8 bài học thức tỉnh lòng người - Triết Lý Cuộc Sống

Ladies and gentlemen, we are all eager to do something big in life. But not everyone realizes that those big things are made up of small things. Our lives are made up of all the things around us, including those small, strange things. The same goes for the lessons we learn in life. After going through many ups and downs, many of us realize that many of the profound and profound lessons that life teaches us are hidden in the mess of life. Those who realize it soon will become the guiding light leading them to a safe, happy and successful life in the future. Let's listen to the following 8 things. First, happiness is today. The sky is bright when the rooster crows. The sky will always be bright when the rooster doesn't crow. So whether the sky is bright or not is not decided by the rooster. What matters is whether you are passionate or not. When you wake up, an old day has passed. If you don't wake up, you will sleep for a lifetime. You should remember that waking up every day is a new life. Second, happiness is letting go. There was a man who bought a box of candies because he was afraid that the hot weather might make the candies go bad. So every day, he chose the worst candies to eat first. As a result, he ate a whole box of candies. Life is like eating candies. If we focus on unhappy things every day, our whole life will be full of anger and worry. Let go of all the sorrows and throw them far away. If you focus on positive things every day, your life will be wonderful. Cherish every moment of your life. Live positively and cheerfully. Always pay attention and adjust. Don't let yourself fall into bad feelings. It is said that a group of people walked in the desert. When they came back, they were exhausted. They didn't speak a word. Then one of them was very happy and comfortable. The other asked, Why are you so happy and comfortable? He laughed and said, Because the things I bring with me are the fewest. Our life is like walking in the desert. If we bring with us anger, annoyance and negative feelings, we will definitely bring a lot of heavy things. We will run out of energy before we can reach the end. If you are uncomfortable or not satisfied with something, please say it. If you say it, find a solution. If you can't solve it, let it go. Don't try to hide it. Don't keep it in your heart to turn yourself into your own victim. It makes you tired mentally and physically. Letting go is when we forget the annoyances, the frustrations, the mistakes of ourselves and of others. There are many beautiful things waiting for us in life. But only when we let go of some things, those beautiful things can find their way to us. Third, happiness is to stop comparing. One day, Viet and Qua met. Viet had a peaceful and comfortable life in his heart. But he admired Qua's freedom to fly in the sky. Viet admired Qua's freedom. Qua admired Viet's peaceful life. Therefore, the two birds agreed to switch places. Qua got the peaceful life he wanted, but he didn't get the love of his master. And finally, he died of starvation. Viet got freedom, but because he had lived in luxury for too long, he was no longer able to survive independently. Finally, he died of hunger. How many times have you felt that you were insignificant, that you were selfish and greedy for what others had? How many times have you asked yourself negative questions, like, Oh God, why can't I be good at anything? Why can't I know anything? Why can't I do anything as well as brother A and sister B? Comparison with others is a trap that leads you to a life that is never happy. You are always jealous and feel inferior to others in every aspect of life instead of appreciating the good things you have. These things, if they happen frequently in your mind for a long time, will make you stress, blame yourself and lose motivation to work as well as enjoy the life you have. The above story gives us a very profound lesson, that is, do not admire the happiness of others blindly because that happiness may become unhappiness for you. In life, do not underestimate yourself, live your own life well, and enjoy everything that life has given us. This is the truth. Fourth, to be generous to others is to escape yourself. When a bunch of squids falls into a stream, the stream will immediately change color and no longer drink. But when a bunch of squids falls into the sea, the sea is still as blue as before. Why is that? Because the abundance of those two objects is different. The younger the rice is, the more wind it receives. The more ripe the rice is, the lower its yield is. Why is that? Because there is a difference in the weight of both sides. To be generous to others is to be generous. To be humble is to be humble. Combining these two things together will form the value of a person. There is a saying, The ocean does not flow from the water, so it becomes vast. In the world, everyone needs to be generous. The more generous your heart is, the more open the world in front of you will be. If a person always blames others, always overestimates the small mistakes of others, he will not realize his own shortcomings. Being generous to others not only motivates others, but also comforts and calms oneself. If you forgive others' mistakes, there will be more space in your heart, more kindness, more warmth, more sunshine. 95% of a flower is water, only 5% is different. The difference lies in the secret formula of each person. We humans also have 95% of the same basic, but the remaining 5% is the important factor that distinguishes us from others, including self-cultivation, personality, and personal desires, from which we decide our own happiness and pain. It takes 50 years for the fragrant oil to be able to integrate into the flower. We also have to go through the process of growing up and practicing in order to achieve our own unique flavor, in order to achieve success in life. The success of a person is not usually created or given by others, but it lies in the effort of each person. In this vast world, nothing is the same, so each person has their own secrets to reach the goal of success. Some people try to work hard, like the bees to pollinate every day. Some people are willing to face challenges, dare to take risks, to pursue their dreams. Some people are gifted, and in order to succeed, they nurture and develop that ability. But the nature of success for each person is very similar. That is to try your best, to perfect yourself as best as you can. Therefore, learning is very important, perseverance is very important. Sixth, you can't live by doing everything. There are two fathers and their children who take a donkey out on the street. Both of them walk. Some people say they are stupid because they have a donkey but don't sit. Then, when the child sits on the donkey, there are people on the street who curse the ungrateful child so that the father has to walk. In return, the father sits on the back of the donkey, and some people say that the father is so cruel. Then, the two fathers and their children ride the donkey together. Some people pass by and say that they don't know how to love animals. They don't know how to do it. Finally, the two fathers and their children have to carry the donkey home. There is a saying that I don't know what the key to success is, but the key to failure is to try to please everyone. In life, no matter what you are, no matter how hard you try, others will always have opinions about you. We have no ability to control other people's thoughts and feelings. The best way for you to do it is to understand your own thoughts and feelings. Because if we don't have our own opinions and determination, we are always influenced by other people's words and actions, then we can only do stupid things like father and son taking a donkey home. Seventh, enjoy life the right way. There was a donkey looking for a delicious whole egg. But because it was too fat, it couldn't get into the egg. So it decided to starve for three days and finally got in. But after beating it, it couldn't get out anymore, so it had to starve for three more days to get out. Finally, it said, I did it this way, in addition to eating well, I found a job for myself without any benefits. Isn't our life like that? We struggle all our lives, but in the end, when we close our eyes, who can bring the benefits that we have accumulated together? You can use your youth to make money, but you can't use money to buy youth. You can use your life to make money, but you can't use money to buy health. You can use time to make money, but you can't use money to buy time. Even if you spend your whole life to make money all over the world, you can't use that money to exchange it for the rest of your life. Therefore, the important thing is to respect yourself and enjoy life the right way every day in many different ways. Never think that when you have a lot of money, you can enjoy it. That's the wrong and negligible meaning. No matter what stage of life we are in, we can enjoy it, even if it's a little or a lot. 8. Gratefulness Gratefulness In a parent-teacher meeting, the principal wrote on the blackboard 4 formulas as follows. 2 plus 2 equals 4. 4 plus 4 equals 8. 8 plus 8 equals 16. 9 plus 9 equals 20. The teacher made a mistake. The teacher turned around and slowly said, Yes, all parents can see that this formula is wrong. But there were three formulas that were correct. Why didn't anyone notice and praise it, but only see that each formula was wrong by me? Then the teacher said in a sincere way, Dear parents, it's not that you accidentally found out the mistake of the child, but that you were in time to disperse what the child did right. As a human being, if you treat someone well hundreds of thousands of times, that person will see it as a habit. And just once you do good to that person, all the good things in the past can be completely denied and people will only focus on your mistake. This is the principle 100 minus 1 equals 0 It's the same between friends. It's the same between family members. Take a step back in friendship so that the relationship improves. Take a step forward in love to cheer up the whole family. There was a saying in the past, Gratitude is one thing, gratitude is another. This is the principle of being human. From children to adults, we all need to learn Dear friends, a person is the owner of a blessing. He can transform a blessing into a blessing or he can turn a blessing into a blessing. A person who is ugly, crippled, sick, is a blessing. But if that person has wisdom, morality, discipline, effort to cultivate, never stops struggling, he can transform a blessing into a blessing. People say, a blessing is like a metal armor that covers the body If you want to have many blessings, then you must abide by 4 things to avoid the following 4 bad habits. 1. Don't want others to avoid bad habits. There is a saying, The more you ask for, the more you want, the more tired you will be. The more you want, the more tired you will be. But if you want to be happy, the more you want, the more tired you will be. Because people are eager to dream that their needs are limitless, knowing when is enough. People who are too greedy are the most tired people. Because in the process of satisfying their desires, you may not have noticed that when you encounter difficulties, when you can't ask for it, there will be many kinds of suffering, annoyance. That's why they say, the more you want, the more suffering. There is a saying, The more you want, the more suffering. The less you want, the stronger you will be. If a person has bad intentions, the more you want, the longer you will be on the path of sin. They satisfy their desire for their desires without any means, even killing people, harming them. Actually, a lot of suffering in life, is because the desire is too heavy. In the heart, you don't feel satisfied. People in life want to be self-reliant, but they have to learn to let go. People who can't let go of their greed, it's hard to avoid fighting in the chaotic world, it's hard to live in peace. If a person can carefully reconsider himself, restrain his desire, he will be able to avoid suffering. Second, If you don't let go of your greed, you will be able to avoid suffering. There is another saying, The more you want, the more suffering. The less you want, the stronger you will be on the path of sin. If you don't let go of your greed, you will be able to avoid sin. Cockroaches, at night, they scream until their necks are broken. But no one wants to hear their sounds. Cockroaches only scream when the sky is bright. A scream, but it shakes the world. People hear that scream and wake up early. Is it good to talk a lot? Words are only useful when spoken at the right time. In life, every word spoken can cause harm, make yourself pay. Especially for those who often speak impolitely, or speak without a sense of dignity, the more easily the mouth becomes a door to deny the truth. You want to use your words to oppress others. Even if you have won, people do not admit it. For people like that, modesty is the best way. Sometimes silence is gold. People who talk a lot are not bad, but people who talk a lot are not good at all. Words are only valuable when they are spoken in the right situation, at the right time, and with the right person. Third, do not be greedy, avoid hatred. Living in life, a person needs to do all the work without neglecting, following the meaning, without changing, being criticized or praised, but not being greedy. As the saying goes, gaining benefits, but not asking for them. A gentleman values wealth, but does not accept it. But in the past, there were many people who gained benefits but were full of greed, because they were too greedy and fell into the trap of a man's greed. When the benefits are in front of you, if you want to take all the benefits, you will naturally be hated by others. But when the hatred is too much, one day it will definitely come down. Therefore, those who do great deeds can keep the right level when standing in front of benefits, not even continuously, but giving benefits to others. When the benefits are in front of you but you may not take them, do not see the benefits, then it is wisdom to look far and wide. Living in life, the benefits can bring you satisfaction at some point, but it will definitely be short-lived, because the thing that keeps people together for a long time is integrity, is sincerity. Don't live to look back later. The whole long way to the end is just me and me. 4. Don't be arrogant. Avoid dangerous relationships. An arrogant person will always be in front of others to show his or her advantages as well as disadvantages of others, trampling on others' dignity will make others distant, resentful. Living in an arrogant, offensive way with those who are disrespectful will lead to dangerous accidents. 5. Respect the elderly, love the young. The basic requirement of human beings is also the basic rule in the social order. A person who knows fear and is not arrogant will be welcomed wherever he goes. On the contrary, a person who is disrespectful to his parents will lose the basic standard of being a human being. A person like that is not only not respected by others, but also despised and despised by others. There is a saying, a self-proclaimed master who lies to the king is the reason why the king is humiliated. It means that a person who is respectful So, the ancients said a person who can be respectful, respectful, can last a long time. A person who can keep his mind calm, work properly, have a good reputation will avoid danger. Ladies and gentlemen! To be a good person, you must have a good reputation and be able to live peacefully and happily. And to do that The pursuit of morality, learning the virtues of a gentleman, is always the goal that life pursues. The one who achieves the status of a gentleman is the one who has a far-sighted mind, a high IQ that is superior to that of a human. Ladies and gentlemen, let's continue to listen to the following shares to nurture the mind and the heart of each person. 1. Have the ability to see life far and wide The first virtue of a gentleman is to have the ability to see life far and wide. The ability to see life far and wide here includes the foresight and foresight of a person. The higher the foresight, the farther you will be able to see. It's like a person standing in a higher position than another person. There is a funny story that goes like this. Black beans on the tree. I have nothing to do all day. I can only ask when I see it. Can I not do anything like you all day? Yes, why not? Therefore, the rabbit jumped to the empty space under the tree to rest. Suddenly, an ant appeared and ate the rabbit. Although the story is old, there are still a lot of people asking. Why did the rabbit eat the meat? Is it because it stands at a low position? The answer is too clear. Because the black beans stand at a higher position than the rabbit. That is the foresight and foresight that we often talk about. The foresight determines the level. In other words, the foresight is the subject of the level. A person not only needs knowledge, but must also have knowledge. A narrow-minded person, but lives with a lot of greed, is often a troublemaker. On the contrary, a foresighted person will be able to see all the problems, open-minded ideas, meet stories, know how to empathize, self-cultivate. 2. Have the ability to see life clearly. There was a saying in the past, the greater the ability, the greater the happiness. A drop of ink falls into a glass of water, making the glass of water change color and can no longer be drunk. But if a drop of ink falls into the ocean, the water is still green. Why? Because the level of these two things is different. So is the human being. The more forbearance a person has, the better and more comfortable his life will be. He will have more friends. The level is the most important moral value of a gentleman. Therefore, you only need to look at how a person reacts before winning or losing. Then you will know their personality. Are you a gentleman or a troublemaker? A person needs to be forbearance. If you only look at other people's mistakes and blame them, then you will become a petty and disrespectful person. The human heart is the most complicated thing in life. We can't know what a person thinks and we can't ask everyone to treat us well. But if we treat everyone well, have compassion, then life will be relaxed and fun. A gentleman must know how to win people over. Have compassion for everyone, then happiness will come automatically. That is the virtue of a gentleman. 3. Have compassion to look at life. Too much compassion is not good, and not having compassion is not good either. To be the best person, you still need a little compassion. A person who is too kind, doesn't know how to refuse, will be looked down upon by others. There was a shop owner in Russia. One day, he accidentally met a very poor old lady. He decided to give out a voucher to receive free bread for the elderly, as a compensation. Gradually, all the poor people with low incomes were given this voucher. Not long after, the news spread far and wide. The poor people in the neighboring town rushed to his grocery store to receive the voucher. At the same time, there were also those who ate well, who were lazy. The more vouchers were issued, the more the shop owner was concerned about his life. He decided that every day he would only issue a certain amount of vouchers. So there were some people who came late and were not allowed to receive bread, immediately shouted at him, without a little kindness. It was a good story, but in the end it hurt people. The shop owner's kindness only made other people full, but it did not fill their conscience, their gratitude. Helping people is a good virtue, but it should not have the last line. Kindness must have a line. Generosity must have principles. The Confucius said, Get virtue, get virtue. Sometimes we have to regain our sympathy, we have to be tougher, but we can't depend on our kindness. 4. Have a passion to live a peaceful life. There was a saying in the past, Passion, deep kung fu, noble gentlemen, self-discipline. A person with a passion, that is, a person who can keep himself, control his emotions and actions, such a person will not be worried when faced with adversity, not angry, when uncomfortable, no longer angry at others, when the relationship is damaged. Passion is the result of an endless process of self-cultivation, moral cultivation. It is the movement of life in the spirit, towards the path of self-discipline. The more a person has a passion, the easier it is to gain, to lose. If you can do that, your soul will become peaceful, your wisdom will flourish, your life will be peaceful. If you can do that, your soul will flourish, your life will be peaceful. 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