The Narcissist’s Family Helps Him to Cheat in Order to Avoid Tolerating His Bullshit

Good morning, y'all. What's good? Let me just stop over here. Here with another IGTV YouTube video on narcissistic personality disorder. I want to talk about the in-laws today. Ladies, if your ex was a **** boy, if he was abusive in any way, verbally, physically, if you witnessed him bully and disrespect his own mother um if you notice his sister is a messy ass if you notice that his mother and sister are cool with any of his exes and baby mamas if you witnessed your ex if his mother and his sister or any other toxic family member that helped him if they was cool with the side chick whoever this woman was because it's usually a woman from his past. It could be an ex-girlfriend from 30 years ago, baby mother, ex-wife. They kicked it with the side chick. They're cool with the side chick. And, you know, they all worked together collectively to assist your ex with moving you out the picture. I'm going to explain why they all had to come together to help him get you out the way so that they can bring this new person in. And this new person is not new. This person is very familiar to the family. This person is a recycled doormat. And nine times out of 10, this person is a toxic codependent and or narcissist themselves. Okay. Let's be very clear. If your ex has a violent temper, if he's aggressive, childish, self-entitled, spoiled because his sorry ass mother spoiled him and she still has her titty in his mouth as a grown man when you uh first come to meet the family and and i'm gonna tell you now if your ex is a narcissist his family nine times out of ten they're all narcissistic so you just can't have one healthy family with one toxic family member that sticks out who made him that way who groomed him that way who who the **** trained him to be toxic and abusive his family so where there's one like i said yesterday where there's one there's several others he comes from a family full of toxic codependent narcissistic assholes he's just the bigger asshole you feel me he's he's the bigger dummy the bigger asshole he's the more more toxic one out the group but his mama daddy sister all of them all of them are ******* toxic all of them support his bullshit now i'm gonna tell you something even though they groomed him and raised him to be a **** nigga they have a hard time containing his fuckery it's like his family created the monster that he is but they struggle with being able to deal with him and handle him because he bullies them they cool they can have family function they can be cool one minute then he turn around he'll flip on their asses he'll flip on his mama he'll flip on his sister flip on his daddy, flip on his brother. This is Dr. Jekyll, Mr. Hyde. So one minute he's cool. Next day, you don't know what you're going to get with this ************ because he's mentally ******* unstable. You dealt with him in that relationship. You know what it was. How did he ******* treat you? How the **** did he treat you? One minute, y'all are lovey-dovey, laid up, ---- is good, going out on a date or you at home cooking dinner, laid up watching TV, having sex. The next day, he's cussing you out, putting his hands on you, falsely accusing you of cheating. It's up and down, up and down, up and down with this ************. He only pulls this ---- off with the people that are closest to him. His mother's going to catch the same thing. His sister's going to catch it. His brother, he can get away with this ---- with the people that know him the best behind closed doors. So he, you, you not the only one he's stressing the **** out. He stresses his ******* family out. Let's be very clear. So if you come in, he introduces you to the family and they see that you, you're not like them. See, the mother is the ringleader. The mother's going to fill you out. If you're beautiful, you're educated, good job, independent, very smart. You're a boss chick. You're very intelligent, highly intelligent. You're so intelligent, it's ******* scary and intimidating at the same time. See, his mother ain't none of that. His mother ain't nothing what you are. She's a snake. She's always had to manipulate or spread her legs to get what the **** she wants. She's trash. So upon meeting her and she's analyzing you and filling you out, you're already a threat. You have the potential to make her son a better man than what the **** she did. Okay. She knows she failed at raising this ************ the right way. She failed. She's embarrassed. But because of her disorder, because she's a narcissist, she gets off on the drama that her son brings it's a nasty push pull on again off again I bully you you bully me I hate you I hate you I love you I love you this is the dysfunction of their relationship and he can pull this ---- off with his mother and the rest of his family they put up with it and they tolerate it you're new to the family and you have yet to learn that this ************ gets down the way he does you get you have yet to learn that he's violent aggressive disrespectful childish insecure controlling manipulative it's new to you the family been new about his fucked up ways because they're all fucked up they raised his funky ass to be fucked up and disrespectful and self-entitled they already know what he did what it is with him you don't you you're gonna be the last one to know so they're gonna fill you out and the one and one of the things that his mother is is trying to do is to see if you too are a narcissist she's trying to fill you out to see if you're just as toxic messy disrespectful gossiping more so she's trying to see if you're a woman on her low level if you're another low level woman if you're a ******* doormat piece of trash home wrecker slut fake ass motherfucking christian sitting up in church praising the lord knowing you got malice in your heart you deceitful ************ she looking she trying to see if her son went and found another woman on her level, the gutter level. But see, queen, you are not on the gutter level. Yeah, when you meet the in-laws, they're gonna be real nice in the beginning. They're gonna be very nice. Oh, how you doing? Oh, she's smart. She got all her degrees. Good job, nice car. Where you find her at? How you get her to fall for you? You ain't ----. Yeah, they talking. They talking, the in-laws is definitely talking. But see, because his mother is an insecure, weak-minded narcissist herself she's trash her thing is this she's going to see if you can be controlled and manipulated if you can be used financially not only she listen she already knows your son her son she knows in advance her son's gonna ******* wreck your life she knows that already let's get that out the way you're you don't know it yet his mother knows the family knows he's gonna **** your ---- up okay so in her mind okay i know i know my son's gonna you know do this woman in. He's going to control her, probably put his hands on her. We've seen this several times before with other women. If he can pull her into the family, maybe I can get something out of her too. Let's see what we can squeeze up out of her. Can we get her financially? Can we hit her pockets up once my son gets done using her? Can I use her as a gossiping partner to spread gossip and lies? Can I do this with her and that with her? She's trying to see if you are a woman on her level. She's trying to see if you're an equal piece of trash. So as you're in the relationship and you get to know the family and your mother is learning that you actually do have standards, self-respect, you're not going to let her son do whatever to you, and you're complaining to her, the family knows you're getting tired of his ----. And the family's like, uh-oh, this chick ain't going to stick around for too long. The family knows you're about to be out. So what does the family do the family's going to help him facilitate the love triangle the family is going to help him pull in the side chick the family is in on it they cool with the bitch because they already see you and his relationship going down the drain because you will not put up with his ---- the way that his mommy and everyone else does they need a woman that they can use they need a female in that role that they can manipulate and control and someone that will allow you know mama needs a a daughter-in-law that'll allow her son to walk all over her mama needs a woman in that role that will allow her son to cheat in peace mama needs a daughter-in-law that's weak so see you're not going to fit the position the position because you you strong up here you ain't don't let no nigga walk all over you. See, his mammy allowed his daddy to walk all over her. Yeah. Yeah. You done walked into a whole snake pit. It's unfortunate that you got to learn that the family is ******* toxic as ****. But the blessing of it all is God is going to expose it all one day or he's going to expose it. God ain't gonna let you suffer for so long. He's going to expose what's going on behind your back. And it ain't just your ex. It's the whole ******* family. they all in on it the thing is this the mother the family they don't want to deal with your ex he's a ******* headache they gotta find a female that will sit there and deal with him so that they don't ******* have to deal with him they don't want to deal with his ---- they don't want to tolerate him he's a ******* headache he's a nuisance so we got we got to find the right woman the right woman will let him walk all over her the right woman will allow him to cheat in piece the right woman will allow him to run her ******* pocket, steal money, take money out their joint bank account and spend it on his side holes, they need a ******* dummy in that position so mommy and the sister and the family, yeah that's why that's why they kicking it with the side chick they looking for your replacement because you's not the fool, you's not gonna let this nigga walk all over you, they don't even want to ******* deal with him, they need a stupid bitch to allow him to be happy, the only way he can be happy is if he's running all over a bitch, you know he he you know his mom, his mama allowed his daddy to walk all over her so that's the only woman he can ******* relate to, he's got to find a bum bitch on his mommy's level that will allow him to cheat in peace, allow him to steal, take money, take her car to pick up his side holes a bitch that'll allow him to cheat in peace because his mama allowed his daddy to do the same ---- peep game peep game It would have never worked because you you you wasn't raised like that. These people are raised like motherfucking animals. They ghetto, they ratchet and that's their way of life. Don't ever take it personal. What's meant for you, God, God will God will send it to you and it will stay and it won't wreck your ******* life. It won't stress you the **** out. These people are organized in their destruction. They are organized in their chaos. They're organized in destroying good people and they will pay for it. Their own the family's karma is your ex. they created that motherfucking monster and they're going to have to deal with that motherfucking monster especially his mother that's why you ain't never got to seek revenge this ---- will self destruct it will implode just walk away and get on your ---- and live a great ******* life these motherfuckers are going to be miserable and you got to pray for the new woman that has replaced you because if she's a ******* doormat he's going to tear her ass up God bless y'all and have a fabulous day let me finish my work workout