Narcissists Create Babies & Abandon Them to Start New Families #npd #narcissist

hello everybody it's the spiritual whistleblower here hello to my instagram family and my youtube family and my tick tock family um we're gonna get it popping across the board here um before i get into today's topic um in this video um i want to plug real quickly again for the weekend of valentine's day february 14th which is on a sunday i will be holding a support group meetup in cancun mexico it is a very dirt cheap inexpensive vacation i'm telling y'all the airfare is dirt cheap right now and i know y'all got them 600 stimulus checks so um you know i'll be there from the 12th which is a friday to monday the 15th um and we're going to do the support group meet up right there on the beach of Puerto Morales right there in cancun we also have a special uh day trip a bus trip planned from cancun to tulum tulum is another uh city it's it's an exotic hot spot in mexico it's right outside of cancun so we're going to do a day trip there as well so if you're very interested only serious inquiries you know come you know you want to come out have a good time don't be depressed on valentine's day hang with a bunch of singles and we could party drink smoke have a good time on the beach dance it up live it up enjoy your valentine's day in cancun with me spiritual whistleblower email me at [email protected] and i will connect you i'll give you a special code and connect you with my travel agent Patrina of Jamaican Roots Travel and she will set you up okay guys um that's that Cancun that's right around the corner guys i'm telling you this january it'll be here like that don't waste no time book your vacation like now i'm all booked up my god and booked my air and my hotel i'm ready to go i can't wait all right uh again my brand new books go to hell jezebel for my men ladies you can buy this too if you have men in your life your sons your nephews you know any male that you know male friends that you know need to brush up on their education on female narcissists the book is available on amazon.com and my other book my loose journal uh for everyone that uh has escaped an abusive relationship with a narcissist and you're trying to recover this is therapy right here 500 pages um therapeutic to jot down your whole process and um it just shows and documents your growth and your healing that's available on amazon too thank you so much so let's get into this video i said i was going to start uh really delving into different topics that are overlooked in this community when it comes to narcissistic abuse um i want to talk about break babies break babies hush babies and abandoned babies uh narcissists love to create children and abandon them, hide them, misplaced them, or either use them as pawns to triangulate and abuse other victims. Either way, there is no emotional connection to their children. They're very good at pretending to be loving parents. They'll take pictures of their children, post it on their social media, their Facebook or whatever, and say, look at my wonderful son. Look at my beautiful daughter. But all that's to attract attention and get a whole bunch of likes. It's to attract narcissistic supply. Again, narcissistic supply is what? It's loosh. Remember I told you guys to start becoming familiar with the word, the term loosh, L-O-O-S-H. Loosh means spiritual energy. So when a narcissist, excuse me, when a narcissist is being phony and fake and they are not great parents they have a horrible relationship with their kids they may be cordial and have a somewhat decent relationship with their children especially if their children are adults and older they will post pictures on their social media and mislead people into thinking they're excellent parents or you know my child won this award they did nothing to contribute to the child's growth uh the child's well-being um the financial responsibilities they're just using their children to gain more attention on their social media so they know how to be phony and fake when it comes to the children so um or if they get into relationships like ladies for instance if you've ever dealt with a man and he was a narcissist and he had an adult daughter or a teenage daughter sorry about that my windows open gotta love New York City ladies if you've ever dealt with a toxic man and he's had a teenage daughter or an adult daughter what these narcissistic men love to do with their daughters is they will use their daughter as a pawn piece to bully or torture the baby mama or any other woman he's dating he triangulates his daughter against the other women in his life okay in other words he treats his teenage daughter or adult daughter more like a girlfriend instead of his actual daughter and he will use his daughter um to make other women jealous and to bait other women um into being competitive it's really sick so narcissists their sole purpose of getting someone pregnant is never for love it is to simply trap their victims for the next 18 years so that they can come in and out of the victim's life, take what they want, use them for sex, stalk, prevent, you know, prevent you from moving on and getting in a relationship with someone else. The narcissist is basically controlling you through your child. The child is nothing but a pawn piece that binds the narcissist to his actual victim. They never have kids for love. They have children for presentation because they want to fool people that they have a loving family, especially the men. If a man is living a down-low lifestyle, he cannot live this down-low lifestyle unless he has a wife and family. He's got to have his presentation in order. Beautiful wife, beautiful kids, beautiful family, but the whole time he's ******* and sucking a man on the low. So narcs use people as pawn pieces, whether it be their family, whether it's their coworker, whether it's a baby mama, baby father, there's no emotional connection. Everyone that is in the narcissist's life is basically a pawn piece on a chessboard. So I want to talk about children. Narcissists, their main objective when they get someone pregnant, and this is, I am talking about female narcs too, because female narcs love to trap men. They will poke a condom full of holes or they will forget to take their birth control they will wait till they ovulate and secretly plan you know to **** a man knowing they're going to get pregnant once he ejaculates inside of her so the female narcissist traps men all the time she'll forget to take her birth control deliberately she'll plan her ovulation she'll plan to have sex when she's ovulating the man is you know the man that she's ******* doesn't even know he's being set up so that she can get pregnant so she'll stop taking birth control poke the condom full of holes girl will do what she need to do but she's gonna she's gonna set you up so she can have her baby and the ---- the crazy ---- is she she she won't even love the dude she'll get pregnant and she'll jump in another relationship and lie this is what a lot of female narcs do, they'll lie to the next man and tell the man, "I'm having your baby," but she she really got pregnant by somebody else but she's, she's forcing this pregnancy on another man it's fucked up, they do this all the time and they, this is how I know they don't care about the child because the child grows up thinking this one is their father and it's not, it's really dude over here, but the female narcissist is about division, she's never going to tell her child who the real real father is very misleading and deceptive, that's just one scenario, but men, the male narc and the female narc, they both do it. Male narcissists impregnate and trap female victims, they lock them in for the next 18 years so that they can continue to run in and out of their lives, a lot of women that get pregnant by these type of men are abandoned during their pregnancy, I talk to them and counsel them all the time, "I was abandoned the entire nine months. Once he knew that I was pregnant he went off and started another life with another woman, he got another woman pregnant and then he ran back to his other baby mama. he had abandoned her with two children for two years and popped back up in her life. And while he was with her, he got another woman pregnant. And here I am abandoned and lonely through the nine months. So this is what narcissistic, sociopathic, psychopathic men do. They lock down one victim with pregnancy, abandon her to go start a double life with another woman and a triple life with another woman. And they will get multiple women pregnant at the same time. They don't care about the children. They just need to lock their victims down. The child is what binds them to the victim long-term. Y'all got to know the game. This is why you hear a lot of situations where they, they're terrible at paying child support and they're terrible with visitation or they pop up at your house. Wait a minute. You ain't seen your child in how long, but you want to, you want me to open up my doors You've been missing for how many years living your life with other women and making other babies, but you want to pop up to my doorstep he's not popping up at your doorstep because he wants to see his child, he wants to sleep with you and see what you got going on, the child is going to be his reason oh i'm here to see my kid no it's not no it's not and if you deny him entry into your house then he's going to say i'm going to take you to court and tell the judge that you won't let me see my child that's parental alienation y'all ought to know the game so narcissists um they have a habit um and a lot of us that were raised by narcissistic parents if you do the history and your parents a lot of our parents were abandoned and raised by their grandparents and not their parents because your grandparent is a narcissist right so your grandparent like my in my situation my mother's a malignant narcissist and her mother is a narcissist a covert when my mother was born her mother abandoned her and left her to be raised by my great-grandmother. And my great-grandmother coddled and spoiled my mother to fill in the void of her mother abandoning her, which created a monster. My mother became a narcissist, a very self-entitled, spoiled, monstrous narcissist. So female narcissists, as well as male narcissists, they have a ability to create children and abandon them or you know push them off on another family member that family member will raise the child while the narcissist is off starting another life the narcissist will go marry and start a whole nother family and abandon their other children drop them off on family grandparents or whoever somebody's going to raise the child they abandon then that child grows up with fucked up ******* codependency abandonment issues and then the narcissistic mother or father they don't give a **** because there was never an emotional attachment to begin with um another case if you break up with a narcissist you don't you're not married you don't have a baby you break up with your narcissist male or female your ex and about a year or two years pass by and that narcissist pops back up in your life and says please give me another chance i saw the error of my ways i love you, I've cleaned my life up, give me, if they beg for a second chance, don't you do uh-uh, don't What you must do, if you consider it, because me, I don't, I don't give second chances, but if you decide to give the narcissist a second chance, you better hire a private investigator. And I will tell you why, because during that break, when y'all broke up and you moved on, you know, what's been going on between that year to two years that you've been away from your ex. Trust me. They got a baby on the way. They either made a baby, had a baby, or there's one on the way, they love getting people pregnant and see what's going to happen if you do take the narc back, you become financially, he's going to train you to support him financially so he can take care of these babies out here, he needs help, she needs help, fellas, you're going to be a sucker, they don't want your love, they need your help, that's why you got to keep the door closed, no second chances you're supposed to be off somewhere getting your life together not somewhere creating more babies more babies mean more money, more mouths to feed, more problems, why should you come to my doorstep and drop your problems off on me and I'm supposed to feel obligated to help you financially take care of somebody else's child, how are we to get married and build our own family when you got all these mouths to feed, narcissists are good at hiding babies creating break babies or abandoning their babies, get out of dodge, do not take on those problems, you deserve someone that's going to be faithful, someone that's going to build a life and their own family with you without any outside interference and extra mouths to feed. All right guys, I love you. Spiritual whistleblower.