The First Asian Bachelorette Got Dumped Already

Jen Tran the first Asian Bachelorette has already gotten divorc let's see what the Asian Community thinks honey man you pick wrong I tell you you pick the other guy oh my God always make the wrong choices Jan you're such a de guy but you picked the wrong guy let's run the clips he basically said that he didn't love me anymore and didn't feel the same way and felt like something had been off since the second that he she regretted getting engaged the two then come face to face as they recount their very different experiences of how the relationship ended and I found myself falling short of those expectations in the real world and I found myself not being able to live up to the things that you need and you deserve boom listen all so it wasn't officially a divorce Andrew but it was a breakup from the engagement where she asked Devin straddler to marry her at the end of the season one yeah yeah yeah guys we're going to get into the whole com section I know you're probably thinking about a lot of comments that you want to leave right now give us a second before you leave them but uh real quick David I want to be clear we did not watch the show although I do remember celebrating when we heard gen Tran was going to be the first Asian Bachelorette and not only Asian but Southeast we celebrate it I I mean I I have friends a lot of Viet friends who said you know what they thought it was still cool regardless what you thought was going to happen but I will tell you this whatever the worst version of what people thought thought was going to happen basically happened all right so let's just break it down so long story short the season starts there's one Asian guy out of like 20 okay uh Thomas wi who I believe is mixed himself but like more on his Asian side and then uh she goes through the whole process she brings it down to two guys Andrew Devin straddler who I believe is half white and half Mexican but more on his white side and Marcus scherg who is half black and half white but then Marcus who's uh looks like NFL player he basically fails to show why he likes her and then she ends up picking Devin straddler but here's the thing she asked him to marry her but then the crazy thing was the thing that came out was that he broke up with her over the phone two months after the show ended dang David I didn't watch the season but I thought you just broke it down like oh man my emotions was going on a crazy roller coaster just now all right so here's the thing with Thomas I guess Thomas when who's H mostly Asian had beef with Devin straddler and was accusing the fan base or the other guys of racism while he was filming the show all right man sounds like a lot of drama guys that was like the quickest recap possible but essentially this guy Marcus schelberg could not really answer why he liked her in a good enough format so anyways guys uh let's uh we're going to go through a lot of the comments section but I think one other stat that is interesting about this show and this is not to dump on J I have nothing against Jen Tran I am happy that she was on there that's cool for her like The Classy Tila Tequila right cuz she she kind of has the same look yeah okay so she's not Tila Tequila because she's a she's in physician assistant school by the way she's going to be essentially a doctor soon all right fici assistant all right they they can write prescri uh prescrition she's more with the stem instead of hn yes yes yes so but this Ser I guess this uh this season wasn't that well received like a lot of criticism was that oh the episodes were kind of boring or that people couldn't really get into it I'm not saying that's because because she was Asian but the viewership was a little bit lower possibly maybe let's be honest let's be honest do you think it was her asianist that didn't want to make it too ratchet because people watch the seasons where she's like where the girls are like sleeping with multiple guys saying they love multiple guys uh you know what I mean making out with multiple guys on the first time second time yeah yeah so so I guess a question is like are we glad that Jen TR didn't do all that stuff that she wasn't too quick to kiss the guys you know that she kept it kind of she conservative yeah that she kept it conser a should we we should be proud of our Asian sister for doing that correct uh I guess versus making it a uh slute mcgoody slow show anyways uh David let's get into the comment section uh first comment got a lot of UPS by the way these are the ones from the Asian Community Andrew not the ones from the 55-year-old like white housewife Community which is the primary viewership of this show by the way and not comments that we left by the way but uh mid white guy he never cared for her she should have gone with an Asian guy who generally tend to be more loyal IMO if they only had more Asians um what do you think about this cuz the midh guy is a Tik Tok meme right now about hot Asian girls getting with midh guys yeah I mean I don't looks wise I mean I guess he's not badl looking wouldn't be on the show if he does he look like a MLB pitcher mixed with Pete Davidson yeah something like that but I think like I think it's really sad to see a girl that wanted essentially on paper you could say Asian girl wanted white guy white guy doesn't want her dumps her that's essentially what happened that's literally what happened on paper right and I'll tell you this because I've done research on this she said before the show started she's into Italian type guys she ended up picking a half white half Mexican guy who completely looks like a sicilian Italian guy so does it go to show you that girl I'm guys I'm just saying that girls when they have a type they end up picking from the 20 guys and going for their type yeah but also this is a show she could only pick from whoever's there on the show so maybe he maybe he was still the best pick I don't know but obviously it didn't work out so probably not somebody says she's still choosing white guys after this it doesn't matter and then this guy said Asian-American women are so self-hating and white guy chasing I've stopped even trying to talk to them that was from this guy right here but yeah I mean honestly they like Kevin wi type guys too but not all of them number two this comment says there was one only Asian guy specifically Vietnamese and he was like the worst contestant on the entire show they always tried to make us look bad they were talking about how Thomas wi like because I guess Thomas wi they were saying that he wasn't really like he was more engaged with the inter Dynamics versus the guys or talking about his own Story versus his relationship with her right so I I didn't watch the show but for those who watch the show let us know how Thomas wi was as a contestant you know uh all biased aside was he actually a good in contestant was he engaged maybe the producers kind of Twisted it to make it more about race but maybe he really wasn't into getting with her and he was more about it for himself so yeah I guess he wasn't like the most bro dude you know I guess but you know interestingly enough I looked it up Andrew at one point he was a professional swimmer in Vietnam for the Vietnamese national team uh number three who says Asian guys are more loyal are you smoking crack this is a comment from hot girl 671 and then someone said yeah right Asian men are are way more loyal than Asian women that's a guarantee y'all cannot be trusted at all we've seen it through history until present so basically this is sparked like uh in the comment section of next shark Andrew an Asian girl versus Asian guy argument War okay can I just say that hot girl 671 totally sounds like a fake account uh but yeah I mean I I think people can argue cuz obviously if anybody has ever had a toxic Asian relationship they're going to say oh Asian guys are bad just like everybody else it just you just just got to look at the statistics here and other than that it just goes Case by case yeah how can you compare like an Asian club promoter who has a higher thing uh percentage chance of being toxic or like a you know whatever D boy F Boy versus like a white computer programmer or like a white jock versus like an Asian computer programmer right you know what I'm saying like it has to deal with the fishbowls of society that you're swimming in so that that's the truth behind these comments somebody said I don't know how Devin straddler won he was classless from the start this guy was not it I couldn't stand him and I was only two episodes in he clearly only did it for the fame he's such like a realtor used car salesman type and she totally fell for it he hit it and quit it and uh of course there's some more crass comments he was an F boy I mean I think I saw some highlights where he was like the shot o'clock guy shot o' clock was that him no no no that was another guy whose last name s all right not Deon but anyways um I guess Devin like during the breakup video he said like kind of the classic F boy explanation of why he essentially ghosted her after the the engagement trip to Hawaii where he was like you know I just I I couldn't I wasn't ready and I couldn't give you everything you deserve and then he ghosted her that doesn't make any sense you can't ghost people after you engage with them that's crazy and then break up over the phone right not even FaceTime it was kind of like um you know of course I there's even more crass comments that I like can't post just for the sheer monetization of this video but like basically people being like classic Asian girl goes CH loves a white tall white guy gets played out he lets you know he's going to move on to do whatever he did and text other girls yeah um somebody said for people saying she signed up signed up for the show therefore the disrespect is Justified do you know blah blah blah blah blah how stupid that sounds and other people said this is all scripted everybody is in this just to get famous and Rich for their real estate careers anyway so F everybody uh first of all that is partially true partially that it is a soft scripted reality show meaning that a lot of the kind of scenarios or the games that they play and the setup is definitely produced but it's not it's not like these people are told to read lines you know they still let their personality shine and can still make their own decisions however it has also gone through a bunch of editing so people can edit things however they want you know what I mean to make it look a certain way so essentially uh I think if Jen really wanted to pick somebody else and if she really hit it off with somebody else she could have picked him right and there was no and there was going to be nothing holding her back from doing that because ultimately that's going to make the best show is she find love or drama goes down you know what I mean yeah I would say if people have ever done improv classes Andrew I would say the producer on the show of a show like uh The Bachelorette is a little bit like The Improv teacher where I'm giving you the scenario you know two people that they have to like all right you play this you play that but I can't control the exact words coming out of their mouth um somebody said this is not the Asian representation we need but somebody said but it's what we get a lot of the time and then somebody said why are you guys even giving to this show any attention this is like the trashiest like daytime reality TV yeah so I guess it goes back to did you I I mean I guess I had friends who said that they were glad to see an Asian on The Bachelorette show even though they weren't going to watch the show they were just like like yeah I guess it's cool to have like a Vietnamese girl on TV by the way Tila Tequila actually had like two dating shows before this I think I'm pretty sure tequila just reinforced stereotypes that Asian of the Asian girls being you know a certain way quite loose right yeah yeah I mean that's what Tila Tequila show so I think Jen TR kind kept it somewhat classy you know for most of the show but except kind of the ending is pretty sad about how she pretty much got dumbed Yo in a way is crazy to say cuz Tia Tequila is like a a supercharged steroid stereotype right of like whatever whatever but I'm saying that uh gen TR situation was almost like hyper real life like I've seen this situation play out on the streets of New York City literally like the tall white guy and then the shorter Asian girl like crying being like what the heck like blah blah I put my heart in you trusting you and him being like you know I'm sorry I guess yeah yeah yeah um somebody said number seven he smelled the Nook Cham in her fridge and said I can't do this and the durian and someone said he meant his potential in-laws and got scared AF basically some people are pointing out obviously making jokes about like just the cultural difference he's more like white and then she's like super Viet because her mom's on the show and she doesn't really speak English very well they have to communicate in viit so they're like how would that make any sense right well I mean listen there's so many reasons why but obviously he didn't really love her I mean and also how do you fall in love is this show even make any sense is it for real is it kind of fake whatever but I guess it probably started to hit him more and was just like dude this is just not going to work out she's taking him to go get fugs I don't know these noodles I got the fork uh number eight maybe a bunch of Kevin whs would have been better for casting and somebody said yeah right man they would never put those Kevin wh guys on because it would shatter the Hollywood BS stereotypes that they have about us and then somebody said it would have been really funny Henny every night and fist fight uh yeah also guys people have to apply to be on this show and I actually just don't know a lot of like good top tier goodlooking cool Asian guys would that that would apply to be on this show right because they got other options in real life they don't need to be on this show and I think a lot it's a very American thing to kind of seek Fame and want to be on reality shows especially something like this where uh you're like kind of fake trying to find love so it's kind of weird this show honestly is very Northwestern mut Mutual if you guys know about Northwestern Mutual where everybody's just trying to like sell sell sell sell and it's like a bunch of guys they might have money or be successful themselves but they're they're like very like salesy X jock types somebody said uh I bet you if you call this Show's audience the average American IQ would increase people saying it's a low IQ show somebody said I dated Vietnamese women and I can say they're crazier than any race any other race let's be honest it's the Vietnamese attitude he couldn't handle it all right I will say this I'm not saying cuz Jen TR seems like a good girl or whatever but the way she was going off on him in the recap episode where she's like kind of unleashing like you didn't do this you didn't do that you said this you failed to me blah blah blah blah blah that was pretty funny and somebody said when can we finally have an ASI and Bachelor where he gets to kick 20 white women to the curb on national TV and other people were like bro we're like a really really long way away from getting that yeah I guess and also would would the 20 women make it convincing enough that they want to get with him because you know the 20 women they sign up to be a bachelorette and they don't know necessarily Who The Bachelor would be how about this you get Asian women that have uh an Asian guy fetish because you know how that's a relatively you mean non- Asian women with an Asian guy fetish yes yes yes yes that's the way it could work because yeah if you grab like 20 beckys out of like Delta Delta Delta in like Alabama Texas it's not going to work work right oh that would be fun man you know what you would do this it would be like a it would be like a Comic-Con themed like like anime like you know you get the scene cosplay girls like the the streamer girls who more like Asian dudes and then you uh and it's got to be global global get them from globally ah man someone should fun that show but then yeah here's the thing why would the 55-year-old Middle America white conservative audience that typically watches The Bachelor The Bachelor watch that one no that makes for a great show uh globally like somewhere on the internet I guess somebody in English speaking southeast Asia one of those TV stations got produc ultimately Andrew what is your takeaway how do you view this it it basically played out almost like uh kind of like real life I guess because she picked a white guy that was her type and then broke her art yeah man I mean uh I David do you think let's just have fun with this because you know whatever do you think Jen Tran ends up with another white guy half white guy half asian guy or possibly full Asian guy I think she ends up with the phenotype that she likes if she likes Italian dudes that much to get with a dude who's not even Italian but just like looks Italian dude who's mixed then I think she's just gonna have to sift through the bunch to find a good one that's what I think uh I would say in a weird Twisted cold comfort type of way for for anybody who's offended by this show you know this is progress it's crazy to say the candles got one candle that's like a kind of a compromis candle has to burn for in a way for society to move on to other candles well I'll tell you this guys before that there before there is an Asian Bachelor at the top of the show there has to be an Asian Bachelorette because Asian women are always going to get the shot before Asian guys so in a way you could say this is a stepping stone unfortunately it ended the way it did and now in Asian girl is crying over getting dumped by a white guy again like has happened so many times uh first of all Asian girls have cried from getting dumped by Asian men too by the way you know so happens both ways tall guys in general breaking hearts this just this is a visceral image you know so uh uh I may maybe there is an Asian Bachelor one coming in the next few years maybe five years I don't know ultimately it's crazy to say like I said you know the progress in the Middle America markets it's different than the progress in the Oscars like everything everywhere all at once I won Sundance I'm at can's Film Festival do you know what I'm saying like this Market is different this is like Andre NASCAR NFL MLB like hyper Amer like you know what I'm saying like the people watch the show they not like the urban ivy league New York Times writers you know I got it David the Asian Bachelor is going to be be a half Korean half white guy from the Midwest so he's going to be able to appeal to the midwestern audience because he's going to be like either former football or former baseball player oh if he looks like that quarterback at USC yeah maybe former military so he's going to have the background that can appeal to the rest of America but he's going to look kind of Asian so that's going to be I predict that's first that's my prediction how many years how many years out are are we from that I happens in four years okay four years not next year but four years all right let me get mine um yeah I agree that's actually a super good pick that's actually super good pick because Korean guys are the biggest and then mix in with the white and then right now and then uh five five years okay all right guys uh let us know what you thought about the show or what you think about this situation uh yeah I mean it's uh you know we made a video about Jen Tran when she became The Bachelorette you know uh I thought it was still positive net positive was this turn out her having the whole season was a net positive this ending not so great but hyper realistic You could argue it's a a net positive so let us know what you think in the comments down below and until next time everybody we out peace