Narcissistic Mother-In-Law is an Extortionist #npd #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #domesticviolence

Hey guys, spiritual whistleblower here live from Charlotte, North Carolina. Yes, I got in late last night. I'm here in Charlotte. What's up everybody? I'm excited. The support group meetup is later today, this afternoon. I do have a few seats left. If you still, you know, you want to purchase tickets. I've talked to a lot of people. Some people have to work and they're planning to come to my support group meetup Saturday in Greenville, South Carolina. So Greenville, I believe is the name of the place. like an hour 15 minutes from Charlotte so you can do that too email me if you wanted to want to attend today's support group meet up here in Charlotte yes guys I am in the building I am here yes so just woke up showered about to go get some breakfast I have a very long day very long day busy busy busy day so again guys I will not be posting footage of my support groups I will only post you know bonus video content on my Patreon my Patreon community gets exclusive content exclusive videos of all my support groups I will not be posting them on YouTube I will not be posting them here on Instagram I might pop in and you know do a one-minute video at my support group but the exclusive stuff is going to Patreon so I'm telling you now if you want to join my Patreon and you're on my Instagram you just click on the link okay the bonus content is five dollars a month my old school videos are one dollar a month you can purchase both packages or one or the other it's up to you click on a link in my bio on Instagram and you'll see my Patreon you can join there okay uh okay so let's get into the topic so i can get out here get my breakfast my coffee and get my day going charlotte wow when was i last in charlotte was in charlotte north carolina last october yes okay all right i got it i got it so i want to talk about uh meeting a narcissistic mother for the first time you're in your mother-in-law and why it does not mean anything these days to meet somebody's mother why you should um keep your bank account closed do not discuss uh you know where you work be very general do not talk about how much salary you make um you know be very candid um how should i say this there's ways that you can tell them what you do without being specific without you know because let me tell you something if your man is a narcissist and he takes you to meet his family and especially his mother and sister and they're narcissists they're definitely going to be wanting that they're going to want to know off the bat where do you work how much money you make what type of car you drive how you live it and i'll tell you why um narcissists in general no matter who they are mother sister cousin brother uncle baby daddy ex-husband ex-wife narcissists are financially controlling and financially abusive they are gold diggers they are money hungry they um are users and leeches they are obsessed with get you know taking money from people and they will do anything to you know if they feel like you got good money a good career they will do anything to slither into your life you know say what they need to say hey let's get married um do whatever just to get get access to your bank account yeah it's pretty fucked up so let me explain something most y'all that got caught up with these narcissistic men you had no idea that he was a user and a leech in the beginning because he was on his best behavior in the very beginning when they're love bombing they're always on their best behavior they're always going to future fake y'all know what future faking is future faking is the act of making grand you know making all these promises oh i'm gonna give you a white wedding we're gonna buy a house we're gonna be a power couple he's selling you ******* pipe dreams, future faking but he does not you know honor any of those those promises he does not follow through, he's a fraud. Future faking is just filling your head up with empty promises. He's, he's not going to commit or follow through on any of them. So, but because he's, he's got to get to your bank account and he's hoping that you'll sit up and believe all the lies, open your legs. Now you gave him some sex. Now you're, now you're, uh, you know, you have these demonic ties, these strongholds to him. Now you're giving him access to everything. Now he's pimping you out. Now he's, he's gotten access to your bank account, but it doesn't stop there. When you, when you get, get involved with this type of man and he brings you around his family trust me they're all cut from the same cloth your in-laws, he's not the only narcissist who the **** raised him to be narcissistic? His mommy, and daddy so he grew up in this toxic family system that taught him how to be a predator so his mama, yes, is a predator, his mama is a predator and an extortionist, so when you get in these types of relationships you're going to figure out very fast, um, when you meet his mother she's looking to see what she can get out of you, she's looking for you know if you're a soft gullible, you know, if you got a heart of gold if she can walk all over you if she can play you you know if she can get anything out of you she will attempt to extort you okay, I've been through this several times these types of women are disgusting and guess, guess who trained, guess who trained your man to be a ******* leech and an extortionist, his mama, okay so you're, you're caught up in this nasty love triangle between his narcissistic mother and him they're both, you don't know this yet, it's really wicked, you're not going to find out to the end or near the breakup that his family they've all been playing you, especially his mother, his mother has taught him how to pimp, excuse me, let me retract that statement, his mother has taught him to target prey on, pull in and extort good women with good jobs, even the trifling lowdown hood rats if a hood rat can bring him some free weed and some free liquor he will extort her and his mama will extort her too, they're listen, they're users, they're looking to get ---- out of everybody so the way the game set up, he will talk ---- about his mother, my ex did it with his mother, he talked about his mother like trash, like ----, oh i hate her, i can't stand her ways, she's always begging people for money, but by the time the end of the relationship came he was just as much of a big user as his mama, look, look at the pot calling the kettle black, the motherfucking apple don't fall far from the tree, all y'all motherfuckers are users, got me for a mattress and an air condition, uh free ride, they was, they used me into the ground for, uh you know, transportation, they used me up for groceries, they're nothing but ******* users so don't you know ladies, stop listening to the ---- that come out of a man's mouth, i tell you don't believe nothing he says, you got to watch his actions, monitor his actions, his mother has trained him, she is a pimp, she's trained him to become a predator and a pimp, go prey on the good girl because the good girl's got a heart of gold, the good girl is very generous, very giving, the good girl has a good job, she's a fixer and a caretaker bring her home to meet me so i can see what her weaknesses are, so i can pick her apart, i want to see what i can get, can get out of her too so you are being extorted by two ******* predators two leeches your man and his mama i promise y'all listen share your story in the comment section i'm not lying y'all know i'm not ******* lying you're being played by two ******* uh leeches he and his mama ******* leeches this is why when you find out at the end of the relationship that if there's multiple side chicks and trust me there are these side chicks may not be pretty like you and they may they may not make as much money as you but they're they're they're they have something to offer pussy drugs weed they are they have something to offer and chances are his mama's a drug addict or alcoholic she got she she likes something so she has trained her son get out here and pimp these women so that i can get something out of them too so you got these two horrible abusive people working against you it's really sick y'all like i said what you know when i when i broke up with my ex i wanted my mattress back i had receipts that was a brand new mattress a bed set and i'm like i called his mom i was even decent enough because i had moved out her house i paid her rent our western union her uh my final rent payment i said you know i want to come get my mattress i wanted my air conditioner everything i got my receipts i paid for this ---- she did not want me to you know she was like oh the mattress looks good in my house and she knew her son was cheating she knew her son was laid up with his baby mom i'm like what does he need a bed for if he's going to move in and live with his baby moms so that's how greedy and low down these types of people are. When you learn that, you know, this man, this horrible person that you've been with has been leeching and using you for money and favors and sex and everything. And then you find out he has side chicks and baby mamas that he's also sleeping with. It's a system. He has to sleep with multiple people because he's extorting everybody. And not only is he extorting them, if he brings them around his mama, she's going to extort them too. Narcissists are extortionists. They are money hungry. They are financially greedy. And trust me, don't think you can buy your way into the family. I've been there too. I've been the good daughter-in-law that had bought, you know, the mama, everybody treated the mother-in-law like ----. The community hated her. Nobody in the church could stand her. Her own son couldn't, but here I was the good daughter-in-law. I took her out to dinner all the time. I took her out to spa treatments. Um, I treated her on her birthday but I was better to her than a ******* man was all her ex-boyfriends treated her like ---- her ex-husband treated her like ---- here I was helping her and treating her good and the whole time she knew her son's side chick she invited the side chick in her house for dinner and I'm gonna tell you why the mother condones her son cheating never mind that you're a good woman she's not gonna tell him to be faithful to you she's greedy sure son go out there get as many side chicks i will not say nothing i'll even help you cover up the dirt because at the end of the day the more side chicks he has on top of his girlfriend or his wife and baby mothers the more favors the more money that she can extort out of all these women and if they ain't got no money do you got some weed do you got some alcohol do you know can i borrow your car can you take me she's a user and she's trained her ******* son to be a trifling user i love y'all ladies i want y'all to wise up don't be you know protect your bank accounts keep your personal you know all your financial business you got stocks real estate um um you know anything nobody needs to know your personal business not even your man if he's not your ******* husband it's none of his goddamn business and even if y'all get married don't do the joint bank account always maintain a separate account in in case he cheats or puts his hands on you you got your money and you get the **** on out of there and file for divorce. We got to smarten up because this ---- is nasty and it's ugly. And it's a special place in hell for these types of people. That's why I tell you before you open your legs, you've got to get to know his family. And if he tries to hide his family, that's a red flag, dump him, dump him. And I'm going to tell you something. We all come from toxic families. I have a toxic mother and father, but the thing about me, the reason why i'm so successful the reason why i'm so blessed the reason why uh i'm spiritually grounded morally grounded and and uh you know i'm always on the up and up it's because i did the work i cut off my parents i established boundaries i'm completely independent of my parents i don't depend on them for nothing they can't tell me what to do i keep them out my business but if you're dealing with a man ladies and he's deeply enmeshed with his toxic family they don't have boundaries they don't respect his boundaries they're all in your business he's telling you his mama all y'all business and the family's just working together cohesively to destroy you or drive a wedge the family knows he's cheating you can't build nothing with a man like that because he's not willing to cut off his toxic family then when you break up with him and he sees you moving on and you're doing better in life he's going to sit there and be mad and he doesn't even realize his own family is the reason why he's being set back and stuck in the bottom while you're rising higher and higher get to know the mama she's an extortionist chances are the whole family um are extortionists and users narcissistic personality disorder god bless y'all charlotte i'll see y'all later this afternoon i love you