UNANGENEHME FRAGEN beantworten | Erstes Mal, Alkohol, Endometriose,... (Ehrlicher Girlstalk)

When did you have your first time? Do you take the pill? Are you waiting for an application? Has your body changed after the operation? I find that very exciting. Hi and welcome to a new video from me, friends. I feel a bit like I'm in an interrogation room here. I made myself comfortable in the living room. Not just me, Lani too. Lanna, say hello to me. Say hello to me. And yes, today I'm going to answer your questions again. It can be a bit uncomfortable. It will definitely be very personal, very private. You were allowed to ask me all kinds of questions on Instagram. Because you know, I always like to speak very openly and honestly, especially about taboo topics. I think it just adds value. You don't feel alone right away. You realize, okay, everyone has certain problems, thoughts, phases, other things to fight. So just a really nice girl's talk. You can always write your opinion in the comments, so that there is a bit of an exchange. I'm looking forward to it now. But I'm also a bit excited when I'm honest. But I like to do it. By the way, you can see that I'm still undressed. I just got out of the shower and now I'm going to finish up very comfortably again and answer your questions. By the way, I'll link all the products below in the info box. Then you don't have to interrupt and say what I'm using right now. My everyday makeup. Question number one. Do you drink alcohol? Yes, I drink alcohol. But I have to say, very little or rather rarely and little. But it was definitely different. I'll start from the beginning. I only started relatively late, maybe at the age of 16. Well, late, it was only at the age of 16. But yes. In the village it is sometimes a little different. You often drink at the age of 12, 13, 14. I think I drank alcohol for the first time at the age of 16. But then I had a phase in my youth. I was maybe 18 or 19 when I didn't have a lot of parties. I went out and often drank over my thirst. I can't recommend it. I've had my experiences and I no longer feel the need but also the health factor. I don't want to do it so often in my body. So if I drink something, it may be for some reason. For example, how I was at the wedding of a friend of mine or how we were at the Oktoberfest. And I think it also fits in society that you have a drink. But I think it's bad how alcohol in our society is neglected and is very important for some. So feel free to write in the comments how you feel about alcohol. Do you drink more often? I notice it when you don't drink that there are questions. Why don't you drink? Are you pregnant? Do you have to drive? You almost need an apology or justification. Sascha and I, for example, don't drink a glass of wine in the evening. We just don't. We don't underestimate alcohol. That's why I appeal to you to be careful with it. Next question. Would you mind if Sascha wrote to other women? I find that very exciting. The thing is, in our relationship, there is almost no jealousy. Maybe a little relationship tip from me. Honesty, trust, loyalty and loyalty are so important for a healthy relationship. Sascha and I never lost that trust. It's so nice because we have such a strong foundation that jealousy has too little space. But you have to say, everyone understands that in a relationship, jealousy and how to lead a relationship there is always something different. For some people, writing to other women is not a problem at all. Everyone has a different point of view. Sascha and I are very similar. That makes it easier. But I do believe that in a relationship, if you are different, you can find common ground. You can communicate. It's so important that you talk to each other. It sounds bad, but it's important to talk about basic things. You don't have to have the same opinion. It's convenient because it was like that for us. You don't have to say it out loud. We know if it's okay for the other person. Sascha only writes about his job with other women on Instagram. It's the same for me. I don't differentiate if it's a man or a woman. It's my job. Men are part of my community just like Sascha's women. But of course, she doesn't flirt with anyone. There is so much trust that you don't ask or show your messages. Then a lot of questions about my endometriosis came up. If you didn't know what was going on, check out the video I'm linking now. In spring, I was diagnosed with endometriosis. I had an operation. It was really bad. It was an emergency surgery. It turned out that I have endometriosis. It leads to pain, to infertility, to problems with the organs as it is with my gut. Anyway, I'm trying to ignore the topic and push it away because I can't do much at the moment. The good thing is that I'm one of the lucky ones who has almost no symptoms. In everyday life, I hardly notice my endometriosis. At the moment, I barely notice it. But I can talk about it later. That's why my current strategy is not to pay too much attention to it. I'm convinced that the head matters a lot. I feel good when I don't worry too much. It's always good when I don't think too much. After the surgery, I had a long conversation with my doctor. He said that the surgery might be good in the future. But it's not necessary at the moment. Maybe you want to try to get pregnant in a few years without having to have the surgery. It's just a matter of whether it's necessary. The next question was about the pills. As I said before, I don't do anything at the moment. It's not a recommendation or a general rule that you should do it. It's individual. I talked to a good doctor in detail. For me, it's the best at the moment. I don't take the pill. The pill can slow it down. But I decided against it. Because the pill has many negative effects and side effects. And since I'm pretty symptom-free, it's a good thing. Do you worry about your fertility because of your endometriosis? Endometriosis can be the cause of an unfulfilled desire for children. It's not a big deal. But in the conversation with the doctor, I realized that if you have this diagnosis, you have to be aware of it. And I realized that it could be difficult in the future. But again, I don't try to exaggerate. I'm convinced that the head, the placebos and so on give me more stress and pressure. The better it is for me. And since it's not a big deal at the moment, I don't think too much about it. Of course, I would be very sad if it would be a big deal and could cause difficulties. But you don't have it in your hands. Fortunately, there are many ways to help. Artificial fertilization and so on. But I don't think that it could be a big deal. Many women try to get pregnant after many years. And I think that it could be a big deal. But I don't want to exaggerate too much. Because at the moment it's good as it is. And I appreciate it. The eyeliner has changed a lot. A lot. Maybe the question how do you feel during the period? That's also a topic. Endometriosis. The last time I was on the couch all day because I had a lot of pain. I definitely notice that I feel the endometriosis. I have pain during the period but not always the same. On some days a little pain is always there. But I got used to it. My doctor always told me that it's normal. But it shouldn't be normal. If you have a lot of pain talk to your doctor about endometriosis. There are so many women suffering from endometriosis without knowing it. And if you know what it is you can deal with it and do something about it. I'm really happy that I have such a strong opinion. Did your body change after the surgery? Definitely yes. Especially because after the surgery I wasn't allowed to do any sport. That alone affected my body a lot. I lost a lot of muscles. I noticed that a lot. I became more unsporty when it comes to my position. I noticed that a lot. And also my body. I also noticed the endobelly. People say that the endometriosis inflates the belly. I feel like it's stronger after the surgery. I don't know if it's because of the surgery or if it's just a stronger inflated belly. But I'll tell you how it is. Of course you have to take care of me but I don't want to give you too much attention. Especially in the spring with the surgery health is so important. And the appearance is the smallest problem. You can be so happy when you're healthy and you don't have any pain and that's what you want. That's why I try to put myself on the ground. How do you deal with cellulite? 98% of women have cellulite. And still they tell you that you have to fight it. It's so normal and it doesn't matter. You have to tell yourself that again and again. Cellulite is strongly but of course you can help. But I have the feeling that after the surgery my cellulite got stronger. I don't know if it's because I lay around a lot and did less sport. Maybe it's because I noticed how my body changed and my cellulite got stronger. I don't know. But I have the feeling that it got stronger after the surgery. Maybe it's because I got older. When you get older, your cellulite gets stronger. Healthy nutrition helps. Sport helps. Don't let yourself say that you have to fight it. If something bothers you, you can try things to fight it. Now the question of all questions. Are you waiting for an application? I have to think about it. No. Waiting would be too much. I would be happy to get an application. I don't think about it every day. Maybe it's time. I never thought that it could be time. I think it's not time yet. But I don't know. Sascha and I already talked about it. The thing is I am convinced that a relationship without marriage can be very beautiful. You don't necessarily need it. But I think it's beautiful. It makes you feel more like a family. I don't know. I am not one who says I have to get married or I will be very unhappy. But I would be happy. Let's put it this way. Sits Jelani in the background. When did you have your first meal? I am not sure if I answered the question. I had my first meal when I was 16. At the end of 16, beginning of 17. I think. Was I already 17? I am not sure. I just turn around. I want to stress that you shouldn't compare yourself to others. The most important thing is that you feel right in that moment. No matter how old you are. It doesn't matter. Did you found Confitly just for money? Of course. Confitly is my brand. If you don't know it yet, I can give you the link in the info box. My math, my cookbook and so on. It sounds like I am already talking too much. It is an incredible project. Especially if you have a small company, a small start-up. At the beginning you don't make that much money. If you just start to make money with it. Of course you can try. But without passion it doesn't work. My thought when I founded the brand was that I like it so much that I have the possibility to do projects like a fitness collection where I bring out my own fitness bands so that I can realize it. It is so nice. You have it at home. You cook it with my cookbook and my recipes. It makes me so happy. I don't think about it. I don't even know. I am not joking. I don't even know how much it sounds so weird. Money. Of course money is important. Confitly was not the motivation for me. It will be my new source of income. I just needed a second base. So that I am not only a creator but also a founder. This is what makes me happy and why I did it. Not because of the money. Now I am going to blow dry my hair. It won't hear me anyway. Which hair removal method do you use? I have been going for 2-3 years to laser my hair. I let my hair laser away and now I have how many sessions? 10 at least. I had very dark and thick hair. But I love it. It is so practical. You don't have to shave or whatever you did before. You don't have to wax your skin. Because waxing your skin can cause inflammation. But what I think is so cool is that the whole picture looks so beautiful. I always had very dark and thick hair. Even if I shaved it very smooth I always saw these little pimples. Important! You can decide how you like it. I like it smooth. I like it and I don't like such pimples. It doesn't mean that you have to do it too. I just don't like it. I like that everyone can do it as they want. Now the hair barely grows. Only a little bit. But much slower. I don't have to shave so often. I would say we finish the hair. It's a fast method. See you at the end. I did it! Now we are at the end of the video. I hope you liked the video. I hope you appreciate that you were honest and open. And that you answered private questions. Maybe you could take some with you. I would be happy about that. If you give me a thumbs up leave a comment. I like it when there is an exchange. You share your personal story. Or we. Lana! Say bye! Bye! See you next time! Bye!