I'm FINALLY Opening Up About My RELATIONSHIP!

so to answer your question if I'm dating if I'm seeing someone if I found a boyfriend don't this really surprised me was the fact that I was able to fall in love again I knew it you're lesbian hello hello it has been a while welcome to melly's live Q&A hey I only do this once per year I think or maybe twice Max but yeah I know that you guys wanted to see this and here I am oh I know that you have so many questions so many things changed in my life and I just wanted to share what's happening because you flooded me with messages and comments and it went crazy and there are some questions that you really really dying to know there's some maras out there who love to hear some chismas but don't worry I got you covered I will spill the tea and yeah let's just start with the very very first question what's new and how is life treating you and let me just tell you life is treating me so well so so well I am so happy so content and I think you can see it I think for those people who follow me on Instagram they saw a sudden change and I'll get back to that later why and what happened and what's going on in my life but yeah life is good life is has never treated me better I must say next question a very very random question what is your favorite bikini and I mean why do you want to know you are a guy I just don't understand but yeah it's a white standard bikini just love it because I get a lot of T and that's it back to the question what I wear is this perfume from scentbird it is one of my favorite travel Companions and this is one of my favorite perfumes Cho which comes in a travel size and for me as a travel perfect so if you guys want to wear something then wear perfume for me it's just like wearing the right jewelry to add that little extra to my look I always liked floral notes with perfumes and one of my go-to perfume Brands is Cho love story with notes of orange blossom Jasmine naroli and Cedarwood it's a perfume I like to wear during the day because it's light fresh and gives me that feminine touch for the night time I like heavier in deeper perfumes like the naso Rodriguez for her Flur musk it has spicy froral notes Rose blonde woods and a hot of musk and I got two new perfumes with slightly different scent notes that I'm very excited to try we're all in for a good deal right so great news for you Saint bird is Affordable especially with my discount code also I like to switch things up and with scent bird you got to change your fragrances every month without having to buy a pricey full-sized bottle and of course the cute and practical packaging makes it convenient to carry your perfume in your bag because bags these days are getting smaller and smaller plus you get to to select fragrances from the comfort of your home and have them delivered directly to your door scan my QR code or use my code Nelly life to get 55% off you can get the product for half of the price that's just $8 that's a steal and as always I will leave a link in description box down below I love sharing my travel hacks with you or life hacks in general so do yourself a favor get your small doses of perfume instead of buying the whole bottle because traveling with big bottles is not fun and plus you have so much diversity on a monthly basis that you can just you know try it out and see what you like the most maybe you'll find your new favorite perfume who knows followed by the next one only fans no never I'm sorry this is not going to happen I do have integrity I don't want my dad to see pictures or videos of me being in like weird you know situations so no no only fans wasn't no feet pics I'm so so sorry next one is rather a compliment it's not a question but you are so gorgeous Nelly thank you so much followed by the question why are you still so pretty and I do feel very flattered but I do think also that beauty comes within and most importantly from selfcare and putting yourself first so if you take care of yourself you glow differently you reverse age and you know I just keep fit healthy and I'm in the Sun a lot I drink a lot of water less alcohol yeah I don't know I eat uh just real food no whatever next one goes into the future of Nelly's life question is future project especially on your main Channel there are so many things that I'm currently working on and maybe you saw it I launched my website Nelly life where I have so many things on there that you have to have a look I also started blogging again which is kind of like a back to Roots thing for me so yeah I just wanted to provide you with more value I also have a newsletter so if you want to sign up for the newsletter definitely do so I do have different content coming on Nell's life especially from international travels you guys know that I spent quite some time in the Philippines and filmed a bunch of videos but it's going to change up with different countries same as last year where you guys joined me on my trips and it was just incredible I was so blown away by your support so I hope to see you joining me for these kind of trips and I am doing my best to show you my favorite spots and introduce you to new foods and cultures and all of the things that I enjoyed during traveling and I don't know this question is a little bit difficult to talk about I'm shocked and I'm kind of like amused at the same time because since I am single you guys saw me a lot hanging out with girls and there's specific reason for that but one of the main questions that you guys asked me is are you into girls are you a lesbian okay let me just read a few questions no offense it's just a question are you a lesbian a lesbian will show us how to live very good one oh my Nelly is a lesbian nice I thought you came out of your real shell lesbiian exclamation question mark when I saw the title your honeymoon and a lady next to you on the pic smiling Emoji am I getting the Vibes of Nelly is lesbian is it only me feeling that way obviously not but anyways glad to see Nelly is having a life she's strong and tough Mo power to the channel Nelly cheers this is a funny one I thought Java is a coffee you are not turning lesbian are you just a joke you're single and from what I can tell living stressfree life so true right sometimes it's just good to hang out with your friends that's all I knew it you're lesbiian I can't even keep a straight face when I'm saying that when you said wifey did you just become lesbian I'm sorry if I call my friends wifey or love or babe it's just a girls thing so let me just tell you one thing I'm still into guys just letting you know but the reason why I was hanging out with my girlfriend so much is just because I missed doing that for so long I was in a relationship for a very long time so I didn't have that one-on-one time with my girlfriends that much I didn't really invest a lot of time to hang out with my friends oneon-one and I was just catching up you know I was just enjoying that part of hanging out with my girlfriends and having a good time traveling together talking about healing having wine nights and whatnot talking about dating so I think you guys saw that I had a lot of bonding time with my girlfriends there's nothing going on besides just friendships and just being friends so yeah we just gr sorry to disappoint you but now you know for all of the meritas are there yep unfortunately nothing to chm about next up is the topic of trouble one of my favorite topics so yeah you guys had a few questions you guys also saw me jumping around from one spot to another I couldn't keep up my parents couldn't keep up you guys couldn't keep up everybody's like where are you Nelly what is happening I was just traveling like crazy lately so yeah a few questions about that come and visit Sydney again please I loved Australia really loved it stayed in Sydney originally wanted to stay for seven days and I stayed for 2 weeks I wow love that City but if I go back to Australia I definitely want to see other places probably some foodie spots like Melbourne or maybe even the Outback I don't know let's see I just want to enjoy the nature and just see what Australia has to offer but I'm definitely going back to Australia any plans to visit Ireland Ireland has been on my list just because it's so green and it just looks so cute and like kind of like I don't know old and I'm intrigued it has been on my list I will definitely visit one day is there any chance for you to explore alave Portugal there is a very very high chance because it is on my bucket list and I even said to my sister after being in Lisbon with her last year that we definitely want to see more of Portugal so yeah Agave is definitely on my list and it's probably going to be a trip with my sister will you travel back to the United States and where simple answer yes there is a story behind that but I think I'll keep that for a separate video in regards to travel and travel content I can say that there will be a video about Austria and Morocco for sure then there will be one of the city of jazz which is New Orleans I just traveled there another trip that is coming up is Tennessee where I'm going to you know just enjoy nature a little bit potentially also listen to some country music let's see and then after that I am going to Legend America I'm going to Panama in September and I'm also going to Colombia in September so lots of travel planned for just within the next two months and I will be traveling back to Asia in I would say November so until then I want to explore the other side of the world take you with me on my travels and also create travel guides for you so if you want to travel like I do and just you know have a bit of a off-beaten path experience definitely sign up for my newsletter link is in the description box down below as well it's always on my website so you can join stay up to dat I'm going to create new travel guides for you guys so that you can explore other places outside of Asia as well it's just a lot of work and a lot of projects that I have and I just need to prioritize a few things but bear with me meanwhile I'll just keep you entertained with the news newsletters and feed you some yeah some updates that are going on behind the scenes next topic is the Philippines and this is a question that comes up during every Q&A and I'm just like wow you guys the question is when will you be back in Manila when are you coming back to the Philippines are you still in the Philippines so to answer a few questions my YouTube channel is a little bit in like backlog so meaning that I have content for from my past travels so usually when I travel I try to create a lot of content and then I just publish every week or every two weeks so that is stretched out I don't do daily vlogging anymore so it's not as up toate anymore but still great content I hope you guys enjoy watching as far as I know and to answer your question I am not in the Philippines and I was just recently in the Philippines for over a month and when am I going back well probably not until November I would say but I will definitely be back I've been to the Philippines many times lived there for a very long time and still have my heart there so you know my friends and the nature the people everything I feel very very joyful in the Philippines and I have certain places in the world that will always always come back too and I also have the permanent residence in the Philippines so you know you got me for a lifetime so yeah don't worry I will hang out with a few friends and I hope you enjoyed my Philippine Series so far there are still a few more videos coming from Bol from bantayan Island and maybe a video from Manila but that's about it and yeah and then we're going into different countries but yeah I will be back promise I do have a bonus question regarding the Philippines which is a very very good one how did living in the Philippines and being immersed to its culture and people changed your life and then there's a very like there's an additional comment which is very very sweet so how did living in the Philippines change me being so immersed it changed me quite a lot I think I became more grounded and I enjoyed the simple way of life even more I appreciated the little things more and I am a little bit more of an island girl now I'm a little bit more of a laid-back person way more patient and way more extroverted as well you know the Filipinos got me with the cheerful and joyful way of life and I think I adapted that a lot in my life and I just love the feeling that have when I'm in the Philippines and that is also the reason why I stayed there for a very long time and let me just tell you coming back to the Western World coming back to the US I struggled with it but I think I'm going to dedicate another video to that topic because there are two things that I want to talk about with you guys that need a separate video and a little bit more detailed explanation but yeah coming back back to the Western World I was like uh I feel so lost here and you know I'm just missing that deep connection that I had in the Philippines and you know my friends are just they always cheer me up and there's this bond that we have that is just unexplainable but once you are in the Philippines you hang out with Filipinos got to know their culture you adapt the way of life as well and I would say I went from corporate Nelly to Island Nelly in the Philippines and yeah I'm less stressed I am more into enjoying life and yeah it's just overall I think it changed me for the better I I think I'm a better person after living in the Philippines for sure all right we are switching to the topic of love and dating you are dying to know I know I know I I I can relate somehow because even my mom was like what's going on like are you seeing someone what's happening in your private life I don't know anything like please tell me like I don't want you to die alone and yeah I saw these comments even on my YouTube channel and people are just so concerned about you know me finding the love of my life I'm just like oh okay chill chill chill I just need to love myself and find myself and then everything else will fall into place but yeah first question if you fall in love with a Filipino and he wants you just to stay at home and be a wife and a mother to your future children are you willing to do it he will be the one to provide your needs in your family life just curious about your thoughts I don't think I've ever been a person who strives to be a mother or whose life goal it was to get married I always wanted more in life that sounds awful but yeah I wanted to live life to the fullest I wanted to have a purpose for myself and I also wanted to fulfill my dreams and just do the things that you know might sound egoistic but make me happy and a few of those things that make me happy are just the freedom to do what I want the freedom to have a business that pays the bills and you know fulfills my needs of traveling and I can be creative and I can create content and I can still do the entrepreneurial part of it is very very exciting for me I've always been a driven and very ambitious person so I need that kind of like purpose no matter if I have a family or not so even if I'm a mom one day and I have somebody who provides for me I think I would still prefer to have my own things going on my own projects because at the end of the day that is what fulfills me I also have to say one of the things that is very important to me now is having my own Hobbies having my own interest so I definitely wouldn't see it as me just being 100% wife and mother it's going to be I don't know 40 50% being a wife and mother and then the rest will be distributed to either my hobbies my needs my passions my friends my career my business so yeah all of these things so I hope that answers your question I am not a traditional woman never been I'm the black sheep in the family as well so my parents just know that I do what I want and I think I make the most of my life so if I die tomorrow I think I lived a very good life if that is the answer I think that's it yeah there are just so many questions about my love life and I can understand it to a certain point because you've seen my Journey on YouTube over the years and I do feel all the love and I feel all the support and I know that you guys are cheering for me and rooting for like my love life so yeah a lot of the questions are are you still single can I invite you for dinner lots of invitations I feel very very flattered thank you are you going to surprise us soon about your special someone are you seeing someone now are you dating still single he yeah it's just funny to answer that question can I quote you I'm so sorry unfortunately you're a little bit late for that so to answer your question if I'm dating if I'm seeing someone if I found a boyfriend I don't know know should I'm seeing someone and I kept it to myself and I will continue keeping most of the details to myself but yeah I am very very happy and that's all I can say now because I think it needs a little bit more explanation and I think you guys deserve a little bit of information although I want to keep a lot of my private life private but in terms of relationship I can just tell you that I am happy and yeah taken and to wrap it up very last question unironic actual most this really surprised me experience the last two years there's just one answer for that so this really surprised me was the fact that I was able to fall in love again so yeah I did not think I would be able to do so to be honest my mom was very very worried about me she's like what's happening why are you not dating anyone and I was honestly not even looking for somebody but it just happened so and it just it just got me and as you can see I'm very touched by it and I'm very happy about it and yeah I think I will do share bits and pieces here and there about it maybe a dedicated video because a lot of my life has changed due to the new circumstances and yeah let's see what the future brings but yeah anyways I hope this Q&A brought some answers and I hope you enjoyed it and yeah that was it if you want to be a little bit more up to date definitely follow me on my Instagram Nell's live I have a Tik Tok I have a Facebook page I do have a freedom Creator Academy which is still in the works bear with me but good news is the website is already done so a lot of new projects are coming my way a lot of work for the next few months and a lot of you know just passions that I have that I want to fulfill a lot of things that are very important to me so I think the direction way I'm heading towards to with my channels with my Brands is probably the most aligned version of myself and I'm just so so happy that everything is falling into place so thank you so so much for the support and love and also just sharing my channel to your friends and family commenting tuning in sending me messages communicating with me I try my best to reply to your messages as much as I can but yeah I just wanted to take this opportunity to say thank you without you I wouldn't be where I am and I would be here sitting smiling you have carried me through some very very difficult times without even knowing so I do appreciate you a lot thank you thank you so much and I'll see you guys on the next video it's going to be a travel Vlog with my friends KAS and Zoe I hope you all enjoy see you thank you s bir for sponsoring today's juicy Q&A video and don't forget to scan my code or use code Nelly life to get 55% off for your first month at s bird oh [Music]