Welcome to Motherhood: Why You Might Be Struggling (and it’s not your fault)

Welcome to Motherhood: Why You Might Be Struggling (and it’s not your fault)

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Jessica Hover
1 Video View·Apr 21, 2026

Welcome to motherhood. 🤍 If you’re having a harder time than you expected, or finding yourself comparing your experience to other moms and wondering “why is this so much harder for me?” this video is for you.

Because the truth is: Not all motherhood experiences start from the same place.

In this video, I walk through the real factors that shape how motherhood feels, starting even before postpartum begins.

We talk about:
Your journey to getting pregnant (easy, unexpected, IVF, loss)
What pregnancy was like in your body
How your birth experience impacted you
Sleep, support, and your relationship
Mental health, finances, and life load
Why one mom might feel okay… and another feels like she’s drowning

This isn’t about complaining or staying stuck.

It’s about understanding your experience so you can release comparison, let go of shame, and get the support you actually need.

You are not broken.
You are not doing this wrong.

You just need the right context.
If you are a mother who wants more support join my Tuesday group coaching calls for moms in Very Good Mothers Club, first call is free! https://www.verygoodmothersclub.com/