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What's the point of being old? Dear friends, Some people have said that our life is like a river that flows in a straight line and never stops Those lines are the difficulties that we have to face and if we are too concerned about losing our advantages then our life will be full of pain and regret Half of our life we are getting older and we have to face the reality that everything in life is as we want We have to face the pain with an optimistic attitude and let go of the negative and stubbornness in our heart If we can do that then we will get rid of tiredness and find happiness So, what's the point of being old? What's the point of being old? What's the best answer? Let's listen to this video about the philosophy of life First of all, What's the point of being old? There was a shrewd priest who ran out of the forest He met two men who were close friends They asked the priest Why are you so scared? The priest said Oh, I'm so scared I dug a hole in the forest The two men couldn't stop laughing They were so stupid They dug a hole Such a good love turned out to be a terrible thing It's really incomprehensible One man asked the priest So, where did you dig the hole? Please tell us The priest said Such a terrible thing Aren't you afraid? It can eat people The two men didn't believe the priest's words We're not afraid Please tell us How can we find it? The priest said It's right under the tree at the west end of the forest The two close friends immediately went to the place the priest mentioned and found the golden number One man told the other The shrewd monk was so stupid Everyone wanted to have a lot of gold But in his eyes it became a human food The other agreed Then they started to discuss how to bring the golden number home One of them said It's not safe to bring it home during the day It's better to bring it home at night I'll stay here You go find something to eat We'll have dinner here Wait until it gets dark We'll bring the golden number home The shrewd monk followed his friend and went to find something to eat The other thought As long as we get all the golden number and wait for it to come back we'll break it Then all the golden number will belong to us The shrewd monk also thought We'll have a full meal then put the poison in its food When it's dead all the golden number will be ours As a result when the shrewd monk brought the food to the forest the other shrewd monk hit the shrewd monk Then the shrewd monk said Dear friend It's because of the golden number that I did that Then the shrewd monk brought the food back to the forest and ate it Not long after the shrewd monk felt very uncomfortable and hot He was poisoned When he was about to die he said The other shrewd monk was right People used to say People die for money birds die for food Everything is caused by greed Desire has turned two close friends into enemies and killed each other Actually, people come to this world and go away So what can we gain from this? I still don't know But it's hard to stop our greed from the greed of the world such as money, power, position, love and pleasure It's hard for us to find a place to stop We already have but we want more Just like that, we are always lost and don't know Even when we are old we think that we don't have to be greedy We just need to live a peaceful life There are still many people who are full of greed and don't know enough They already have a house and they want to live in a bigger house They have grown up children and they want to have more Just like that their greed and desire are like a bag without a bottom The bigger the greed the more pressure The bigger the desire the more pressure Once they fall into the trap of desire they can't escape At that time, the desire will devour your will and make you lose your mind The result is you become a slave of greed You are always greedy and never satisfied When you are not satisfied how can you have a happy old age? When you are old if you can't let go of your desire and desire it will be very difficult to maintain a peaceful and calm mind When you put personal interests first in your mind you will naturally become depressed, worried and hot After all human suffering originates from greed and when you have been through half of your life you have been through many disasters Even people who have been through a big disaster but didn't die at that time they will clearly feel the feeling of knowing enough If you know enough, the poor will be happy If you don't know enough, the rich will be sad Knowing enough is respecting everything you have in the present At this age you shouldn't think that you lack something but you should think more about what you have and what you can give away If you don't know the importance of the present then what you have will not last long What are you talking about? So don't have too many desires and desires always treasure every moment of the present Don't compete with life which is the wisest way to have a happy old age Second What is annoying? There is a story in Buddhism Tieu Hoa Thuong and Lao Hoa Thuong were destined to be together Tieu Hoa Thuong followed him always respectful everything he did, he followed the master When they arrived at the river bank they met a girl who wanted to cross the river but couldn't Lao Hoa Thuong carried her across the river When they arrived at the other bank the girl said thank you and left Tieu Hoa Thuong was very curious Master How can you carry a girl across the river? But he didn't dare to ask Just leave forever When he was 20 years old he really couldn't wait to ask the master We are experts How can you carry a girl across the river? The master said I left her by the river and you The master carried the girl for 20 more steps but he didn't leave her Lao Hoa Thuong's words are full of kindness and art of life Life is like a journey On that journey we can see beautiful scenery and have to go through many difficulties If you bring all the places you have been through it will cause you a lot of trouble But usually we often blame fate life and others Not many people suffer the pain that we create Suffering, pain and trouble are not brought by anyone and forced us to accept but by ourselves allowing us to accept things that are not real Then we get stuck in there The more we suffer the more we get sick So when we are old it means that we are in this life every day shorter Life is a day and you are also a day So why don't we let go of the delay so that this short time can be meaningful Counting all the sweet and bitter things in life Now you know better than anyone Life will have unexpected moments If you can't change the world then change your inner self Learn how to change a few different angles and raise the level of seeing the problem So you will easily have Keep a calm and calm heart and live in the peace of the present life Then you will realize that life is very happy and beautiful At the same time it helps you forget the delay, pain and trouble No matter what happens you should not look for nothing Every day, live happily That's the best Third What to be afraid of? The one who is afraid is creating a dark room in his heart locking his heart making himself unable to escape Actually, in life there are people who are afraid of others all their lives and can't forget There are things that have been over for a long time You feel like yesterday full of frustration, anger and blame But in the end life is short Why are you still holding the hatred in your heart when you are old? When you hate others don't know if it's painful but your heart is really painful because there is no peace Remember sometimes the sky is clear sometimes it's gloomy There are ups and downs in life When you have conflicts in your mind the pressure will double When you have conflicts in your mind the pressure will halve Our lifeboat has gone too far it can't wait too long it can't resist too much Hatred and anger in the past for anyone is a burden on the soul especially for the old Hatred is like a poison that makes the old weak Blame makes the old lose the meaning and joy of life Also those who blame live in such a state for a long time they will be quickly de-energized On the contrary there is a stable state of mind that will help you maintain a healthy body not prone to any disease So at this age why do you have to be better than you can do why do you have to fill yourself with anger Forgiveness is the key to open the door of blame and the hand of hatred It is a powerful thing that can break the chains of bitterness and the shackles of selfishness The past is something that can't be changed but can only be accepted People should live in the present Hatred in the past should not be kept forever When we let go of hatred the world will open up There is a positive and unyielding state of mind which is the good medicine that helps us live a long life a long life of life My dear friends There are times of good and bad Always moving transforming and changing is the rule of the universe the rule of life Then we will see that everything that happens is normal We will no longer see that something is too important We will no longer be stuck in negative emotions such as anger, annoyance or suffering Life is not just ownership but also letting go Because when you hold tight there will be nothing inside But when you let go the whole world will be in your hands Learn how to let go of despair let go of annoyance let go of hatred Your old age will be happier and calmer In the end when the mind is loud enough generous and bright when you know how to let go at old age look back at the things that we used to think were suffering, pain, annoyance the same as in the past we can calmly smile and see that nothing makes us suffer just like someone once said when you turn from an ant to an elephant then a huge rock has blocked your way making you unable to cross turning into a tiny seed lying beneath your feet At the end of today's video I would like to invite you to listen to the story Father, don't send your grandson anywhere After my father passed away three years ago my mother married you To be honest, compared to my late father he was usually nothing special But my mother needed a friend when she got old but the demand of a woman who was already over 50 for the other half she just needed a good personality At this point he had all the conditions he was famous for being kind honest and honest The first time he met my mother he was very confused he knew that he couldn't do anything for her the house was too small the salary was too little he was just a normal worker who had to help his son get married he had no money Mrs. Hong I know your condition is very good nothing is missing To be honest I don't have anything to give you but anyway let's try to find out this afternoon stay at my house and have a nice meal His sincere heart made my mother not to refuse he didn't let her do anything just finished a delicious meal My mother is a practical person but that meal made her kind to him Later my mother also met a few more strangers although the conditions were better but in the end my mother still chose him just like that he and my mother came together that day my mother, my family we had a meal together I arranged this meal in a luxurious 5-star hotel because I wanted to show my respect to him but actually through that I showed my level when we left the hotel he gently told me from now on we are family if we have a meal together just come to my house I didn't know him but I felt sorry for him although I couldn't help him but I didn't want him to waste money for me his sincere love hurt my heart but it also touched me in fact he took care of my mother very well every time he met me she always smiled he cooked very well once when we had a meal together I couldn't stand it and told my wife next time you should learn from him my wife's face was so sad he stood up he couldn't do anything just a little bit to cook you are all don't learn from me if you want to eat just come here I just want that after we left he packed a lot of things he made he held my hand and said don't praise my father's cooking to be honest sometimes I feel ashamed a man who can only cook can't do anything on the way home I told my wife what he said a man like him God created him by his heart our mother is so lucky she is a queen I looked at my wife I felt her contempt for him I felt a little uncomfortable but I didn't know what to say in the end he was still an outsider one day my father he and my mother came he prepared everything but when it was time to eat he was nowhere I couldn't find him I couldn't call him I calculated the time when the guests left he came back he tidied up the dishes I didn't want him to do that I felt sorry for him but she didn't know what to say seeing that I felt very complicated gradually I had more and more affection for him he did a lot of things for us he took me to the orphanage and took me home when my mother was in the hospital he didn't sleep he didn't rest he took care of her when he was discharged he told us one day he fell ill on the way to the orphanage he fell he had a stroke my son and I used to treat him but he didn't have any signs of recovery I know he was very shy when people had to take care of him he cried a lot one day he used a razor to cut his wrist for 5 hours he died he was very tired and desperate the first person who left him was his son after that he only came to visit him once he didn't come back he called me and said he had to go to work what surprised me was that my mother wanted to break up with him they didn't register they just lived together my mother told me she couldn't take care of him she couldn't help him but she couldn't bring a disabled person to take care of him I didn't want her to tell him those cruel words so I came to the hospital instead his eyes were full of tears but he agreed I hired a helper to pay the fee for a year I came to his house to hire a helper to help me choose a job he came back I didn't pick him up but the driver told me he wanted me to say thank you he said even his own son couldn't do that he wasn't home we felt a little sad there was no one to cook for us we ate in a 5-star hotel but we felt cold my son cried he wanted to eat a fish my son cried he wanted to eat a fish After giving him a beating I started to cook his favorite food The maid had already come home and prepared food for him I was also wondering Why could she be so good to a good man I stayed to eat with him I was crying What kind of man is he? How can I treat a man who is so sick, while he sees me as his own son? I did not hesitate to carry him on my back and go outside. He asked me, What are you doing? I said, I'm taking you home. Finally, he came back. The happiest person was my son. He hugged and kissed him, always wanted to eat fish, wanted to eat noodles, wanted to be a superman. My wife dragged me into the room and asked me, Are you crazy? Even his son did not care for him. Why did you take him home? I could not stand it anymore, but I gently said to her, His son did not do the right thing. It's his business. We should not use it as an excuse to leave him. I do not ask you to see him as your father-in-law, but if you know how to think for me, then see him as a family member. In my heart, he is a family member, a close person. It's easy to leave him, but it's not as if I can hide it in my heart. He wanted to calm down a bit. It's that simple. My mother cried like rain. She held my hand tight and said, Son, I really did not expect you to have such a love. I said, Don't worry, even if one day you leave him, I will take care of him until the end of my life. What's wrong with having a close person? After a while, my son came in and asked me, Dad, don't send him anywhere. I will take care of him. When you get old, I will take care of you. I hugged my son in my heart. Fortunately, it was not too late for me to be a good person in my son's heart. Grandfather, let us love, how can we send it away? Thank you for listening. Goodbye and see you again.