HOW LONG AFTER HIS BREAK-UP SHOULD YOU WAIT BEFORE DATING HIM?🤔

So this girl just asked me how long she should wait after a guy's last relationship before she allows him to pursue her. And I'm gonna tell y'all just like I told her, three to five business months. That's about how long it's going to take before it's safe. Because a lot of people only break up because they started taking each other for granted. They forgot what it felt like to not be together, and they don't know what it feels like to see each other move on, but that's enough to rekindle that flame later on. And around the time you're rekindling his old flame, is around the time you're going to be just starting to get lit yourself. Just to be left by yourself to let it burn. Matter of fact, when we can't get that old thing back, the next best thing is to try to replace it. I mean, duh. But that's where a lot of women feel like they're safe because they're so much better than all the bad things he told her about his ex and how dirty she was. But no, if it's her who he wants, then you trying to replace her with you is going to be a fail. Because even though you may be an upgrade, you're still not a duplicate. So give it some time. I mean, it can work, you jumping into a relationship with a dude who just got out of one, the same way you can survive jumping off a three-story building, but it's not in your best interest. So three to five business months.