LITTLE DID YOU KNOW... #empath #narcissist #narcissism

saxophone come through saxophone instruments what's up what's up guys what's up come on in come on in come on in guys i'm waiting on y'all good evening Alisa Williams hello beautiful queen we doing love jazz what up fam cherry t good evening jojo butler what's up miss love hey shirley gonzalez what's up queen okay deep waters incognito okay okay okay hello sister shay love what's up guys i'm just over here just you know marinating real quick i just wanna you know check in with my people but i had to get my groove on y'all know how i do especially on a monday night listen mondays are mondays okay so here we are you guys look i am back from a birthday vacation i can't help but still be in that that uh that energy i'm still like celebrating because it's deeper than just the birthday it's deeper than just the birthday y'all i have gratitude because i'm still alive from survivor to survivor if you understand what i mean you understand what i mean I am celebrating a birthday with gratitude. If you're a survivor of narcissistic abuse, you probably understand that we don't really celebrate our own birthdays. We never had the chance to. Some of us grew up, nobody even recognized your birthday. They forgot your birthday. I can't tell y'all how many years I went as a teenager where they all forgot to call me. I'm talking about, you know, not existing, not being seen is real for us. So welcome, Thrivers. Welcome, Survivors. Thank y'all. I see the birthday shout out. Thank you, Joshua. Man, I appreciate all of y'all. All the birthday love that I've been getting from everywhere was just so overwhelming. But I am blessed because I went from never and being forgotten about to now having a beautiful world of people who are like, oh, my gosh, happy birthday, happy birthday. I'm very validated by that you guys I'm so happy that y'all are here with me on this journey y'all don't know how amazing it felt to have all of that love universally like I've never dreamt of that I've never in my life thought that I would have so much love around me but I have always been a strong believer that I am love and love is really all around me and I'm feeling that now and I love that and i'm so appreciative to all of y'all i just wanted to take a moment to say that um but i'm still in that birthday energy so please forgive me if i'm you know a little happy and dancy and all that but that's gonna be me moving forward because i'm a thriver i'm a thriver just like so many of y'all thank y'all i see i see y'all still shouting out the birthday love oh y'all are so cool i love you guys i i really do i'm so inspired by your love and your your kindness and your support man i cannot stress that enough but y'all i'm back i'm back with another one we are live it's monday night and i just want to talk to y'all real quick because i just got something that i need to let y'all know did anybody read the title it says little did you know little did you know thank you so much Hidden Yandere i appreciate you brother hype man nerve for the lord thank you joshua says you're strong look i i listen narcissistic abuse will build a monster if you allow it and it can build a good monster all monsters aren't bad because they don't build a beast baby, thank you though Joshua, I appreciate that, but the title little did you know Queen Leandria says yes, I love the title sis, guess what we are going to have a very interesting topic today because this is how I'm feeling and I know that I'm not I know I'm not alone I know I'm not alone I know I am not alone so I just want to talk to y'all because this is where my mind is at at this point in my journey with these narcissists and their abuse and you know the cycle of this vicious rinse, rinse, wash, repeat BS that we've all endured on every level. I'm talking about narcissistic families. I'm talking about narcissistic coworkers. I'm talking about those spouses. I'm talking about those narcissistic children that you're dealing with too, because some of you are dealing with narcissistic children. They all have the same playbook. They all are operating under the same playbook because they all carry the same spirit or spirits some of these people have more than one type of spirit it's more than just being envious they know they have the lustful spirit it's just there's a lot of in-depthness to who these people are and what they are what's really in front of us it's not just somebody with NPD and only true survivors i'm not talking about the people that jump on my channel because they want to go accuse somebody else of a narcissist because that's y'all believe it or not majority of people that come on my platform are the narcissists looking to hear certain things and go and compare it to the person that they are abusing these are master manipulators they're they're joining channels they're learning about their own self and pinpointing little things and bringing it back to you and calling you the narcissist this is what's happening so for me I'm at a point where I'm just like this can literally happen to you in any way there's really at this point I'm totally convinced there's nothing you could have really done to attract a narcissist there's a lot of factors and there's a lot of reasons why you're more of a target but when it boils down to it it's like okay these people are just here they've been here before we knew what the word narcissist was. These evil, wicked, jealous, manipulative, want everybody's attention. Elisa, thank you. Oh, she gave me some birthday love. I appreciate you, Ms. Williams. God bless you, Elisa Williams. Thank you for the love, sis. She said, here you go. Happy birthday, daughter. I appreciate that so much. I really do. Thank you. God bless you. Yo, and of course, man, before I get too deep into what I'm about to talk about. If you're new to my channel, what's up, man? I'm glad you're here. If this is your first live, hello to you. I'm just a thriver of narcissistic abuse, and I am sharing with you the real of the real, because that's what's going to help you get through this. It really is. That's why today's title is really Little Did You Know, because as I am talking about all of this, and I'm talking about the phases and the cycles that we've all went through with these same evil ass people whether they was your parent or your boss whether they were your husband or your girlfriend they love bombed you they they showed you this weird fake love and this like I said this could be your parent because the parent love bombs you as a child sometimes you know you're just an object you might have been something to just be cute to be seen with you know they might have loved you when you did things that they liked things that were interesting for them they exhibited love towards you when you were doing what they wanted and required of you the spouse love bombs you they deceive you and they lie to you and they set you up they put you in a trap to fully trust them then before you know it bam you done married this fool then before you know it bam we done had one two three four five kids and you starting to realize damn something isn't right you start to think maybe maybe they just want to be married because it's a good look maybe they grew up in the church so having a wife or having a husband it's an expectation that they have to meet because they care about images about how they look maybe they are the pastor and a pastor has to have a pastor's wife so even though this person has zero empathy even though they don't care about nobody they love bombed you enough to get you to be the one that they can show off in public you know the the fake interest with those narcissistic bosses before you come into the environment they act like they're interested in you and your qualities but then you're working there and all of a sudden you're not good enough all of a sudden you're being talked about all of a sudden they're not putting you in the plans all of a sudden you're this bad child with this parent all of a sudden you're this horrible wife or this horrible husband with this person who just love bombed you into a marriage all of a sudden you're not qualified for this job you finding you finding out they trying to fire you damn little did you know that these people were plotting against you little did you know that what you were dealing with was a narcissist but for so many watching this you have figured it out you might have started figuring it out a long time ago but you figured it out because they really set you up little did you know that when you met this person you were in a vulnerable state little did you know that you telling them man I just lost my mom I just lost my dad I'm just going through stuff I just need somebody I just need some love and some support. I just need somebody to just show me that they see me, that they care and that they hear me. Little did you know that this person that was displaying that they cared in that moment, like they wanted to be there for you. Like, you know, they tried to make you feel like you finally found someone who cares. You finally found someone who you can let go, let loose and just be yourself. Little did you know you were walking into a trap. You had no idea. You had no clue what was happening because they seemed so caring in the beginning. They were loving. They were tender. They were patient. They didn't mind the fact that you were broke. They didn't mind the fact that you had more than them. They made it seem like they were not jealous of you in any kind of way. They humbled themselves. They came off so charming, so humbling, so inspiring, so motivating. You were so motivating. You told them so much. You shared a lot. You overly shared. You got them involved in your business plans, your financial business. You really felt like this is your best friend. This is your partner. Oh my gosh, I finally found the one. But little did you know, you had no idea what you were signing up for. Every time this person during the relationship lied and said let's get therapy let's go to counseling i'm gonna pay for it even during discard before before you let them come back when they were trying to hoover you begging and pleading i'm gonna do right i'm gonna go to the i'm gonna go to the therapist i'm gonna do this i'm gonna do that i'm gonna do that at this point you still did not know you're dealing with a narcissist little did you know that they're still lying to you that they're only bread crumbing you. They're only giving you bits and pieces because the type of person you are, you just need a little effort. You just need to hear that they're trying. You just need to see that they're trying. You are a master of giving people the benefit of a doubt. You just can't help that. That's just who you are to your core. Little did you know you were dealing with somebody who was after your life though. They weren't just listening to you talk about your goals and your visions in life. They weren't just listening to you talk about your money problems and what you want to do with your money. They were figuring out how they can get it, take it from you. They were figuring out how they can put you where they are, which is a place with nothing. Because for so many, when you started dealing with a narcissist, they had nothing. They were nothing. They were the definition of what nothing is. They told you their exes did them wrong. They told you how life has been and you being the human that you are oh that's messed up I'm sorry you I'm sorry that happened to you I understand we all go through things little did you know that this was the devil deceiving you with lies trying to get you to completely let your guard down so that they can successfully destroy your world the narcissistic family members little did you know that the reason why you've been outcasted, isolated, mistreated, disowned, talked about, abused, misused, it's because they are intimidated by your light. Little did you know that your narcissistic mother has been doing this to you your entire life because she is jealous of you. You are not even half of who she is. She was a promiscuous woman. She's been using men all her life. She's been lying all her life. You turned out nothing like that. Little did you know the reason why they've been hurting you is because they see that. They see that you're nothing like that. They see that you'll never be this monstrous, devilish being that they are. Little did you know that this whole time you were just trying to love these family members, trying to love this spouse, trying to love on these co-workers and show love to these friends and neighbors of yours. They hated you because of that very fact. You keep trying to love people who know they're undeserving. Why are you trying to love me because you loving me is teaching me that love exists it's teaching me that I don't know how to love and I have to I have to see that you're making me face what I can't be and I have to hate you for that this is the way they think this is their programming but little did you know you had no idea that you giving love to somebody so unworthy would backfire you didn't know you had no you had no idea you just been loving on this parent regardless little did you know that the reason why you watched children disrespect their parents growing up is because those children were being abused but you are different you're not set up to treat people like that so you've been this quiet child you've been silenced your entire life and it calls for you to walk into a relationship with a narcissistic man or woman it did but little did you know that this relationship was going to be your awakening you see this shirt it says awakened empath little did you know that you are going to be awoken you you are never going to fall asleep on you again man I'm telling y'all when I say I've been marinating on this my whole birthday weekend I was like girl have fun have fun but I couldn't help it I'm just like little did I know little did I know that every time I was being accused of being a liar or a cheater I was looking at the the liar I was looking at the cheater I was laying next to the liar the cheater little did I know that I was tricked into a situation and the only reason why I kept giving it a chance kept going back falling for hoovers and thinking that I could do something to fix the person or the situation ---- was because of the type of heart that I carry. And also because my intentions were pure. Little did I know that my heart was that golden. My heart takes care of people. Little did I know that that could get me in trouble though. But I've learned. I've learned, man. The silent treatment for days. Little did I know what was before me. Little did I know that being accused of being a bad child when I really wasn't. I was only reacting because I was tired of trying to be heard and seen. Now I got to go out here and find love. Maybe a man can give it to me. Little did I know I was being set up to ruin my own life because the people who should have loved me refused. So now I'm forced to go and figure life out on my own. But even though that happened for me, little did I know that it was building me because now I've learned some lessons in life that some people are never going to get and they're three times my age little did I know that every time I was isolated cast out put aside disregarded not heard not listened to not cared for that I was adding on to my character I have a solid character I've already cared so much I've already been this empathetic being little did I know that this narcissistic pain was going to help me be my best self because they could not change me so I'll never be like them what I will do is let the pain help me fix what I need to fix within me and be the best version of me that I can be little did I know that's what that was gonna do I don't know who can relate to that but for me I didn't know I didn't know how much power I really had in the situation with narcissistic family members spouses little did I know that you've been after me because i'm the ---- i'm something and someone you will never be i've been attacked and attacked and attacked and i never understood why i'm like what did what have i done what i do little did i know it's because i have a call it's because i am destined for a greater purpose in this world and these ducks are not they don't got nowhere to go they're not destined to get anywhere in life that's why when i was love bombed by a so-called you know musically talented fool I thought hey this is cool you talented you gifted let's let's do this thing together little did I know that that's called future faking that the plans that was being made from the beginning was called future faking okay you future faked me that did happen but little did I know that future faking only led me to understand that I gave too much it led me to understand that I should have never and I should never let my guard down for nobody. Your future faking helps me pay attention now. I know that if I do move on, whoever I'm with, I have to allow them to prove it. I'm not just going to take your word and run for it. Little did I know you were teaching me valuable life lessons. It's so ironic that the fool ends up teaching you how to not be a fool. little did I know because once you recognize what's in front of you once you recognize that something is off here and once you discover the word narcissist the game is over you accept that they never had any empathy zero at all they never cared about your feelings that's that parent that's those siblings that's those bosses co-workers that's that spouse you never cared that's why you do some of the things you do that's why you've said the things that you said that's why you've always shifted the blame on me you don't have no care in this world you you don't you can't feel you there's no way you don't feel it it's starting to make sense you you never took accountability for all of your bad behavior little did i know it all makes sense that you were being played by a fool a fool was trying to make you their fool all the flying monkeys around you all the so-called family members and friends and how they switched on you. Dealing with narcissistic abuse is a major life shift and a major life change. Little do you know what you're going through from the beginning, but as you go through it, you start to see and you cannot unsee and you don't just start healing your life. You start to restore your life. You start to restore who you are because being the person that you are, you were so in love with this person because little did you know that this was not a person. Little did you know that you fell in love with the idea of what the perfect love looks like for you. Little did you know this person was controlling the whole narrative until you became that awoken empath and you took control. You took power back and now you are writing the narrative of your own life. Little did you know that what you have went through would change your life the way that it has and the way that it will and it is. When you discover what you've been dealing with, you become a better parent to your own children. You become a better lover to yourself. Little did you know that even though they hurt you, they were anchoring your character. They were building you. They were helping you get to a place in life that you didn't even know you were going to get to. Once you found out that the narcissist in your life, that their words and their actions were not lining up with what's real. once you realize that being with them and being around them is completely exhausting because it's all been an act of complete betrayal once you get past the devastation of realizing that you were never on the same page and that you were just given a lot of resentment and disapproval all the time for no reason their way is the only way the best way they know it all their thoughts are the only thoughts constant competition once you realized that was what you were dealing with you noticed how important peace is little did you know how vital peace is until you woke up and decided to no longer be a victim i can't i can't i can't give my life to nobody i don't give a damn if you my mother my father my sister my brother i don't give a damn if we've been married for 30 years Once I realized that, hold on, I've been tricked. I've been lied to. I've been set up. The betrayal is never going to stop. Little did I know that I was walking into hell. Little did I know I was marrying just to live the life of hell on earth. Little did I know. Now that I know, I can't stay here. There's nothing for me. Once I've discovered you, there is no undiscovering. There's no more making up excuses. there's no more considering your childhood trauma there's no more giving a damn what your exes did to you there's no more considering how real you might be because sometimes these narcissists come off as real look let's look at Steve Harvey everybody thinks Steve Harvey is real because you know how to give advice narcissists know how to give advice too they know how to talk anybody can talk it's about walking it walk it like you talk it walk it walk it like you talk it okay yeah are you are you walking what you're talking are you walking what you preach are you an example of the ---- you're saying. You telling everybody, you know, how to be a good man, how to be a good husband, how to be a good father, but you abandon your children. You know, a narcissist can make it sound real good. A lot of us fell for these good talking ass ducks, talked us right off our damn feet because they know how to talk. They know how to say stuff. But behind all that talk is nothing. It's just, it's just talk. There's nothing there. It's just, there's no substance. You just know how to talk good and some of them just know how to look good and some know how to do both. But behind all of that is just nothing. It's just an empty, heartless, wicked, soulless, demonic, spiritless entity. Can't even put person at the end of that because after the first two descriptions, you ain't a human no more. To be soulless and to be empty and to be heartless, you ain't human no more. You're a demon. little did you know that you were dealing with a demon even for those of you who are discovering narcissism now narcissism narcissism and narcissistic behaviors and and what a narcissist is it boils down to spirituality i don't give a damn who don't want to say or who don't want to believe it it's the reason why our world is so jacked up now narcissistic traits and tendencies because people are all about self it's all about me I want to control I want to look a certain way so people can look at me attention seeking image it's been here evil has been here and the fact that we're even you know standing on NPD so hard and people are trying to make you make you look at the fact that it's just a disorder to me that confirms evil is still here there they want you to be blinded to the truth still still the reason why narcissism is so complex and complicated is because it's spiritual hello they can write all the books they want to about narcissistic abuse and and all of that but nobody knows the demonic tendencies behind narcissistic demons like the people that are really dealing with them sleeping with them married to them birthed by them raised by them little did we know y'all that it was a setup for many of us from birth from birth they they knew who you were from the beginning, from the beginning. And the attack has been in place since the beginning, since the beginning. But little did you know that while they were treating you like a walking disease, one day you would discover that none of this was your fault. One day you would discover that it was them. It was never you. And that's all that matters. That's all that matters. It was never your fault. Once you can radically accept that, like, whoa, you are the problem mom dad husband wife you're sick you are a psychopathic narcissistic demon it's never been me that's when your life changes that's when restoration kicks in because this whole time you really thought it was you you really thought something was wrong with you you really thought you did something to make this person not like you not want you cheat on you not not be committed to you not remember your birthdays why does your own mother hate you so much why does your own father hate you so much. Children who have parents that seem like they don't like them, they blame themselves and they hold that blame in their entire life. So now they're in these narcissistic relationships where they're accepting that everything is their fault. When things go bad, it's your fault. When your relationships fail, it's your fault. You're just a bad this and a bad that. But little did you know, man, that this is not you. These people have their own narcissistic personal problems. It ain't never had nothing to do with you. Little did you know you cannot win with a narcissist. You'll end up in therapy. You'll end up in a hospital somewhere. You'll end up somewhere chronically freaking sick, losing your little life because you're dealing with somebody who is beyond sick. Little did you know. But once you see these people for who they are, it's life-changing. It's life-changing. It's painful to go through it when you're going through it because while you're going through it, little do you know that one day you're going to rise up above this pain. You're going to rise up above what they've done to you. And you'll look back and you'll see it so clear. And you will always be able to validate yourself knowing that this was not your fault. This is not your problem. The best thing you can do is pay attention to what's happening in your world and make sure that you are not one of them. Make sure that you don't continue this for your children and their children. Little did you know that this was going to be your opportunity to break a generational curse they treated you like ---- your whole life they treated you like ---- the whole entire relationship but little did you know that you were gonna come out a thriver a thriver they thought they were leaving you to suffer but you end up do i gotta take it there because i will little did you know that you will come out of this a warrior you now have a different set of goggles on you go out in this world and you see people you an empath and you got these you got these binoculars on you see narcissists they're gonna say what is it like to be an empath i see them all i see them all they're going right there they're going right there i see it in his demeanor oh i just heard what he said that was narcissistic as **** i'm not stupid oh i dated you for a week and i see the narcissistic tendencies i hear it little did they know that they were making you a warrior of this ---- little did they know they were teaching you how to tighten up in all the right places they left you with nothing left you broke you took all your money by the time you was done with them you lost your house you done lost your apartment you just you just fell flat on your damn face like a fool little did they know your bounce back was gonna be ******* ridiculous unimaginable little did you know your own bounce back was gonna be unimaginable little did you know the type of strength you really carry behind all of that you didn't even know that the discard was going to help you discover what life really should look like for you little did you know the whole time that they've been gone you would be learning about what this is and what's happening and what just happened to your little world you just realize damn there are millions of people going through this hell too so i'm not crazy i never was that's when restoration begun little did you know you were gonna make it out of this thing alive but you are and you will Mara Cal thank you for being here thank you so much for the super chat little did you know you guys i know for those of you who are going through the pain of narcissistic abuse i know it's hard but man trust me these people have no power one thing you gotta know as a survivor is they're weak people if you didn't know you need to know now they are weak people and they have zero power over you and once you discover that the game is over the game is over because little did you know that this was all a game it's been a game with them the entire time this person has been playing mind games with you they've been playing games with your life they think the ---- they're doing with your life is cute they think you know marrying you having kids with you and then doing what they did they think that ---- is cute because it's a game they have no care behind it. To them, it was all about how long you're going to deal with it. For them, it wasn't a problem until you noticed how messed up they were. It wasn't a problem until you made it a problem. Isn't that something? They are extremely weak people. DB, you said it, extremely weak people. Very, very true. Let me look through these comments. Thank y'all for listening, man. That was my word for today. I'm just like, man, little did we know. Little did we know how much we deserve peace in our life little did we know that every time we rebelled against those parents every time we rebelled against our spouses that was us searching for peace little did we know that we've been reactively abused of um showing signs of reactive abuse because of the abuse that we've endured little did we know a lot of these terms and terminologies we didn't know how how deep what we were going through was because we are real ones y'all when you're a real one all you care about is how can I fix it what can I do to make this last what can I do to hang on to my marriage what can I do to help this person because I do love this person and that's why a lot of us stay in these relationships that's why a lot of us give them chances over and over because we care we're real ones that's what real people do but little did we know that the narcissist had a job in our life and that was to wake us up and let us know hey it's okay to set boundaries actually you need to and hey it's okay to be selfish actually you need to be selfish because um we live in a very selfish world and if you don't protect your peace you're going to be messed up out here you're going to be asked out little did we know that they were teaching us how to be wise man this is so real survivors i'm happy that y'all were here to listen to it g palau says blessings miss today i attended a function was reminded by relatives mind you of all the things i did wrong in a marriage that i left 38 years ago what yes people that is the kind of damage and you see what i'm saying wow that's crazy like they'll never let it go narcissists are some grudge holding demons man Marikow says they think truth won't ever come to light but when you walk with God it's inevitable yeah yeah that's the thing man it's so crazy I spoke to that um I spoke to that effect with someone I met over this week and I said man they don't these people don't realize that God is real you might can deceive me you might can hurt me you know you can do all of that to me in the physical but when God steps in on my behalf which he's doing as we speak God is always there will always be there never went anywhere God knew me before I was even birthed from that narcissistic vagina so baby I've been covered I've been covered I've been good so for me little did I know that I had to go through all of this pain so I can get to this point where I'm at today the journey was necessary because it gave me a story to tell it gave me a testimony to share god is real thank you for sharing that my sister that was deep that was deep the pain the old man biological seed spiller piece of ---- put me through is my catalyst to my faith my savior king yeah making you forget who you are making you you know doubt god try to figure out where's god why me make you make you so down and drained you don't even want to pray you don't even want to get into the word you just you just you just just down and out they will kill your faith they will kill your faith man they will they will queen leandria says yes i'm rewriting my story i love that queen i love that ah maricel says see how she made that sneaky movement that's what they are absolutely demonic says somebody they are demons y'all i would never stop saying that i don't care this don't got nothing to do with me being you know religions religious or anything like that because that's not even it it just boy it just is what it is how else do you describe this little did we know we were dealing with demons y'all because there's nothing wrong with loving there's nothing wrong with caring there's nothing there's nothing even wrong with showing love to someone who's unworthy we're supposed to be doing that the hell we're supposed to be going after the most unworthy people that is the whole point of love love is selfless love is supposed to be unconditional it's supposed to be blind to what someone looks like what they have that's why empaths are winners we go after any and everybody we give love to any and everybody because we are really actually supposed to freaking do that but little did we know that some of these people unfortunately are demons and we've got to learn the hard way how to cut them off how to deal with them and how to get rid of them because we've had to learn the hard way that our peace is priority it's not worth hanging on to any of these people not at all not at all thank y'all for all these comments there's so many in here tier 25 said i do blame myself at times because i feel like how can this happen to me. I grew up a preacher's kid and stayed in church and came from a spiritual background. You see what I'm saying? Yeah, I get it. I did too. And it's hurtful and it's easy to blame yourself because you're like, hold on. I know right from wrong, but if they're not, if everybody is against me, I must be wrong. I must be the problem here because nobody understands me. Nobody gets me nobody is trying to hear me it seems like my opinions and my perspective is way different from them it's like they're not seeing what I'm seeing they're not feeling what I'm feeling so I must be I must be the problem I must be really weird weird enough to really look down on myself but little did you know that it was all part of the plan it was all part of the plan to take you out to cancel you out to make sure that you never see happiness in life make sure you never get where you are supposed to go because you're supposed to go somewhere great they've made it hard on purpose little did little did you know that that same church that same spiritual background was going to cause you pain but at the same time because of the type of person you are to your accord you picked up what was necessary while you were in that church that's what makes you a winning empath they were there with with wrong intents you were there with a pure spirit and little did you know that everything you learned while you were in that church is the reason why you are who you are today you understand god's love is real you knew that then they knew it too little did you know that little did you know that those people in that church were intimidated by your damn life because demons are in the church too hello those demons are preaching and uh yeah yeah yeah they evil too all that all that shouting every sunday friday thursday night clapping and bible studying and scripture reading they evil too little did you know that though little did you know that god is bigger than this church this all this religion talk but you know it now Lord, I'm telling you this is life-saving, this is life-changing and life-saving in so many different ways y'all dang yep somebody said the Jezebel spirit yeah I was talking about all the spirits I'm like man these people got one or more shoot little did you know what you was dealing with man they they enticed you in the beginning because of that Jezebel spirit there was never no love there they dropped you on your ass because it was it was a it was an attack from the beginning because come on now we you know when we talk about when we talk about this one particular word we call it trauma bond. My spirit does not like that word because it confuses a survivor. It's like you're telling the survivor that their love was not real. Like, yeah, I understand you're telling me I was in love with a narcissist, but then you're also telling me that my love was fake. So you're telling me I was trauma bonded and I never loved this person. To me, that's unreal. So, but now I've done my research. I understand what trauma bond means in depth and I understand how that cycle works but at first I'm like okay so when I hear trauma bond now I'm like damn little little do we know that while we're being trauma bonded the devil is setting us up the reason why we feel so intense and so in love and why we can't seem to shake them off and get away from them even when they are discarding us even when they are cheating and bringing home STDs and doing all this foul ---- is because they're demons. When I hear trauma bond, I hear possessed. That's why I said my spirit don't like that word because at some point, you're not in love with the narcissist no more. At some point, you've picked up some type of spirit from this person and you become spiritually bonded to them. And I think that is their whole purpose. If they are successful in love bombing you, in their mind, they've won their wicked game because they've gotten you to pick up the spirit because now you're in love now you're chasing after them now you're begging and pleading you want to keep them in your life you're trying to make it work even though they keep showing you they are not good for you that is a spiritual battle at that point and I'm gonna just leave that there that is my perspective that is how I see trauma bond to me that ---- is all spiritual because I mean come on now if somebody's I mean hey challenge my perspective and let me know how you feel drop a comment you know uh of course like the video and subscribe if you're new here to my channel but um these people are wicked and little did we know but if you can learn to accept that if you can learn to accept the truth about what's happening in your life and just choose to heal choose to restore your life the glow is going to be different you're going to end up thriving so hard that it's going to be painful to watch those family members, those friends, that spouse. Let them watch you thrive. They thought your life was a joke. Let them learn that little did they know that you are not to be played with. You are not to be played with. You are nobody's fool. Teach them by thriving and moving forward. Man, I love you guys. I appreciate y'all being here to listen to this because I don't know who else to talk to but my survivors, my warriors, and my thrivers. I'm so passionate about what I'm experiencing, what I'm going through, and my restoration process in this healing because I see the truth so clear. It's like I've never seen clarity like this in my life, and now I cannot unsee it. Thank you, sis. I see that super chat. oh god bless you tonight those of you um who are new to the membership program thank you guys for being here and if you haven't checked that out um information to join membership is in the description box below as well as my contact information for your reference um i'm gonna let y'all go thank you for being here thank you for all the engagement if i didn't get to your comment it's okay don't worry i'll be back next time um but i will check in with you guys later i'm gonna start going live more often on YouTube so i hope you guys are ready for that i enjoy my lives a lot more so i want to do that a lot more yeah so i look forward to seeing you guys on live a lot more and um Marlene Harris i see you it's okay just don't give up take it one day at a time it's not easy but as long as you are now in this mode you'll be okay just have compassion for yourself and remember what i said tonight accept that it's not your fault because it's not it's not you've been dealing with a narcissist if you really have been the best thing you can accept that there is nothing you could have ever done for this narcissistic fool to be any different whoever it is like like Zena King said guard your heart absolutely thank you so much and i will i will be doing more lives brother Hype man i got you i will i will i just don't have any set days for the next couple of weeks they'll be random but eventually i will announce my set days to be live. I want to do daytime lives and nighttime lives. So you guys give me your thoughts on, you know, what, what your preference are and I'll, I'll consider it, but I love y'all until next time. Stay blessed, keep thriving. And, um, yeah, yeah. Y'all stay beautiful. Thank you so much, Queen Leandria. It was good seeing your comments tonight. Joseph said, you believe the false image of a person who was never real to begin with. That's a great way to end it. You said that. Thank you, Zena King. Thank you, Lolo S.G. Thank you. I appreciate all of y'all. Until next time, beautiful people, take care. All right. Bye.