Narcissists Use Pregnancy & Marriage to Trap, Lock Down and Further Abuse Their Targeted Victim #npd

Good morning, everyone. This is Spiritual Whistleblower. How's everyone doing? I'm drained, but I'm out here this morning. I got to push myself as I ate really good yesterday in Philly. So I'm exercising this morning. A shout out to everyone in Philly. I had a fantastic time. I had such a beautiful group of people. I will be back in Philly. Um, maybe next month. I don't know. I gotta, I gotta figure something out um and do another private event um and have a bigger and better crowd the next time around but thank you Philly, thank you on air with Sir, I had a radio interview late last night, it was super dope, a lot of fun, we had fun in that studio um so Philly I'll be back, that's nothing, it's an hour 20 minute, 15 minute drive from New York City, so there's nothing for me or I could catch the train um good morning everybody, another video on narcissistic personality disorder, I'll drop a couple later on today as well, again I'm available for private coaching um if you are low income and you can't afford a session, I will work with you um you you have to mention that when you're contacting me um you have to you know tell me you know uh about your financial situation and that way I can make a determination on which package is better for you but I want to be able to help everybody despite your financial circumstances, so again male, female you have a 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narcissists they give out engagement rings like candy that's why you know when when a dude tells me he wants to marry me or take me ring shopping I don't take none of that ---- serious a ******* ring don't mean ---- because he'll tell the next five chicks his side chick he'll tell all his bitches the same ---- it's a way to keep a bitch stringing along **** an engagement ring don't you know you can't dangle marriage in my face and expect me to be impressed especially when you ain't bringing ---- to the table but some dick you and your ring can kiss my ******* ass what else you got I don't want to just be married to just any old body I need to know um excuse me what is your character what are your morals are you allowing your mother and your toxic family to run your life yeah you are because they all in our business you won't leave your ******* mother alone you running your mother about everything you let your mother text you and have full access to you to interfere and **** up our ---- I got to see all that type of ---- I need to see your upbringing if your family is ******* trifling and messy you know if you're selfish financially controlling abusive verbally that's the ---- I'm looking for I'm not accepting no ******* ring and I'm not impressed I'm gonna tell y'all something the narcissist uses pregnancy and I've said this before and they use marriage to trap their victims okay when my clients especially my pregnant you know the women that call me that are pregnant crying and they'll say you know he got me pregnant and then he disappeared he got me pregnant and he's already in another relationship I got to go through this pregnancy by myself it's so painful and it hurts he's still verbally abusing me he's gossiping smearing me and I got to sit here through the whole nine months and deal with this ---- yeah because a narcissist is not impregnating his victim because they he wants he or she wants the baby out of happiness and joy and love they get you pregnant to trap you it's that simple okay they do it to trap you to lock you in because the next 18 motherfucking years they can disappear and and create other families on the side okay they can have other multiple baby mamas the more baby mamas or baby fathers they have the more paychecks they have that's how they think because your paycheck your car everything in their mind they claim it assets their own all your hard work you work hard to purchase a home you work hard to purchase a beautiful car you work hard to get that promotion at your job stack your money everything you worked hard for the narcissist is thinking oh that's going to be mine I'm claiming all of that that's extra income in my pockets how can I lock this person down so that I can have endless access to their finances, their assets, their genitals? How can I continue to control this person so that I can be in and out of their lives and at the same time live a double life on the side with other victims? They trap you with pregnancy. If they don't get you with pregnancy, they're going to marry you. A narcissist is not marrying you because he loves you or she loves you they are marrying you to lock you down because once they locked you down and I've heard stories where you know motherfuckers got cheated on on a wedding night ha it's real the moment you say I do the narcissist is on the phone with a side chick the narcissist is on the phone with all her ex-boyfriends they're plotting on your wedding night you better know who you who you marry you better you better figure that ---- out you got to get to know their character and test them in multiple situations test their character once you married and you have a child with a narcissist they're gonna wreck your ******* life they're gonna **** your finances up should they **** your finances up without marriage and without a child just being in a relationship alone they'll **** your ---- up so just imagine being married to someone like this and and having a child it's it's a roller coaster to hell uh to the women that get pregnant and get dumped while they're pregnant and and and you learn that he's already off with another woman and he got somebody else pregnant he's he's he's basically marking his territory with multiple victims he got you pregnant and dumped you he's gonna do the same to her and when he's done doing it to her he's on to another woman these motherfuckers that have multiple baby mothers multiple baby fathers they're securing their paycheck they're securing their income they don't want to work and get their own ---- off the ground out the mud they want your ---- they want your ---- they want access to all your health care your health benefits your life insurance so they have a you know they have a child with you that child they don't give a **** about that child now they might get on social media and post pictures of them being a wonderful mother and a wonderful father that's all for image that's all a front that's all a facade to make the outside community believe that they're decent ******* parents but behind closed doors that child don't mean ---- they're not a they're not the loving doting parent behind closed doors that child was created to keep you locked down so that the narcissist can keep coming in and out of your life they can pop in when they want and pop out and they'll use the child i want to see my child i need to pick up the pick up the baby but what they really doing is spying on you they're going to try to **** you to keep mind control over you and and be in your business and and and control everything about you your assets and and they just nosy the narcissist is very ******* no uh no nosy excuse me very very nosy they got to know what's going on in your life at all times so they can stay on top of it and control everything and if they get you pregnant or fellas if you get her pregnant that child is the the child is the pawn piece the binding factor that connects the narcissist to you in his or her mind they don't have to love the child all they care about is hey I got access now to my victim they can't deny me they can't turn me away they gotta let me in because I'm gonna come for my baby I'm coming for my child that's why these these custody battles be so nasty they don't care you're gonna learn if you take them to court they don't they don't they don't give a **** about the child that's why I tell people if you can get supervised visitation third-party visitation get that because the narcissist will run the other way if there's a third party and it's court ordered to monitor the narcissist while he has the child he's gonna he's going to discard the child he does not want a witness monitoring him because in his heart he knows that the only reason he had that ******* child was to keep popping up at your doorstep to try to sleep with you marriage is the same way ask anyone that married a narcissist if it turned out to be beautiful **** no once you're trapped in that marriage the narcissist is going to stop spending money on you he's going to be in the streets spending money on his side pieces the side chick or the side dude is going to be treated romantically until the side chick or side dude is locked down that's why a lot of side babies dudes will get their side chicks pregnant and play play like they didn't want the baby that's another thing too if a narcissist tells you to get an abortion it's reverse psychology the narcissist knows that you really want to keep your baby so they they they tell you things to hurt you but it's reverse psychology they really want you to keep the baby okay now if you if you come with the game and say i'm getting an abortion that watch the narcissist beg you please don't kill my baby do not kill my baby the narcissist plays games uh uh you know i just want to let y'all know it's psychological be careful who you ******* marry or have kids with y'all got to get out here male and female start screening motherfuckers and I mean testing them keep your legs closed stay out of the ******* bed and watch this ************ put them in different situations and just monitor their character till their mask slips all right I love y'all till the next video