MESSY FEMALE RELATIVES ARE “MEAN GIRLS” #npd #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

Hey y'all, Spiritual Whistleblower here. It is Christmas Eve and I hope everybody's doing all right. I'm doing phenomenal. Let me just tell you real quick, earlier today I had a mammogram screening. Now, what I haven't shared with you guys, it wasn't this time last year. At some point last year, I had taken a mammogram examination and it had came up abnormal underneath my right arm. they had saw something there. So they made me come back and do additional screening, ultrasound, a sonogram to get underneath the right, like right up underneath the right breast, they had saw something. So they said it came back negative. But for that, they wanted to stay on top of me and keep testing me. So that's what happened today, I had to take two tests, I usually take one, which is the general basic mammogram screening but they added on top of that a diagnostic test so i did two today and the doctor said both tests came back normal so i said hallelujah praise god because you know i'm i'm going into my 50s you know i know i i don't look it you know i look young in the face but you know i need to be healthy honey i finally my weight is down i'm like 170 pounds. I'm five foot 11. I'm looking good. My body's toned. Um, I had my physical done over the summer in August. So every kind of testing, um, for my physical, my doctor sent me on every damn near everything. So I literally, I had a colonoscopy and endoscopy to check my intestines and my colon for colon cancer um my intestines you know everything looks good he told me i won't need to come back for another 10 years so i was happy about that because the rate of young people getting colon cancer in their 30s and 40s is crazy to me they gotta lower the age now you know um the insurance companies would require you to wait until you're like mid 40 or older they got to lower it to 30 young people is getting colon cancer left and right because the ---- they put in our food so I was relieved about that and the breast cancer was bothering me I said I do not want no issues with my breast okay so um the only issues I have is I have arthritis in my knees because I'm constantly on my feet exercising I had a sports injury I had surgery on the left knee 10 years ago. So my knees, all that is sports, sports injury related to me exercising. And, you know, so I am seeing an orthopedic surgeon. I get my steroid shots for my knees and I'm up dancing and very active. So that's probably the only issue I have. My knees is, is they have, I have arthritis in my knees, y'all everything else. I'm going into 2025 with clean bill of health hallelujah oh I went to the OB-GYN I have my routine um even though I'm sexually not active once you get over 45 you don't have to see the gynecologist but for every two years so um everything checked out great with the OB-GYN too so hey and of course y'all know I was also my doctor also sent me to get tested for autism and I made an announcement that I am in fact clinically i've been clinically diagnosed with having Asperger's i am autistic that was like two three weeks ago i was diagnosed so this mammogram was the last thing on my list and it was crazy that they scheduled my appointment on Christmas Eve so i i take it as a sign from God that um you know best Christmas gift ever is to have a clean bill of health honey at my age but anyway how y'all doing happy Christmas Eve uh listen i want to talk about these messy bitches in your family the messy sister the messy cousin the female cousins the messy ass aunties nieces god sisters listen let's not play like like they don't act like a group of mean girls I can speak for my family and I don't give a **** if they're watching I do not care I don't give a **** if these bitches sit up and call me bitter they call me obsessed they call me a hater bitch **** all of y'all you cannot shut my ******* mouth because you know deep down in your heart your asses haven't been right over the ******* years now I'm not gonna say all the women in my family because I have some good I'll say my aunt Tamara if I love and respect any woman in my family it would be my aunt Tamara shout out aunt Tamara I love you I'm gonna tell you something about my aunt Tamara aunt Tamara she has three sons and a daughter and the one thing I always respected about her she never put focus this is when I was a little girl because me and my brother would go over to her house and we would play with her children, our cousins, you know, Jamil and Lateef and Joe, Nia was a little baby, but we would go play at her house. And me and my brother would never want to leave because my aunt Tamira gave us the love, the nurturing that my mother did not give us. She let us be children. She let us play. Um, I remember some of the positive memories I had of her was of her making pancakes she would stay at that stove and cook she would cook pancakes for like an hour she would just make stacks and stacks she did not believe in seeing children hungry she said y'all will never bother me um she just cooked pancakes for us around the clock so all the kids me and my cousins that was one of the she would pop popcorn she would make gigantic huge bowls of popcorn and we all would stay down in the living room and watch tv me and my cousins and we would go swimming in the backyard and riding on the bikes you know my aunt Tamara allowed us to be children and she hugged and kissed she was so ******* loving and I respect her as a woman and a mother because today her children are all grown adults but they're all tight-knit that's how you can tell she's a good parent because when your children are tight-knit like that it's a reflection of of your your parenting she made sure her children love and support each other she didn't play them against each other she didn't make them jealous of each other and that's why her children are tight-knit so out of all the women in my family i have the most respect for my aunt tamara i ******* love this ---- out of her she's a real woman and and i know um she's she's beaten a few challenges in her life you know i won't speak on those things but you know she's here and healthy but she was a good ******* mother amazing mother something my mother will never ******* be my aunt tamira was more of a mother to me than my own ******* mother was now the women in your family honey um if you're like me and you were raised by a narcissistic mother and you have a lot of evil ass ******* family members on both sides they they gossip they're ******* dysfunctional they're toxic if you were bullied if you know a lot of y'all we got on a conversation the other day about neurodivergence if you are were autistic or you're walking around you think you're autistic you have not been diagnosed yet and you suspect that you're autistic and i already said i said narcissists ******* bully the **** out of autistic people just think of all the weird behaviors things you did you know autistic children they do all types of different things they might stare they might you know flap their hands and do different things coming up in my time the elders uh the baby boomers they would sit there and say little ---- oh bless your heart what's wrong with him why he's staring like that why they would make these snide remarks not realizing that the children are neurodivergent they're they're undiagnosed and autistic they're undiagnosed to ADHD they have uh dyslexia learning uh disabilities Our parents did not get us evaluated and diagnosed, yet they were the main ones, along with family members, to talk ---- about the weird ---- that we would do because we were walking around undiagnosed. Painful, hurtful memories of being ******* bullied. That's my family. Both sides. Both sides. But I want to talk about the women, y'all. How many of y'all got a bunch of messy bitches in your family? Gossiping bitches. bitches that have no business talking ---- about nobody because they don't have their ---- together it could be your mama it could be your sister female cousins aunts god sister nieces you know i call this the mean girl syndrome and i'm gonna get on the mean girls because mean girls are nothing more than narcissists if you were in high school and you know what i'm talking about high school was some of the most traumatic times to a lot of us okay my memories of high school were totally horrible i don't **** with no i think that's why i hate getting on facebook because i have people from high school trying to hit me up like bitch you didn't **** with me back then why are you trying to connect with me now and how do they find you it's like they they they sniff you out on facebook i never announced what my my ******* facebook was and here come motherfuckers from high school i took my facebook down bitch i don't want to be found by none of y'all y'all were absolutely assholes y'all were bullies and assholes in high school but you know the mean girl cliques the cheerleaders the snobby girls you know that thought they were all that they were nasty and mean spirited they would sit together at lunch and gossip about everybody pick on the nerds and the geeks and all that and sleep with all the jocks and ---- mean girls are mean spirited narcissists that's all they are they are highly narcissistic okay they love to gossip and tear down people the whole thing is do as i say but not as i do they're allowed to talk about you but god forbid if you talk about them baby they're gonna they're gonna have a whole ******* hissy fit they're hypocrites okay they're allowed in their minds they're ******* delusional and their minds they're allowed to be condescending they're allowed to talk down to you they're allowed to pick apart your outfit they're allowed to body shame you and fat shame you they're allowed to talk about you know your little studio apartment they're classist they're elitist they're colorist what else ableist picking on disabled picking on you know in the black community because I listen I've witnessed my mother my nana my sister my female cousins they love talking about dark skin people with nappy hair they love talking about other people's children nappy hair you know light skin is better than dark skin that's my father's side of the family my nana and all that you know always worried about somebody's hair texture and and being light skin light skin is better mixed is mixed children are better and they all know they were guilty of sitting up and talking about people talking about people's children how ugly some people's children look some my mother and sister are real guilty of doing this they could never say nothing to me today i would cuss them both the **** out the mean girls have the motherfucking audacity so when you have a family of these types of women in your family baby they will treat you like a ******* enemy you you will be treated like an outcast you will be gossiped about you will be smeared you can't keep a man. They'll talk about where you live, who they think you're *******, your baby daddy drama, how much money they think you make, where you work. If you're fat, they will fat shame you. If you're skinny, they will say you're on drugs. You look sick. If you're fat and you lose the weight, they'll have an issue with that. It's always something. It's never positive. If you stand up for yourself and you speak out against them now it becomes an issue of you're jealous you're envious you're a hater oh my god she's so obsessed with me she just can't keep my name out her mouth they'll spin it around they're professional victims they get to bully you for years all throughout your childhood and the moment you stand up for yourself they go into victim mode mean girls in your family i don't know if i told y'all i might have told y'all this story i told it on tiktok i have a female cousin and i will never **** with that bitch ever again ever ever piece of ---- bitch came to my house yeah i live in a low-income apartment in new york city so what the bitches that talk ---- about me could never come here to new york city and and make it none of them can afford two three thousand dollars for a studio apartment none of them would be making six figures, but they all talk ---- about those of us that do know how to hustle and get it how we can get it. And for me, don't ever judge me about where I live or how I dress. I follow Bill Gates. Bill Gates looks poor. He dresses like a bum. He does not wear designer or name brand and he does it on purpose to throw people off. Yet he has a lot of money in his bank account, doesn't see that's how you know you're dealing with a narcissist because narcissists are only consumed with the outside appearance they're constantly worried about what people look like and and they will judge you just off of appearance they're shallow there's no substance there's no depth inside of them they're ignorant as **** stupid as **** so just because you're dressed down and you live in a certain neighborhood and your apartment is small they assume you're a bum you're a low life meanwhile you got more money in your bank account than all of them combined but see they're shallow bitches they got to wear designer they got to be fake bougie they they they all this and that but they're ******* miserable and if they're in relationships or married they're not happy because their niggas is cheating on them and not treating them right but they're not going to tell you that they're going to they're just going to cling on to the nigga for the sake of their reputation they don't want nobody thinking they can't keep a man that's pick me behavior so these types of women mean girls in your family they're all pick me's my nana is a ******* pick me stayed with my cheating ass granddaddy for like 50 ******* years didn't i mean she wanted to control him and i guess he wanted to control her because ain't no ******* way my husband gonna have a baby on me and think oh no divorce divorce and my nana is learning now that her legacy you know she's on her way out she's on her way out and she's left behind a really terrible legacy her sons remember I told you she has three sons her youngest son passed away she thought he would outlive that was her favorite baby my uncle Dion that was her baby baby honey that was the love of her life I honestly thought my nana treated my uncle like a lover instead of a son that's how enmeshed their relationship is deeply codependent and enmeshed she groomed him and trained him to the point that he could not be with no women he went through two marriages and every time he ran back to mommy but she had this plan of keeping him home with her and he would take care of her as she would get older she probably had planned to leave him the house the car and everything and at the age of 49 my uncle Dion passed away I was told he died in his sleep the good lord took her baby away from her and I'm not saying that to be mean or whatever but my nana has spent her entire life abusing her sons abusing and torturing damaging she has psychologically damaged her boys so bad to the point that they went out and they all abused women all three of them were abusive in their marriages towards their women that's how much of a negative impact she had on her sons and she really thought she was going to get away scot-free um for not you know she didn't think she thought she was gonna have this happily ever after life her son with her youngest baby was gonna take good care of her god said no uh-uh no ma'am you're gonna pay i and when i heard you know my uncle passed away i immediately i said don't play with God don't play with God I know what this is my Nana is finally getting her karma for abusing her children and now her grandchildren her family is all broken up we're not together her sons are not together her grandchildren are all broken up she's going to leave behind a terrible legacy you cannot escape through life abusing your children and and being mean-spirited being a ******* bully my nana is a ******* malignant narcissist and it's her time she's paying she's paying severely for what she's done but you know i say all this to say y'all the the messy women in your family they'll click up honey and have several gossip sessions and tear you the **** down why she's still going at the mouth why don't she just get over it dad she's miserable what's her problem see she gonna need us one day bitch let me tell you something it'll be a cold day in hell before I **** with my family ever again and I said if I'm homeless on the streets I'll sleep in a cardboard box before I ever go the **** back they don't understand I'm done I'd have missed a couple of funerals my grandparents and I I didn't go to none of the funerals I'm I'm I'm hoping they're getting the message now that I don't give a **** and I used to be the sweetest nicest person and I know they're all sitting back like what happened to the girl we used to know no no that girl is gone honey I'm a motherfucking warrior I got tired of the bullying I blacked out I crashed out and I will **** a bitch up if you ******* come for me don't pass no messages on behalf of my mother don't pass no messages on behalf of my sister they fucked up it's done they are dead to me i'm waiting for my nana and my mother to perish bye okay because you know whoever the ringleader is and i want to talk about your family too you got to identify the ringleader it's usually your mother or your grandmother okay the matriarch of the family is usually the ringleader and what the ringleader the ringleader has a huge impact they're very dominant so that's usually where the gossip the smear campaign it originates with the ******* ringleader so i know for a fact my mother has spread vicious rumors about me she's all since i was a little girl or get on the phone fast and talk ---- about me to other people she's talked ---- about me to total strangers in the street actually when i was overweight close to 300 pounds honey I was every fat bitch fat pig fat this fat that she would talk about me like she never gave birth to me like I was a ******* side chick that stole her man that's how bad she used to gossip about me so narcissists stick with other narcissists you got to understand abusers support abusers that's why Donald Trump is about to take office because he it was nothing more than the sociopaths and all the abusers male and female they voted his ass in because abusers stick together they don't care that he's a rapist they don't care that he's a racist they don't care that he's an abuser a pedo uh you know a ******* felon they overlooked all his dark criminal past they don't care if he's touched children they don't care if he was cool with Jeffrey Epstein they they don't care if he made reference about his daughter's vagina they don't care they voted his ass in because narcissists and abusers stick together. So you got to look at your family the same way. If your mama and grandmama are narcissists, they're going to stick together. If your female cousins, your sister, your aunties, if they're narcissists, they're going to stick together. They will support the abuser, the ringleader. They will believe the gossip and help spread the gossip that the ringleader initiated so I know my mother started ---- about me but more importantly I know all the bitches that supported her and helped her spread the gossip yeah even my brother my brother's baby mama she's a motherfucking narcissist I've been clocked her tea she's dumb as **** because she she be ******* ass kissing my mother but my mother and sister talk about her because she's dark-skinned and African yeah she she she needs to know my mother and sister will sit up and talk about a dark-skinned man or woman with kinky hair in a hot minute they're colorists yeah female narcissists are colorists honey I've been clocked my brother's baby mama I don't **** with her either and I believe she's trained one of her daughters to be a narcissist too my brother clocked it me and my brother then had this discussion one of his daughters is not a narcissist and the other one is and I won't because they're children I won't say their names but I clocked all the tea and I see it from a mile away I see a problem brewing and my mother and sister contributed into grooming the child into a ******* narcissist trash that's why I will never **** with them bitches again because they thought they was gonna do it to my daughter and I kept my daughter away you're not fitting to groom my child bitch you groom my brother's children you won't **** with mine the the the women in your family will click up like mean girls honey abusers support abusers just remember that and since I've made the announcement that my mother is still married to the man that molested me and my mother was made aware when I was a teenage girl and when she sliced my face open and sent me to school this is my senior year of high school sent me to school with an open gash on my face and my teachers and my guidance counselors called me into the office and said who did that to your face who did that you're not going to leave this office until you tell us who cut your face open like that I said it was my mother they said sit down talk to us how long has your mother been doing this to you how long has she and I listen for once somebody was listening to me because I felt like nobody believed me nobody listened to me I told them everything I told them her husband molested me and I told her about it she did nothing the niggas locked up in prison now it's like my mother hated my guts and I didn't know why I didn't understand it so my school reported her ass and they kept the investigation open for an entire they was on her ass for an entire year honey and the only reason they closed that case is because I left for college I was I was 18 I became an adult and they closed the case but right now as of 2024 it's documented in Richland County in Columbia South Carolina with the Department of Social Services my mother and her husband her current husband are named in the investigation it's documented and it's in my school archives so she could never ******* lie because i come with receipts so let me tell you something there are women in my family that support my mother and they know all this information they know she's married to a pedophile they know she's ******* physically assaulted me they know she was a terrible mother who allowed me to walk around with a disability didn't get me help didn't get me therapy but yet she took part in bullying me and body shaming me and fat shaming me and then she pulled other people in to join in the gossip and smear campaign these are family members messy bitches mean girls oh and one last thing hold up that's why i wrote this book to expose my mother it's called i can't stand my mother uh and the other messy bitches in my family how to shut down your narcissistic ringleader mama and your two-faced female relatives i'm gonna do another video i got a story about my female cousin um i was going to tell it in this this this uh video don't know is she came into my house and secretly took pictures of my little girls uh you know my daughter was young at the time she was in there snapping photos with her cell phone of dirty laundry on the floor she threatened to post the pictures on facebook to to shame me that's mean girl behavior that's narcissistic behavior that bitch will never step foot in my house again we will never kick it together she i don't i don't claim her as a blood relative she's ******* dead to me bitch can kick rocks and go to hell piece of ---- bitch and I actually told her post the pictures on Facebook bitch because what you're gonna do you're gonna expose yourself and everybody's gonna say well damn if she's that dirty to take pictures of her own cousin's house what's she gonna do if I invite her in my house is she gonna be in my house taking photos ain't nobody gonna trust that bitch in their house taking pictures of dirty laundry of my daughter's bedroom and trying to and threatening to humiliate me and posting on Facebook, that's what I'm talking, that's why I don't **** with these bitches and then they get mad, they feel like I'm holding a grudge, no bitch, that's your character, I don't **** with people with poor character, you're not a good person you mean spirited bitch but when I retaliate and stand on business and I stop allowing y'all to bully me, oh why can't she just get over it, why can't we be a family again dang she won't get over it, dang she holding on to the pack, **** you bitch, this is what causes PTSD in people, this is why people have to go to therapy because they have fucked up family members that are bullies narcissistic family members mean girls mean spirited motherfuckers, and that's why I vow I will vow to the day I'm gone, I will do this work and I will help as many people as possible y'all cannot be scared to cut your family off, you have to for your mental health and for your overall health altogether, you can get cancer your nervous system will react and it will tell your body is breaking down and it's sick because you will not stop hanging with your family, look at tracy braxton, tracy braxton died at the age of 49 from cancer, why because she had a bunch of sisters that constantly bullied her on a day-to-day basis, evil motherfucking bitches, they're mean girls let's talk about in the comment section y'all I'm going to post another video uh called um stop allowing your mother to pressure you to have a baby that's a whole nother topic when when a narcissistic mother has made poor choices and men she's miserable with her current husband she's mad that her life didn't turn out the way that it should she will pressure her daughter to get pregnant because she wants her daughter to be ******* just as miserable as she we don't have that conversation i'm gonna talk about because i don't see a lot of people talking about that if your mom was a pick me and a narcissist and she's made up a lot of fucked up choices with her men even her marriage she don't want her daughter to be happy she's not gonna tell her daughter that but she's gonna try to make like you know i want to have a grandchild when you gonna have it she gonna pressure you to have a baby because she wants you to be tied down to an ancient ass nigga just like she's tied down that's another video y'all but let's talk about this in the comment section y'all have a merry christmas i love you guys spiritual whistleblower