7 SIGNS YOUR FEMALE FRIEND IS A COVERT NARCISSIST #npd #narcissist #narcabuse #covertnarcissist

Hey guys, it's Spiritual Whistleblower here with another video on narcissistic abuse. If I'm sweating, it means that I am burning up because I cannot control the thermostat in my apartment. Even with all the windows open, it is boiling hot. So sorry about me being a little bit dewy here, but I got to teach this lesson in the name of God. I want y'all to get free of this abuse. Now, normally I talk about male narcissists. I trash them into the ground. There's a lot of content where I, you know, I always help women, especially black women, being that we have a crisis in the African-American community where black men are murdering us every five hours. And that is national statistics, according to the FBI and CDC. And it's there. So anyone tries to dispute those statistics or downplay the, you know, the things, the struggles that black women have to go through. I totally understand that this happens in every race. But when I'm speaking about my race as an African-American woman who has been attacked and bullied and almost, you know, taken out by a black man, please let us have our moment. Please don't take this away from us and deflect and say, hey, this happens in other races. No, the black man right now is a problem. And the black men and interracial, excuse me, an interracial, racial, interracial relationships. They abuse white women, Hispanic. They put their hands on all types of women. So like I said, the black man is a problem right now. We are in a crisis because of the black man. The black man is self-sabotaging and destroying women. He's taking everyone down with him if you allow him. So this video, I'm specifically going to teach you all how to spot a toxic covert female narcissist. If you're you have friends, female friends, and you're trying to wonder if she has because the coverts are difficult, honey. The coverts are so sneaky and empathetic. They can fake their empathy. They can fake being Christians. They can they can quote Bible scripture. The covert is the most difficult on the spectrum to figure out because they can turn themselves into a whole empath to trick you. Okay. Some of the most mild mannered, um, really soft spoken people are coverts. And if you're not woke, if your discernment is not up, you'll get played time and time again. So ladies, this video is about friendships with female covert narcissists or the toxic codependent. woman she may not be a full-blown narcissist but she has multiple traits of toxic codependency of a narcissist and she refuses to address those those issues because she's addicted to being codependent she doesn't know how to be alone but she'll be on social media talking about narcissist this narcissist that oh i dated a narcissist she talks all the talk but her bitch ass is not walking the walk behind closed doors so if you want to know the signs uh that you have a friend a female friend and she's possibly a covert this video is for you i want you to weed these toxic bitches out your life these are pick me's and if you don't know what a pick me is i can't stand a pick me i don't want to be friends with a pick me they're the worst types of women they're secretly envious you know what this video will explain what a pick me is okay i just want to say this for the last three years i have embarked on um i do a summer tour every year for the last three years where I take my money and I travel all over the U.S. and I travel to Europe and I hold support groups for survivors of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence. And I meet two types of women. The first type of woman is like me. She's a savage about her healing process. She doesn't want to look at a man. She doesn't want to date anybody. She's cut her family off. She's ready to do the work like boot camp. She wants it more than life itself she wants to heal and she's intentional about her healing and when she meets me she's grateful thank you spiritual whistleblower you've helped me so much in my healing journey um you know i've done everything you know that you have advised in your videos and my life is at peace now that's the first type of woman the second type of woman that i have met at my seminars is the is the coverts oh these bitches come out to meet me and they come out trying to be slick they mask that covert narcissism so well they want to see if i'm actually as beautiful in person as i am in my videos yes bitch i'm drop dead gorgeous the skin is beautiful whether it's on video or if you see me up close i have beautiful skin beautiful teeth it's all mine no i don't have veneers i have braces to correct my teeth yes i'm tall yes i'm statuesque yes i dress to kill i'm the real deal when you see me in person that's that's one of the reasons they want to see me because these bitches are jealous then they want to befriend me they want to get close and latch on and hey girl here's my number and uh you know when I did my vacation retreats a few of them snuck in on the vacations too quiet as kept and they all got cut I cut their asses off and threatened and bitch you come to near me or any of my events again you will go to jail or get your ass whooped it's one or the other I don't do fake ---- and I don't want to hang with fake bitches. I don't do pick me's. Um, they slip up. They be trying so hard to mask this behavior, but they can't. It's all I do is sit back. I put on a poker face and I hand them the rope. I keep handing them rope to see how far they will go. And it takes one little incident that is inconsistent with the behavior that they've been presenting to me. And I said, Oh, this bitch is a covert. Cut. Bye, bitch. You're a fraud. I don't hang with frauds. So, you know, I want to take all the knowledge that I have gained over the last three years from meeting these fake bitches. And I want to share it with you because they think they slick and they really not. They're very sneaky and they're a lot more smarter than the male narcissist. Women are sneaky. Trust and believe. But spiritual whistleblower is anointed. You might be slick, but you're not going to get over on the anointed you're just not honey the powers that God had bestowed on me now you gotta be next level to **** with me and they don't I catch them and I cut them I don't hang with gay men no disrespect to gay men but I treat them like women a gay man who wants to be a woman and he befriends a drop-dead gorgeous woman he will low-key resent you because he don't like his mama he can't break things off with his mama but he can't stand her ass and he's no different than these men out here he will punish and be jealous and competitive of really pretty women i don't want no gay man around me they're coverts too honey so here we go i got seven signs that your female friend is a covert or toxic codependent and when you see the signs you you get to cutting honey don't even explain yourself just block her number one energy vampire very clingy um what i've learned, um, from these types of women, um, they, they, they want to stay up on you and everything that you're doing in your life. They'll text you daily. They do group chats. I don't do group chats. I hate, I hate, um, the wee chat or whatever that ---- is. I don't do group chats, honey. I think that's a place where narcissists can, can really very sneakily find out information and stay in people's business. I don't, I hate texting. I hate group chats. Um, I want to see your face I want to um see your body language in person and I know narcs you know they don't like that they don't want to be found out they don't want to be exposed and they don't want to give up too much of themselves they but they stay using these group chats and texting and sending people to uh videos and they're just watching like predators they can watch you your behavior and everything in these group chats so you know they're they're clingy hey girl I'm just checking in how you doing today and um what you got going on over there girl and and their energy they're sucking you of your energy they're excessive with the texting every day daily they're excessive with the group chats you will feel depleted talking to one of these these these women or they dump a lot of their problems on you they always got some drama some ---- going down in their life and they just dump so much on you and they don't take into consideration you might have things going on in your life so energy vampire number one number two secretive double life here we go and that's the segue off the energy vampire the reason why they're so clingy and they're always texting you to find out what you got going on in your life is because they're going to be secretive with their life they're living a double life see spiritual whistleblower is is out here slaying people um teaching teaching people how to slay narcissists so a fake bitch will get around me and send me videos on narcissistic abuse and pretend that she's healing and she's a warrior and she's doing this she'll act like she's on my level and she's there with me fighting narcissist but then she'll slip up and expose herself and I'll find out that she's doing online dating she'll be like oh girl I'm celibate I ain't dealing with men and da da da da da but I catch her she'll slip up and she's she's doing the online dating thing you know narcs are the only predators that are on these online online dating apps or you know oh I found him on Facebook we just been talking he lives out of state so you know bitch get your funky ass off the ******* dating apps get your funky ass out of that Facebook inbox off a messenger you're healing bitch you just got out your ******* relationship two years ago you have no business dating bitch go sit your ass down somewhere and go heal bitch no but you're toxic codependent you're a goddamn pick me and you're seeking male validation oh you're just gonna fall to pieces if you don't get the attention of a man some kind of way so yeah she's online she's living this double life She acts like she's about that life when she's around me, but behind closed doors, sis is getting it in. She's toxic. And I don't want bitches like that around me. Number three, inconsistent flaky behavior. You get a female friend that's always suggesting, hey girl, we need to meet up. And hey girl, you know, I'm a, I'm a bring you this and I'm a do this for you. And then she backs out at the last minute. Actually, that's, um, I got that as number seven too, but I'll go over that again. a flaky wishy-washy bitch again she's doing this to keep a foot in the door so she can stay in your business but she loves backing out at the last minute if you and her have lunch or dinner plans set up she'll pull out at the last minute if you have a business event that you're launching anything special you got going on and she says hey girl there and she pulls out the last minute or she says she's going to contribute money and if she backs out from doing her part these bitches are flaky get rid of her you want somebody that's a hundred percent down and that's solid you don't need no wishy-washy flaky bitch on the fence playing with your mind and they don't mind attaching themselves I'll give you another example let's just say you and a friend are planning a birthday for another friend and you and this female narcissist agree we're gonna go in half we're gonna go in half um to help plan this friend's birthday the female narcissist is gonna do all the talking oh yeah let's do this and let's do that and then i'm gonna do this and i'm gonna do that and you she's doing all the planning with her big ******* mouth well when it comes down to the day of the event and the party guess who's gonna do all the hard work the good person the empath the female narc is gonna pull out or she's gonna drag her feet they're flaky bitches get rid of them number four competitive envious they create secret competitions that's why another reason why they stay in your motherfucking business because bitch if you're bettering yourself if you're losing weight if you go get a BBL a tummy tuck if you're like you get a new job if men are taking interest in you even though you don't want to be bothered with them and she's in your business keeping up with you and she keeps you out of her business by the way miss double life secret on the down low um she's gonna be envious of you how dare you better yourself oh girl you you look good girl what you got going pay attention or she makes little comments or you find that she's trying to do the same ---- that you're doing she's mirroring you oh you went and got a BBL girl i'm about to get me a BBL too girl we need to be careful mirroring copying behavior that is competitive behavior fake christian number five praise the lord quoting bible scripture i see a lot of this bitch just because you go to church don't mean you cannot be narcissistic actually the church is the worst place to find friends because that's where the coverts go to hide their deplorable behavior like the good lord doesn't know the The good Lord can read your heart. You can sit there and pretend to the rest of the world, but God knows your heart, bitch. You're a filthy bitch and you don't have a clean heart. So the worst place to make a friend is in the church because the church is full of wolves and they're preying on the sheep that come up in there. Be mindful of fake Christians. They know the Bible inside and out and they're covert narcs. It's a whole lot of them in this community and on social media. Number six. Ooh, they don't like me because I've done videos on this. they hate me women who wear dark sunglasses indoors sitting inside their cars if they wear their sunshades at night yeah yeah they're hiding that demon they got so mad at me when I put that video out I put it out about the men to all the red pill the the Kevin Samuel followers the Andrew Tate's all them those men that do these podcasts where they talk down on women a lot of them wear dark sunshades on their podcast. A lot of them sit in their cars and make TikTok videos wearing their dark shades. Why is that? Because they don't want you to see the demon. Their eyes are lifeless and they're predatory. So they're able to scan the room without letting people see them scan the room. They're looking for prey, more supply. They're pissed that I put, I'm the only person in this community that dropped that information and they, they've been trying to attack me ever since. Actually, there's a male narcissistic abuse expert in this community, a black man. He thinks I don't know. He has sent a couple of women to my seminars to befriend me, to try to destroy me. Because ever since I dropped that video about the sunshades, he doesn't make videos in person anymore. He's turned his videos into audio because I exposed that information about the sunglasses. he is he is pulled back from doing the videos showing his face he has a book out and on the cover of his book he has on sunshades because like I said in the videos these male podcasters and these fake relationship gurus if you see them with a profile picture wearing dark shades they're narcissists psychopaths sociopaths and I stand firm on that never trust a man wearing dark shades in his photographs in his videos in his car making tiktok and instagram and youtube videos do not trust women or men who wear dark shades i don't give a **** how much they attack me because god rewards me when i drop this information bring it on bitch you're a demon and you're hiding that ******* demon behind them shades and you don't want nobody to read your lifeless soul there's nothing behind those eyes demons number seven is basically number two that well excuse me um number three is the inconsistent flaky behavior they love narcissists love pulling the rug from underneath your feet at the last minute they're masters at that hey i'll help you plan the birthday party hey i'll help you uh launch your business what do you need me to do and i want to contribute i want to i want to hear the sirens you can't mess with the anointed God'll let me know i'm on track in my videos there was the siren right there pulling a rug underneath your feet they're masters at that honey don't be planning something great don't be planning a surprise birthday party don't be planning to buy a gift a baby shower they'll be like oh girl i want to help i want to chip in i want to do this and that and at the last minute they're gonna pull that rug hey girl let's go on vacation together oh girl i gotta back out because my money ain't right and they do that because they secretly want you to chip in and pay their way they do sneaky ---- they pull back and pull that rug from underneath your feet to get you to do all the ******* work don't be no sucker and do that ---- oh well bitch you're not going on vacation with me oh well bitch if I gotta pay this to pay for everything for this birthday party your name's not going on on any of this because you didn't do ---- bitch but they want all the credit they'll sit back and let you do all the work while they take the credit they'll pull that rug from underneath your feet and shock you I want y'all ladies to wise up if you have women in your life mother sister auntie niecey female cousin female friend female co-worker if she is a narcissist slash toxic codependent she is a pick me and she does all seven of these behaviors and she's still sneaking behind your back craving male validation and attention she might get around you and say oh girl I'm healing I ain't ******* with men men are narcissists but trust behind your back she's talking to some man whether she's sleeping with him or not she just needs the attention she's a ******* pick me she's on an online dating app she's on a facebook messenger talking to a man she just got to be if it's her daddy her daddy's a toxic abuser she need his attention knowing he's ******* toxic she's gonna be her daddy's face stay away from pick me's if you're trying to be intentional with your healing you're trying to be a savage with your healing process you cannot have anyone in your inner circle with that behavior or mentality they will set you back get you a team and a circle of strong bitches that are mentally ready to do god's work and live in a purpose lead and weak pick me bitches in 2022 we on the next level in 2023 i love y'all until my next video stay narcissistic free