La pratique qui a changé ma vie - Dialogue inversé avec Thomas Gusatto

Fabrice Midal
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17 Vues de vidéo·29 oct. 2023
Thomas Gusatto m'interroge sur mon chemin de méditant, et sur la transmission de la méditation.
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This is the paradox of meditation.
On the one hand, how can we continue to practice
after not doing much on a cushion?
There are so many more fun things to do.
But in reality, precisely,
because in practice, from a certain point of view,
we do nothing in the usual sense,
we discover a power of action
completely new,
that we have lost a little in our culture,
but which is absolutely central.
And precisely, we learn that we have forces,
resources, knowledge,
an intelligence that is just blocked
by bad habits.
Hello, in this episode of Dialogue Reversé,
I am answering the questions of
Thomas Gussateau,
who leads the training
on meditation to transmit
meditation in one year
within networks.
And we will explore how meditation
helped me
not to be discouraged,
to keep courage,
to keep hope alive,
and how it could also help you.
Hello Fabrice.
Hello Thomas.
You have been practicing meditation for 30 years.
Why do you continue?
Why all this work?
What has it brought you?
In fact, it's been a little over 30 years,
but it's good to think about it,
because I think
it's absolutely exciting.
I discovered meditation
when I was 21 years old.
And I must say,
it never ceases
to seem to me
completely exciting,
in the power of transformation
and in the way
it allows us to find our place
in life and in the world.
It was not easy at all,
because in my childhood,
I had everything
so as not to feel
in my place in the world.
I felt really, I was hypersensitive
in a dysfunctional family.
Really,
it was very difficult,
and I really felt
like a squirrel
thrown into boiling water.
And it was really,
I have often talked about it,
but I was an extremely suffering child
with terrible ideas.
And meditation
absolutely transformed
and gave
what I really think
is essential to meditation.
It brings us back
to life.
And what I missed
when I was a child
was that I was not
put in relation to life,
and meditation allowed me
to do that.
So it was a relief,
but then it's an adventure.
If I'm still so passionate
about meditation,
it makes life exciting.
And there is also the fact
that meditation
makes everything exciting.
And of course,
we are a little surprised,
not you who practice
and have this relationship,
but for most people,
it's a little surprising
because meditation
is always presented
in a slightly opposite perspective,
a way just to try to calm down
and relax.
Meditation makes life
incredibly more interesting,
more exciting.
It gives you the courage
to be able to face it.
And of course,
in 30 years of life,
I have experienced,
like everyone else,
trials, difficulties,
and I have seen
how helpful it is.
It's incredibly helpful.
So you could have practiced
for yourself for 30 years,
but you didn't do it alone.
You created a network,
the school.
We are many.
Why all this work?
When I received meditation,
it was a bit of a coincidence.
I knocked on the door of an apartment.
I was a little terrified.
I said to myself,
what is meditation?
At the time,
we didn't know each other very well.
I said to myself,
you're going to take off your shoes,
so don't put holes in your socks.
I had this remark.
I went there.
I was a little worried.
It was a bit of a coincidence
because I had met someone
who was talking about meditation.
I was doing my philosophy studies.
I was very disappointed.
I found it very abstract.
So I went there.
Suddenly,
I met a person
who was really the first
to want to understand
the human spirit
by putting neuroscience
and meditation in relation.
He talked to me.
I thought it was great.
After that,
I trained for more than 15 years
with him and the Tibetan masters
with whom I studied
very intensively.
At one point,
I realized
that meditation
was misunderstood.
At the time,
it was confined
to a religious framework.
I didn't find
that meditation,
even with the Tibetan masters
with whom I studied,
had anything to do
with a kind of compassed,
heavy, religious side.
I don't have the religious sense at all.
I am passionate
about philosophy,
passionate about poetry,
but I don't have the religious framework.
There are a lot of people like me
who don't want the religious dimension at all.
So that was first
presenting meditation free of that.
And then,
when meditation became
what it is today,
it became a little...
By becoming popular,
it became a little simplified
and a little unhappy
because we completely remove
the richness, the manner.
Because if meditation
transforms our life,
and if meditation allows us
to change the relationship
to everything we live,
it is because it has
an incredible depth.
It is really this depth
that transforms us.
So this simplification
removes the power
I was so in love with practice
that I said to myself,
but it's really too sad
that other people have access
to a form of meditation
that aims to calm them.
But when we live a serious difficulty,
we don't need to calm down.
We need to heal,
to transform,
to change the relationship
to what we have.
If I ever lose someone,
I am betrayed,
I have to face difficulties,
calming down won't be enough.
I really need
to be able to work
with the emotions I live,
transform them,
find another relationship to the world.
So it is this power
of practice
that I found important
to transmit and open
a real debate
with philosophy,
with the great therapies,
I thought it was in this debate
that we could integrate meditation
into our world.
And many people
did this work,
especially in the United States,
Jack Hornfield, Sharon Salzberg,
Tara Brach,
and many others
that I knew well
to have met them in the United States.
And I said to myself,
they are doing a job
that I found important to do.
How do we deal with fears,
anxieties, trauma,
the feeling of not having
a place in the world,
hypersensitivity?
I thought it was this
that was fascinating
to try to explore.
And this is how meditation
transforms us.
What do you think
meditation answers today?
I think it has changed
over the years.
I see your question very well.
It is very fair.
At one point,
it was the exotism of a spirituality
when we are cut off from the spirituality
that has marked a lot.
Then we saw that
in relation to the speed,
the tension, the calmness
that meditation promises,
I have the impression
that today, at least for me,
what strikes me the most
is the power of discouragement.
We see wars again.
It is heartbreaking.
We see global warming.
We see social violence.
And a lot of people
are really...
There is a discouragement.
And I think that meditation
brings us in relation
to a joy that is not
a negation of difficulty
but that teaches us
to be able to face
a whole new world.
It teaches us to be able
to face it in a whole new way.
And so, I have the impression
that today, a lot of people
everywhere see that meditation
has entered hospitals.
We have worked a lot
to bring meditation
into elderly people,
in retirement homes,
with young people, in schools.
Obviously, there is a danger
that I often denounce,
that meditation is just
to be more efficient,
not to make waves
until death follows.
Because it is very important
to say that meditation
means nothing.
It is like talking about food.
There is food that can poison people.
There is food like my grandmother
did, which is delicious.
And then there is the food of great chefs.
And so, each time,
it is another experience.
Or cinema. There is commercial cinema.
There is a whole world
that aims to prevent people
from thinking by themselves.
There are films that make you think.
There are films that prevent you from thinking.
There is meditation that prevents you
from thinking, that prevents you
from seeing clearly in your life.
And there are, on the contrary,
meditations that are clear,
that awaken, that open
in depth.
And so, I find that
meditation today is helpful
to this need
to regain strength, to regain momentum,
to regain courage,
not to be discouraged, not to give up.
Because
we cannot do without problems.
I don't believe in all those
who will tell you, I have a way
and you will never suffer again.
No. There are trials in life.
There are difficulties.
But we can learn
to never be discouraged again.
To be able to face it.
And I think that meditation
has this extraordinary, extraordinary
power to make
us not be discouraged anymore.
And not by a
voluntary, abstract,
theoretical decision
that doesn't work at all.
And I talk about this.
Almost all the guests I invite on the channel
keep talking about this trap,
to believe that it is by
closed will that we will succeed.
It's not because I decide
that I am anxious that I am not.
It's not because when I have an insomnia
that I decide to fall asleep
that I will fall asleep.
It doesn't work like that.
It's not by this abstract will.
But it's not a set of
attention, habits,
new behaviors
that the transformations
that we can transform,
calm down,
wake up.
And that's what I believe
is important today.
And it's clear that
in school, it's both for everyone.
A lot of people come to discover meditation.
But we also have a lot of professionals,
therapists, and people who come
to train themselves because
I think that now the approach
I present is known, recognized,
it has been imposed.
We have trained thousands of trainers
who today transmit meditation
and see the rigor, the seriousness
and the effectiveness of the approach
in a positive way.
There is an efficiency that is completely
crisp and there is an efficiency that is happy.
When I see a doctor,
I want him to be effective.
But if he is crisp about wanting to be effective,
he will no longer be scared,
he will want to do only analysis
without being scared.
So it's the real efficiency
that seems to me quite relevant.
And so it's the therapists
and all these professionals
who come to meditate today,
it's to be able to give
a little breath and life
to a lot of people
who have the impression
that they are cut off from life.
I think there is something like that
that we see today,
a kind of fear, paralysis, discouragement.
And basically we could say that
stress, burnout, are diseases
where we are like cut off from life.
We want to do so well,
we are so caught up in a sense of duty
that something that animates us
from life
no longer palpitates in us.
That's it.
Basically, stress and burnout,
which are often described very badly in my opinion,
come from there.
These are really diseases
where we wanted to do too well,
to respond too well to the injunctions
that were made to us,
and it cut us off from life.
And so basically we can say that
meditating is extremely powerful
for stress, burnout and all that
has to do with life
and it allows us to avoid this grip
which is basically an external grip.
Basically, burnout means
that we are caught by a grip.
This is very important because
I often hear
a way in which people are blamed
by saying to them,
you did a burnout, you are stressed,
it's your fault, you are not doing well enough.
No, it's because you want to do too well
that you have this problem.
And in fact,
almost always,
it's a bit of a very
blameworthy approach that I have,
often we go wrong
because we wanted to do too well.
So we cling to our past to heal it,
it locks us up.
We are prisoners of such problems
because we want to do too well.
And I think that's what's absolutely
important to transform.
Stop wanting to do too well
to be in the right place,
to find your place,
as I said in the introduction.
Now that you say it,
that's what fascinated me
when I met you
and I started practicing in school.
It was this side where
we don't run away from the pain,
we also look a little bit
where it hurts.
We learn to live
with our existence as it is
and we don't have to be afraid of it.
It's a powerful learning.
It's true that it gives you momentum.
That's what gives us
a little bit of courage
on a daily basis.
And I said to myself,
I'm not being lied to,
there's something real.
Can you tell us
how we do this experience
in school?
Because it's quite special.
At what point along the way
do we find this courage?
What are the tools,
the resources?
If meditation
is a technique,
a corvée,
an obligation,
as it's too often presented,
we're sure we're going the wrong way.
The practice of meditation
is like a meeting
with what is alive in us.
It's not necessarily pleasant.
I remember the first time I meditated,
I was suffering,
I was so tense,
I wanted to do so well,
I was so tense,
but it wasn't
boring, tedious,
it was intense,
alive.
I think that's very important.
I see a lot of people
who try to practice
with a lot of applications,
and I complain about it
because I see that
what they are presented
with this syrupy voice
and all that,
so the first point
is that meditation is a meeting
with what is alive in us.
And here we discover
the extraordinary power
of the ability to pay attention
to what we live,
which is quite surprising
because it's something
that we were never taught.
We were never taught this at school,
we were taught a lot of things,
you have to learn this,
you have to learn that,
while meditation is
a very specific way
of learning,
and so I would say
quite brilliant,
what it means to pay attention
to what we live.
I am irritated,
how can I pay attention
to my irritation?
Or am I happy?
And that's not at all obvious,
very few people know this,
because it's not at all
funny,
if I have to observe myself
while I'm talking to you,
I'm going to be in a kind of...
you're going to say,
I suddenly look like a politician
who observes himself
because they were filmed,
they want to give a representation of themselves,
so it's much more natural,
it's a completely natural attention.
And the first thing,
quite surprising,
is that this attention
allows us to enter
into what we live,
by freeing us from the automatic judgment
we have on what we live.
I'm irritated,
all of a sudden I say,
I shouldn't feel that,
or I'm angry,
I shouldn't be angry.
So here, by attention,
we are in the meditation
of dissolving judgments,
what I often call the general prosecutor,
who is there permanently,
and it's already completely liberating.
And we have another way
in which attention works,
it's that we are taken by resettlement.
I don't know if it happens to you like me,
but sometimes we are taken by something,
we are resettled,
and the illusion that we are all taken
is by resettlement,
I'm going to heal the resettlement.
Someone has given us something that we don't like,
and so we resettle, we come back,
and we think we have to get to the end of the matter,
and the more we resettle,
and what is absolutely great
in the work of meditation,
is that we learn to free ourselves
from resettlement by coming back
to the sensations,
to the real experience
that we are living.
Without necessarily finding a solution.
We are not looking for the solution.
First, because the obsession with the solution
prevents us from being in relation to the problem.
That's why I often say,
to meditate is to learn to listen.
First I have to listen to you
and see what interests you.
So,
that's learning to listen.
Besides, I'm happy,
a lot of people on the channel
like the channel
precisely because
they are struck by the way
I try to listen to the speakers.
And that's really a meditative experience.
It's really listening to life,
listening to what we live.
So we see that this attention
that we develop in meditation is surprising.
It prevents us from being stuck,
from avoiding the will to control.
It prevents us from being prisoners
of resettlement.
It brings us back
to the entirety of our being,
of our body.
So it already has
a fundamental power.
And it frees us
from the general prosecutor
and this kind of mania
to judge our experience
before having met it.
What you say, I have the impression
that there are a lot of things
that we unlearn.
We unlearn to use the will
to solve everything,
to put aside what we feel
because it's not good,
you shouldn't feel that,
you have to be positive, etc.
We unlearn that,
but in this joyful meeting,
ah, here it is,
that's it.
And next to all this aspect
of the power of attention,
we also learn
in practice to open up
to other forces
than those of what is happening.
We learn to open up to presence,
we learn to open up to space,
we learn to open up to goodness,
we learn to open up to confidence.
This is very little presented in the way
in which meditation is transmitted.
This is really one of the central axes
of the way in which
the true meaning of meditation is,
as we find it in all traditions.
Meditation is not only
this extraordinary ability to be attentive,
but it is also
learning to open up
to healing powers,
powers of liberation,
which we are most of the time
cut off from.
There is a way to train
our heart
to tame confidence,
to tame goodness.
This is a power,
this is really...
It's not easy at all
to say to yourself,
first of all,
I have these resources.
No, we don't say it to ourselves,
we discover it in practice.
And practice has this great thing,
it's that something is done
without me making it.
This is the paradox of meditation.
On the one hand,
this is your question from the start,
but how can we continue to practice
when there are so many more fun things to do?
But in reality,
precisely because in practice,
from a certain point of view,
we do nothing in the usual sense,
we discover
a completely new
power of action
that we have lost a little in our culture,
but which is absolutely
central.
And precisely, we learn that we have
forces, resources, knowledge,
an intelligence that is just blocked
by bad habits.
And again, that's what happens
when we do a burnout or we are stressed.
It's just mechanisms
that cut us off from
living sources in us.
It's not that all of a sudden our being has transformed
and that we have become...
that we have lost...
that we have no joy in us anymore and that we are screwed because we are stressed.
No, stress prevents, covers
life, joy,
the relaxation that was there in us.
And so, practice allows
us to come back, to reconnect
to this life.
But concretely,
what do we do?
What practice are we talking about?
Because meditation...
I have the impression that it is a term
that has become generic,
we put a lot of things in it.
You said it, meditate to sleep better,
meditate for this, for that,
with a somewhat reductive
vision of meditation.
What do we actually learn
in school?
What are the practices, what makes
the singularity of your transmission?
I think it's the vision.
I think it's this vision that I'm trying to deploy.
And the fact that
we teach people
in networks,
because it's really a network of people
who practice together.
It's first of all an online school
with a lot of resources,
courses. I think we teach people
the results with practice.
We don't just teach them one practice
that must be mastered, technical.
We show them the meaning of practice,
the different approaches.
There are dozens of practices.
I think on the network page
we must have several hundred
different meditations.
Because
we don't meditate the same way
when we're a teenager
who has to go to high school,
when we practice
just on a daily basis,
when we're an old person,
when we're sick,
when we have a challenge,
when we're scared, when we're sad,
when we're angry, when we want to reconnect
to joy, when we lack confidence.
So meditation is all that.
And I think that's the path
we offer
in networks.
It's to learn how to meditate
so that it's alive,
so that it's great for us.
Basically, it's very simple.
I think that meditating must become
great.
I don't want to make false promises
that it's always
great.
I have to say that
even today, I find many good reasons
not to practice.
Or when I practice, I think,
when will it end?
But something happens
that is so fresh, so alive,
that renews my way of doing things
that for me,
it's really exciting.
Like going to eat
a good meal
or going to see a good movie.
Other things that I like to do a lot.
There's still this experience.
That's it.
And that's why
it's so great.
How would you name
the common point between
eating something good,
watching a good movie,
and what we discover in practice?
It makes us alive.
It relieves us of a certain weight.
It makes us happy.
It makes us happy because we're human.
And it's not because I eat a good meal
that I cut myself off from others
and from life.
I really like
a text by
Camus
that says
that in our society,
we shouldn't say that we're happy.
It's really taboo.
It's like the crime of common law.
Above all, never admit it.
And that in reality,
it's a profound mistake.
That it's not because
being happy
allows us to radiate happiness around us
and to be able to help others.
And that if we don't
touch this sense of happiness,
of joy, of fullness,
then our way of
wanting to help the world
is cruel and oppressive
and sacrificial.
And Camus says that
he knew a man
who didn't like his wife.
It's not good.
And he decided to take care of her.
And it was a catastrophe
for her and for him.
He had an oppressive generosity.
And so it wasn't alive for him.
It wasn't alive for her.
And so I think
that's it.
Being alive
is the opposite of what we think.
It's not a closure
on yourself.
On the contrary, it's a way of resourcing
to be able to see what we can do
in our lives to make this world
a little more alive.
And I think that's
the profound vision
that I'm trying to deploy
and that everyone is trying to deploy.
Because in the network,
we now have about fifty teachers
who have been practicing for a very long time
and who each have their own way
of transmitting this vision.
And you yourself
are one of them
at the forefront.
And that's what I think
is the strength of the network.
It's that
there are people who
transmit it from their own
experience by
sharing this vision
that meditation
is being alive.
It's not cutting yourself off from life.
Too often, people see meditation as
cutting themselves off from life.
I shouldn't feel too much emotion,
I shouldn't be sad,
I shouldn't be like this,
I shouldn't be like that.
Our society tells us all day long
you have to do this,
you have to do that,
you're not well,
we're not well,
everyone's not well.
I think that's the key point.
Because the
big reversal
for me,
for example,
was to meditate
when I was in pain
and to be in a slump,
to touch that in my practice,
the pain I had
when I was forbidden
for a very long time.
Because it was like that,
I was really educated
that you shouldn't be afraid,
you have to be strong,
you really have to overcome
the pain,
forget it, put it aside,
put it in your pocket,
it should not appear,
it should not be seen.
It's really showing something
of a kind of weakness.
To feel guilty about it.
And it's very striking
how,
despite everything,
our society is still
completely cut off
from everything
that emotions,
their meaning, their transformation
can be.
It's still extremely
striking.
And what you say, which is very beautiful,
is how you allow yourself
to feel your grief, far from
sinking into it,
allows you to open a relationship
to it that is completely new,
because when you reject it,
deep down, you want to feel it,
and even if it's not
necessarily very conscious,
deep down, there is a form of anger
against your grief, of refusal of your grief,
of clinging to your grief,
which ends up
destroying us from the inside.
On the contrary, it was very joyful.
The memory I have of it,
that's when it's overwhelming.
It was to support
what you say about the power
of meditation training.
I was really happy.
I felt completely free,
allowed,
at some point,
to cry,
to really feel pain,
and also to feel how this pain
connected me to others,
to myself and to the world.
We can allow ourselves to be human beings.
We are not at fault for being human beings.
So, the training
that is offered in the school,
within the network,
has existed for many years.
A lot of people
have been able to participate.
Myself, I have seen a lot of people
follow what was offered,
your work.
What is the result
of all this,
what comes out of it?
At one point,
we realized that a lot of people
wanted to be able to transmit meditation
in their work,
teachers, teachers, therapists,
or just to train
in meditation
in a structured
and organized way.
There are people who like
to learn something
in a coherent way.
So, we did these two trainings
in one year,
to really allow people
to enter the practice,
to understand how it works,
to understand the different elements.
In other words,
meditation is like
the recipe for cooking
a complex dish,
and we learn all the ingredients
we need to put in it.
A bit of attention, a bit of presence,
a bit of kindness, a bit of non-judgment,
how to do it when we scream.
So, we learn a bit about cooking.
It is a cooking course,
and this course,
in one year,
has been revealed
and I am very happy
to answer this request.
A lot of people, after this year,
choose to continue
to train, but they can already start.
A lot of people tell me
that it completely transforms
their way of being a therapist.
Some tell me,
it is not so much that they teach
and do meditation exercises,
some do it, see when to do it,
but others just tell me
their way of learning to listen,
their way of experiencing,
not intellectually, but in our
inner being,
completely transforms
their way of
being a therapist,
but also
of being a coach,
a sports coach,
a lot of use of nurses.
We have an extremely
large audience of people
who want to do it in their company,
who want to train,
I think we have developed
a pedagogy,
you can talk about it better than me,
but we have really developed
a pedagogy, step by step,
structured,
that really allows everyone
this form of meditation.
I want to integrate it
and I want to be able to
understand it and maybe
pass it on to others.
Obviously, I only have one desire,
it was my motivation,
that as many people as possible
can discover how meditation
is such a simple way
to find
this talent, this joy,
this depth of life.
The more people do it,
the better I think
it is worth it.
Many therapists
have suffered
from their studies
where they sometimes found it
very abstract, very technical,
and they lacked
this precise and rigorous
existential dimension,
and this approach can allow them
to acquire it.
There are two trainings,
why these two trainings?
For the moment,
there are two trainings,
one on presence,
with all the aspects we have developed,
and one
on the dimension
of authentic benevolence,
in order to be able
to develop,
to change the relationship
we have with ourselves.
The problem for most people,
and this is what all therapists
notice,
it's really striking,
is that people are very
hard on themselves,
they feel they are not up to it,
they feel incompetent,
and so the year on benevolence
allows people to show
a way to learn
to transform this relationship
with ourselves, to go from a feeling
of distrust, of rejection,
of fear, of anxiety towards oneself,
to a warmer,
more confident,
more gentle relationship
with oneself.
So people can start
with one or the other,
it may be better to start
with the basics of presence,
and those who want to do
benevolence, but those who already
have some training in meditation
want to start with benevolence,
we are not rigid at all,
so it's quite open.
Why did we highlight benevolence?
I come back to the confidence
you mentioned at the beginning,
in relation to discouragement, etc.
Why do we talk about benevolence
and there is no longer
this aspect of confidence?
Because, I would say,
the essence of today's practice
is attention, presence,
openness to what we live,
it gives us confidence again
because we connect to life again.
What does it mean to have confidence?
I don't really know why,
but I feel I can go.
I have this basic security
that allows me to explore
my experience and the world.
I am not stopped.
Something does not freeze me.
Confidence is the opposite
of something that freezes me,
presence opens to this confidence,
but authentic benevolence,
I always say authentic benevolence
because today we use
benevolence in so many ways,
but authentic benevolence
is this way of connecting with...
In fact, authentic benevolence
is to connect with oneself with confidence
because instead of blaming me,
of torturing me,
I meet myself with gentleness.
And that, of course, gives confidence.
What is the lack of confidence?
I blame myself, I condemn myself
and so I am stuck.
That's it, when I don't have confidence,
I am stuck.
And basically, that's it,
the discouragement that happens
a lot in our world,
is that we are crushed
and cut off from ourselves,
cut off from life itself.
We always have good reasons,
we must be careful,
we always have good reasons
to be discouraged.
I mean,
my grandparents who survived
the war,
and who really
survived
by a kind of,
both chance, miracle and intelligence,
when they told me,
it was not logical.
They didn't say, we're going to have courage
because it's logical.
It's a way of coming back to life
and trying something,
trying something, betting for life.
And that's why I'm here,
me too.
So I think that's really
the lesson,
I think the lesson
of people who have gone through
serious difficulties.
It's not, once again,
a magic wand that will make you
have no more problems,
but we can learn
not to be discouraged,
not to give up,
and something will come out
and we will be able to learn
to bet on life.
That's it.
That's what meditation allows.
And because it's not
an intellectual conviction,
I'm convinced it's good.
It's something
that I feel,
that I experience,
I would say, viscerally.
I think that's the strength of meditation.
Maybe that's what I should have answered
to your first question,
but it teaches us something visceral.
It teaches us joy, life,
happiness, but in a visceral way.
And I think that's what,
at least for me,
that's what helped me.
That's what helps me today
to get out of something a little
fabricated to come back
to this pulsation.
Something very bodily,
because there, in what you say,
we feel how much the practice
has to do with the body
of this intellectual approach
and watchful approach,
as you said, where we observe
our life a little from a distance,
we try to conceive solutions
to our problems, etc.
While in fact
we are more connected
to what we feel.
The two trainings we're talking about
in one year,
who is it for?
It's for, basically,
everyone, that is,
to discover meditation.
And the advantage is that
it is structured,
and that by teaching people
to be able to transmit meditation,
it's the best way to integrate it,
to understand it,
to be really trained.
Because for people who don't want to transmit,
it's really a good way
to enter a clear path.
So it's both for all those
who are going to transmit it
in their profession,
and for those who want
to be trained
in the practice of meditation
by understanding
what it really is.
And what must also be said
is that it is an online training.
This is very important.
Everything is online,
with videos,
moments
live.
And there is just
in the training, an internship.
A lot of dates are proposed.
A five-day internship
in which we really do
the experience of meditation
in a residential setting,
and where people are really guided
in practice
to make it a sufficiently
solid experience
to be able to
have confidence
in their power of transformation.
And for now,
all the people who have done the internship
show how much
it has really transformed them.
So I would say that's it.
So there is just
this internship to do somewhere.
So it's in several places in France.
It works.
And then the online training
throughout the year,
where we are really guided,
enlightened,
we can practice.
This is the training process
that we propose.
Yes, because on the first internship,
I saw a lot of people coming in
who discovered the network,
your teachings
through
this training.
Yes, there are a lot of people today,
it's true, who understand that
meditating is not just
following an application,
that it will not lead very far,
that we do not really have confidence.
And a lot of people are starting to know,
because there are a lot of people who have done it
that the paradox,
it's still a crazy paradox,
that practicing 15 minutes a day
seems impossible,
and doing an internship is much easier.
And once we did it,
our relationship to practice changed.
We went through a kind of blockage
and it's much easier to practice after.
I know that's the only thing
I said in this video
that people cannot verify by themselves.
It will be necessary to do it to see.
But there really,
it's an experience that everyone,
all those who have done it can testify.
Yes, because it's true,
there are people who come to
discover the network,
but there are also people who come
to consolidate their practice,
to leave with the tools
to be able to integrate it into their daily life
with the difficulties
you are talking about,
where we have trouble getting used to it,
we are a little lost.
The internship really gives all the tools
to integrate meditation
into one's own life.
And some really have a project
to transmit the practice
and wonder how they can do it
in business, with elderly people,
teenagers,
or in a more personal, associative framework.
After what I find particular,
Fabrice too,
what has engaged me in all this
for quite a few years now together,
and it was important for me,
is that the network,
the school, remains an association.
We are not a training agency
where we offer
additional training.
So it's very important,
that's what will surprise people a little,
is that we are all volunteers.
I mean, everything I do
within the network, I do it voluntarily.
All teachers are volunteers,
which obviously
means that the rates
are completely different.
We just find our costs.
It's not at all
in a commercial perspective.
But I think it's consistent
with everything we've explained,
that we think meditation can transform people's lives.
So we give them
the gift of teaching.
We don't speak the same way
when we do this,
because it lives in us.
We want to give it.
I think it gives
a certain quality
that seems consistent
with the project that is ours.
It's certain that
in the network,
we are first in this perspective.
There may be associations
where people are paid anyway,
but we are an association
in which all those who teach
do it voluntarily.
And that's why
I have another job,
I'm an editor.
And I think it's very important.
You also have another job.
Everyone has a job.
So when we teach,
we also teach from that point of view.
We are faced with the same problems
as everyone else.
We don't live in an elsewhere.
And I think
it also contributes to the singularity
and quality
of the transmission,
of the training that we offer.
I found it surprising
to see
how serious,
solid,
structured it was.
There was a real pedagogy.
And for me, it was reserved
for the private sector.
I found it almost surprising.
It's true.
So we have a hard time believing it.
A lot of people tell us that.
Because it's true
that we have
both the living, existential
aspects of an association
and the extremely rigorous side.
But that comes from my training.
I was trained by one of the greatest
neuroscientists, a doctor in philosophy.
It's true that
I have a concern
for precision, rigor, clarity.
And also,
if I can make a confession,
I suffered a lot
when I was young,
to discover meditation.
Everyone took it
as a bit vague.
I studied philosophy.
I thought it was very serious.
You have to do these dissertations.
It's a bit technical.
And as soon as I talked about meditation,
people found it a bit cloudy.
And I wanted to show that meditation
can have the same rigor as anything else.
That we can be very precise.
And that's really
one of my commitments.
I often find that we are a bit vague.
I don't have time to talk about it here,
but the presentation of meditation
comes from a lot of dialogue with
all these American authors,
but also a lot of great therapists.
And I realized that when we talk
with great therapists,
we can see that what makes
it really help people
is precision.
Good feelings don't help.
Good feelings have never helped anyone.
What matters is
precision, meticulousness.
And here,
we are aiming
for a thousand.
And I think that's what's really essential.
Okay.
So, it makes you want to do it.
How do you register?
If people want to train,
how do they do it?
So, either you go to the website,
or you click on the link below
and you will have
all the information
to discover the training
and all the other activities
within the network.
And the training starts in January.
Here, we are in October,
so people can start
to register right now.
It's really
simple as a good day
to register and
to be part of this adventure.
And the more people
will understand
this approach of meditation,
the better.
Thank you for watching this episode of Dialogue Renversé.
And see you soon
for other Dialogues and other Dialogues Renversés.
