TÂN SINH VIÊN cần chuẩn bị TÂM LÝ gì khi bước chân vào ĐẠI HỌC, CAO ĐẲNG

When we step into the university, high school or middle school, whatever the choice is, we are also entering a new phase in life. Standing in front of a very different phase, there are many obstacles. So in today's video, let's find out what psychology I need to prepare when I step into this phase so as not to give up. First, I will prepare my mind to step into a new world. Entering the university is like entering a new world. Because university is about a field, about knowledge and skills for work, so it is not as extensive as high school, but it only focuses on a certain field, a certain field. So every choice will lead you to a different world. And especially, you will be met, contacted, learned with people who have the same passion, have the same interest, have the same passion for a field, a job. It's really very different from the way I used to study when I only studied with friends near my house or in the same district. And when you get in touch with people who have the same future as you, it will create quite interesting experiences. I can feel that. Looking further, studying is not just about gaining knowledge, earning money, but when you step into a unique environment, as I said, gradually your habits, your way of life, your way of thinking will also gradually change. Because right now, you and the people around you are focusing on one issue, one field, and that focus will have the opposite effect on your life and way of thinking. For example, when you follow IT, all your interests are computers, technology, programming, software. Maybe you don't care about other people. Or about fashion, everything in your head will be about fabrics, clothes, the way people around you dress, even the way people around you cut half of the earth, and even in the past. And if your job is very important, relationships, then you will have an extremely important trend in building relationships. Although every field will be important, but you will definitely pay more attention to it. What about me? How has my study changed me? Does anyone care? I will share a little bit about my experience. I studied film. When making a film about an era, a land, I had to re-enact exactly what was related to that era, from costumes, hairstyles, to the mentality, the way of thinking of the characters. So I learned a concept called social consciousness. To put it simply, social consciousness means the problems, concerns, ways of thinking, ideas of people in a certain era. For example, in the era of feudalism, people will have the idea that the husband is a man and the wife is a woman. So, right now, we are also affected by the ideas from society. But we will not recognize that because it is too familiar and we have seen it as a natural law. Personally, when learning about many points of view, many ways of thinking, many different ideas, I can choose the points of view, the ideas that are most suitable for me, rather than following the most popular way of thinking of Vietnamese society at the moment. In short, my study has made a lot of changes in my way of thinking and my way of life. For example, I care less about the prejudices of society than, for example, through a very interesting story, I mean that when you study a job, a field, it will have a great impact on your life. Any job will have its own characteristics. If you study A, you will be a different person later. If you study B, you will be a different person later. To say who you are, it depends a lot on your choice of job. Therefore, choosing a field from the beginning is extremely important because you are choosing the world for yourself and who you will become in the future. If I step into a class where the people around me are not of the same level, not of the same interest, not of the same thought as me, then I will start to feel lost. That is also a sign that you are learning the wrong field. If you are still confused about choosing a field, then in my channel, I have made a series of videos to support you on that issue. And you can do the test I put in the description box to find the most suitable job for you. The second problem that we need to prepare our minds is about how to study and our learning environment. In college, of course, it is very different from how to study in middle school because the purpose of these two studies is quite different. In high school, whatever you study, you are tested for it and if you can do it, you will pass that part and you don't necessarily have to use that knowledge in your life. And later, when you go to college, you have to use the knowledge you have learned in life when that knowledge is really valuable. Because of that difference, there will be many different problems and more difficult to imagine than high school. I will take an example. According to you, where is the difference between college and high school? Before, I didn't know, I thought that in college, I would have to do more difficult exercises, solve more difficult math problems than in high school. But in fact, it is not like that. The truth is, when I go to college, the knowledge I learn is quite broad and it is not closely related to the reality of work. Therefore, I should not only study at school, but I also have to learn more about the reality to prepare more knowledge and skills necessary for work. As for high school, vocational school, and high school, I will learn more practical skills, more closely related to my work, but it is still lacking in a broad and deep way for me to develop my work for a long time. So I can see that it is not necessarily better to go to college or high school or vocational school, but what is more suitable for me to study. It means that at this time, my life will be more complicated, asking me to analyze the advantages and disadvantages of a problem. Before, in high school, my life was quite one-way, good and bad, quite clear. In short, I still have to find a suitable way to study and look for a lot of self-study skills to find my own development direction. And the school teachers are just supporters for me. Especially, in addition to professional knowledge, I also have to practice more about my skills. This is also quite new for some of you, but it is also extremely important for you to be more successful in your future work. The easiest thing to see is the group work skills. Later, when I go to work, even when I am the boss, I also have to cooperate with many people around me. Actually, there are very few jobs that I can do alone, so since college, I have to get used to working in a group. In fact, it is easy to see that there will be the best person to work with, the rest will do very little or do nothing. In fact, sometimes it is not that other people are too lazy to do it, but the main reason is that I don't know how to combine it well. Everyone thinks, ah, this guy is the best, let him do the important things and do most of the work. The rest of you don't do it, so do something for the sake of it and get the best result. We are not used to analyzing what this person is good at, what the other person is good at, to divide the work into more reasonable and fair ones, and find ways to cooperate with each other to get better results. Of course, I have to learn a lot because it is not easy at all, but it is very important in my future work. Besides, of course, I have to practice many other skills. Outside the university, it will be more free, but it requires me to have the skills to manage time, arrange my studies, arrange my work, etc. Third, I have to prepare my mind for the problems outside the classroom. Looking back at my age, I am now 18 years old, right? Normally, it is the age of adulthood, and according to the law, the age is enough to take legal responsibility. In general, I am entering a completely new phase in life, I have to face more problems, such as managing money and starting a self-employed life. For those who live away from home, there are many new problems that we have to face. I will tell you about some of the essential problems that I feel are important. Students living away from home will have to face the problems of living and managing expenses. It is simple, but it also contains many complicated and difficult problems, especially for those whose families are not very well-off. At this stage, I am an adult, but I still can't make money, I can't take care of myself, and I still have to rely on my parents. So the mentality at this time will be that I don't want to ask my parents for too much money, but life in the city has many obstacles. It's just eating, drinking, drinking coffee, being nice to friends. I find it very difficult to refuse, afraid to refuse, and I also don't want to attract too many friends. So inside my mind there will be a lot of thoughts, fighting against the inner mind of all kinds. At this time, everyone has a solution. Some people choose to save money to cook, some people choose to go to work, etc. That's when we have to find our own way to solve our own problems. For example, some people choose to live in a cheap place to save money for the family, but it leads to inconvenience, complexity, fatigue, and can be dangerous from where you live. So I have to try to find solutions for my own life. I have to know what is important in my current life, what to focus on, and how to make my mind more comfortable. In addition, the problem of cheating is also quite common in today's society. In my opinion, students are one of the good subjects for bad subjects. First, I started to have my own money, started to manage my own expenses. Second, I am still a very young person in society, so it is very easy to become the target of cheaters. It was only a month ago when I took my relative to the hospital and I was waiting in front of the gate. There was a sister who gave me an iPhone 12 or 13 and she said she wanted to sell it to me at any price because she needed money urgently. At that time, I just gave up lightly and I really didn't have enough evidence to show you that she was a cheater. But most of the cases like that are cheaters. At that time, the situation was very unexpected and we didn't have any psychological preparation. If we don't get excited, we may be cheated. In addition, there are many other forms of cheating that I find extremely sophisticated and more sophisticated. If I don't participate in it, I won't be sure if it's cheating or not. Only when I'm cheated do I know exactly if it's cheating. In short, we need to be more aware and I will make some videos about the topic of self-defense so that you can protect your rights for yourself. Remember to click the subscribe button to wait for those videos. Or just because I'm not greedy, others will also find it difficult to approach and cheat me. I have shared with you 3 signs that we need to prepare psychologically when entering a new stage in life. I believe it will help you in some way. Bye and see you again.