I’m Begging You Not To Do This

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start budgeting for free today I wanted
to ask you guys if I I want to buy an
investment property with my uncle who's
on
disability I currently already own a
home and I got that house for
$156,000 at
6.25% APR my mortgage on that is about
$1,200 um I mean $1,200 per month I have
two tenants that live there so they're
paying off my mortgage I have about
$133,000 in my savings account and I
have no com car payment and I'm giving
about 10% of my payment into a uh rth
ra okay and what do you make I make
about uh four grand I um and where do
you live if you if you rent out the
house what do you live in the house with
a roommate yeah I live in the I live in
the houses it's like a roommate sort of
deal so it's um how old are you I live
with my girlfriend I'm 20 years old okay
and why do you want to buy an investment
property so I want to buy an investment
property because it I saw that you know
being a a landlord is really not as hard
as I thought it was I have
the the what's like the credit for it
and I believe that you know that's what
I want to do with my life just buying
homes either flipping them and renting
them out you know I have a home actually
that is
$300,000 I would me and my uncle um who
are splitting everything in the home um
is about we're going to split everything
the down payment like absolutely
everything in the home it's the house is
worth about $300,000 we're getting about
7% 8
and we would be doing an FHA loan on
that the thing is that my uncle doesn't
live in the state so I would be in
charge of maintaining the property and
we would go essentially half Seas on the
and you need your uncle involved
why so I need my uncle involved
because I just got this loan from uh
this VA loan about 6 months ago and
they're not letting me get another
mortgage
payment
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mhm okay because you're too broke to buy
a
property that's why they're not letting
you do that okay so the bank is telling
you not to do this and you're figured
out the way to beat that is to use an
uncle and do it anyway yes yes
sir okay um well Caesar I I've got just
a moment with you you to try to offset
all of the bull crap you've been reading
on the internet about real estate and I
don't know if I'll be able to accomplish
the goal of offsetting all of that I
will tell you that when I graduated from
college at 22 years old I bought my
first property by the time I was 26 I
had over $4 million worth of real estate
with a million dollar net worth doing
exactly what you're talking about I had
co-signers I had had banks that I had
talked into loaning me money I was
flipping
houses and um with no money and you got
no
money and I was buying property
basically with no money and so I was
leveraged up to my
eyeballs one of the banks got scared and
got sold to another bank and they looked
down and said there's a kid in his 20s
that owes us over a million dollars and
they called the notes on the flips that
I was doing they were 90-day notes and
they called the flip notes was a million
two and I had 90 days to come up with a
million two I spent the next 2 and a
half years of my life losing everything
I
owned getting sued getting foreclosed on
and finally with a brand new baby a
toddler and a marriage Hanging On by a
thread I was bankrupt that's my
story okay that guy that did that now
owns me several hundred million dollars
worth of real estate I recovered in my
30s
and 40s and 50s I'm sitting in one
building that's worth over 600 million
right now and it's debt-free
okay so just to give you an idea that
this can be done but I never borrowed
money again and I never took on another
co-signer because those two things
caused me tremendous
trouble and everybody that I knew that
did the type of real estate deals that
you're doing all of all of my friends in
that business were broke
too the only ones that were survived
were the ones that got out of
debt and you sir are walking straight
into a
razor and I'm going to beg you not to
buy this house I want you to own real
estate and I want you to be good at it
later I want you to take your time and
pay cash for the next little property
you buy and I think between now and 30
years old you probably are going to have
several properties that you could pay
cash for without your uncle and without
7% APR and just cuz you can manage three
roommates doesn't mean you know how to
manage tenants yet that's a bit of a
leap they're a little different and um
I've managed tenants for 40 years
believe me I know and the idea that the
tenant is paying for your house is
internet crap because you're paying for
your house and you got some tenants you
will find out that the tenant is not
paying for your house when one of them
doesn't pay that's when you'll discover
that I that real estate is not passive
at all it's very active so I love real
estate I own a bunch of it I'd love for
you to own a bunch of it but I'd also
love for you to avoid a nightmare and I
don't know if there's any chance that I
talk to you out of it cuz you were
completely in it almost sounds like
you've already done the deal and then
call me back to bless it and I'm not
going to if you did that deal I wish you
didn't cuz you set yourself up for
problems you set your uncle up for
problems you set up relationships for
problems you're living on the edge and
you don't even know it you don't even
feel it you don't you don't you've not
assessed the risk that you're under
correctly you've taken on way more risk
than your heart is grasping um ple or
you're about to please don't just take
your time every time I read the book The
Tortoise and the hair the tortoise wins
so be the
tortoise that's about all I got John
yeah yeah and again if that doesn't give
you pause then nothing's going to give
you pause um you mentioned this um at
the very end there this is a Surefire
way
to implode family relationships as well
yeah cuz it's not going to work out it
won't work out number one and the hus
the uncle's on disability for God's
sakes and he's in another state he's
going to be and so when this doesn't
work out trying to help his little
nephew out but the uncle's brother his
dad's going to call and say you need to
do this and grandmother's going to call
and Mom's going to call and now you're
not going to be able to go to
Thanksgiving you're not going to be able
to go to Christmas everyone always
enters into these things only
considering the upside and nobody
understands the risk profile man spend
spend your life studying risk and that's
where you'll man that's what that the
fulcrum always has to has to equili uh I
used to said it wrong it's got to
there's always another side to the folr
let me say it that way yeah and nobody
takes that into consideration when you
get stari man yeah go take a cold shower
son you got house fever yeah slow your
butt down that's what I would tell you
yeah you made the mistake of calling
asking for my
opinion which I'm 100% of the time going
to give you I'm an expert on my opinion
and I love you and so I'm going to tell
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