Toxic Grandparents (PseudoMutuality) #npd #narcissist #pseudomutuality #domesticviolence

Hey guys, spiritual whistleblower here with another video on narcissistic abuse. Before I jump into the topic, I am kicking off my national tour next week, June 3rd. I will be in Charlotte, North Carolina, June 5th, Greenville, South Carolina, June 6th, Charleston, South Carolina, June 11th, Atlanta, Georgia. 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And this video is about toxic motherfucking family members, the narcissists in your family that are ******* delusional. And they think they see nothing wrong because they're so comfortable in their dysfunction. Okay. The term is pseudo mutuality. i will spell it pseudo mutuality p s e u d o m u t u a l mutuality i'm sorry y'all done fucked up the word m u t u a l i t y pseudo split up let's split it up pseudo is p s e u d o and then mutuality m-u-t-u-a-l-i-t-y there you go that was fucked up man pseudo mutuality can we talk about it why your ******* family so fucked up and they stick together and they sit in this they sitting in pig ---- they love that pig ---- they love the smell as long as they're stuck together and they're endorsing each other's bullshit they co-signing each other's **** ---- this is a good topic y'all sit sit down this is a good topic i'm about to tell you why your grandmammy's ******* toxic your great-grandfather's toxic it's in your bloodline the reason why they're so toxic and they continue to pass this ---- down generation to generation the term is called pseudo-mutuality what is pseudo-mutuality it's when a ******* family full of narcissists And you can include yourself in it because that this is a time where you didn't know what the word narcissist was. You were just, you know, you were enmeshed with your family. You had no ******* choice. It's like they bullied you into this system. You know, your family's fucked up, but you feel like you can't escape. So this is before you, you, you know, learned about narcissistic abuse. You're caught up with your toxic family. pseudo-mutuality is when a family a very toxic family um in the public eye they are tight-knit they look like the perfect ******* family they appear to be happy loving and supportive of each other when they go to church they're all well dressed and sitting together all you know everybody's well-mannered it's all about the facade however behind closed doors when i say drama, chaos, jealousy, envy, um, hatred, the family is a ****, they it's like, it's like Dr. Jekyll Mr. Hyde, they are perfect and and together in the public eye but behind closed doors it's a whole nother bloody crime scene, um, the siblings are jealous of each other and fighting the parents, uh, and grandparents cuss each other out, there's always they can, you know, they can't I come from a family, let me tell you something my last name is Clark and I don't give a **** who get mad, I don't give a good goddamn if my grandmother see this sidebar, y'all last week my mother took me to court, well yeah, on Tuesday she was throwing subliminals uh you know at me like I give a ****, talking about um, my grandmother sees my videos, my cousin showed my grandmother my nana my videos, and I'm sitting there in my head like I do not give a flying ****, she need to see these ******* videos because she done fucked her whole family up my nana fucked her family up, she fucked her sons up psychologically emasculated all three of them, she ruined their marriages because she's so goddamn controlling and she, she treated her sons like she ******* them, she, she didn't, she didn't run, my uncle had kidney problems my father don't even want to touch a ******* woman and my other uncle on drugs, she fucked all them up but she will not take no accountability and that's why she's being punished now I hope she see these ******* videos, she is a malignant narcissist and she is being punished God took her baby boy and God took her husband and she got to sit there and eat it, she's being humbled, so I don't give a ****, you know she's watching these videos, we, we got to teach this ---- to our families whether they like it or ******* not, you don't sit up and destroy your family piece by piece and then when your ass get old and raggedy and you want to start looking pathetic and calling on people for help no no, you reap what you sow. Our grandparents great grandparents they they fucked their families up y'all pseudo mutuality in my family, the Clarks oh, the Clarks had a very spotless clean house, my nana and then that's one thing they had, a they had a they probably had the cleanest house on the block, they go, they went to church, everybody was well-dressed, well-groomed, my nana always had her sons well-groomed handsome looking house spotless always drove a nice Cadillac that you know they had that appearance, you know, out in the streets They was looking good. And, and they, you know, all my, my, my uncles was fine and handsome and well-dressed. My father was handsome. It was all about the appearance. My granddaddy was a handsome man. May he rest in peace. So my Nana, she cared about, you know, the, the, the presentation, the facade, but behind closed doors, it was another ball game. It was toxicity. It was dysfunction. It was trauma. It was generational curses. It was bloody fistfights, stabbing, um crime, she went to prison, uh traumatizing her sons beating the bloody piss out of them he masked, my father told me when he was a little boy my nana called him a sissy and she put a diaper on him and lipstick, why would you do that to a little boy and then when he grows up fucked up in the head because his mammy done fucked him up psychologically, now he's going to take that anger out on every ******* woman, my father turned around and married a woman just like my nana and I don't blame him if he don't want to lay a finger on another woman, he went from one frying pan and jumped to another I don't blame him if he don't want to touch another woman, he he he dealt with two horrible women, uh women, I don't care, I love my nana but she fucked her family up she ******* destroyed all three of her boys psychologically fucked up their you know little you know you you treat a little boy you know wet in the bed you know all the fistfights they they all you know they witnessed my grandparents fighting all the time and that you know they they had anxiety issues peeing in the bed because they scared every time they heard to hear their parents fighting my father and his brothers grew up in severe dysfunction no matter what they but my nana made sure they were well dressed and clean and looking pretty out in them streets but behind closed doors it was a ******* nightmare all the bloody fights the cussing the carrying on the feds raiding their house because my grandmother was running numbers out the house and selling uh alcohol all types of criminal ---- you know my father makes me mad but i also feel sorry for my father because he grew up uh you know my my nana programmed him to be her personal slave my nana programmed my uncle dion may he rest in peace i know she had plans for him she didn't think he was gonna die at 49 years old she had things set up where she was gonna be old and gray and he was gonna take care of her she was gonna leave him the house and the car and the money see my nana's messy she bought my uncle more gifts she spoiled him because she she she controlled she broke up two of his marriages he was married twice she fucked up both marriages because she wanted to control him she treated him more like a husband instead of a ******* son y'all know i can't stand that ---- i wrote a whole book on how these women **** their sons up my nana destroyed all three of her son's marriages she was very controlling um and she just had my uncle being the baby 49 years old nobody thought he would die nobody saw that coming but see she's controlling but she she was humble because at the end of the day god is running this motherfucking show god is running ---- not you nana not you you got humbled you got oh god will spank your ass and that's what he did he took your baby boy because you **** listen you didn't you've been doing a lot of dirty ---- your whole legacy is fucked up you can't even die with all your grandchildren and children around you because your family's all broken up and fucked up and you've had no accountability for the ******* **** ---- that you did to your sons your grandchildren and a great grandchildren. So there is a hefty price to pay. You're not getting off scot-free. You're going to sit there and take this ass whooping from God. Oh, she took, took my uncle Dion, the baby 49 years old. I'm sure she had all these plans. She was going to be old and gray, leave the house to him. She always treated him better than my father and his brother, my other uncle. She would spoil him more, bought him a sports car, give him more money. she that's how she controls him and my family my mother spoils my sister the golden child by keep you know my mother then pushed her other two children away so all she got is my sister left in order to keep my sister around and controlling my sister my mother has to buy her gifts and spoil her that's what my nana did is that y'all I'm telling y'all this ---- just transfers over it's disgusting this behavior will keep transferring over and over until somebody steps out of the family and say i've had enough there go the sirens see spirit spirit is here in this this video that's my confirmation when y'all hear the sirens going off in the background my grandmother passed that ******* trauma down my father married a trifling mother just like his mother and now my mother is repeating the same behavior she ain't got two kids her two kids don't **** with her so to cling on to her third child my sister the baby she's got to spoil her to keep my sister coming back. My Nana did the same thing with my uncle, but God said, Virginia Clark, you're going to cut this ---- out. I'm going to show you who's running things. And he took her son. He died in his sleep. I don't give a **** who get mad. I don't give a **** if my grandmother watch watching it. She's a malignant narcissist. Everybody acts so scared of her. No, I'm not scared of her. I'm not scared of nobody in my family. I'm tired of the dysfunction. Nobody will check her. My father and wrote her ******* letters she don't give a **** about them letters somebody needs to check my nana for destroying her motherfucking family and no I'm not going to her funeral hell no I don't want a piece of jewelry I don't want a baby picture I hope that house burns the **** down because it's cursed and demonic I don't want ---- for her she she always trying to give this one more gifts and that one more gifts you know try to make this one jealous of that one you know she did it with her sons and she does it with her grandchildren I cannot be bought give your jewelry whatever the **** is in that house give it away because I don't want ---- why would I want I would take something out of her house bring it into my house that's transferring demonic energy into my home I don't want it pseudo-mutuality is when a toxic family sticks together they mistreat each other. They dog each other out, but they never address it. They fall out with each other. No one apologizes. They just fall out. And then, you know, a couple of months will go by and they go, you know, everybody's back together again. Like, like it never happened. That ---- is toxic and dysfunctional. My grandmother and grandfather, they trained the grandchildren. I have fallen out with my cousins and my sisters. And this is how, this is how family does. This is how my family do. they'll fall out with each other couple months go by or even a year then we get back together we don't even bring up the fight or argument it's like it never happened and I said that ---- is toxic because I see my father doing it I see my uncle doing it my grandmothers do it everybody does this pattern this really toxic dysfunctional pattern where they'll cuss each other out disrespect each other and fall out and then come back together again without addressing the dysfunction in arguments and they just turn around and repeat the cycle this ---- is ******* crazy my whole family has been doing this ---- for decades address the ******* toxicity and stop repeating it but everybody's so scared of my nana no my nana is a malignant narcissist my granddaddy may he rest in peace my toots he i believe he was definitely a narcissist too they would not separate they'd rather be have bloody fistfights sleep in separate bedrooms um stay in this toxic ass marriage my granddaddy had a baby outside his marriage my grandmother cheated on him just you know they they they i don't think they understand the extent of damage and trauma they've caused their sons and how it trickled down onto their grandchildren and great-grandchildren this ---- is ******* disgusting i'm very disappointed my grandmother and and i i refuse to to pass this ---- down to my child we will not live like that I don't care how pretty how clean your house is and that's another thing they thought I was going to get COVID because I live here in New York City you know when COVID's first you know when COVID first started last year New York was the hot spot in the entire world we had the highest death rate and I live here in the heart of Manhattan my mother made a fake ******* page to contact me on Instagram she didn't say I love you she didn't say kiss my grandbaby she was being nosy to see if I caught COVID because that bitch wants me dead that bitch don't like me she want me to suffer she was stalking me to see if I caught COVID and I didn't respond I blocked the bitch but you know what's funny a year within that same year both my grandparents caught COVID or that's that's what was told to me that was what that was the message that was relayed to me because I don't stay in touch with family somebody from family sent me an email said both your grandparents have COVID and your grandfather passed away and I said look at God they got the cleanest motherfucking house on the block in Trenton New Jersey you can eat food you can lick their kitchen floor that's how ******* clean it is how the **** do they get COVID how the **** do two very clean people houses sanitized you name it see you can't play with God that's why I keep my distance and I sip my wine and I mind my business you can't do your dirt and think you're going to escape God's wrath God is punishing my grandmother for that pseudo mutuality ----, inconsistent behavior, you can't be goody two-shoes to the outside world in your community but but you know you're inconsistent in your behavior and character behind closed doors i'm practicing that right now whatever y'all see in public this is how it is behind closed doors i'll put my daughter on here right now we don't have no toxic relationship we've had our little hard times and stuff my daughter battles with a disability and that's been our challenge as mother and daughter but nine times out of ten we we like this my house is peaceful you can't hear a pin drop ain't no arguments ain't no fighting no ain't no nigga up in here you know mistreating me or my daughter no we live in peace something that I wasn't taught I had to learn how to you know uh get to the peace and that required me cutting my toxic family off sure they're calling me crazy sure they're you know I'm blacklisted whatever I don't give a **** because they could not pay me a million dollars to to to come to any family function or be around I don't want to be around them and it's sad for me to say this I I'm looking forward to when my my nana dies she needs to she needs to pass away so that this ******* dysfunction in the family goes away it sounds cruel but how else is this ---- gonna stop y'all narcissists they don't love their children and I'm convinced my grandmother does not love anyone she is severely broken and she brought her trauma and pass it on to her boys and her boys pass it on to their children and grandchildren that ---- is fucked up and it's unfair. So I have become my family's karma. Your family, you grew up in a very toxic family that they enjoyed their dysfunction and they told you, they pull you to the side. You better not tell nobody what's going on behind closed doors. You better not discuss family. My mother did that all the time. Don't you say nothing. Don't you tell nobody we ain't feeding you. Don't you tell nobody. They keep all the dirt behind closed doors and they'll punish you if you say one word why dare them to ******* punish me now come for me I wish a bitch would come don't call me don't email me you can't this is my First Amendment right freedom of speech just close your motherfucking ears block me and move on because I'm gonna tell all the family secrets I do not want to live in this dysfunction and I'm going to make sure my child doesn't live it either that's why I kept her away from it learn what pseudo-mutuality is and how it is destroyed I don't care what race it is guys this is in every race every family and just analyze your grandparents behavior and their personality your great-grandparents and you know you can see what family members have these narcissistic traits and and how they keep passing it down and how they're delusional they don't even see it they don't even ******* see and they get mad when you don't want to interact with them because you're choosing to live a different life and choose a different path it's not going to stop till your grandparents great-grandparents till they die this ----'s got to bleed out of your family and you got you you got to be responsible for not passing it on to your children pseudo mutuality google it look it up do some research it's deep y'all this is what's wrong this is why we our parents and grandparents they didn't set a good example they didn't train us and teach us how to get in a healthy marriage they taught us to get into a toxic marriage you can't keep a man no i don't want to keep a toxic man your marriage is toxic you got a woman beater a cheater a liar does that make you better than me because you got a ******* man a husband and your marriage is ******* full of drama and chaos you're not better than me i'm actually the smart one because i'm healthy and happy and ain't no my ain't nobody stressing me out ain't no niggas stealing my money ain't no nigga having a baby on me yeah our grandparents got it fucked up and that's why our parents is fucked up in the goddamn head you are the karma to your family because you're gonna be the game changer you are the one god appointed to break free and change your family's dysfunction do not ever participate or be a product of pseudo mutuality train your children differently train your children up in love and whatever you present to the public. Make sure you're being consistent with your character and behavior behind closed doors. On that note, I love you guys. I'll see you next week on my tour. It kicks off June 3rd in Charlotte, North Carolina. Email me if you want some coaching or if you want to attend any of my events. Love you guys. Have a blessed day.