5 món nợ Già rồi gỡ xuống Đừng ôm giữ - Triết Lý Cuộc Sống

The older you get, the more you have to let go of the 5 debts you owe. My dear friends, some people think that being young is like a bonus. Everyone is happy to have more houses, more cars, more vegetables, more trips. But when you get old, you have to learn to let go. Because only by learning to let go at the right time, your heart will be more open, and you will feel the happiness from letting go. Letting go means letting go of everything inside and out. Don't let your thoughts be affected or influenced by other factors. Don't lose focus. Live a free and independent life. The older you get, the more you have to let go. Only by learning to let go at the right time, and letting yourself be free, can you be happy. Let's listen and reflect on life together. First, let go of the greed for precious flowers. Having enough money is good, but not having more is better. Don't chase after precious flowers, or desire for too strong a substance, and let go of the beauty of this life. After all, when you are old, the happiness of living and enjoying life every day is more important than all the material things. But in fact, many people have a good life, but they are still not satisfied. They always think that they have to live in a luxurious house, drive an expensive car, and eat expensive food. They think that's really happiness. Then put your eyes and mind into real life. Really look and feel. You will see that you are very happy now. At this age, having a healthy and healthy body, and a healthy and mature child, is the greatest happiness. Let go of the greed for precious flowers, because the more you desire, the more things will be in your heart, which will gradually become heavy. A person who has greed, does not know where to stop, does not know enough, so he will not be able to recognize and appreciate what he has. There is a saying like this, there is a piece of land, only three meals a day, a house with a garden, only three beds. When you get old, the simpler you live, the more you will experience the joy and beauty of life. The rest of your life will be peaceful and happy. 2. Let go of jealousy. There are people who get old and still hold a grudge, still can't forgive the person who has caused pain and suffering for themselves. They keep mentioning those things with an attitude of blame, anger and anger. In fact, if you keep holding a grudge, you will be self-destructive. Because people who have jealousy can only see anger, anger, anger. Remember that jealousy is just a protective eye that can't raise you or bring you any good things. So keep it forever in your heart. Everything in life is unchangeable. Suffering will go away no matter how painful it is. Just let your eyes look at the good things, don't hold a grudge over it. That's what makes you human. If you have your weaknesses, others have theirs. So if people don't treat you well, don't be jealous, don't take revenge. Be open-minded, open-minded and open-minded. You are you. The core of each person is always kindness. If you don't want to be jealous, it's best to learn to forget. Because we can't forget, we will fall into sadness, boredom and resentment for the rest of our lives. If you can forgive, but you can't forget, it's not forgiveness. That person can't let go of his resentment. He is still tired and heavy in his heart. An American philosopher said that forgiveness is the key to open the door of resentment and the gate of hatred. It is the strength that can break the chains of bitterness and the shackles of selfishness. When you have experienced all the sadness and joy in life, at an early age, you should understand one thing. Everything in life has its fate. Everything that happens in life has a reason. The one who loves you teaches you how to respect. The one who hates you teaches you how to forgive. The one who respects you teaches you how to be humble. The one who hates you teaches you how to be arrogant. Life is not hard, it's just how we look at life. Third, let go of resentment about life. One of the common mentalities of old age is to blame resentment. We often spend too much time resenting about anything we don't like. We don't stop and always find ways to resent in life. However, remember that resentment does not help you solve any problem, but only makes you more tired, down-tempered and blaming others. Resentment will make you grow old quickly and most of all, you don't take a quiet time for yourself. So stop repenting, stop blaming and let go of unnecessary things in life. In fact, life is a state of mind. When you face life with an optimistic attitude, you will live happily. People cannot control what happens to them, but they can completely choose the attitude to face them. Life can't always be as beautiful as you want it to be. Your mood is what determines your age of happiness. People who like to complain, no matter how good life is, they don't feel happy. People who are full of negative energy, when they face anything, they immediately shout and complain, then they will only become more and more unhappy. Meanwhile, optimistic people can turn bad things into good things. Once you let go of your complaints about life, you will realize that happiness is not that hard. The best way to change your life and your way of thinking is not to complain. Psychologist Leon Festinger once said, 10% of life is created from what happens to you. The other 90% is determined by how you react to it. No one's life is smooth sailing in their own way. Let go of your complaints. Don't complain. You will see wonderful things in your life. It would be great if you could use meaningful time in your life to change and improve your age with a positive energy. Fourth, let go of the shackles of the past. Old age often reminds us of the past, even if we are stuck in the past. It's like time can go back. It's like we can change this and that in the past. Life is actually a process of letting go of the past and heading for the future. A man has a carefree life in a rich family. However, a change will make the property disappear. Members of the family have to run around and live a hard, poor life. From a man who lives in poverty to a man who becomes white after a night. He gradually falls into a state of depression and is depressed. He is always stuck in the darkness of the past. One day, when he was passing by a rice field that had just been flooded, he saw a farmer ploughing a field. He was curious. The color of the field is dead. Why are you still ploughing? The farmer looked at him and said, The color of the field is dead, but the field is still there. So you can't be bored and sad because the season is gone, right? The man asked. The farmer replied, Are you sad? At first I was sad, but that sadness can't bring back the color of the field. It can't give me food to eat later. The farmer's words made him understand the problem. Being obsessed with the past only makes people more and more dissatisfied with the present, unable to see the future. The past, no matter what, is something that has passed and cannot be changed. It can only be accepted. The boat of life can't carry too many burdens. It can't resist too many temptations. The pain of the past plus the boredom of the present will make your five-month-old life unhappy. Don't be blinded by the past. Dare to let go of the past and move forward. The more you move forward, the more the pain will retreat. Fifth, Let go of time. No one can avoid the cycle of age and the laws of nature. At this stage, spend more time with your parents and enjoy the time with them for the last time. At the same time, don't worry about your children's future. They have their own path. As long as they have a clear conscience, the future will still be open. When we reach puberty, we have experienced the ups and downs of a young person, the ups and downs of middle age, and everything else is calm and open. Don't just want someone to spend time for you, but forget that everyone's time is limited. Don't ask your children to spend more time and care for you, because children also have their own lives. The older you get, the more you should think about letting go of other people's time. Instead, use your precious time to enjoy your old age, to pay back, to make up for love, to meet new people. That way, you won't let your old age pass you by meaninglessly. My dear friends, in all of us, no one can stop time from passing. Birth, old age, illness, death, are things that everyone has to go through. When we can't change our age, we need to change our perspective to adapt to each stage of life. In the big river of life, we are like a sad boat on the other side of the river. The more we have, the harder it is to move. The more we let go, the richer we become. Only by letting go can we live a better life. Only by letting go can we find true love. Only by letting go can we be reborn. Only by letting go can we live a free and self-sufficient life. As the saying goes, life is not complicated. It's all because we make it difficult for ourselves. After all, time can't be taken back. The only thing we can do is to let go and live every moment. At the end of today's video, I would like to send you and your friends a short message from my mother. We broke up when I was very young. I lived with my mother in my grandmother's house. She worked as a tailor in a small neighborhood. It took her 20 minutes to go out of town. Since the day we broke up, she has been working hard to take care of me so that I don't lack anything. As a city girl, every time she came to visit me, I hugged her so tight. When she came back, I was standing there crying and my mother was crying too. Since I was young, I was spoiled by my father. I slept on my father's shoulder and had to wait for him to feed me. I started to hate my mother. Why did my mother force me to stay away from him? At that time, I was so stupid that I didn't understand. My mother also had a hard time that I never understood. One day, my teacher gave me a script to describe a family meal. I started to write a meal with my father and mother. The meals, my father was always the person who removed all the fish bones and gave them to me. I couldn't remember much, but I remember that my father was not there in that family meal. After a long time, my father came back to visit me and left. He didn't want to eat with my mother and brother anymore. That day, my teacher called me to stay. I didn't know why my eyes were wet. She gently brushed my hair and came to see my mother. My mother cried. That afternoon, she didn't eat and stayed in her room. Maybe she was sick. I asked her to buy a bicycle to go to school. She said, if the old bicycle was still good, she would use it. I bought a new bicycle as a priority of my neighbor. She was silent and said she didn't have much money. Suddenly, that afternoon, she went to the town to buy a bicycle as a priority of her neighbor. It was brand new and shiny. She tried it and smiled happily. In the afternoon, she cooked crab soup with some bitter vegetables. I saw her losing her earrings. She smiled and said everyone in this small neighborhood is poor, so it's rare to have someone come to the tailor shop and bargain. The more I went to school, the more money I had. My mother started to receive more leaves. Every day, she received a green leaf and cut it into leaves to make a flowerpot. My mother's hands were shaking and the leaves were getting bigger and bigger. My grandmother held my mother's hand and shed tears over her old eyes. I grew up and realized that I was not good enough for my friends. They had fathers, but I didn't. My grandmother only knew about work. My father visited me less and I was quiet every time he came home. My mother did everything with her children. When I grew up, I liked to race and have a phone to decorate my room. My mother went to the tailor shop to get each leaf, each shirt, each dress for customers to buy for me. But my mother's money was not much and she could only buy a phone for her children. What phone did she buy for her children? My mother looked at me and seemed to be sad. I was angry and mad and ran to my friend's house. That night, I didn't want to go home and my mother was looking for me everywhere. The next day, my mother fell seriously ill as if it were my fault. Who said I was not as rich as others? She picked up my phone, plugged it in, cleaned it, and put it back on the desk. I saw her getting more and more angry and her hands were shaking and the screen was broken. That afternoon, she borrowed six dollars to buy me a new phone. And my mother, she picked up each piece of plastic, plugged it in, and smiled. She had something to call me. I didn't care. I was happy to have a new phone to play with my friends. I took the small book cover away. And my mother, she wore the shirt in the sun and couldn't find a place to hang it. It was all dirty. I and my mother took it away many times. My mother said, Leave mom and me alone in the cold house. I have enough time to go to school and meet up with my friends and leave mom alone at home. One day, I had to sleep at my friend's house to go to school early tomorrow. Mom was also angry and angry. I went out with my friend all night long. The next day, I was always tired from school. And my mom sat in front of the window every day and looked out the window to see if Binh had come home. Sometimes, I saw my mom lying outside the door in the morning. I turned off my phone and went to bed because I didn't want my mom to ask me or talk to me. Mom's story was also soft and repeated my childhood story. Mom opened the door, put her hand on my hair, and kissed my cheek gently. Then slowly she got out of the room and closed the door. I said, You don't have to be young to be a father. I decided not to go to college but to work. Mom advised me to go to school because I could take care of myself. I had been taking care of myself for 12 years, but I couldn't take care of myself for 4 years. I took the exam in a small school in the city. The day I went to the city to take the exam, mom brought me food and water. I was so angry. Mom, you didn't go to the refugee camp, did you? Mom was silent, laughing, and then she closed the door and left. Mom opened the box of rice for me to eat. I didn't eat. Mom was so angry that she could eat a little of what mom ate. When she ate, I tried to get away as if I didn't know anything about mom. Mom also knew, but she still ate and sat quietly there as if she was afraid that her son would be criticized by others. I went to college. Mom didn't tell me anything. Mom cooked chicken for me and my friends to celebrate Tet. After eating, there were still wings and bones. Mom braised them with pickles and rice. Mom likes to eat these. It's delicious. I went to school. It was like 2-3 months before I went home once. Mom encouraged me to go to school. I started to eat out. There was enough money to go out and eat. Life in Saigon was so hard. I forgot that mom was in the countryside and I was busy playing. Until one day, mom opened the front door. Oh my God! Why did you come up? I came to see you. You haven't been home for 4 months. Where did you go so late? I went to school all night. You don't have to come up here like that. It's okay. You look better now. I'll go home early tomorrow. You went to your room and tidied up when I was too tired to sleep. You tidied up and lay down next to me. Early in the morning, I called you to wake you up and take you to the bus to go to the bank. In a few days, I'll take you to the bank even if I don't want to. When I got home, I found out that you sold banh mi at the market. I was so angry when you brought the banh mi home. I thought you were so stingy that you sold banh mi. Now, there are so few people who can make banh mi. Are you going to blame me when people look at you and say that you sell banh mi and you're stingy? Oh my God! You slapped me when you hit me for the first time. I was so angry when I saw your hand. I sold banh mi, I raised you for more than 10 years and now you're so ungrateful? When I gave birth to you, you had a hard time and you were born in a poor family. When I raised you, I gave you a lot of money but you didn't have a father. I was afraid that you would lose your friends. I gave you a lot of money to go home and scold your parents. Who told you to give birth to me to be poor? After that, I threw my suitcase and ran to the bus station. I promised myself that I wouldn't do anything without my mother's money so that I wouldn't be ruined by you. That night, my mother called me and I didn't answer the phone but I turned off the power. I married you and I had nothing left. I moved to a rented house and found a job at a restaurant. The job wasn't as good as I thought. After each day off, I washed dishes and my mother scolded me but I was ashamed to earn money to pay the rent, to buy food, to send a car. When I earned money, I felt the weight of the money. In addition to society, I had to live with shame and sweat by working non-stop until I got scolded. It wasn't like my mother's money that I earned. She sweated tears when she exchanged her money. When I looked back, the money she gave me was so big that I could die right now but I couldn't pay it all. I wanted to go home and see my mother but thinking about the past made her sad. My feet stopped at the bus station and went to the West. Today, I lost my job at the restaurant. She said she wouldn't pay me when I had to work non-stop. I was bored so I went to the park to look at the streets. It was a long time. The days of independence were hard. I started to miss my mother a lot. I don't know how she was. Did she miss me? Did she miss me a lot? A boy came to me in a clean shirt, with a moustache. What do you want to eat? Are you hungry? Yes. Wait a minute. Let's have some bread. He nodded silently. I had no money and only had 20,000 VND. I was so hungry that I bought him a loaf of bread. He sat on the floor and asked me why I was so hungry. He was silent. He only ate half of the bread. It was torn. He wrapped the other half and tied it up. I asked him why he couldn't finish the bread. He said he left it for his mother. Where is your mother? She is over there. I followed him to a corner of the park. There, a middle-aged woman was lying on a big mattress, breathing heavily. Is Luong home? Yes. I have bread for you. Please eat. I'm not hungry. I'm half full. Please eat the other half. I'll ask for more money to buy medicine for you. He sat next to me and said he was hungry but he looked somewhere else. I was so small compared to him. I was too small compared to a kid who loved to study. My heart was broken. I have a mother. My mother gave me more than anyone else. I don't know what to do and I decided to call home. One bell. Two bells. I waited in silence. My hands were shaking. Hello? Mom? Where are you? I'm sorry I didn't hit you that day. I miss you so much. Mom, I know I've been selfish since I was a kid Mom, this society is not good for you like me. The money I made when I took it I didn't understand how you suffered. I'm sorry, Mom. I'm happy. It's been almost 20 years and it's not too late. I know I can come back. I went to look for Dad to look for you. Come back to me, Mom. Thank you for listening. Goodbye and see you again.