Unattractive Male Life Coaches Use Women to Feed Their Egos #npd #narcissist #narcissisticabuse
Oct 16, 2026
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Hey y'all, Spiritual Whistleblower here, popping in with another video.
I'm going to do two videos today.
This one I'm going to do now and the other one,
I want to teach y'all ladies about limerence.
Okay, a lot of y'all don't know what limerence is,
what it entails, and a lot of you have
asked me questions.
Please describe it more in detail.
So I will do a whole video on the topic of limerence.
limerence is the state of being caught up
in a cycle where you're reminiscing and you're
infatuated with your ex you may not want to have sex with them
because they've abused you so bad
but you keep thinking back to the to the times the good times
and the bad times and you know like i
said yesterday watching these videos
by these toxic life coaches it keeps you stuck in a state
of limerence. And the whole goal, you know,
as a survivor of narcissistic abuse, your goal should
be pushing to heal. And watching these videos repeatedly day after day,
year long, it's going
to keep you stuck thinking about the ex.
See, I'm at a point right now where I am totally indifferent.
I have no, even on TikTok, when I'm on TikTok
and I'm scrolling through my timeline,
videos about narc abuse narcissistic abuse will pop up
on my timeline I scroll past I have no
desire to watch that because number one I feel
that I'm indifferent to it I'm healed from it
um there's you know I have my little stuff that I got
to work on within myself and that's why I'm
currently in therapy and I love going to EMDR therapy
but um the the really difficult stuff
is gone I don't even have a desire to watch
the videos I have no need um and tarot card readers
are another one oh I'm gonna do a good
the limerence video this is I'm gonna give y'all
excellent examples when I
do the limerence video I'm gonna talk about these tarot card readers
and why most of them are narcissists
because they're tarot readers every time you watch a
different tarot reader they all say the same ----
your ex is laid up with the new supply
your ex is stalking you your ex wants to come back
because they realize they did you dirty why do all
the tarot readers have the same motherfucking story they manipulate
the cards so that they
talk about your ex wanting to come back
and all that that's because they want to keep you stuck
in the state of limerence
so that you keep paying them for tarot readings it's about a money grab
it's a money hustle the tarot readers
are all narcissistic I don't give a **** who gets mad
so I'm gonna do a limerence video tomorrow to teach
y'all ladies how to break out of limerence
when you break the limerence
and the trauma bond that these life coaches have done by mind
******* you with their video content i promise you will have
no desire to watch their content
ever again all right but today it's already hot man it's it's early
in the morning jesus why is
it so hot already oh i'm gonna sweat i'm gonna sweat
because i want my skin to be pretty good
morning god is amazing people be talking about god
is good no he's not good he's god is great
chicken is good fried chicken is good god is great god
is amazing i feel blessed and highly favored
and ready to have another yesterday was a great day
and the day before yesterday was a great day
but today i'm gonna have an even better day life
is amazing i want to talk about the delusion of
these male life coaches i'm gonna keep my foot
on their motherfucking necks ladies if you really
knew the truth about these male life coaches
the majority of them are weak insecure men that thrive
on their female audience to feed
their ego everything is ego driven you think you're
getting all this healing by watching their videos
but like i want you to go even even deeper and
further okay now there's two types
of male life coaches there's the ones that hide their
relationship history you don't know
who they've dated in the past they hide their girlfriends
and wives they they try to make themselves appear
single okay they never talk about their significant
others then there's the other type of toxic tripling life coach
who has the wife and guess
what he's abusing his wife and cheating on her behind closed doors
but he he uses his marriage
to trick his female audience into thinking he's
a loyal faithful husband he loves his wife his wife
is a part of his scam okay the wife like Tony Gaskins he sits up
and he talks about his *******
wife all the time that's that's part of the scam
that's part of the hustle he's triangulating his
wife and she's very attractive he uses his wife
to make his female audience jealous and vice versa
i think his wife may be a narcissist i need to study her a bit more
and i think she she knows
how to manipulate him right back like it's
a behind closed doors it's a tit for tat thing
and she knows she knows him she knows how
to get what she want out of him so she may be a narcissist
herself but but but tony has perfected his game
by adding his wife um she's a part of his scam
she's on the book cover with him he he's found
a way to you know like this is why i say he's a
machiavellian like he's one of them dangerous types
of narcissists like Derek Jackson he's
you know he's a bit smarter than Derek Jackson he's found
a way to infuse his wife incorporate
his wife in his scam um and and triangulate
her against his female audience and the female
audience they you know he's a he's he's a decent looking man
so you know all these single lonely
women that got dogged out by their men they looking up
at Tony like I wish I had a man like
Tony I could listen to him all day look
at his eyes I wish I was his wife he knows that he's
playing off the heartstrings yo Tony's
a big Tony's a big game player I'm telling you and
because he's big time now he'd have made it
to TV you're gonna start to see his real behavior
shine through because he'd have made it he'd have built
his platform he didn't got his money up his
money bag is up to the point
y'all done got him on a tv show he'd have made it so now he can start
being his true self watch what i tell you
in the future it's starting to happen now his baseline
behavior his narcissistic baseline behavior
is going to start showing up more and more okay i
told y'all this um these guys that that that have
these major platforms with women i promise you
they all have something
in common they're weak they're ******* insecure somebody in their past
emasculated them and i'm talking about
a woman it might have been their mama they got a trifling
toxic mama um you know mama put a man before them
and treated them like ---- mama might have beat
and and and you know took her anger out on him
because she hate his daddy mama did something to
emasculate him he might have been emasculated
from the girls in high school he was ugly in
high school less attractive in high school
and he couldn't pull a lot of girls now he got this big
ass audience and he think he the ******* man
and it's the desperate pick me women that blow these
******* egos up these men be weak
and ugly in the face unattractive and the women in the *******
comments be blowing their ******* heads up now they think they
the ---- i can't stand pick me's the
pick me's these are the female narcissists
the female toxic codependents the jezebels the
scallywags the side chicks the women that sleep
with men that are taking the the toxic trifling
baby mamas that are ******* their baby daddies knowing he got
a girlfriend and they don't care
like the trifling women those are the desperate pick me's
these be the bitches that be *******
you know they be blowing these niggas heads up
and we ain't gonna talk about the looks department
it's a few male life coaches
that are decent i'm gonna let's talk about derrick jackson real quick
i got time today bitch i don't give a ****
who get mad derrick jackson i don't know ladies have
y'all seen any of his old pictures before he got got in the gym
and started you know lifting weights
because he's all muscular now he he you know he's got
a body uh full of muscles you know he likes
to work out in the gym before that ************ got
in the gym he was a fat nasty blob i don't
know if y'all seen them old pictures of this nigga he he
was a hot ******* mess i don't think he's
attractive i don't i'm sorry i don't think he's he's good looking
um you know i think his charm
he's very charming and charismatic
which is why women you know oh he's sexy and and the muscles
his physique his body is in good shape you know from working out
so that's a part of the image
thing but I saw them pictures uh back
in the day where he was out of shape and fat and he was
married to his toxic ass wife at the time too
so his audience wasn't built or established at that
time that was the time where he was just coming out
and he started putting content out he started
building his female audience
and you know what after some years he started his ego started to
blow the **** up women blew his head up
but back in the day he was not that ******* nigga oh my
y'all did y'all see the pictures of him do i gotta post
the pictures of him what he used to look like
insecure ******* out of shape not the type
of nigga women would be feening over he was weak
and insecure when he started his platform
and all he did was grow millions of desperate lonely weak
women black white whatever and they sat there
and they fed his ******* ego now he thinks he's
******* he thinks he's Usher he thinks he's Usher
oh yeah you you know how Usher got got women you
know Usher got the celebrities falling out i loves
me some ******* Usher bitch i understand i'm i'm
going to see Usher and i'm gonna have
on my tightest dress you know he run up on me Usher can
frisk me and do what he want i loves me some Usher see see Usher has
a certain effect on women and see
these these men with these these these large
female audiences you know these life coaches
and gurus that then grew their audience of women
that ---- is feeding their ego that ---- is giving
them y'all give them narcissistic supply they get supply off of us
and money and they're a bunch of
******* nobodies, weak little boys
and most of them are unattractive, most of them are ugly as ****
I'm in my petty bag I feel like being petty
this morning, why not now, you know uh last week um
a certain male life coach took some some
of my emails, Quinn Holiday ASSC direct used my emails
to try to make it appear like he rejected me
and I wanted him and I called him a walrus because
dude I don't know the women that blew
his head up, I don't know where this this this who the ****
blew his head up, has he taken a good look in the mirror
but he really think he really like i'm like
yo this nigga think he more as Boris Chestnut
this nigga really think he fine, yo who the **** gonna bring
him back down to ******* reality so i called him a walrus
then i went home and i said no he's worse
than a walrus, i should have i should have really i didn't really go
in the way that i want to i was
being generous when i said walrus
but that nigga looked like a english bulldog in the face you
know them bulldogs they got a pug nose they they they nose
and mouth is pushed all the way back
that nigga look like a bulldog an english bulldog
in the face, Boris Chestnut nigga you're not
Boris Kodjoe, you're not no who the **** blew
your head up nigga don't lie on your dick like that
these niggas always lying on their dick
when they get rejected or called out how many y'all ladies
it's textbook narcissistic behavior ladies when
when you broke up with your ex what the nigga do
he ran, he started a smear campaign, he ran
and told his boys, "this bitch is mad because i don't want"
her, i rejected her, he starts to show, he dig up old text messages, he go
to his family his inner circle
and he's smearing the **** out of you
and trying to make it seem like he rejected you, why the
narcissistic men, they all, this is all textbook behavior
the same ******* blueprint, the same
formula, the same goddamn formula
that motherfucking nigga, as direct, he did the textbook thing
he ran the smear campaign, he pulled a little piece
of an email, tried to make build something
off of that, you know, because he was feeling rejected, humiliated
and this is the only way
the nigga could get my attention, okay, pulling up some old ass emails
from three four years ago
nigga, pull something up recent
when was i on your dick recently, bitch, pull up some from 2022, 2023
where i'm chasing and asking you to meet up, okay, ugly nigga
that looked like a bulldog in the face
tried to build a story off of some old emails
to make himself look desirable and to play me
against other women and vice versa
that was classic triangulation, this is what these male
life coaches do with a female audience
and it's quite a few of them, that ******* Derek Jackson
did it Tony Gaskins he triangulates his wife
with his feed against his female audience, y'all start
peeping game of these, these ******* men start peeping game
the white male life coaches do it
too, there's a guy right now with a girlfriend
and she she always looks like she's scared standing
next to him, that man is abusing her, that man
is ******* abusing her, listen, i'm just here to open
up your eyes, most of these dudes were rejects, most
of these dudes were treated like ---- by
women back in the day and now that they got
a female audience they think they the ----
they get in narcissistic supply off the compliments
and off the money grab and and they're
weak little boys they're not good men
and they're unattractive and I blame women for ******* acting
like desperate pick me's you know giving them all
this ******* attention feeding their ******* ego
so that they feel like now they can talk down
on people now they can really be misogynistic and
condescending to people because now they they think they high
and mighty they have a superior
complex they think they're god oh no baby we serve one god you
is not god no no bitch i will humble
a nigga quick that motherfucking english bulldog
face walrus face looking ************ lying on his
dick bitch you wish you you wish you as fine as i
am you know what type of niggas and you know my
ex was a piece listen my ex was a piece of trash yes
but i'll tell you what my ex is good looking
my ex is a good looking dark skinned black man he's good he's handsome
my ex is black as hell
i like my man blackity black bitch with a body
my ex had a nice body too **** out of here
walrus face bulldog looking ************ pug nose
ugly pug nose nigga lying on his ******* dick
that's all they do is lie on their ******* dicks go
to your ******* pick me bitches and let them
and let them uh uh um kiss your ass
or that desperate pick me miss t on mpd she was right
there vouching talking you know talking about i wanted him
no bitch you want him all the ****
the bitch need to put on a pair
of knee pads she need you she need to go invest in some knee pads
put them knee pads on her knees with all the dick sucking
and brown nose that she was doing for that
nigga bitch you want him because i don't bitch you want him
your pride and sucked him off and
quiet his cap her child looked like she uh
her child looked like it could be his his daughter
too i'm wondering if he's the father of her her daughter
because they she the daughter looked like
look like Quinn if you ask me I said it bitch
motherfuckers should have never came from me
my mouth is treacherous put some motherfucking knee pads
on all that dick sucking and ass kissing
and brown nose and licking his balls
and talking all that ---- nobody want that ugly bull bulldog
English bulldog face looking nigga but you bitch
and all the pick me's in in his audience
listen 2023 let this be the year ladies that you get woke
and you separate yourself from these
pick me ass bitches that are ******* you know making
these niggas feel superior they are over
there you gotta let them be on the other side
of the ******* fence let them be over there because
these niggas need these ******* weak bitches
these bitches with low self-esteem they thrive off of
them to be to to up you know make
their their ******* platform stand if the weak bitches don't
don't ******* be over there the niggas the niggas
is going to collapse they thrive off a weak
insecure bitches with low self-esteem i said it
these niggas don't be attractive, Derek Jackson
ain't handsome to me, i need to, i mean
when i find the picture i'ma post it on my community board y'all
gotta see what Derek Jackson looked like before he got
in the gym bitch, a straight broke busted
dusty and RC Blakes is a ugly ************ too
RC Blakes know his wife is out of his league
and she left his ass for a ******* uh, what's
the story, she left him for a pro baseball
player and he begs her to come back, that's textbook narc behavior
because the narcissist
is so possessive and they look at you as an object
so and and the baseball player probably
had more money so that's why he chased his wife down
not because he loved her but he had to go
get his piece of property back, RC Blakes
is not handsome, i said it bitch, come check me
them Fresh and Fit boys, that Fresh
and Fit podcast, you see how ugly that ************ is, you can tell
some girl broke his heart back in the day, these niggas
be insecure emasculated with mommy issues
and they thrive off their female audience to feed
their ego, i will not be supporting no male life
coaches, i want y'all to wake the **** up, see this ----
for what it is, excuse me, if the narcissistic
Jezebel women, the pick me's want
to support them niggas, let them go on over there, you are a queen
you separate yourself from that bullshit, you
be a leader not a motherfucking follower following
behind weak bitches in in a cult-like setting, all it
it is a cult, these niggas running cults
of weak desperate women to feed their ego
in their pockets pimping the **** out of them and
because these women don't know their self-worth they're allowing
these niggas to get away with it
don't be that girl, don't be that girl, don't give
these niggas no compliments, don't tell them they
handsome, don't don't email them, don't know they're all weak
and insecure, really you know you you want
to get in their ass, test their character, you need
to find out how the nigga character is
**** his video content, ****
who is, find out if he's molested a child in the past, find out if he's
a deadbeat ******* father, find out if he's put
his hands on a woman, find out his character, don't
never judge a life coach off his image
or the quality of his video content, find out who his
character is, then you won't find out who that really
who he really is, a ************ that got
rejected in his past, a ************ got emasculated
by his toxic ass mommy or the women in his family
a nigga that got rejected in the past by women
and now that he has a large female audience he
thinks he's the ******* ----, i can't stand pick me women, pick me women
are the reason niggas are
running around beating on women
and doing the **** ----, i'm tired, where are my woke sisters
come forward, stop following
these niggas, they don't like us, they're misogynistic, they'll gladly
take narcissistic supply from us and they'll take our money
but they don't like us, watch for my
other video, i'm gonna post another video
on limerence strictly on limerence i'm gonna teach
y'all about limerence and how to get the **** up out
this youtube community and how to stop
watching these videos so you can start to progress
and move forward i love y'all to the next video
It's been a spiritual whistleblower.

