Narcissistic Mothers Allow Men to Molest Their Daughters **TRIGGER WARNING** #npd #narcissist #swb

hey guys spiritual whistleblower here um i am stuck in my car uh because it is pouring down raining and i have no umbrella and it's cold like this is memorial day weekend and it's supposed to be hot it's not it's freezing look i got my hoodie and hat on and it's ******* cold but we got to remember mercury retrograde begins tomorrow so here comes the crazy ---- y'all the next few weeks uh just pay attention to you to your surroundings the x might pop up you know this is the time where all the toxic people really start you know stalking their old victims um all types of communication is mixed up and stuff so mercury retrograde you guys be careful so let me just turn out the light y'all can see me hey hey hey hey um i'm gonna put a trigger warning trigger warning on this video i'm going to i'm going to give you a heads up okay because i don't want you watching this video and you you start you know being triggered and and and teary-eyed that's not my intent but i am giving you a heads up i'm about to you know touch on something that uh you won't hear life coaches talking about and i'm not that i don't do the surface ---- i'm the type of life coach i i get to the root of things and i talk about things that are uncomfortable because you you can't heal if you don't deal with the root of your childhood traumas so in this video i want to talk about how a narcissistic mother will take the side of her boyfriend or husband after he molested molested after he molested uh her daughter this is a very very common problem i have coached so many women who have their their mother was abusive and narcissistic and not only that the mother may have been in a situation where she had several boyfriends or whether it's the father or stepfather situation that man um molested her daughter and instead of the mother doing the right thing and kicking the man out and you know protecting her child she took the side of her man and treated her daughter you know like another woman in the streets so we're going to talk about that um for those of you those of you who have experienced this um my heart goes out to you um i've had it happen to me i've had this horrible ordeal happen to me and um to have a mother who knows what type of man she has trust me your mother knows this man is a whore she knows he's he's a liar a cheater he can he can cheat he can cheat on her and mistreat her and she'll still stay with him she she knows what type of man man he is trust me she knows but because she's a narcissist she's already jealous of her own daughter and instead of her looking at this from a you know she's supposed to be your guardian your protector no she's looking at it as a competition like you want her man and she's going to treat you like you're some type of side chick uh trying to break her relationship up okay um i will share my experience with you and tell you guys how i'm handling my experience um i want to give you validation and confirmation to tell you you did not deserve that you deserve a mother that loves and supports and most importantly protects you and your mother doesn't deserve the title of being a ******* mother she's a piece of ---- and the man that did what he did to you trust me when I tell you God is going to make him suffer the amount of karma that this pedophile has coming to him will be astronomical you have to walk away and give it over to god and your mother will also be punished by god trust me um my experience um like i said i've mentioned this in my other videos um my mother is completely delusional i have the type of mother who she she very well knows that she was violent uh to to me and my brother she was um very disrespectful nasty mouth caught you know i don't know how many times i was called bitch tramp whore fat ass uh names to destroy my self-esteem you know when you're a young girl especially a teenager these are the critical years your parents your parents should be building you up building your self-esteem up teaching you self-respect um teaching you how to to avoid toxic men these are the responsibilities especially especially a father uh like i told you i have a narcissistic father and he never taught me any of that never my father never protected me and when i told my father i was molested he damn sure he did nothing he did nothing he didn't even confront the man at all and and you know narcissistic men and women they they do not defend their children from abusive partners how many y'all have had a situation where you your parents knew you were being abused by your lover and your parents took the side of your motherfucking lover my ex-husband punched me in the face gave me a black eye i put him in jail he calls my father collect from jail with a sob story meanwhile my eye is hanging out of my face it took took my eye I had a really black eye it took six weeks to heal my father calls me up and says what did you do to make this man hit you I said what what what you're supposed to be my father my protector why aren't you snapping on this man and and and no my father sided with my abuser yeah it's sad y'all so in the case of with my mother you know i i would say i don't know i was about 14 years old my mother got in trouble for some type of money laundering or fraud and she had to go to jail prison i was told Kentucky or somewhere she didn't serve much time but she did have to go away the family lied to me and my siblings and said she went away to some sort of diet camp you know for her health but as we got older we figured out that she really she got locked up so while she was incarcerated this was the deal my grandmother and father my father was living with his mother so my grandmother on my father's side they would take care of me and my siblings from Monday to Friday so we stayed with my grandmother and my father Monday through Friday and then on the weekends they would send us to go stay with my mother's second husband I refuse to call him a stepfather he is trash he's a ******* nasty ass pedophile I will never acknowledge him as any type of father not a father figure not nothing very criminal he also served he's also an ex-convict he and my mother together are very criminal minded he's a former drug dealer um you know he had a very nasty reputation as the the the whore in the town slept around with everybody he fucked my mother's girlfriends i mean this is the thing she knows he's a whore i mean there's no way i can stay with a man that slept with one of my girlfriends how can you trust him well my mother stayed with him but while she was locked up and incarcerated and we stayed with my nana and father from Monday to Friday they sent us to go stay with him on the weekends the bedroom was was small there was a bunk bed my brother and sister slept in a bunk bed and there was another uh twin bed adjacent to the to the bunk bed i slept in that bed um my nana gave me a beautiful uh nightgown it was peach um it was almost it wasn't see-through but it was like almost there you know chiffon it was like a chiffon very pretty and you know i was sleeping one night and i felt i felt his hands just like uh fondling my ass rubbing me on my ass and i jumped out my sleep that was the only way he would stop fondling me and grabbing my ass as if I would pretend like I was waking up and I was like my heart felt my heart pounding through my chest like oh my god and at the time I was very soft spoken I was very shy this predator this ******* horrible piece of ---- pedophile he did this repeatedly every time he would creep into the bedroom at night to touch me I would have to pretend like I'm waking up so that he would stop and it you know my mother you know this went on he did it he did it repeatedly and when my mother finally got out of prison it took me a while to tell her but I was in high school and I you know I said mom he he's nasty he molested me and I don't know she might have told a few of her friends she might have told my grandparents but she made a conscious decision to say you know what **** it you're lying I'm gonna stay with my man she just dismissed the whole thing there was not an investigation done she did not call police and file a report she did not call child protective services and file and you know so they can investigate nothing was done when I told my mother I was molested she made a choice to say **** you bitch I'm staying with my man that was how many years ago here it is 2021 I am 45 years old My story has never changed. I've never switched the story. What I wore, when it happened, what time it happened, I have remained consistent with the story. I stand solid because at the end of the day, I don't have nothing to gain from neither one of them. I don't bother neither one of them for money. I don't step foot in their house and I don't let my daughter go anywhere near. I don't want him touching my daughter. I didn't want him doing this to my sister when my sister was eight nine years old I would say please don't walk around him with pajamas my sister no my sister knows I warned her but because my sister is a narcissist and they're all cut from the same cloth because he's definitely a sociopath my mother's a sociopath narcissists stick together no matter how much dirt they do so I'm very ashamed of my sister that she continues to interact with a pedophile and that she's very dismissive after I was protective and i warned her about him i have no respect for her so my mother chucked it up as telling family i'm crazy it's a lie how why would you do that as a mother i know i have a daughter and my daughter comes to me with something like that that the the nigga better pray i don't stab the **** out of him number one number two the police the police will be contacted and so will CPS there's going to be an investigation because another thing he could be out there doing this to another young young young child i won't even say young girl because these pedophiles touch boys too they're nasty these men be in marriages and touching young boys so i'm not going to say little girls just children they touch boys and girls a pedophile is nasty so to my mother i have no respect because she's a narcissist because she is toxic and codependent she'd rather stay with a toxic man treat her daughter like ---- and tell everybody her daughter's crazy when she had an obligation to report the child molestation and have it investigated but the beautiful thing is this now that i'm a grown woman and i have uh done research on the state of New Jersey's laws on child molestation i now can press charges New Jersey uh has a statute of limitations that in those limitations there's no timeline no no no time limitation excuse me which means that i can press charges right now on this man subpoena him to court and make him answer to the charges and like i said i want him and myself to both take a lie detectors test to clear my name because once that is done and the truth comes out i'm gonna embarrass the **** out my mother there's a lot of people in her inner circle that know i'm telling the truth but but i need my name cleared i need my name cleared she is a disgusting ******* piece of ---- mother you know when you have a narcissistic parent they set you up for failure they destroy your self-esteem in your teenage years then when you become a grown woman and you start attracting toxic men and abusive relationships they want to sit up and pass judgment when they didn't do anything to set a positive example when you were a child your parents had an obligation to teach you self-respect your parents had an obligation to make sure you had high self-esteem so that you could you you can you know tell a man who i mean so you can spot these types of men you won't even give this type a man access into your life to abuse you your parents fucked you all up they had one job and they failed at it some of them think because they're you know they provide food and a roof over your head that's parenting no that's that's providing but it's not being a parent being a parent requires nurturing protection um validation you know respect you got to respect your children the way you want them to respect you this is why we have a generation of broken men and women that are ******* lost because their parents including mine in that baby boomer age was more addicted to the street culture instead of raising their motherfucking kids right my mother is ******* delusional uh she's dismissive she is a sociopath who lacks accountability and all she can say is i did the best i could i wish you would shut up sweep it underneath the rug and get over it well my answer to her is this you do not dictate someone's healing process you you do not get the chance to abuse some someone you you abuse bully mistreat your children then when they become adults and they're old enough to get the **** away from you you become angry and frustrated because you can no longer uh you know wave your your your uh you can't control your adult children you can't control their money you can't dictate their lives and you you know you can't sit up and say you just need to get over i wish you would just get over it you are not in control of people's healing process you don't get to dictate how your children handle you ought to be glad your children didn't ******* stab you to death y'all know there's this uh there oh i forget the name of the young girls there was a story these two young girls they were twins y'all know they're teenage girls their mother was ******* abusing them and the girls stabbed their mother to death my mother is is is very fortunate that me and my brother did not snap when we were teenagers and ******* kill her or or beat the bloody piss out of her because she'll bring it up out of you then she'll sit back and play victim like she don't know what the **** why why would my children do this to me bitch you know exactly why your children me and my brother it takes so much resilience and courage to walk away from someone so toxic someone who gave birth to you that nearly tried to destroy you now she wants to sit up and say why can't y'all just get over it it wasn't that bad i don't even remember half the ---- i did why can't we just no you don't get to dictate your children's healing process you caused your children complex post-traumatic stress disorder that is not your decision you don't get to dictate or or you know tell your children how they should heal and how long they should heal and how dare you tell your children to get over it you have not reached out to your children to apologize for the pain and trauma you've caused them nor have you even consulted with a therapist to get yourself together let alone reach out to your children to heal and in family therapy my mother needs to be diagnosed clinically by a psychiatrist in the presence of her children but she knows she's disordered she knows she's toxic and she's afraid of having her behavior diagnosed she doesn't want anyone to figure her out but we we figured her out and for that for being a toxic mother for not protecting her children uh continuing to be a bully trying you know she tried it with me in court she got shut down now god is god is going to dismantle her life trust me when i tell y'all these types of mothers and fathers do not get away they they will have to pay they will reap what they sow god will dismantle their lives and one One of the punishments that your parents will have to sit back and take is watching their child become a success story, a better mother, a better parent, making more money. You're going to be a way better human being than what your parents were and they're going to sit there and they're going to be fucked up when you treat them like they're dead. They can't get to you, they can't touch your money and you're going to treat them like ---- when they get old and they need you to wipe their ass in the nursing home and you turn your back on them oh that's one of the punishments karma is not no joke listen if no one has told you i'm gonna tell you i believe your story you deserve a better parent and if you have children be a better parent to your children give your children the validation and love that they deserve do not buy the fact that your parents oh we did the best we could that's a cop-out no they did not do the best they could they chose violence they chose to be assholes they chose not to protect you they chose what they chose yeah i love you guys um till the next video hold your head up we're all in this together in a community protect your children because there's so many ******* pedophiles running free these days and and they're all in our family we got pedophiles in our motherfucking family and that's another reason why you need to get the **** away from your toxic relatives because they know there's a pedophile in the family and they'll protect the pedophile before they protect you but god almighty when god steps in it's going to be it's going to be a sad case revenge is the lord's vengeance is the lord's just all you got to do is level up cut your parents off forever treat them like they're dead and become a better ******* human being and god's going to force them like in psalm 23 god will prepare a table in the presence of your enemies god's gonna bless you in your parents face and if they can't touch you they can't get near you when i blow up and become celebrity status because my i am blowing up my mother will not be able to touch me my money she's dead to me she's dead to me she can rot in the nursing home when her ass gets 70 80 90 she she i'm gone she better call on my sister to wipe her ass because me and my brother are done with her she is she she's disgusting she will reap what she sow and on that note guys i love you have a blessed evening if you need me for coaching book me my email address is down below Chanel Jasmine and also uh the trips i announced the trips jamaica and dominican republic if you're interested email me and next week i am launching my national tour Charlotte, North Carolina, here I come South Carolina, here I come Orlando, Miami, and Memphis, Tennessee I'll see y'all, if you want to come please get your tickets, email me ChanelJasmine at gmail.com, goodnight y'all, love you