made that video because there's so many adults like if you really truly are over your parents you don't care you're not going to care about the money you're going to say you know what goodbye I don't care what you do with the money take me out the ******* will but there's a lot of y'all that are greedy and y'all need to work on yourselves and y'all are y'all want the money y'all stress the **** out about being pulled out the will why what would it what you know is it really about the money you know you really you really got to get in touch with your true self and know yourself and and say is is my peace worth more than than you know all this bullshit that my parents are throwing at me and I'll leave it at that but this is a follow-up because I'm going to talk about your siblings. Yeah. Yeah. I left this out of the video last night, but I want to talk about how you can allow ---- to backfire on your toxic siblings. See, your siblings act as a flying monkey. And for those of you that don't know what a flying monkey is, and I will constantly reiterate this in all my videos. If you've ever seen the movie, The Wizard of Oz, there's the Wicked Witch of the West. There's Dorothy, Toto. there's also a good witch, well there's a part in the movie where the Wicked Witch is in her castle and she has a fleet of these monkeys and the monkeys have wings on their backs, they fly that's what they're called, flying monkeys and she sends them on assignment to go kidnap Dorothy and Toto, so they go, they go and they fly and they find, they actually kidnap Dorothy and Toto but the whole time the witch remains in her castle, she's the head ringleader giving the instructions to her flying monkeys do as I say, you go find Dorothy and Toto and you kidnap them and you bring them back here to this castle and once you bring them back to me I will take over and I will punish Dorothy, the queen that that that witch never leaves her castle, she used to keep her hands clean and she allows the flying monkeys to do the dirty work for her on her behalf. So you got to look at your brother and sister as a flying monkey. Your mother is the ringleader or your abusive father, whichever it is. For me, both of my parents are abusive and both of my parents have used my siblings as flying monkeys to do the spying and stalking on their behalf. So your brother and sister, you know, as adults, you know, when you cut your parents off your siblings will act as a flying monkey on behalf of your abusive parent which means your brother and sister will spy on your social media and take information back to your mother and father and for and have a ******* group conversation, a group chat, a ******* discussion about what you're posting or how they think they're going to speculate about how they think or believe you're living, you could be living a whole peaceful lifestyle but they'll judge you based off of what you post on social media and they just sit up and ******* gossip. And we know gossip is ******* demonic. I stopped gossiping several years ago because I had to check myself when I got my life together and I got in therapy and I said, I don't want to be nothing like them motherfuckers in my family. I don't want to gossip. I don't want to be mean spirited and evil like them. I stopped all that gossiping. I don't, I will not participate in gossip and I get far the **** away from people that participate in that behavior, it's disgusting and it's demonic yeah your brother and sister will take back any piece of information they feel is worth gossiping about they'll run it back to your parents and that's because your parents have groomed and trained your siblings to be the spy go do the spying the stalking go keep tabs on your sister tell me everything she's doing who if she's got a boyfriend if she's got a fiance if she's married if she has a new job how much money is she making you know how is she raising her kids because i want to be in her personal business and i want to call and make fake i want to call child protective services and file fake charges and prank call and report uh to them that she's abusing her children when she really is not i want to call the police and do a mental well i want to file fake police charges and send the police over there uh for a mental wellness check i'm going to spread a vicious smear campaign to the rest of the family and tell family that there's something wrong with my child mentally or my child's miserable my child's fat and ugly and jealous of my other daughter my daughter's jealous that i give my son more attention and affection your diabolical narcissistic mother and father they're busy sitting back plotting on you but in order for them to ******* plot and carry out any type of weaponized plans they have against you they're going to send your dumb ass brother and sister to do the dirty work so it'll be your brother and sister trying to keep tabs on you retrieve information to run it back to your parents or there's a lot of y'all that refuse y'all y'all just will not cut off your siblings i don't play that both my siblings are cut the **** off bitch you're not gonna play in my face act like you love me just so you can get on the phone with me and get in my personal business when you and I both know you don't ******* like me because I'm stronger than you bitch I got a backbone and I know how to check both my parents and cut them the **** off and dog walk their ass something your bitch asses will never be able to do you'll never be able to cut mommy and daddy off because you need their money you're like a ******* lap dog waiting for scraps at the table you need their ******* money you need their ******* validation you need favors from them and you will put up with their toxicity in order to get what you can out of them instead of doing what's right you know the right thing to do is to cut them off so you can heal and get yourself together spiritually and mentally your siblings won't cut them off they'll sit up and talk ---- about mom and dad mom and dad is this mom and dad is that okay bitch cut them off why haven't you cut them off then if they're so toxic don't talk about them behind their back to me what are you doing about it are you going to cut them off no I didn't think so so get out my face talk your ---- about mom and dad this is what you're really doing with your nosy ass you're trying to get in my business so you can have something to take back to mom and dad and y'all all are going to have a gossip session about me I peeped your game brother and sister you're cut off goodbye and you know growing up y'all if you were truly the scapegoat your mother treated your sister and brother better than you spoiled them bought them lots of gifts praised them you know all that and shitted on you bullied you in front of your siblings they actually taught your siblings by example how to bully you and ---- on you and be condescending through example so it's not just your parents that look down on you, your parents will actually teach your siblings how to look down on you and treat you like ----, your parents teach your siblings how to bully you, yes they do, as well as the rest of the family, you might have cousins that treat you like ----, all that comes from the ringleader the ringleader starts that ---- and they make it cool, they make it cool to bully you, it's normalized behavior and it's so cool to to bully Chanel and treat her like the ******* scapegoat and if you dare raise your voice and complain, they'll just they'll gaslight the **** out of you, you need to get over it, this is family at the end of the day you got, you know, that's still your mother, that's still your father, you need, you know, you only got one family, blood is thicker than water the bible says honor, they will gaslight you until you shut up with your complaints, when all in all they need to focus on not being abusive in the first place it takes the focus off their abusive behavior and it puts it, the focus on the victim, and it's you know, it's victim blaming, it's gaslighting and it's disrespectful, and this is why you end up cutting their motherfucking asses off because they're ******* dysfunctional and they don't want to focus on their own toxic behaviors, so brother and sister will try to play in your face because they're playing, they're the flying monkey and they're acting on behalf of mommy and daddy so you gotta gut punch their asses and cut their ass the **** off, but I wanted to do this video to take it a step further because we're talking about the death of your parents, so when mommy and daddy treat your brother and sister better than you, this is called triangulation as well they triangulate you against your siblings play y'all against each other have y'all competing for their approval and validation and when you don't participate in that this is what's going to happen when mommy and daddy get old and they start getting sick and having health issues they end up in the hospital you know let's just say mom gets cancer and mom needs chemotherapy treatments and all that they've treated you like ---- your entire life guess what when mom and dad start getting sick they're going to start calling and because they know they've treated you so bad they're scared to call you so they're going to send brother and sister to call you they're going to send other family members to call you. You know, your mother's in the hospital. Y'all need to go ahead and put y'all differences aside. Your mama needs you right now. You know, the Bible says honor thy mother, honor thy father. You know, your mama needs you right now. We know she wasn't right back in the day. She, you know, she loves you. I know you don't feel like she don't love you, but she has her own way of loving you. Don't be like that. She, you know, go on and visit her in the hospital you're going to get all those types of phone calls to try to guilt trip you into reconnecting once your parents become old and sick this is what your sit is either going to come from your siblings or it's going to come from family member or let's take it a step further if your mother and father actually die then the then the burden of of who's going to pay for the funeral is going to fall on you watch how family collectively will come together and try to guilt trip you into paying for the funeral make you got to make the funeral arrangements you got to take care of all the arrangements and getting them you know from the hospital to the mortuary you know you know what they're going to wear who's going to do what you know who's going to make the arrangements you're doing all the planning and paying for ---- yet and still it was you that they shitted on the whole time and I'd be feeling bad a lot of people call me and complain and say you know um i didn't want to go to the funeral but my family needed help and you know i ended up paying for everything and i said why did you do that why couldn't you block your family and stay out of it you want to pay respects to your mother let let family deal with that ---- let family pay for since you know you can go visit the cemetery you know a month later and leave some flowers why are you paying for ---- why are you planning for ---- why are you involving yourself after you've been dragged and abused for so many ******* years oh because you're a good person and you want your conscience cleared guess what now that your mother and father are dead your family's still gonna they're not gonna treat you any better they're still gonna bully you they're still gonna talk ---- about you your parents have trained your family to ******* treat you like ---- that's a ongoing that's that's permanent baby that does not change once your parents die you are the scapegoat understand the assignment that your family has put you on that is your forever position when you cut them off and you're at peace you you you you keep them out of your life because what happens when you reconnect even if it's if your mom or dad is sick in a hospital or they actually die you reconnect with family baby baby they gonna drag your ass yes even if you pay for the funeral even if you plan you know make the arrangements you're still going to get dragged that they never turn the abuse off some of y'all got to learn the ******* hard way so this is what i say since mommy and daddy thinks your siblings are so motherfucking wonderful and your siblings are just as toxic and narcissistic as your parents are your siblings are brats they're spoiled they're ******* entitled uh uh they're two-faced snakes they're gossiping they're messy they play both sides of the fence and when you see through them and their bullshit and you decide to cut them off with the rest of the family everything they've done to you is going to backfire now they got to carry the load and they got to be responsible for mommy and daddy when mommy and daddy gets sick and old let mommy and daddy move into your siblings house yeah when your siblings get their own apartment or house and you cut mommy and daddy off let mommy move in with your sister and see how ******* how ******* irritable your sister's going to be because your mother's going to turn her household inside out your mother's going to run that household and and boss your sister and be in your sister's business no but that's how you know you you you thought you was the favorite child watch this now you're ******* financially responsible for mom deal with it and don't call my ******* phone for help bitch or you know your brother who is trifling and has multiple baby mamas he's a womanizer a woman beater he's laying up on your mama rent free your mama allows him to sleep you know he he might sleep in a room in her house he might be in the basement but he's living off your mama rent free while you're busy working and paying your own bills and you're independent and you've always been like mom has spoiled my brother and allowed him to get away with so much he gets to live rent free off of her watch what happens when your mama gets sick your brother is waiting for your mama to die so he could live in that house and take over the house and everything he don't give a **** about your mama and when she dies he's gonna try to call you so that you can make the funeral arrangements and pay for everything because he ain't got no money he ain't gonna make no funeral arrangements and pay for ---- he's not gonna take charge and be responsible he's gonna seek other people out to do all that responsible ---- he's definitely gonna try to come for you mom passed away you know you can can you help pay for the casket we need help with this he gonna call you sis he ain't gonna know what the **** to do yep the nigga laid up on her rent free for 20 years and got away with murder because that was her favorite son her favorite child nah nigga you're her favorite son her favorite child you pay for the funeral you make the ******* arrangements you go up to the nursing home and wipe her ass and push her around in the wheelchair don't call my phone don't call my motherfucking phone y'all better get a backbone and stand on business with your siblings your siblings participated in the smear campaign that your parents started about you your siblings got in these streets and lied and told everybody that you were jealous and envious of them when you were not you have more success more fame you have more than your siblings combined and they still out in these streets lying on your name your siblings thought they were better than you because your parents taught them that they were better than you so why would they call you and need your assistance when mom and dad is doing bad nah player that's all you i'm gonna let you handle that don't call me when mom and dad's in the hospital you pay for the medical bills bitch oh you need help paying for the funeral you pay for it bitch I'm not paying for ---- I'm not showing up to the funeral don't put my name in the obituary don't call me for nothing oh you think I'm mean well I felt the same way about you all those years when you bullied me and you got in my business and you ran back and gossiped and you ran a smear campaign with my mother **** you bitch i'm just returning the favor i'm holding up a mirror and i'm mirroring your behavior because you've been nothing but mean because my mother taught you to be mean and bully me but y'all can't y'all can't handle that when when i match motherfucking energy all of a sudden y'all want to play victim you're the victim now when you've been doing this ---- to me my entire life no i'm standing on business i'm gonna set a boundary y'all handle that over there don't call my phone for nothing that's how you punish your siblings you put all the responsibility when mom and dad get old you let all the responsibility of taking care of your parents fall on your siblings and see mom and dad know your siblings are not responsible mom and dad know you're the most responsible when you were a child you were taking care of the family you were cooking your siblings meals you were you were the latchkey kid you babysat you were forced to be an adult as a teenager as a child you were responsible at a young age your parents know you're incredibly responsible and they would rather rely on you to take care of them when they're in the nursing home or the hospital they want you to make the funeral arrangements because you you are the more responsible one out your siblings but yet you were the most abused and see what your parents got to realize is when they become old and gray there's no guarantee you ---- on your children when when they're young they don't have to take care of you they can cut you off because you were abusive and that's the part your parents cannot understand why you won't stick around and take care of them even after the abuse so since they praised and love your siblings with their toxic asses your siblings are so wonderful then they need to be the ones that take care of your parents in their last days stay out of it you can always pay your respect at the cemetery once things die down a month or two after the funeral you quietly go to the cemetery to the tombstone and you leave some flowers and you say something in peace and you say it in the presence of God that's all that really matters is that you say it before God you ain't got to show family ---- you ain't got to explain ---- to family. That's done. The days of explaining yourself and trying to prove yourself or seek their validation. Them days is long gone, honey. We not doing that no more. Everything you do is about pleasing him. You don't have to attend the funeral to please family. You can make peace at the cemetery in the presence of God, or you can go to the wake. A lot of people like to go to the wake before the funeral starts so that you don't got to deal with family go to the wake the wake is a quick process you walk up to the casket you say your piece you might want to lay a rose down in the casket lay a card down in the casket you sign the guest book and you get the **** on 10-15 minutes flat make your peace and leave you don't got to stay for the funeral you've paid your respects don't ******* deal with family don't pay for ---- don't tolerate ---- this is what happens when you abuse and bully somebody their entire ******* lives and now that your ass needs somebody needs help you need financial assistance or something they don't want ---- to do with you this is how your family's gonna learn is when you withdraw your energy and you set a boundary and you cut them off don't call me about nothing don't call me about no nursing home don't call me about who's sick in the hospital don't call me about you needing help with the medical bills don't call me about no funeral arrangements I have removed myself completely God bless y'all I will make peace with that individual after the funeral without y'all in my ******* business have a nice night spiritual whistleblower has spoken let's talk about in the comment section y'all I said what I said