Psalm 27:10 - Don’t Let Your Toxic Parents Guilt You to Return to the Abuse! #narcissist #mothersday

Hey everybody, this is a bonus video for everybody because people are hitting me up for phone coaching this weekend because Mother's Day is hard for people. Like I said, if your mother is deceased or if your mother is narcissistic, it's almost like the same thing because you have to realize if your mother's a narcissist, she doesn't love you and you have to grieve the loss of the love from a mother that you'll never, you'll never receive that love from her. And with holidays like this, it's very difficult for a lot of people. A lot of people struggle with, even though their mother's treating them bad, even in their, in, in their adulthood and disrespecting them and invalidating them, they still feel some sort of guilt and not calling or giving a gift or what have you to their toxic mother. Because, you know, like I said, your trauma bonded to your mother if you know she's toxic you know she disrespects you you know she gossips about you terribly in the streets like she talks about you like you're not even her child like you a total stranger like she want to fist fight you she talk about you like she didn't even push you out of her ******* vagina that's how disrespectful your ******* mammy is but when holidays like this come around you struggling you struggling with picking up the phone and saying happy mother's day mom you struggling with damn should i get a card a gift and i'm just like why what's wrong with you we know you trauma bonded your mama trauma bonded you at a young age to stay loyal to her despite her abusive behavior that's what a trauma bond is an abuser creates a trauma bond with his or her victim by being passive aggressive they're first very they're very sweet and loving at first, then they break you down and train you to be loyal to their abusive behavior. And if you stay loyal and stay attached, they'll reward you with a breadcrumb piece and that, you know, and they'll keep repeating the cycle. And in the future, that breadcrumb becomes a very tiny, tiny, tiny little crumb. They just keep decreasing the reward because they feel you're stupid enough to stick around and tolerate the abuse. No different than being in a romantic relationship with an abuser they do the same thing they give you gifts in the beginning and those gifts reduce themselves you get less and less and less because your abuser is training you to be happy with breadcrumbs your mom and dad does the same thing so here it is mother day mother's day is here and you know the motherfucking bitch treats you like ---- and you're still ******* dealing with this guilt inside of you your anxiety is up I know why your anxiety is up you don't really want to do ---- for her you don't want to call her anything but again like I said because you come from a toxic dysfunctional family where you you have a family full of narcissists you come from a family where the where they have taught you to stay loyal to abuse they have taught you to protect and defend toxic family members they have taught you that pedophilia within the family is normal and you better not speak on it and you better protect the family and sweep the dirt underneath the rug that your family has taught you to stay loyal to dysfunction and abuse that's why you struggling oh there go the sirens you know the sirens gotta disrupt my my videos every time my, you know, I'm talking about something very important. Never, it never ceased to amaze me. So you, you come from a family where they have taught you to stay loyal to defending the toxicity in their family. Whatever goes on in the family stays here. Pedophilia, domestic violence, disrespect, cheating, infidelity, whatever goes on in the family, you are not to speak against the family you are not to talk about our business we are like a cult we're gonna keep this ---- brewing within the family and you better not step out and speak against us so you feeling guilty you know your mother's a toxic ******* bitch you know she don't like you you know she don't even love you you know she's used you you know she's talked about you over the years you know she's in competition with you you know she's jealous of you she's jealous of your beauty she's jealous of your intelligence your tenacity your ambitious she wishes she was you and she knows she's not even half the woman that you are so all she can do is sip and talk about you like a dog to her girlfriends her trifling girlfriends who enable her **** behavior and anyone else that'll listen to her bullshit so with that being said you know this guilt of yours it comes from society pressuring people to stay loyal to toxic parents and these fake ass religious bible thumping frauds these fake religious narcissists fake christians is what i like to call them they'll guilt you with the bible you know the bible says honor thy mother and honor thy father no matter what you know what you only have one father and you only have one mother fake ass christians they always throw that bible in your face to try to guilt you into returning back to your motherfucking abuser and you know since i got hip to the game i throw that bible ---- right back in their motherfucking faces oh mommy and daddy sent you to try to guilt me listen my mother and father they have sent family members to pass messages in the past oh dad is sorry my brother hit me up last year dad dad emailed me and he wants you to reach out to him and he's sorry and this and that and i told my brother tell that nigga to leave me the **** alone that that man then played all these games all these years these psychological games he's a narcissist he's a covert religious narcissist with mommy issues he's a misogynist living as a gay man in Florida away from his family you know he don't like women because he don't like his mammy and he married a woman just like his motherfucking mammy and he takes it out on he didn't took it out on me he didn't show me a side of him that lets me know that he he was in competition and jealous of my accomplishments and I dare him to lie because I got all the emails saved instead of him sounding like a proud father he was he was he was making fun of my accomplishments and then every time I confided in him with my personal business this nigga would turn around and gossip his trifling ass tell all my business have have female cousins wanting to cuss me out and come at me he started a lot of ---- and I said you know what you're messy feminine closeted gay ass you got to get the **** up out of here so you could play everybody else you're not gonna play me and you're not gonna use the Bible against me it's time to go bye-bye daddy I shut that ---- the **** down so like the like you know they throw that Bible scripture honor your mother honor thy father And I said, yeah, bitch. Psalm 27:10 says when your mother and father forsake you, the Lord will take you up. So just like this Bible scripture that says, you know, honor your mother and father. There's also Bible scripture that protects you from an abusive mother and father. God don't want you taking ---- off your mother and father. God, where the God does not want you are a child of God. And even though they brought you into this world, that is not justification for them to treat you any type of ******* way and disrespect you. No, no, no. So when they show their ass, whether you choose to forgive them or not, you got to know God will take care of you. You can abandon them motherfuckers and learn to love God and let him love on you and show you the right way. Show you self-love. Show you that you don't have to take ---- off of nobody, mother or father. Now your mama done did you all types of dirty and she's not going to change. Y'all know narcissistic personality disorder. There's no cure. there's no medication and they damn sure don't like going to therapy because going to therapy will hold them accountable and they don't hold themselves accountable because they don't feel there's nothing wrong with them they blame everybody else but themselves you done been to therapy for all they motherfucking abuse you the one cleaning up the mess that they ******* made you the one got to break the ******* dysfunction that they ******* passed down to you but they won't take, they trifling asses to therapy it's okay distance yourself and if they send anybody to send you a message you need to come back to family you only got one mother one father you know you know you need to be loyal to family you need to put that ---- in the past **** that block everybody block the cousins block whoever they send your way no bitch i love myself and i love the good lord and he's going to protect me from y'all trifling toxic asses so like i said psalm 27 10 is the protection that's the protective scripture you can you know you should not honor a mother and father that's abusive okay and don't you dare let anybody guilt you into feeling that way they know your parents know what they did to you and they're not sorry and every time you've given and how many of y'all have kept giving them chances how many times do you keep running back and your parents keep repeating they keep ******* doing the same dumb ---- over and over again they will not change they will not evolve they will not grow they're stuck in their dysfunction they're abusive so what you can do and all you have control over is control of how you react and deal with them distance yourself or cut them the **** off my preference is cut them the **** off I have nothing but peace since I cut both the motherfuckers off I love them I forgive them but allow them in my personal space they not I don't even want a phone conversation because they're both toxic and they're both abusive and they're both psychologically ******* damaged in they're programmed to ******* control their children They use their children as pawns to spy on each other and talk about each other. Motherfucker, you're not going to use me as no pawn. So the abuse stops when you, the chosen one, God chose you to stop the generational cursing your family and to break the cycle dysfunction. And with that comes you being the outcast. Your family's going call you crazy. You're going to be the black sheep That's okay. They did it to Jesus and they did it to Moses. But with all of that backlash comes the greatest gift from God. He is going to anoint you with all the power coming from him And they're going to have to bow down and respect you in the end. Psalm 2710. There goes the sirens again. When your mother and father forsake you, the Lord will take you up. Y'all have a beautiful Mother's Day. God bless you.