Narcissists Want to Stop Children with Behavioral Problems from Getting Therapy #narcissist # #swb
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AI GeneratedThe speaker shares a personal update about attending a Pride party in South Carolina and discusses their role as an authentic life coach and \"whistleblower\" against fraudulent peers. The core of the video focuses on \"pseudo-mutuality\" in toxic families and the importance of seeking professional therapy and state services for children with behavioral issues despite family opposition.
hey hey good morning from Greenville South Carolina guys
um i'm Toe up from the Flow Up
uh last night was interesting
because you guys do know this is Pride Month if you don't know what
Pride is it's it's a celebration
of the LGBT community i know in New York City they are
they're having i don't know if they're doing
the gay parade this year due to COVID but
in New York when we do the gay parade it
is massive it's a celebration of costumes
partying um just being proud you know
and the parades are lit so i totally forgot it was Pride
happy Pride if any of my followers
are in the LGBT community i love you thank you for supporting me
um i ended up at a party last night in Greenville right here
in Greenville i don't know man it's
maybe it's my energy is what i attract
in the universe i ended up at a pride party last night
and baby me and then the gay boys and the trans
and we party last night i i also made some good
business connects too man i i you know
this is why i love to travel there was a DJ and um they
we were dancing and um i mean i had
a great time last night i'm like look at Greenville South
Carolina what y'all partying like New Yorkers it
was an outdoor party at that nice uh you know
it was it was a younger crowd i would say mid 20s
and 30s but then there were a lot of older people
too you know um trans and and um lgbt we had
a ******* blast last night now i did post a little
uh video on my patreon of someone that i met at the party last night
and if you guys want to join
my patreon you can view that video patreon
y'all get the exclusive ---- okay so i'm a little i'm
running a little slow this morning because
because i was turnt last night i can go to any party
anywhere in the world and turn up with anybody that's just me
and my energy all right let's talk
about uh the video um i'm a life coach that a lot
of life coaches um envy and watch because a lot of
these life coaches are motherfucking frauds
and scammers stealing content from people like me that
are very authentic i'm one of the smaller channels um but it's okay
because people tell
me things i'm not watching them
but they're definitely watching me and the subscribers in
the community because they're subscribed they're subscribed
to multiple um channels that uh talk
about narcissistic abuse they report back to me you know people say oh
so and so is doing the same
thing you're doing so and so is using
your terminology now all of a sudden this one wants
to book a retreat and this one is doing a vacation over here
and people are okay spiritual whistleblower
will always be a trendsetter
and a leader i don't i don't follow nobody you'll never see me doing
collaborations with motherfuckers on youtube if y'all
if y'all just pay attention in the community
you'll figure it's a whole network of narcissistic there's even doctors
and and um life coaches
listen it's right in our face they click up together it's
a network of them they build off
of each other you don't have to build off
of no ******* body i built this channel organically by
myself and the topics that i discuss ain't none of them ******* with me
because i live this ----
anybody can make a youtube channel
and talk about recycled bullshit over and over again
but i go deep keep up with me
and stop copying you motherfuckers are copycats you motherfuckers
stalk my channel you lurk you think i don't know
but but i know i know what time it is because
you're scared you're scared of being exposed
my name is the whistleblower that's what a
whistleblower does a whistleblower exposes the ******* fraud
and bullshit so tread carefully
biting me and copying off of me
because people notice you think people don't notice people
notice everything stealing from the queen you'll never see
the queen stealing from there nobody
because i'm a motherfucking trendsetter keep up
with me i done dropped five books this year got
the tour popping got multiple retreats popping flying to europe in july
and that ain't even half
wait y'all y'all ain't seen nothing yet i got i got ----
that's gonna blow y'all mind
yeah keep watching uh y'all listen a problem
that's common in toxic families full of narcissists
i i i want you to become familiar
with the term pseudo-mutuality pseudo-mutuality is when a toxic
family um they are so cohesive and stuck together uh
when they're out in the public eye they appear
perfect and loving and supportive of each other
um you know like they have no flaws or what what
what have you but once they get behind closed doors there's where all
the dysfunction the the
drama the chaos uh the jealousy the triangulation
the domestic violence the incest all types of
---- is going down behind closed doors
and the elders will train the younger ones you better not
say nothing about what goes
on behind closed doors you better protect family so it what in essence
what's happening is the elders are teaching
the younger ones to recycle toxicity and dysfunction
and to pass it down to their children
this is pseudo mutuality if you notice you know this is
common with the in-laws if you have married
into a toxic family god bless you as in these days you
better know who you're marrying
and who the **** they're attached to if your family's fucked up
this would i you know any man that i date if your family's fucked up
and you don't know how to check
these motherfuckers and you still stay in you know attached to them
and you're repeating the
behaviors i'm gonna dump your ass the man
that i marry he's going to be like prince harry prince
harry cut the entire royal family off of his wife
and i don't want to hear about meg excuse me i
don't want to hear about meghan markle being
a narcissist this is not what this is about it's
the the fact that he was a man he was man enough
to say i'm not letting my family dictate my
decisions if she's not the woman for me let
my marriage play out let me figure this out for me
y'all don't dictate my life, Harry, put up boundaries
and he told his family to kiss his
motherfucking ass, that's what type of man i want, i want
a protector, i want a man who ain't afraid
you say i'm tired of the generational curses i'm getting
the **** away from y'all, killed my mother
you're not gonna kill me
so in these types of families, pseudo-mutuality, uh this is a very
sensitive topic, those of us that have children, i've gone through
this, so i i'm very qualified
to speak on it, you life coaches catch up, bitch catch up
with your content, um my daughter has
a disability and i know for a fact
that her disability is from her father abusing me, um
the whole nine months he was terrible to me, i will not go into detail
but he also too suffers from
He's bipolar. He has schizophrenia. He is a self-professed atheist.
He will straight out tell people, I don't believe in God.
**** God. He's an ex-convict, very violent, argumentative,
will fight a police officer. Now he calls himself a community activist.
After he didn't serve all this time in prison,
he's hiding this fake facade, you know, as a community activist.
He's still toxic and trifling. And I have nothing to do with him.
He's not allowed around my daughter.
especially that atheist ----, no atheist is coming around my child
or you're not even welcome in my
household because we celebrate god
and everything we do god is everything, he is alpha omega and
everything, you know, how can you sit there
and talk against anyway my daughter when she was a toddler
she started exhibiting uh you know behaviors she
was aggressive she was angry she was always
screaming out i she was she was i was like what
is wrong you're fed you're clothed you you know she's
little chunky baby she was well fed
and always happy you know i kept her looking pretty well
dressed uh we would go anywhere we go we go
to the supermarket we would go to walmart we would
go to mall she would just scream she would scream
to the top of her lungs and i'm like what's wrong
why are you behaving she would you know
and in in school daycare she was in daycare and i had
an excellent job this is another reason why
my family was jealous of me i had a sports car
you know i had my ---- together
as a young 20 something year old woman putting myself through
college so my family turned their backs on me
and they my daughter was the first grandchild you
would think they would step up
and help me they turned their backs because i i put up boundaries
i kept them out of my business
and they knew my daughter had behavioral problems and when my
daughter was in daycare they the daycare would call me every day
at work you need to come get
your daughter your daughter is punching
the other babies you need to come get your daughter your
daughter uh slapped the teacher in the face
with with a book you need to come get your daughter
she bruised one of the children
and i'm like she's only 18 months old y'all can't control
an 18 month old baby a toddler i actually got
to leave work to come get her as a single mother i
wanted to cry every day what is wrong
with my child what why does she have these behavioral
problems what's wrong so i talked to the the daycare director
and they basically said your
child needs to be evaluated for extra services services
that would help her break these aggressive
behaviors services that would help her manage you know
um it would help her to express herself so
she wouldn't have to be angry she the baby
was frustrated she's not bad there's nothing you know
she's not a bad baby she's frustrated she's trying
to express herself she she could not she did not
develop her speech when i told my family about
this don't get that baby any services that baby
ain't nothing wrong that baby she just bad she just need
a little extra love when you have a
narcissistic family they will talk you out
of getting therapy for your child
they know something wrong
with the child let me rephrase that I don't want to say
something is wrong there's nothing wrong
with the child the child is just they
didn't develop as quickly
and this is a very common issue with children it is
super common a lot of children are autistic
and you don't you won't find
out until you have them thoroughly evaluated
a lot of babies that have ADHD
you won't know until you have them evaluated
but because you come from a
toxic family and they love dysfunction they will discourage you
from taking your baby to get the
therapy and services that would help build
your babies of your baby will become so my daughter
is wonderful now the best thing i ever did was put
my daughter uh in these services i had her
evaluated she needed help with her therapy her speech occupational
and recreational they put her
in a specialized school she had five ******* therapists
and two school teachers she was
constantly getting attention not attention
from toxic family members she was getting the attention
from professional therapists
and and they were helping her build her speech and they were
teaching her you know how to properly um channel
her aggressive behaviors i put her in a professional
setting where she could get the help
your toxic family will tell you don't put that baby in
therapy ain't nothing wrong with that baby they're just bad need
of love no you toxic motherfuckers
want to train my child to grow up
and be toxic like you all these motherfucking ex-convicts in
the family y'all motherfuckers had y'all got help
when y'all was children you wouldn't have turned
out to be the pieces of ---- you are you wouldn't ended up
in ******* prison now you want to tell
me what to do with my child
and on top of that when the state evaluates your child the state
will pay for the listen i was paying 150 150
a week for daycare it was killing me as a single
mother i wasn't getting child support
but i had an excellent job daycare is ******* expensive
so the state said you let us evaluate
her she needs services the state will pick up the tab
the state picked her they transportation they picked
her up every day for school in the morning
and dropped her off every day do you know what
a huge like weight lifted oh my god they paid for
everything and she got the help she needed don't be ashamed
and don't you let your family trifling
family discourage you and the in-laws
because i've been in situations where i sat there and
listened to the ******* in-laws discourage
this is my ex he has a grown daughter and one of her
children has behavioral problems
and i sat there listen to his ******* sister who's a *******
daycare teacher that ******* narcissistic bitch discourage
the girl from not putting the boy in
in any kind of therapy bitch you know
that baby need therapy that's why i had to get the ****
away from the family and my family narcissistic
families will discourage you from getting your
child treat because they want to keep the child stuck
and toxic and they want to groom the child
to be narcissistic and and aggressive let me get off of here
because i get worked up goodbye y'all

