THAY ĐỔI NGAY TƯ DUY VÀ CÁCH HỌC KHI LÊN ĐẠI HỌC | Tân sinh viên

What is the difference between university and high school? It's so different, so different, so different. Watch this video and you will know. After completing the normal school period, entering the university, we are entering a very new and different stage in life. Not only university, but also high school, vocational school, and high school, is also a very different starting point. Therefore, we need to change our way of thinking, our way of thinking, our way of living, to catch up with the new environment and new life. In this video, I will talk about the very basic things in learning that we need to change to adapt quickly to this new learning environment. The first thing you need to change is not to put all the responsibility on the teachers and the school. In the first 5 months before going to school, surely all parents have the thought that they want to find good environments, teachers who are good at teaching and easy to understand, to make their children's learning better. And surely we will also be affected by that thought. That is the wrong way of thinking. If there is a good teacher, it must be better than a bad teacher. That has also formed a way of thinking, a way of thinking that when learning anything new, the first thing we will do is find a really good place to teach. However, that thought also has its downside, which is to put all the responsibility on the teachers. If I don't learn well, I don't understand, it's because of the teacher, not me. So the first change is to put more responsibility on yourself. Instead of putting all the responsibility on the teachers, let's put ourselves on a mission of self-research, self-study, self-understanding, self-learning. Not only listen to the teacher's request, but we should be more proactive by finding things that we are interested in, and find a way to understand them. Of course, I still have the right to ask the teacher, but the problem here is that I need to be more proactive, not like in the news, like when I was in middle school. It means that now learning depends partly on the teacher, partly on the student. I will tell you a true story. In the past, when I studied at the Vietnamese Cultural Foundation, my teacher in the first 2-3 sessions taught very enthusiastically, very enthusiastically. But in the following lessons, the teacher did not teach anymore, but the teacher divided the class into many groups, and each group had the task of finding a lesson, and then teaching it to the whole class. That is, the one who teaches and the one who is taught are all students, the teacher just sits and watches. At that time, some of my classmates felt that the teacher was so weird, there was no teaching at all, what was so happy? In general, the perspective of some of my classmates was a bit negative. Later, I realized that it was extremely good, because it creates pressure for everyone to research and find their own problems. That's what some people haven't done before. And when I know how to take responsibility for myself, the ability to control my life, control my success will be higher. Thinking is very important. In fact, everyone has the ability to learn by themselves, but because I have never had that habit before, I have not built that habit, I have never done it, so I don't know if I can do it or not. I was influenced by habits and old ways of thinking, which made me not dare or simply not think of doing something else, until someone told me that I could do that. So I just wish I knew what I was saying and what I was going to say to you earlier, because it took me a long time to realize these things. You guys are very lucky to watch this video. The second problem we need to change is how teachers and adults speak before, then we will hear it like that. Fish do not eat salt, fish love children and parents, in the way of children. The way of teaching before is when the teacher says something, that means it's right, and we should do it like that. Never question, never give the opposite opinion to adults. It's like a way of life, a common custom of Vietnam. However, when we go to college, we have to learn the knowledge applied to life, applied to work, so that we can make money later. So we have to understand clearly and deeply what we have learned. Therefore, we must have a habit of asking questions, even disagreeing with what you are taught. Why do we have very little habit of asking questions? Actually, because no one asks questions, but naturally I ask questions, it seems that I understand more slowly than everyone around me. That makes us shy to ask questions, and it forms a community of shy to ask questions. Do you understand the lesson? Do you have any questions? That's it. That's why we have to realize one thing, asking is the way we naturally dig deep into the problem. The first step may be that we don't dare to ask questions, but at least we have to have thoughts, have questions in our heads. For example, why do I have to do that? Do that to do what? For what purpose? In addition to this way, is there any other way to ask such questions? When we are discouraged to find the answer, we will begin to form a habit of asking questions to people we think they will have the answer for us. A little more difficult may be to disagree. Disagreeing does not mean arguing with others, but disagreeing first is a way to disagree with your own thoughts. Entering the university entrance exam, we are taught in class, but that is not enough. The further we go, the more information we have to collect. Maybe on the Internet, the social network has people who go ahead and pass on their experience to us, or collect information knowledge from developing countries, or just simply friends and colleagues sharing information with each other. There are too many sources of information. If we only listen to the teacher at school, it's definitely not enough. But if we listen to a lot of confusing information and we don't have the discretion to disagree, it's also very dangerous. That's life. Second, I will disagree with my friends. That doesn't mean I have to argue with my friends. The right way to think is that we help each other have new perspectives, see the shortcomings when I do a project or a project. And above all, there are problems in life that are not entirely right, but not entirely wrong. So we need many different perspectives on a problem so that we can see that problem more comprehensively, more multifaceted. With teachers, we also need to know how to disagree to be able to defend our points of view. Fighting! I'm not sure about other schools, but in my school, two teachers have two different ways of thinking, which is completely normal. We can have more than two answers to a problem. Life is very multifaceted and self-disagreement training is very important to develop yourself and your future work. Third, we will practice expressing our personal opinions. When there is disagreement, when there is disagreement, when there are things that I think are right for me, then gradually I will form my own opinions, my own opinions, and I need to practice expressing those things to people around me. In high school, we had to wear uniforms, had to keep our hair really simple and neat to show that we are the same and there is no difference. But here we need to show our own colors, we need to show our own personalities, styles, and characteristics so that we can find friends, groups, and furthermore, a place to work that suits our personalities. So how do we practice expressing ourselves? And where do we start? First, I will share with the closest people who are easiest to talk to. Next, I will share with my friends who often hang out or work with me. Next, I will share with teachers. A small part of my personality will be shown by the way I dress, my habits, my lifestyle. This is when you need to be confident to show your personality. Next, we need to find a suitable way to study. Before high school, of course, we didn't have many choices about how to study. However, going to Vietnamese university to find a suitable way to study is very important. There are some ways to study. For example, you can study from books. I like to study from real experiences to conclude and draw up my own lessons. I really like to observe how others do something and I will think about why they do it. And finally, I will catch up and learn the good things in their way of doing things. Some people will choose to study theory because when you grasp the theory, you will find the principles and clearly understand the nature of a problem. But there are also some people who feel that studying theory is too abstract, difficult to imagine, and difficult to understand. So they want to learn in some way more realistic, clearer, and more specific. Creativity creates us, each person, and our task is to find the right thing for us. Besides, we will also have different strategies in studying because each person will have a different goal at this time. Some people set a goal as a pretty good grade. Others set a goal as understanding life, society, and real experiences. Then I can do more to experience those problems. Another important thing is to improve soft skills such as communication skills. Then I will focus on those activities for that purpose. Each person will have their own strategy for their life. And our task is to quickly find our own strategy. Each person is a choice. There is no right or wrong. So you need to understand who you are, what you want, but don't follow the crowd or the arrangement of others. The last problem is that I should also change my mind about the exam period. I used to be a student, so of course I knew that in middle school and the exam period, I often studied together or taught each other. However, when I was in college, I knew for sure that I was studying for myself. I studied so that later on, I could use those knowledge and skills to make money. During the process of studying, I could go online for reference, I could ask my friends, but in the end, I had to master those skills. It depends on the field, it depends on the subject, but I can study at home or elsewhere very comfortably, and I don't have to be stuck like when I was in middle school. Moreover, in college, we can learn what we like, learn what we choose, and the exam period is when we can show our creativity, practice the knowledge and skills we have learned. Therefore, a cheerful, comfortable and energetic spirit when taking part in an exam period will help you get better results. Finally, don't forget to like and subscribe for these extremely useful things.